Jfyzee:


And how did the fisherman became a pro if he didn't study a fish.. use ur brain boy

deafeyez:
Matured Mature women gives give good advice.

TheLordIsGr8:


Chairman na your hand e dey. Na you hold yam and fry pan.

chuksanambra:


Women love bad guys, people they can never have to themselves. The fact that he is never available for them turns on their innate desire to feel appreciated and loved.

Hence, the appreciation and love of an irresponsible bad boy who doesn't give a damn about them is very important to them.

Jfyzee:
@OP have no idea about what he saying..

it like saying a fish has no knowledge of is kind or a fellow fish in the water ... which is absolutely wrong.

Women know women better just as men understand men better.. it's that simple.

Lazyreporta:


You just summarize my post

You understand am well

TheLordIsGr8:


Thank you. Where the Orijin na

pocohantas:
So, women don't hate themselves after all

We help a sister keep her mugus and magas on lockdown

ubunja:
you study the fish. you dont ASK the fish. just like you study a baby but dont ask a baby.

kokakola:
Can I get the Miseducation please?

Lazyreporta:
When I was having trouble understanding women, I remember going to my women friends for advice. I figured: Hey, they’re women, so they should have a clue and be able to help me out, right? Wrong. The advice they gave me seemed sound, and it meshed with what I had always thought about women. This sometimes pisses women off, but the truth is, the average woman does not understand what attracts them to one guy vs. another. What they say they want in a man is not what they actually date and stay with.
Most women, when you bring your problems about understanding another woman to them, will try to make you feel better about what is going on. It is just like when you try to date a woman, she is not going to tell you straight out: Hey, I’m really not interested. A woman friend is not going to burst your ego and tell you: Hey, it sounds as though she just doesn’t like you. Move on. Instead, they will give you rationalizations: Maybe she is just coming out of a bad relationship. Maybe she really isn’t getting your calls. Maybe she just likes you too much and is afraid of getting into something right now. Women are emotional beings and will always think about how what they say is going to make you feel. So take their advice with a grain of salt.
Why do women, even our female friends, do this to us? I believe it is mostly because they don’t want to deal with your questions of: So tell me why she doesn’t like me. Is there something wrong with me? without hurting your feelings. They would rather try to soothe it over and nudge you gently in another direction, rather than being straight up about their suspicions and hurt you.
Women are all about emotions and emotional reactions. Men are more straightforward. While men may deal from a place of emotions, they don’t take time to necessarily look at the emotional side of the equation. They would rather have simple, non-emotionally clouded answers. The trouble is that our women friends do nothing more than cloud the issue rather than setting us straight.

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pressplay411:


The comments have done much justice but to add my 2 cents. The surest way to know the solution to a problem is to ask the right question and get the right answers from who knows. That said, have you asked the lady in question? If that's too straight forward for you (maybe your feathers have started showing), why not ask her friend. Girls seem to tell their friends some details, even though not everything.

Lazyreporta:


If you got the answer from the main girl you won't bother asking your female friends. Her friends are worst because they will back her up.

The best way sometimes is to manipulate her if you really want to know the answer.
Play mind games, ask questions that she will think it's her doing.

Example; if a girl tells you looks doesn't determine what she wants in her relationship , chill, after awhile point out a not too good looking guy, ask her if she will go out with him.... Wait and hear NO.

Now, just say something else because if you try to mention her earlier statement about looks, you're looking for trouble.

What they say is not what they respond too

pressplay411:


Here in lies the major problem. The lies and schemes, Mind games and tricks. Why not ask her direct question. If she sense you're indirect with her, she'll also be indirect with you. And if she turns out to be a pathological liar, you observe her actions.
But why so much emphasis on looks sef? You Be Shriek?

Trust me, just on your self. Your confidence, discipline and success will speak for you. Those are not transient unlike looks.

chuksanambra:
I learnt my greatest lesson on women here on Nairaland.

A guy opened a thread that he had a cheating wife and suspected his wife's pregnancy wasn't his. Do you know all the Nairaland ladies who commented on that thread were convincing the man to take up responsibility of the bastard child as his. Not a single one advised him to take the child for DNA test to ascertain it's paternity.

Women's brains are not as evolved as men's brains, there's no doubt about that.

hamhamhit:
women are different....they cant think like men........