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Bride Runs Away After Groom Fails To Provide Traditional Marriage Items by dre11(m): 2:55pm On May 13, 2018
The police in Suleja, Niger State, have confirmed the arrest of the parents and relation of a bride, who disappeared after her wedding, refusing to go to her husband’s home.

The arrest of the trio followed a complaint to the police by their son in-law, Shuaib Dauda, for the sudden disappearance of their daughter few hours after wedding.

Mr Dauda earns a living as an auto mechanic.
Aliyu Lawal, officer-in-charge of Kaduna-Road police outpost in Suleja, gave the confirmation to the News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) on Sunday.

Mr Lawal, a police inspector, said the incident occurred on May 6 when the bridegroom complained to the police that the people he sent to the bride’s home to fetch her, in accordance with the tradition, did not see her.

Mr Lawal said the footdragging by the brides’ family to deliver the bride to the bridegroom led to the disruption of peace in the area, hence the arrest of the parents and the marriage guardian.

“They were arrested on Sunday, May 6, and granted bail on Monday May 7,” he said.

But Abubakar Haruna, popularly known as Zakiru and a resident of Hayi along Kaduna Road, told NAN that he gave out two daughters same day, Fiddausi to Mr Dauda and Saliha to one Muhammadu Murtala.

He said before the marriage, Mr Dauda and Mr Murtala promised to comply with all the religious and traditional obligations for the marriage such as the dowry and buying of clothes and boxes for the brides.

“After the wedding ceremony, Dauda said he could not afford to buy the clothes and boxes to the bride as promised earlier.

“Fiddausi, realising that Murtala (the husband to Saliha) had redeemed his promise and presented the traditional gifts and Dauda did not, ran away to the neighbouring house until her bridegroom fulfilled his own promise,’’ he said.

Mr Haruna said already beddings, traditional kitchen wares, furniture and other domestic utensils had been taken to Dauda’s home, ahead of the conveyance of Fiddausi to her new home.

He explained that while they were searching for Fiddausi, the team sent by the bridegroom to fetch Fiddausi to the matrimonial home hinted Mr Dauda of the sudden disappearance of the bride.

He claimed Mr Dauda mobilised his friends who stormed his compound, insisting that Fiddausi must be produced. In the process they molested him and brutalised his wife, named Bayi.

“Some other female guests from Kano were also brutalised, food items and other valuables they brought for the wedding ceremony were stolen by the hoodlums who attacked us for our alleged failure to produce the bride,’’ Mr Haruna said.

Mr Haruna said while the hoodlums were molesting his family and his guests, the police officers from Kaduna Road outpost arrested him, his wife and his younger brother who is also the marriage guardian. The latter was identified as Umar Musa.

Mr Haruna dismissed the allegation by the police that he was arrested for disrupting public peace in the community. Rather, he explained that the police asked him to refund N260,000 to Dauda, being the amount he spent on the marriage.

Mr Haruna said when he failed to pay the money as demanded, he was detained together with his wife and his younger brother by the police.

According to him, they were detained overnight at the police outpost and were granted bail following the intervention of his lawyer, Aliyu Musa.

He said the bail was obtained on the condition that they would bring the money the following day or risk prosecution.

Meanwhile, Fiddausi has returned to her father’s house. (NAN)




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Re: Bride Runs Away After Groom Fails To Provide Traditional Marriage Items by Cutehector(m): 2:57pm On May 13, 2018
See what being broke can cause

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Re: Bride Runs Away After Groom Fails To Provide Traditional Marriage Items by JONNYSPUTE(m): 3:00pm On May 13, 2018
Poverty is a disease walahi

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Re: Bride Runs Away After Groom Fails To Provide Traditional Marriage Items by Nobody: 3:05pm On May 13, 2018
If we can clear the religious and Traditions mumbo jumbo from our minds, then what our brain will translate this to, is that they buyer could not pay for the product in full.

The product being a Human woman and buyer being a Human man.

Marriage is a Code name for Sales of Human Beings.

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Re: Bride Runs Away After Groom Fails To Provide Traditional Marriage Items by madridguy(m): 3:11pm On May 13, 2018
The guy want to dey enjoy free thing. Impossible, nothing is free even in Free town.

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Re: Bride Runs Away After Groom Fails To Provide Traditional Marriage Items by Nobody: 3:11pm On May 13, 2018
No wonder oyindidi say broke men ought not to be getting erectionscheesy

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Re: Bride Runs Away After Groom Fails To Provide Traditional Marriage Items by thesicilian: 3:22pm On May 13, 2018
If he has not provided the traditional items as requested, then he has not married his wife. That is our custom and tradition and should be respected first, before the foreign (white man) tradition.

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Re: Bride Runs Away After Groom Fails To Provide Traditional Marriage Items by biacan(f): 3:30pm On May 13, 2018
Cutehector:
See what being broke can cause
You see that's why I'm after you because of your wealth lipsrsealed

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Re: Bride Runs Away After Groom Fails To Provide Traditional Marriage Items by Cutehector(m): 3:41pm On May 13, 2018
biacan:
You see that's why I'm after you because of your wealth lipsrsealed
and if you finish all my money, you will divorce me right?
Re: Bride Runs Away After Groom Fails To Provide Traditional Marriage Items by biacan(f): 3:45pm On May 13, 2018
Cutehector:
and if you finish all my money, you will divorce me right?
No I'll teach you ways to make more money lipsrsealed
Re: Bride Runs Away After Groom Fails To Provide Traditional Marriage Items by Cutehector(m): 4:11pm On May 13, 2018
biacan:
No I'll teach you ways to make more money lipsrsealed
so u wey sabi ways to make money, why you never build house?

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Re: Bride Runs Away After Groom Fails To Provide Traditional Marriage Items by Nobody: 4:14pm On May 13, 2018
Funny
Re: Bride Runs Away After Groom Fails To Provide Traditional Marriage Items by biacan(f): 4:36pm On May 13, 2018
Cutehector:
so u wey sabi ways to make money, why you never build house?
Have you forgotten our lipsrsealed sorry your money is still remaining cool
Re: Bride Runs Away After Groom Fails To Provide Traditional Marriage Items by Nobody: 5:29pm On May 13, 2018
Paying bride pride of a woman is the marriage na....
Re: Bride Runs Away After Groom Fails To Provide Traditional Marriage Items by CAPSLOCKED: 6:49pm On May 13, 2018
Solstar:
If we can clear the religious and Traditions mumbo jumbo from our minds, then what our brain will translate this to, is that they buyer could not pay for the product in full.

The product being a Human woman and buyer being a Human man.

Marriage is a Code name for Sales of Human Beings.


LOL, TRUE.

BUT FOR NOW LET'S FOCUS ON THE THE FACT THAT THE BRIDE IS A MASTER OF THE GAME........ cheesy

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Re: Bride Runs Away After Groom Fails To Provide Traditional Marriage Items by obojememe: 8:11pm On May 13, 2018
shocked
Re: Bride Runs Away After Groom Fails To Provide Traditional Marriage Items by no1madman(m): 8:13pm On May 13, 2018
hmmm

Re: Bride Runs Away After Groom Fails To Provide Traditional Marriage Items by Tychamps(m): 8:13pm On May 13, 2018
To my niggas out there..
Hustle and make money and let all this Broke Girls come running after you.
Even there is no free pvssy in freetown

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Re: Bride Runs Away After Groom Fails To Provide Traditional Marriage Items by carpmam: 8:13pm On May 13, 2018
A hungry man is an angry man, the young man should be angry, do u know how many bottles of codeine mixed with tramadol he might have taken in anticipation for the night,

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Re: Bride Runs Away After Groom Fails To Provide Traditional Marriage Items by Nobody: 8:14pm On May 13, 2018
Nothing like love in marriage.
Marriage is a contract

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Re: Bride Runs Away After Groom Fails To Provide Traditional Marriage Items by kalvoken(m): 8:14pm On May 13, 2018
gobe

sometimes I do get confused about what people marry for. you can get varieties of sex while single, David and wiskid aren't married, but they y have children.
Re: Bride Runs Away After Groom Fails To Provide Traditional Marriage Items by TheNigerianMan: 8:14pm On May 13, 2018
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Re: Bride Runs Away After Groom Fails To Provide Traditional Marriage Items by martineverest(m): 8:14pm On May 13, 2018
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Re: Bride Runs Away After Groom Fails To Provide Traditional Marriage Items by Metuh: 8:15pm On May 13, 2018
lefulefu:
No wonder oyindidi say broke men ought not to be getting erectionscheesy
Should Broke Girls even live?

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Re: Bride Runs Away After Groom Fails To Provide Traditional Marriage Items by Ghostmode2two(m): 8:15pm On May 13, 2018
JONNYSPUTE:
Poverty is a disease walahi

Even if poverty is a disease there will always be the poor and the rich, slaves and freeborns. We cannot run away from reality. Didn't the bride knew that the groom was a poor guy before accepting to marry him?

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Re: Bride Runs Away After Groom Fails To Provide Traditional Marriage Items by HtwoOw: 8:16pm On May 13, 2018
hmmmmmmm


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Re: Bride Runs Away After Groom Fails To Provide Traditional Marriage Items by Taleobrainy(m): 8:17pm On May 13, 2018
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Re: Bride Runs Away After Groom Fails To Provide Traditional Marriage Items by narorose(f): 8:18pm On May 13, 2018
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Re: Bride Runs Away After Groom Fails To Provide Traditional Marriage Items by Nairalandmentor(m): 8:18pm On May 13, 2018
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Re: Bride Runs Away After Groom Fails To Provide Traditional Marriage Items by IMASTEX: 8:20pm On May 13, 2018
Hmm
Re: Bride Runs Away After Groom Fails To Provide Traditional Marriage Items by BOOMnaija(m): 8:20pm On May 13, 2018
Ghostmode2two:


Even if poverty is a disease there will always be the poor and the rich, slaves and freeborns. We cannot run away from reality. Didn't the bride knew that the groom was a poor guy before accepting to marry him?
OGA, kilode

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