Leo10000:
All dis people shouting date 28 years old girl bla bla bla...... ,why shld a guy who is in his own 26-29 date a 28 years old lady,abi as a guy na until u reach 30 something before u go start dating,dating also known as courtship shld b done with years and na dis same Nairaland some folks said most girls wey don near 30 years of age wey never marry na cos of runs de did while at younger age,so tell me,WHY SHLD I SETTLE FOR SUCH
THE WHOLE MATTER IS THAT AN AVERAGE NIGERIAN LADY'S BRAIN IS WIRED TO BELIEVE EVERY RELATIONSHIP SHE GETS INTO IS AN UPGRADING FROM POVERTY AND D ONLY THING SHE CAN OFFER IN RETURN IS HER BODY,SHIKENA AND THIS IS WHAT THEY DO UNTIL THEY START GETTING OLD BEYOND MARRIAGEABLE AGE, NA ONLY FEW KNOW HOW LIFE REALLY OPERATES AND SO THERE FOR THEY REASON LIKE IF I WAS IN HIS SHOES,WILL I ACCEPT THIS
AND to b honest,its more frustrating to know that what she could have asked her parent OR even try to manage d little she has while she is single on a norm will now b ur duty,no remorse or whatsoever
DAT ONE NA LOVE,ABEG PARK WELL

Elder001:

These small girls are provoking me

yabas:
Honestly I dont even know where to start. I am tired of supporting girls financially. Since I started dating women, I cant say I have been lucky. Its always buy me this and buy me that. Phone, laptop, recharge cards, dash me, transport etc, I have done it all. Though when I recently started complaining, my close friend told me that he has also been doing same but didnt want to let guys know so that people will not laugh at him.

After all the expenditure, u still break up with them when you get tired of the demands. Does it mean that MAJORITY of Nigerian girls use guys for money? Or is it just me.

I seriously need a gf that will not ask me for anything. Some of my friends will tell you how they have dated one or two wonderful girls that dont demand for anything but not me, I cant point to any girl that I have dated, that I didnt spend money on.

Guys I honestly want to know if this is a general problem or is it just me. ALWAYS meeting poor women, even now that I am looking for a wife, still meeting heavy demanders that I cant settle with. GOD HELP ME OUT. AMEN.

oyb:
broke attracts broke i guess

highqueen:

lool,you sabi roast broke ladies naw.

Elder001:

lol. how was your night?

Elder001:


How do Nigerian ladies really feel when they see these posts?
aren't they ashamed?.. Thank God I didn't meet any leech in my life

Alwaysking:
Big head

Davidbadest:
My friend is not all o ,my gf for over several years now she has not been disturbing me about money or rather she give me when I need,she's always comfortable with what I give her
So my brother abeg go find babe on Dating site .lol

speedfreak:
Lol...bro its everywhere, as I am typing this I am using public transportation since its rainy season n rain cannot beat aunty...honestly its an economic thing, some overdo it tho,its really expensive to be a lady in the moment, She's got to look good for you,that ain't cheap man, so suck it up n pay a few of the expenses, if you don't somebody would willingly do and uncle e don be for you. o think I would prefer her to ask me for everything than to not ask and go outside...just how I feel tho. she's your woman,make it worth her while

franchasng:
They don't feel anything o, they will tag it: broke guys lamenting, but they don't know that even that their rich boyfriend, rich husband, rich fiance and rich sugar daddy are among those complaining, but do we guys have any option, NO! So we keep managing them and complaining, hoping for God to come to our rescue one day

Is not Actress Mercy Aigbe's rich husband that later started singing how his ex wife was a gold digger, but only after they divorced The man must have been dying silently inside since na lol....that't the plight of most Nigerian men of today o

Elder001:


You lie....
What about all the rich guys that are dating broke babes?
most of the rich guys in Nigeria are dating broke babes I still don't understand why these guys can't approach independent ladies... well even the so called working class still have their own problems.

sisisioge:
Haaa! You bought laptop too? Biko date me before you throw in the towel. Baby I need a laptop

Elder001:


yes..
I'm tired of seeing all these kinda topics
if a lady demands for money say no or tell her you don't have..
are they forcing the money from your pockets?

tell them you don't have money to give or no.. shikena

all these wailing are becoming childish.. there are independent ladies out there but you guys prefer broke dependent ladies and later y'all will start complaining on nairaland.

Elder001:



90% of Nigerian ladies are like that ...


stop dating dependent ladies okay?.. there are many independent ladies everywhere.

Elder001:



Na their papa be broke guy

I have my own house and car... My fiancé is made

Most of the ladies always broke shaming guys on social media don't even have a plot of land... some don't have up to 50k funds in their account.

No time for all those shíts

oyb:


broke attracts broke.

i keep reading about these guys whining about the gold diggers they keep attracting and i have to wonder how it is that they have somehow missed all the buta chicks

any rich person attracting broke chicks has either not upgraded, or is consciously seeking out women he can use money to control.

there are enough buta/ independent women out there if that is what you are looking for.

your generation makes make me sad. so much knowledge and information on the internet and you are wasting your lives on boards celebrating hatred of women.

you have not seen anything to really make you hate women, just nigerian predatory relationships where both of you intend to do trade by barter.

Prettyenit18:
maybe he is looking for the submissive ones

oyb:


broke attracts broke.

i keep reading about these guys whining about the gold diggers they keep attracting and i have to wonder how it is that they have somehow missed all the buta chicks

any rich person attracting broke chicks has either not upgraded, or is consciously seeking out women he can use money to control.

there are enough buta/ independent women out there if that is what you are looking for.

your generation makes make me sad. so much knowledge and information on the internet and you are wasting your lives on boards celebrating hatred of women.

you have not seen anything to really make you hate women, just nigerian predatory relationships where both of you intend to do trade by barter.

yabas:
Honestly I dont even know where to start. I am tired of supporting girls financially. Since I started dating women, I cant say I have been lucky. Its always buy me this and buy me that. Phone, laptop, recharge cards, dash me, transport etc, I have done it all. Though when I recently started complaining, my close friend told me that he has also been doing same but didnt want to let guys know so that people will not laugh at him.

After all the expenditure, u still break up with them when you get tired of the demands. Does it mean that MAJORITY of Nigerian girls use guys for money? Or is it just me.

I seriously need a gf that will not ask me for anything. Some of my friends will tell you how they have dated one or two wonderful girls that dont demand for anything but not me, I cant point to any girl that I have dated, that I didnt spend money on.

Guys I honestly want to know if this is a general problem or is it just me. ALWAYS meeting poor women, even now that I am looking for a wife, still meeting heavy demanders that I cant settle with. GOD HELP ME OUT. AMEN.

selfmadeboss:
Davido na learner for where I dey. I will give my gf anything she ask, I will even give her what she never asked as long as she is loyal. Like I am typing this, I a. Wiring 500k to her account now for her shopping. Money is meant to be spent. Life is short, what are you even saving the money for na??

franchasng:
In Nigeria, Rich guys attract broke ladies

The richer u are as a guy in Nigeria, the more broke but pretty ladies u will be attracting into your life.

You hardly find the so called good independent ladies...is either they are forming hard to approach, forming classy queens, always frowning and always forming too busy or they are being too rigid, I think that's where the problem of finding the so-called good independent ladies lie, so don't blame it on guys at all

selfmadeboss:
Davido na learner for where I dey. I will give my gf anything she ask, I will even give her what she never asked as long as she is loyal. Like I am typing this, I a. Wiring 500k to her account now for her shopping. Money is meant to be spent. Life is short, what are you even saving the money for na??

1930revival:

It's his destiny to help the poor....that's one way it manifests....it's a gud sign

franchasng:
if what u typed is true, you must be a Yahoo boy

Only Yahoo guys act in the manner u described in your comment and they don't go far financially. 20 - 30yrs later, they are either broke going about bars telling stories of how they used to be very rich or they are in their village drinking palm wine with grandpas, pls change your mindset, even Mark Zuckerberg don't spend like that on Priscilla Chan his wife. Be careful of what u wish for in life

yabas:


Lol, u'r not serious but I AM JUST TIRED OF THE CONSTANT DEMANDS

highqueen:

great, yours?