benzics:
Just a piece of advice.

First off, Marriage isn't everything, in fact marriage is not an achievement, I don't know the fuss about marriage in this part of the world.

Secondly, please never think of settling down and raising kids when you know you are not living comfortably yourself, don't bring kids into these world to suffer just because you want to feel among the married..

Lastly, work on yourself first, it's never too late, make yourself comfortable, and by that I mean move out of your parents' house, then you can then think of settling down..

I'm just 19, and I'm tired of living with my parents.. You should too

Skepticus:

Send me the bitch's number.
I love her type.

benzics:
Just a piece of advice.

First off, Marriage isn't everything, in fact marriage is not an achievement, I don't know the fuss about marriage in this part of the world.

Secondly, please never think of settling down and raising kids when you know you are not living comfortably yourself, don't bring kids into these world to suffer just because you want to feel among the married..

Lastly, work on yourself first, it's never too late, make yourself comfortable, and by that I mean move out of your parents' house, then you can then think of settling down..

I'm just 19, and I'm tired of living with my parents.. You should too

isaacsegun:
kudos to you for this ur candid advice!!! can't believe a Lady can come out clean on issue like this as you have done.

selfmadeboss:
WTF is wrong with u hypocrites. Dude said Jesus has been in his father's house for more than 2000 years and she was disputing it. As an agnostic I wanted to know if he was saying the truth and you are here spewing shit about supreme beings.

CastedAyo:
Yes, I'm 18 and feel like leaving my parents house already.

dgagar:
You didn't say your age or qualification so it's difficult to advise in that regard.

am a hustler and bricklayer. my age is 28 and my girlfriend also 28. and all her younger once had married with kids. that's why she's disturbing me too.


thanks alot for your precious time. I really appreciate it. God bless you

dantrillion:
Honestly is not cool living in ur parent house and get marry at dsame tyme but when it comes to ur situation ; my candid advise is for u to suspend dat marriage fever and fix ur life first. if she can't wait for u then she is not meant for u... Women can be frustrating and pain in d ass when it comes to marriage anxiety. Pray hard and work hard and then find ur own apartment n settle down with d rihht woman if she is anyway..... Good luck!

Mrjo:
trust me, is ut immoral lifestyle that is making u tired of ur parents house if u ar in same page with them u will enjoy it, cos basic things are been taken care of

mrkel:
it now leads me to the question, why do women like dreading their mother-inlaw?

dgagar:
You didn't say your age or qualification so it's difficult to advise in that regard.

am a hustler and bricklayer. my age is 28 and my girlfriend also 28. and all her younger once had married with kids. that's why she's disturbing me too.


thanks alot for your precious time. I really appreciate it. God bless you

oyeb15:
my girlfriend now my wife made me leave my dads house. it was very difficult then. no job,no money, i try so hard to rent a room outside despite my dad big house. Today, am grateful for dat huge decision cos it changed my life for good

Mcy56:

My dear dont even go there. This is another topic on its own. Some mother-in-laws are terrible. I dont know why it is so actually, they'll just be hating on their son's wife for no just reason.

Let me site an instance of a cousin here: Her MIL just hated her, not because she didnt procreate, not because she's not homely or enterprising or possess good characters but simply because she's not the chubby type. There's nothing she would do that will be right in her sight despite that they dont live together. MIL will be telling her that her son has not gotten a wife yet.......... and so on and so forth.

The question is: how would they feel if their own daughter is treated as such?

nex:
1. Dump the chick
2. Get well soon
3. Double your hustle
4. Do whatever you like with your money.

I live in a family house too. 2 bedroom apartment. Even though I can afford to go rent a place, why should I? I can save about N750,000 annually, and I don't have landlord problems.

1forall:
My advice, and I will go straight to the points, no psyches:

Make your health your number 1 priority at this time.

If your girlfriend is adding to your stress with your health condition then she's not the one for you.

Focus your effort on getting your life together - health and job. You didn't say your age or qualification so it's difficult to advise in that regard.

Stay in your mother's house as you can't afford your own place yet - I don't think your Mum wants you out.

The girl is a liability, drop her like she's hot. Now! If as a girlfriend she's giving you this level of pressure, believe me, you won't enjoy being married to her.

My candid advice.

yettymuse:
This country hard sha. Pele Op may God make it easy for you. Tell iyawo to camdan! Na we women go push you enter fire, na we go still ask you whether you blind... We are awesome like that.

Don't forget to profess and always assure her of your undeniable love. It is wrong and inhumane to marry a woman in your family house. Let her know that apart from oko (preek) na Owo (money) them dey use measure husband material.

I hope say una never dey kparove sha .. I wish you all the Best

uuzba:


Feeling?
It is never too early to leave.
Go now now. Pack and start paying your own rent. Don't waste time on NL telling us about "Feeling".

ishowdotgmail:


Bro that urge had being in me all this while. Just finished service last month and when I returned home, already seeing myself to have moved to my own apartment. Am not comfortable staying with them again

CastedAyo:


You can't afford to pay house rent doesn't mean I can't. Seems you're broke in your 18s

dgagar:
Hi guys. need your advice please. this thing is baffling my mind badly.
everyone know how bad and poor Nigeria economy it is. saying no money here and there . am living in family house, face me and slap you . my dad is late but my mum struggle to build the house and she also live there too. the problem now is that my gf is threatening me to go and rent room and parlour outside Cos she wants to settle down soon but I got no money with me now. infact am on sick bed for the past two months and I can't work for now. am just a hustler, trying to make life good and comfortable for myself. and I love this girl like die. she's house materials but this house issues is the only problem am having with her, meanwhile am using room and parlour in this my mum house o. (even is not my happiness to be living in family house too )but no money for now. she's also disturbing me for engagement too inwhich I will be responsible for all the expenses because she's still learning handwork. though age is not on her side but I love her so very much that I can't afford to loose her to another man.
the question now is........... IS IT TOTALLY WRONG FOR MEN TO BE LIVING IN FAMILY HOUSE WITH HIS WIFE.
am really fed up. come to my rescue guys pls. am fed up .