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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Women To Leave Abusive Relationship by Pricelessangel0(f): 5:05pm On May 20, 2018
don4real18:

So did the guy who went further to add finance
Hmmmmnnn? Finance is just a little and can be refunded even the guy one of my distant aunty dated did it and he later ask 4 refund of all he has spent on her and it was refunded.
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Women To Leave Abusive Relationship by Lalas247(f): 5:06pm On May 20, 2018
ubunja:
it was a weak generalization. accept correction and move on.
no it wasn't .... u are the one hung up on my post dear u could have kept scrolling. opinions of dregs and wastemen mean nothing to me wink
jog on

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Women To Leave Abusive Relationship by Pricelessangel0(f): 5:06pm On May 20, 2018
Lalas247:

exactly ..
I put kids in my post too... thats one of the main reasons for married couples
best thing is to leave .. its even better for the kids not to be in an abusive environment..

Attimes its not ordinary, some forces are behind it.
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Women To Leave Abusive Relationship by Kobicove(m): 5:06pm On May 20, 2018
It's because in most cases the women are not financially independent undecided

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Women To Leave Abusive Relationship by Lalas247(f): 5:07pm On May 20, 2018
Pricelessangel0:

Hmmmmnnn? Finance is just a little and can be refunded even the guy one of my distant aunty dated did it and he later ask 4 refund of all he has spent on her and it was refunded.
he asked for refund lol
I have seen it all.... grin
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Women To Leave Abusive Relationship by ubunja(m): 5:08pm On May 20, 2018
Lalas247:

no it wasn't .... u are the one hung up on my post dear u could have kept scrolling. opinions of dregs and wastemen mean nothing to me wink
jog on

you've been corrected. stop generalizing.

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Women To Leave Abusive Relationship by Lalas247(f): 5:12pm On May 20, 2018
Pricelessangel0:

Attimes its not ordinary, some forces are behind it.
My dear I forgot a major one that a lot use “LOVE”

Knew a girl during school days .. had a bf .. she came in and she had a black eye .. we were like wtf happened
She later said her bf threw batteries at her those big D batteries and it knocked her eye out ..

We all opened our mouths screaming .. cause here that’s straight up jail time .. she kept saying no she can’t report it .. we should stay out of her relationship .. we asked her why she would take that sh!t at a young age

Her Answer ... “BUT HE LOVES ME” imagine sad
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Women To Leave Abusive Relationship by Pricelessangel0(f): 5:14pm On May 20, 2018
Lalas247:

he asked for refund lol
I have seen it all.... grin
Am serious, even the one he didnt buy he requested for it and because of how insultive and shameful it is, no one need to ask for verification and it was refundf, it was later that the aunty started saying and pointing to what he did not buy for her that he said he did even down to pant and cream.

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Women To Leave Abusive Relationship by Lalas247(f): 5:16pm On May 20, 2018
Pricelessangel0:

Am serious, even the one he didnt buy he requested for it and because of how insultive and shameful it is, no one need to ask for verification and it was refundf, it was later that the aunty started saying and pointing to what he did not buy for her that he said he did even down to pant and cream.
It’s better that way jare at least he can’t tell her nothing .....
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Women To Leave Abusive Relationship by Lalas247(f): 5:18pm On May 20, 2018
ubunja:
you've been corrected. stop generalizing.
Learn the meaning of the word ... if u don’t like it .. don’t quote me stay off my post that way it won’t affect you
If you were trying to correct you will correct every single poster who didn’t mention working class lady in their comment but you a hypocrite and won’t do that .. so your correction is invalid
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Women To Leave Abusive Relationship by Pricelessangel0(f): 5:20pm On May 20, 2018
Lalas247:

My dear I forgot a major one that a lot use “LOVE”

Knew a girl during school days .. had a bf .. she came in and she had a black eye .. we were like wtf happened
She later said her bf threw batteries at her those big D batteries and it knocked her eye out ..

We all opened our mouths screaming .. cause here that’s straight up jail time .. she kept saying no she can’t report it .. we should stay out of her relationship .. we asked her why she would take that sh!t at a young age

Her Answer ... “BUT HE LOVES ME” imagine sad
Hmmmmnn 'LOVE' the problem that word is causing is much and the meaning has been turned upside down.
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Women To Leave Abusive Relationship by Lalas247(f): 5:21pm On May 20, 2018
Pricelessangel0:

Hmmmmnn 'LOVE' the problem that word is causing is much and the meaning has been turned upside down.

The word is scary .. things people do for it sha ..
What tribe are you if you don’t mind me asking .. are you based in Naija ?
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Women To Leave Abusive Relationship by Pricelessangel0(f): 5:21pm On May 20, 2018
Lalas247:
It’s better that way jare at least he can’t tell her nothing .....
Abi?
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Women To Leave Abusive Relationship by ubunja(m): 5:21pm On May 20, 2018
Lalas247:

Learn the meaning of the word ... if u don’t like it .. don’t quote me stay off my post that way it won’t affect you
If you were trying to correct you will correct every single poster who didn’t mention working class lady in their comment but you a hypocrite and won’t do that .. so your correction is invalid
stop generalising.

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Women To Leave Abusive Relationship by Lalas247(f): 5:22pm On May 20, 2018
ubunja:
stop generalising.
Lol na wa o

Ok go to the first 5 comments what do you call that .. why didn’t you quote them
Or you just got the hots for me grin don’t worry I understand
Ubunja free my comments plsssssss grin
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Women To Leave Abusive Relationship by Pricelessangel0(f): 5:23pm On May 20, 2018
Lalas247:


The word is scary .. things people do for it sha ..
What tribe are you if you don’t mind me asking .. are you based in Naija ?
Am based in naija and am Igbo.
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Women To Leave Abusive Relationship by ubunja(m): 5:24pm On May 20, 2018
Lalas247:


The word is scary .. things people do for it sha ..
What tribe are you if you don’t mind me asking .. are you based in Naija ?
so now you want to answer her points based on her nationality and tribe so you can bring in bias and preconcieved notions?
princess dont fall into this trap

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Women To Leave Abusive Relationship by Lalas247(f): 5:24pm On May 20, 2018
Pricelessangel0:

Am based in naija and am Igbo.
Had a feeling you’re Igbo.. from IMO state ? My mum is Igbo
Nice chatting dear
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Women To Leave Abusive Relationship by Lalas247(f): 5:26pm On May 20, 2018
ubunja:
so now you want to answer her points based on her nationality and tribe so you can bring in bias and preconcieved notions?
princess dont fall into this trap
Lol no Im Trying to get to know her .. if u must know
Ubunja leave me na what is it cheesy .... me asking her tribe has nothing to do with this topic ...

Person can’t make e friends in peace again grin
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Women To Leave Abusive Relationship by ubunja(m): 5:27pm On May 20, 2018
Lalas247:

Lol no Im Trying to get to know her .. if u must know
Ubunja leave me na what is it cheesy .... me asking her tribe has nothing to do with this topic ...

Person can’t make e friends in peace again grin
peace. im walking away.
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Women To Leave Abusive Relationship by Pricelessangel0(f): 5:28pm On May 20, 2018
Lalas247:
Had a feeling you’re Igbo.. from IMO state ? My mum is Igbo Nice chatting dear
The pleasure is mine, am from Ebonyi state.

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Women To Leave Abusive Relationship by Lalas247(f): 5:28pm On May 20, 2018
ubunja:
peace. im walking away.
See ya later kiss
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Women To Leave Abusive Relationship by Lalas247(f): 5:30pm On May 20, 2018
Pricelessangel0:

The pleasure is mine, am from Ebonyi state.
Cool ... see you around . wink
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Women To Leave Abusive Relationship by Hector09(m): 5:33pm On May 20, 2018
Kobicove:
It's because in most cases the women are not financially independent undecided
i dont think so, i ve seen some working class women who is also a victim
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Women To Leave Abusive Relationship by Safiaa(f): 5:33pm On May 20, 2018
Lalas247:
its the lazy unemployed ones .. who are fully Dependant and in their mind they have no way out.....

Please don’t say this. Being in a physical/verbally abusive relationship is much more complex than this. It’s not always about money, there’s a lot of manipulation, controlling narcissistic behaviour that happens. It’s a very sensitive topic, ahbeg.

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Women To Leave Abusive Relationship by Hector09(m): 5:35pm On May 20, 2018
Pricelessangel0:

Hmmmmnnn? Finance is just a little and can be refunded even the guy one of my distant aunty dated did it and he later ask 4 refund of all he has spent on her and it was refunded.
one of my cousin brother ask a girl to refund him the maltina that he bought for her when she visited him
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Women To Leave Abusive Relationship by Nobody: 5:36pm On May 20, 2018
Hector09:
i dont think so, i ve seen some working class women who is also a victim
true. They think of thier kids, what pple at work,church and familiy wud say, where do dey see new husband/lover from etc
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Women To Leave Abusive Relationship by Lalas247(f): 5:36pm On May 20, 2018
Safiaa:
Please don’t say this. Being in a physical/verbally abusive relationship is much more complex than this. It’s not always about money, there’s a lot of manipulation, controlling narcissistic behaviour that happens. It’s a very sensitive topic, ahbeg.

Those are the ones I know of ..
I’m not disputing the fact that working class ladies don’t go through it.. I just didn’t list that .... as I don’t personlly know any in my circle ..so can’t really speak on it
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Women To Leave Abusive Relationship by Safiaa(f): 5:38pm On May 20, 2018
You can never really understand, until you’re in one. That’s all I can say
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Women To Leave Abusive Relationship by Day11(m): 5:41pm On May 20, 2018
yeyerolling:
and die abi

Isn't what u sign up for


Shift jo
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Women To Leave Abusive Relationship by Hector09(m): 5:43pm On May 20, 2018
Safiaa:
You can never really understand, until you’re in one. That’s all I can say
then make me to understand
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Women To Leave Abusive Relationship by Safiaa(f): 5:44pm On May 20, 2018
Hector09:
then make me to understand
I can’t, never been in one.

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