If you are here and you love your girlfriend more than your mother you are a mother fu:ck asshole


Deal with the fact that you are a mother fu:ck if you could love your girlfriend more than your mom.
I don't see any reason why someone will have such mindset of a goat, do you know what your mom pass through during her pregnancy period? Do you know what she pass through while breastfeeding you? Do you know how much time she devoted in caring for you? And all you can think of is " you love your girlfriend more" (thunders piece your mouth) a girlfriend that cannot do more than 1/3 of what your mom has done for you.

If you are such a guy here you know yourself, no need to mention monikers. change your ways and go back to your mom because if you fail to acknowledge your mom what will befall on you, you can never survive the damages.

A word is enough for the wise

We are not responsible for your frustration op, there are ways you pass across message without ending up being the stupid one. you have a message, but lack wisdom to pass it across.
Naturally, no child would love his/her man or woman more than his/her Good mom. I love my mom but I owe her no debt or responsibilities of any sort. let's face reality, there are some certain things your parents can't offer you.
a reasonable girlfriend is a woman you're planning to spend the rest of your life with, the future mother of your unborn kids... she deserves bit of of respect for.
if both my reasonable girlfriend and caring mom are in need at a time, I'll weight which of the need is urgent and important and which is not, if my mom's is I'll attend to her need first and if my girlfriend is... then I'll attend to her need first.

Honestly the way most of Nigerian guys reason and how rudely the sound towards their girlfriends, if I were to be a lady It'll take a Nigerian guy 20 years to win my heart and another 50 years to study him if he's worth getting married to

I don't even love any of them

Na eye service I just deh do

So when they are married should they still love their mothers over their wives?
Any man who loves or listens to his mother and works for her interest over that of his wife should not have bothered getting married.

youngest85:
I don't even love any of them

Na eye service I just deh do

who born dis one abeg?

AmazonTopaz:
So when they are married should they still love their mothers over their wives?
Any man who loves or listens to his mother and works for her interest over that of his wife should not have bothered getting married.

What are you saying

Your mother should be love more than your wife but you have to know your limit.

youngest85:
I don't even love any of them

Na eye service I just deh do

am so proud of my son

including this op
God forbid bad thing

EzendiEgo1:


What are you saying

Your mother should be love more than your wife but you have to know your limit.

It is you who has no idea of what you are saying.Putting your mother and wife on the same pedestal is completely wrong.
Once a man marries his responsibility changes your wife and children comes first not your mother she has her own husband for goodness sake.
There is no limit there.
No wonder some men would listen to their mothers and forget about their wives as if their mothers do not have their own husbands.

Who does that

I even love my sister's children than my girlfriend.

Lonestar124:
Who does that

I even love my sister's children than my girlfriend.

thank you my brother for speaking the truth

AmazonTopaz:

It is you who has no idea of what you are saying.Putting your mother and wife on the same pedestal is completely wrong.
Once a man marries his responsibility changes your wife and childrent comes first not your mother she has her own husband for goodness sake.
There is no limit there.
No wonder some men would listen to their mothers and forget about their wives as if their mothers do not have their own husbands.

Mehn, my mother remain the best woman on this world oo! Though I will still love my wife and treat her well, but compared to my mother, she(my wife) should gerrat!!!

cc: MarieSucre what do you have to say

Klinee:
Mehn, my mother remain the best woman on this world oo! Though I will still love my wife and treat her well, but compared to my mother, she(my wife) should gerrat!!!

I can't marry your type.
I love my mother and there is no changing that but when it comes to affairs of my family I would listen to my spouse first before my parents.
Never pray to be in such dilemma because your spouse should always come first and never try to compare your love for your mother to that of your wife.
Anyway it is your life and choice.

AmazonTopaz:

I can't marry your type.
I love my mother and there is no changing that but when it comes to affairs of my family I would listen to my spouse first before my parents.
Never pray to be in such dilemma because your spouse should always come first and never try to compare your love for your mother to that of your wife.
Anyway it is your life and choice.

But are you expecting that if I marry you I should love you more than my mother? oh no no!! impossible!
I will treat you well as my lovely wife but not to the expenses of my mother!
I don't trust you women but my mother remain trusted forever

AmazonTopaz:

It is you who has no idea of what you are saying.Putting your mother and wife on the same pedestal is completely wrong.
Once a man marries his responsibility changes your wife and children comes first not your mother she has her own husband for goodness sake.
There is no limit there.
No wonder some men would listen to their mothers and forget about their wives as if their mothers do not have their own husbands.

You must be a lady...I'm sure.

Their is difference between a being adhesive and showing maximum love to your mother...Man ought to love his mother dearly than his girlfriend.

Lonestar124:
You must be a lady...I'm sure.

Their is difference between a being adhesive and showing maximum love to your mother...Man ought to love his mother dearly than his girlfriend.

I didn't say girlfriend I said wife and my gender has nothing to do with it?I would be a mother tommorow and my son dare not tell me that he would wait for my advise first and work for my interest over that of his wife or tell me that he would love me over her.I have a husband who can love me not my son.

Klinee:
But are you expecting that if I marry you I should love you more than my mother? oh no no!! impossible!
I will treat you well as my lovely wife but not to the expenses of my mother!
I don't trust you women but my mother remain trusted forever

Your problem your marriage your cup of tea.
If you like love your mother and override your wife and compare them both you are only creating enmity between them.

frustration.

AmazonTopaz:

I didn't say girlfriend I said wife and my gender has nothing to do with it?I would be a mother tommorow and my son dare not tell me that he would wait for my advise first and work for my interest over that of his wife or tell me that he would love me over her.I have a husband who can love me not my son.

You're just taking personal....Is significant in us as men.

Even if a husband cherish his mother than his wife,he wont let it known to her.... Also obliging with your mother does not clues a man love his mother.... A man ought to make decision by himself without mother consultation.

Lonestar124:
You're just taking personal....Is significant in us as men.

Even if a husband cherish his mother than his wife,he wont let it known to her.... Also obliging with your mother does not clues a man love his mother.... A man ought to make decision by himself without mother consultation.

You are the one taking it personal.At your last statement you type like as if it does not happen.
Go back and read what the first poster typed.The women always know.

AmazonTopaz:

I didn't say girlfriend I said wife and my gender has nothing to do with it?I would be a mother tommorow and my son dare not tell me that he would wait for my advise first and work for my interest over that of his wife or tell me that he would love me over her.I have a husband who can love me not my son.

I can clearly see where you are heading to.

Don't worry when you become a mother tomorrow,you will understand the reason behind what I said.

EzendiEgo1:
I can clearly see where you are heading to.

Don't worry when you become a mother tomorrow,you will understand the reason behind what I said.

There is nothing to understand there,they are clearly separate issues.What I typed is definitely what I would say tommorow my duty and responsibility as a mother to my son is different from his duty and responsibility to his wife.Counter what the first poster typed.

AmazonTopaz:

You are the one taking it personal.At your last statement you type like as if it does not happen.
Go back and read what the first poster typed.The women always know.

So what is your point?

A man that constantly obliged her mother instructions is indecisive and can make a good husband?

A man should loves his wife paramountly?

Or maybe you're building wall of jealousy.

AmazonTopaz:

There is nothing to understand there,they are clearly separate issues.What I typed is definitely what I would say tommorow my duty and responsibility as a mother to my son is different from his duty and responsibility to his wife.Counter what the first poster typed.

hmm no problem

If you say so

When you get married, your wife comes first. Even your mum will tell you. A wise woman will tell her son but so many mothers are manipulative of their sons.

Every body has his/her opinion,u cannot come and your opinion tinking it will be the same with others, HELL NO..

To me,my Mother comes First in Everything in my life even when I marry(if self I will marry),
After God,Jesus and Mary,My MUM Is the Most precious BEING IN MY LIFE,
She is worth more than Gold,Diamond or Silver,
I can't trade her for Anything,
I can kill for her,
She is MY ALL AND ALL
MY ONE AND ONLY..
I will Choose my Mum to Live an Everlasting Life for me to Marriage
It is beta to be Single and take care of my mum than to Marry and neglect her....
MUM,MAY GOD BLESS AND FAVOUR YOU WILL GOOD HEALTH AND LONG LIFE FOR ME..AMEN



WHO GIRLFRIEND OR WIFE EPP ??

AstroG:
Every body has his/her opinion,u cannot come and your opinion tinking it will be the same with others, HELL NO..

To me,my Mother comes First in Everything in my life even when I marry(if self I will marry),
After God,Jesus and Mary,My MUM Is the Most precious BEING IN MY LIFE,
She is worth more than Gold,Diamond or Silver,
I can't trade her for Anything,
I can kill for her,
She is MY ALL AND ALL
MY ONE AND ONLY..
I will Choose my Mum to Live an Everlasting Life for me to Marriage
It is beta to be Single and take care of my mum than to Marry and neglect her....
MUM,MAY GOD BLESS AND FAVOUR YOU WILL GOOD HEALTH AND LONG LIFE FOR ME..AMEN



WHO GIRLFRIEND OR WIFE EPP ??

true talk my man


Keep loving your mom

highqueen:
frustration.

do I look like someone that is frustrated

I know you guys never accept the truth

Klinee:

cc: MarieSucre what do you have to say

It's crazy what African society does to us. If the question were turned and it was directed to wives/gf concerning father/husband, you'll see that a lot of women would be even shamed to put their husbands first above their father but what is happening here is the reverse.
If I say i put my mother over my man, then somebody will say "oya pack out of the house and go and stay with your mother na" or "that's means you'll marry your mother".

For me relationships are about compromise. There is no more or less or above or below in love accorded. It's important that all parties understand their boundaries in share-loved, the man must be wise enough to not put his mother or wife in a situation where they are disrespected because of each other or have them feel that they have to mark territory on his life. Most men are not wise.

Another important thing is that if your wife and your mother don't have a relationship that strong no need to use stubborn-head "I'm the man of the house" and try to force them within close proximity to each their a the time. You'll just force your wife into pretence and your mother into further disdain for her by highlighting her flaws in the end na you wey dey center go get headache and that will not be good for the child/children.

Finally, except otherwise stated, it's better your wife's mother come for the omugwo.

The point of my above post is that this love which y'all are arguing of above is usually expressed through actions and is best settled with tact. God bless.

MarieSucre:


It's crazy what African society does to us. If the question were turned and it was directed to wives/gf concerning father/husband, you'll see that a lot of women would be even shamed to put their husbands first above their father but what is happening here is the reverse.
If I say i put my mother over my man, then somebody will say "oya pack out of the house and go and stay with your mother na" or "that's means you'll marry your mother".

For me relationships are about compromise. There is no more or less or above or below in love accorded. It's important that all parties understand their boundaries in share-loved, the man must be wise enough to not put his mother or wife in a situation where they are disrespected because of each other or have them feel that they have to mark territory on his life. Most men are not wise.

Another important thing is that if your wife and your mother don't have a relationship that strong no need to use stubborn-head "I'm the man of the house" and try to force them within close proximity to each their a the time. You'll just force your wife into pretence and your mother into further disdain for her by highlighting her flaws in the end na you wey dey center go get headache and that will not be good for the child/children.

Finally, except otherwise stated, it's better your wife's mother come for the omugwo.

The point of my above post is that this love which y'all are arguing of above is usually expressed through actions and is best settled with tact. God bless.

Nice saying how I wish every woman will comprehend like you, there will be no problem at all.

EzendiEgo1:


Nice saying how I wish every woman will comprehend like you, there will be no problem at all.

My post was addressed to men not women. Read again.

MarieSucre:

My post was addressed to men not women. Read again.

I do know Mrs MarieSucre