Im not saying all married men are cheats. But i have been hit on by two married men within a month. Today this same guy came into the shop asking me out, asking for my phone no saying he wants to date me. Meanwhile he is wearing a wedding ring. I do not know if his wife is here in this country or in 9ja. But told him there is no way i will ever date him. I just feel sorry for his wife as this guy will have an affair, with some girl who wont care about the ring on his finger. So please have respect for the vows you took at the altar. Its not just you wife you cheat on but your kids as well.

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-450945.0.html

for those who have ears

my dear you are lucky its just two, because sometimes i wonder if "i want married men is written on my head"
them chasing anything on skirts doesn't bother me more than the thrash they voice out
imagine one telling me HE IS TIRED OF EATING SAME SOUP EVERYTIME
and another said I HAVEN'T GONE OUT FOR MORE THAN A YEAR NOW AND I REALLY NEED TO GO OUT THERE CAUSE LOTS OF GOODIES ARE WAITING FOR ME imagine this, its like not cheating is a disease for him
and many more that makes me sick
many of them just lack the fear of God,respect for their spouse and irresponsibility plays a big role here too

Where i live there is not many nigerians, and both guys are nigerian that hit on me. They are surprised when i ask them wot part of 9ja are you from. As they also pretend not to be from 9ja. But i know the accent from dating a nigerian.

xxcarolxx:

Im not saying all married men are cheats. But i have been hit on by two married men within a month. Today this same guy came into the shop asking me out, asking for my phone no saying he wants to date me. Meanwhile he is wearing a wedding ring. I do not know if his wife is here in this country or in 9ja. But told him there is no way i will ever date him. I just feel sorry for his wife as this guy will have an affair, with some girl who wont care about the ring on his finger. So please have respect for the vows you took at the altar. Its not just you wife you cheat on but your kids as well.

You're lucky that the man had his ring on, how would you have known if he ''the man'' had had it removed. Methinks there's still hope for the wife to the man that approached you with his ring on

The last guy told me his ring was a prayer ring. I also look for the tell tale sign that a ring leaves.

lol@prayer ring,

Amen.
*But goes for women too.

xxcarolxx:

Im not saying all married men are cheats. But i have been hit on by two married men within a month. Today this same guy came into the shop asking me out, asking for my phone no saying he wants to date me. Meanwhile he is wearing a wedding ring. I do not know if his wife is here in this country or in 9ja. But told him there is no way i will ever date him. I just feel sorry for his wife as this guy will have an affair, with some girl who wont care about the ring on his finger. So please have respect for the vows you took at the altar. Its not just you wife you cheat on but your kids as well.

Soon somebody is going to come in here and tell you its your fault that you got hit on by 2 married men, Yeah! it happens on nairaland. There's a post I am lazy to find but it about a girl that got deceived by a married man for 2 years without knowing, and did the poor girl get herself abused here on nairaland. I just found it Shocking to say the least.

yes dear, not all men or women are cheat, its all in the mine.