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Re: He Did Not Enjoy Intimacy With Me, And Concluded I Am Cheating by Truthsbitter: 1:15am On May 30, 2018 |
So the woman won't compromise ... one particular man here they annoy me I swear .. sun abi na star be em name. take her outing ko . one say pre-intimacy. is the woman in the relationship to be pleased ? doesn't she know when she's going out offline ? no time for rubbish abeg. to pet an agbaya that is going out of line is not in my blood . woman you're going out of line .....fix your relationship... reduce the stress if you must . I am not saying you should be feeling like having sex all the time but , you can't just be uninterested at most times...and expect the man always strive to get you in the mood. |
Re: He Did Not Enjoy Intimacy With Me, And Concluded I Am Cheating by Simbrixton(m): 1:19am On May 30, 2018 |
kimbraa:Women tend to want sex more as they get older |
Re: He Did Not Enjoy Intimacy With Me, And Concluded I Am Cheating by mystiquerebirth(m): 2:08am On May 30, 2018 |
Are you really a lady? Khallyella: 3 Likes |
Re: He Did Not Enjoy Intimacy With Me, And Concluded I Am Cheating by hillshark: 2:44am On May 30, 2018 |
Wonder2018: sister, this seems not to be much of an issue, First of all I believe you are saying the truth regards to the situation, and you are not cheating. But it's quite logical. you use a vibrator as mentioned, I believe to attain orgarsm or arouse yourself . But the issue is you kind of don't have the drive and motivation to have real sex, due to the pleasure you attain from the vibrator. And probably you got a vibrator that is way larger than uncle hubby's joystick resulting is your wider pvssy for him. So save your marriage by doing the needful, that is stop using the vibe and master natural sex again. 2 Likes |
Re: He Did Not Enjoy Intimacy With Me, And Concluded I Am Cheating by Mac2016(m): 3:59am On May 30, 2018 |
This is a very critical issue and also mind boggling... It affects many partners in marriages especially men. Will comment later just waking up and have to dress up for work. |
Re: He Did Not Enjoy Intimacy With Me, And Concluded I Am Cheating by jchemy1: 5:43am On May 30, 2018 |
Lemme come in here. Your husbands attitude towards you made you loose the connect you once had for him. Hence the once sex crazed lady suddenly hates it. So if you get a new bobo now you won't get wet abi? Why the vibe wen hubby didn't travel abroad? You don't enjoy sex with him anymore so you resolved to pleasure yursef |
Re: He Did Not Enjoy Intimacy With Me, And Concluded I Am Cheating by Tonason: 6:49am On May 30, 2018 |
The problem is that so many men these days are too difficult to please. I guess his attitude towards the wife must have contributed to it. Besides when you love your wife's body and not her real self tendencies are high that such a matter could arise. Make your woman happy during the day and you will enjoy her during the night simple. |
Re: He Did Not Enjoy Intimacy With Me, And Concluded I Am Cheating by DIKEnaWAR: 6:59am On May 30, 2018 |
kimbraa: The person you quoted is more than right. You won't understand until you have been in a marriage for a decade. It changes when the attraction changes. |
Re: He Did Not Enjoy Intimacy With Me, And Concluded I Am Cheating by Nobody: 8:23am On May 30, 2018 |
Switup:And who is the instituter of marriage? |
Re: He Did Not Enjoy Intimacy With Me, And Concluded I Am Cheating by lala45: 8:29am On May 30, 2018 |
Relationship issues sef,a guy will see a girl as a bad person, leave the girl,let her be and go for the very good girls they want they will say no. |
Re: He Did Not Enjoy Intimacy With Me, And Concluded I Am Cheating by placeofallure(f): 8:41am On May 30, 2018 |
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Re: He Did Not Enjoy Intimacy With Me, And Concluded I Am Cheating by Skyloloprince(m): 9:20am On May 30, 2018 |
Let’s get this right, when a lady gets married a lot changes in her system, thoughts, physically and otherwise this is also applicable to the man. What she is experiencing is normal. Now most people here are accusing her of cheating, I think they are single young boys who aren’t willing to learn from other people’s experience. She can send a mail to milordprince@icloud.com I will help her with the tips to solving the issue. 1 Like |
Re: He Did Not Enjoy Intimacy With Me, And Concluded I Am Cheating by shekauvsbuhari: 9:34am On May 30, 2018 |
LoJ:honestly marriage is terrible. Am into it but want to get out. Its suffocating, has dwindled my drive n has been a wasted investment. At least I want to pay less attention to the scam for now and put more energy into my life's dreams.maybe later I throw the rubbish away entirely. 5 Likes |
Re: He Did Not Enjoy Intimacy With Me, And Concluded I Am Cheating by Skyloloprince(m): 9:45am On May 30, 2018 |
shekauvsbuhari: Kindly have a rethink, do not quit your home I will rather advice you seek proper counseling, speaking as a doctor and a counselor I could assist if you mind: you can send a mail to milordprince@icloud.com |
Re: He Did Not Enjoy Intimacy With Me, And Concluded I Am Cheating by DreamersVille24(m): 10:04am On May 30, 2018 |
How come no one observed she was talking about anal sex? Cos she clearly stated he wanted it from the back. Meanwhile, OP you and hubby should open up to each other and talk things through. Find a time when he's happy and in the mood for talk and have a heart-to-heart convo. |
Re: He Did Not Enjoy Intimacy With Me, And Concluded I Am Cheating by peacettw: 10:08am On May 30, 2018 |
Truthsbitter: Gosh, that was hard to read. A little simplicity goes a long way, you know. No need to butter it all up to sound intelligent whereas you are not. First read my comment again, think and then put down your thoughts coherently please. That is if you want a discuss between the self acclaimed matured (whatever that means) and the self acclaimed scholar in all things (meaning you) |
Re: He Did Not Enjoy Intimacy With Me, And Concluded I Am Cheating by chiteny(m): 10:40am On May 30, 2018 |
SoapQueen: Do not look for what men really want. Look for what your man really wants |
Re: He Did Not Enjoy Intimacy With Me, And Concluded I Am Cheating by Khallyella(f): 10:48am On May 30, 2018 |
Re: He Did Not Enjoy Intimacy With Me, And Concluded I Am Cheating by MarieSucre(f): 10:54am On May 30, 2018 |
donstan18: Stress and old age does. Even while in university, when there is stress of exam or test, who has time for Konji. Talk more of in marriage. |
Re: He Did Not Enjoy Intimacy With Me, And Concluded I Am Cheating by MarieSucre(f): 10:56am On May 30, 2018 |
donstan18: Old age, stress does and not just from women. Do you know whether the man has gained weight and become more unattractive but she doesn't want to hurt his feelings? Moreover see the way he even initiated sex with her. No pre-intimacy, no nothing, just do doggy and roll over for sleep. If na you, u no go tire. |
Re: He Did Not Enjoy Intimacy With Me, And Concluded I Am Cheating by MarieSucre(f): 10:57am On May 30, 2018 |
ubunja: Who will never get old se? Because humans are forever young. Then you'll find another younger one to cheat with but somehow still make it the fault of the older one? |
Re: He Did Not Enjoy Intimacy With Me, And Concluded I Am Cheating by MarieSucre(f): 11:00am On May 30, 2018 |
olaboy1: Advice the husband to spice up her marriage and she will not need to run outside for a new d!ck. The man just said he wanted to have sex by 4am in the night, he did not even do pre-intimacy or anything like that, he just told her to turn over and he did doggy till he climaxed, no care whether she enjoyed it or came. In fact she said it was painful for her but did he care? No! Then he ended the most horrible, unenjoyable and unfulfilling sex of her life with accusations of infidelity. If it was you that your wife did this to you how would you react? |
Re: He Did Not Enjoy Intimacy With Me, And Concluded I Am Cheating by ubunja(m): 11:06am On May 30, 2018 |
MarieSucre:yes. getting old is a crime. you get old you're replaced. 1 Like |
Re: He Did Not Enjoy Intimacy With Me, And Concluded I Am Cheating by lala88: 11:18am On May 30, 2018 |
i really think all the unmarried should just keep their mouths zipped....seriously, making silly comments on something you know absolutely nothing about then i get to see 200 likes on it, really people?...when you get into the institution of marriage come back and make sensible comments... my dear OP, we are all in the same boat..sex for me was definitely not what is used to feel like..but sweetheart you just simply have to work on it. i was once on that road and when i saw how it affected my hubby,i had to put in the effort and honestly i believe i have gotten my sex drive back...work on yourself and do kegel exercises...marriage is work, darling. you have to make a conscious effort. 1 Like |
Re: He Did Not Enjoy Intimacy With Me, And Concluded I Am Cheating by Nobody: 11:28am On May 30, 2018 |
Wonder2018:Your husband side of the story Hi Nlanders, This is strictly for those that are married and thus engage in adventurous sexual act with their wife. Please if you are'nt or dont have experience, kindly dont post here. I have been noticing my woman for quite some months now, I just decided to let the cat off the bag. She has been having anal sex before I met her, and we did continue also when we met because I also have been engaged in the same act before we met. Sometimes, if by chance we havent had it anal in a week or less, when i try to enter her, she'll be saying, no its painful which aint true, i have lived with her for 5 years, most times she dont even need lube for me to gain entrance due to her anal experience. But I just always try to do my thang, she prefers anal to vaginal sex because thats where she gets her serious and strong orgasm from. Whenever she does that her no, am not in the mood, its painful thing, she constricts her muscle to make the anal entrance tight presumably that i dont feel the looseness. And at the end of the day when i get in, i just feel the looseness and it fills me with so much worry and doubt if she's having such sacred sexual intercourse with another man after paying her pride price. It will be hella degrading if this is true. Guys, whenever we have it mutually, its always very tight and untouched, but whenever she does that am nt in the mood, its painful thing, its just to find out that the asshole is just another freeway @ dat moment. The same thing happened yesternight, this time I said everything just feels different, and I risked asking her if she was cheating on me, in which normally she responded No, I went back to bed, she came back from the bathroom hugging and petting me that she's sorry, that shes not just in the mood for sex, she probably didnt know wat am complaining about by saying everything feels different, I didnt want to say it all. Could she be cheating? How can I get to catch her because I have a strong feeling she is. Please no advise of tracking her phone or all those silly ways of catching a cheater. Mature advise plz, cant stand living with a cheating woman, I have been here for 5 years as a faithful man, you can imagine sey person find out sey them dey bang ur wife for yansh outside. My lawd, I wont conclude just yet. |
Re: He Did Not Enjoy Intimacy With Me, And Concluded I Am Cheating by smeag0l(m): 11:59am On May 30, 2018 |
This lady here is most likely either cheating with a lesbian or making more frequent use of her vibrator. From what I know, the highest user of vibrators are lesbians and bisexuals and it has been proven scientifically that these people usually have longer and more frequent orgasms than the normal heterosexual ladies. This is why you haven't been able to satisfy your husband. I also saw your husbands thread and from what I saw, you guys have anal sex-Another sexual aberration that's exclusive to homosexuals. I think you should tell us the full story! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: He Did Not Enjoy Intimacy With Me, And Concluded I Am Cheating by MarieSucre(f): 1:13pm On May 30, 2018 |
ubunja: You will get old too you know. |
Re: He Did Not Enjoy Intimacy With Me, And Concluded I Am Cheating by adeom141(m): 1:14pm On May 30, 2018 |
DrinkLimca:word |
Re: He Did Not Enjoy Intimacy With Me, And Concluded I Am Cheating by olaboy1: 1:21pm On May 30, 2018 |
MarieSucre: No time for pre-intimacy by 4am for a woman that will soon disappear to work in 1 or 2 hrs time when the poor man may have been begging her all night long. pre-intimacy is what a couple do after dinner by 8pm. When she wants the poor husband to die of konji all night having a sleepless night thinking what kind of sh!t have I gotten myself into, oh God I should have listened to my randy friends and maybe by now I will be smashing one cute 100l girl from OSU. You can’t just turn your back on your husband and expect him to understand and deal with it. How about “sweetheart you are the best thing that ever happened before slice bread and my body and soul want you all the time, is it okay if we don’t have frequent sex for another three months while I stabilize this start up company...thanks hunnie mua mua. But when you tell him “oh baby not tonight, can’t you see how tired I am and is sex the only thing you know. That to me is a recipe for divorce, just don’t bring your problem here when it gets to that. |
Re: He Did Not Enjoy Intimacy With Me, And Concluded I Am Cheating by ubunja(m): 1:22pm On May 30, 2018 |
MarieSucre:im a man. what matters is my money. you should know that by now. |
Re: He Did Not Enjoy Intimacy With Me, And Concluded I Am Cheating by MarieSucre(f): 1:25pm On May 30, 2018 |
olaboy1: look at the quotes below; "sweetheart you are the best thing that ever happened before slice bread and my body and soul want you all the time, is it okay if we don’t have frequent sex for another three months while I stabilize this start up company...thanks hunnie mua mua." Does she need to tell him this? Don't they live together? Doesn't he know it notice her hustle? You guys make a big deal out of telling women to know a man's mood and know when not to disturb him especially when he is tired from work and doesn't need any unnecessary nagging but I think you guys need that skill more than ever. |
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