lefulefu:

cos that op"s customer is loaded she dey look for way to ditch her broke boyfriend.i know that this her customer is riding a Venza and her eyes don dey do chuku chuku for the guy ride.now she wants to dump her broke unemployed boyfriend for this rich guy but guilty concience is already affecting her hence her coming here for so called advice.all wetin she dey look for here na to get enuf encouragement to dump her broke bf.but weda we bash ooo..or we support her she will still dump her guy for the rich customer.her mind don already dey made up .

Kimcutie:
If he's rich, he will use his money and buy another girl? LOL

Dillusionist:
that your best friend will turn to your worst enemy when the chips are down.



countless relationships has ended because of bestie.
any lady,that comes close to my bf as a bestie will hear nwii from me.

Dillusionist:

her mind is totally made up.

Dillusionist:

he will cheat on her with morethan 10 girls and eventually dump her.

broke guys are evil when they start seeing peanuts.

Dillusionist:

I'm not supportive of the cheating nature of the lady but let's talk about this.

do you think that the said guy will take it likely if he's made and had alot of money at disposal?

he is still with her because of the financial benefits he's sipping from her wotkplace.
men don't take shiit so long they are made.
this one is still pitiful cos of his financial status.

wait,till he becomes rich.

cruchenutii:


I was scrolling downwards looking for your comment after Don stan18 (your husband from the Future) & I found it, Just as I predicted the statements would be

Kimcutie:
Don't you think that's generalization? I don't think all "broke guys" do that.

greiboy:
I am sorry op, Please clarify your intentions

Do you want Nairalanders to approve your side aristo work cheating or what?

Or do you want us to tell you to leave your bf?

All I can tell from your story is that you have a " paper boyfriend" while you do your aristo runz at the side, but apparently you are starting to feel guilty for your actions and you came to a public forum to seek validation. He will leave you when the opportunity presents itself.


My advise

leave that boy alone and face your Aristo work squarely because any guy that could have forgiven you despite cheating on him twice is merely tolerating you not in love with you.

samyfreshsmooth:



do you think the said lady (op) would have cheated (twice sef) if the guy "had a lot of money at his disposal"


lets face it, the girl's a whôre!!! (like most ladies in relationships)

Dillusionist:

80% of them are like that.

Dillusionist:

or maybe he doesn't 80%.


when he makes money,he will start by saying she's an evening newspaper just like the ones we have here.
most men are like that.

LifeofAirforce:
I don't abuse people but this OP na Ashewo

She no get levels at all

I pity the man that will marry you because your Toto go don wide like borehole

mhisbliss:
Maybe just maybe

lefulefu:

Dillusionist:

any person can cheat in a relationship, no matter the statue.


but the after math effect is what I'm talking about.

pocohantas:


That's the sad reality.
Personally, I don't do things with my age group.

Men marry down: it protects their ego
Women marry up: it tames their ego.

(exceptions apply).

Dillusionist:

abeg shut up.
is it when she dates your kind that she will get level?


You sef.

cruchenutii:


True, actually the best thing to help her jobless BF is to breakup with him. Sometimes best way to move forward is go backwards & start over.

samyfreshsmooth:



any person can cheat in a relationship no matter the statue (status you mean) but "any person" cannot love genuinely in a relationship no matter the status abi


what aftermath effect are you even talking about

Cynie42:
I don't want to hurt my bf anymore and I don't want to hurt this guy too, he has bin nice to me...pls what's ur take on this, what do you advice i should do?

LifeofAirforce:

Birds of The same feather , I ain't surprised you taking sides with the OP
Na same level una dey

greatnaija01:
You really are a wonder

You are NOT a faithful Lady for relationship. You have lived in dishonesty and its all because of MONEY and Greed.

you are also materialistic (NO MATTER HOW YOU DENY IT, YOU ACTUALLY ARE.)

You have lied to your boyfriend and you feel you are better than him, so why are you still MANAGING him, he no longer appeals to you so leave him... you have HURT him beyond what he can imagine but because he does not know that is why he is still sucking up to u.

The new guy whom u called BESTIE may be the one you should marry (i.e If you wont CHEAT on him too with a new bestie when he gets boring).

You need to realize you will not be YOUNG FOREVER, and you may actually be lazy to WORK on your RELATIONSHIP. You are DOUBLE MINDED.

So pls make up your LIFE by making up your MIND to be FAITHFUL AND LOYAL.

Your bestie MUST always be your LOVER.... So stop deceiving yourself.

THIS IS A BITTER TRUTH, BUT SWALLOW IT AND IT WILL CURE YOU.

Dillusionist:

I'm being factual.
and no,I respect my relationship.



the problem is you talking about level when you are clueless about what level is all about.
and for the record, she's moving from a low to high level.

greiboy:
Bruv that is the simple truth. The chick na Runz girl. All those my close or closet friend no follow.

If she is not interested, I believe she should have made her intention known before getting to this stage.

How can an average girl with a decent source of income (shop) cheat on her bf twice and still contemplating doing it again.

The girl na Aristo i beg

lefulefu:

the funny thing of it all is even dat her customer she"s intending to date go just wan chop and clean mouth.the made guy is not a fool.he know say dis girl na im money she dey trip for.but he just wan chop her and move on.for a runzgirl she"s not even sharp .

mhisbliss:
My mama

mhisbliss:
My mama

greiboy:
She is a runz girl with church mind