A lot of girls complain that guys walk away from them simply because,they refused giving them sex,some are even tempted to give away their virginity just to keep the guys - Let_me_be_very_blunt_here... Virginity may not be the real reason Why the guys go away,yes,no doubt,there are several guys who want sex,and if they don't get it,they walk away... The problem may not be the virginity or the sex... The story of the Ten virgins in the bible Reveals that both the wise and the foolish were virgins;the other Five were not allowed seeing the bridegroom not because they were virgins or because they lost their virginity.... NO! But because they were foolish and they were called foolish because they had no # EXTRA_OIL And the EXTRA OIL here is character! Most girls do not have extra oil to sustain any relationship,while many brag about their virginity,that's all they have to offer. Aside your virginity,what do you have to offer to a man? Can you support him spiritually? Can you support him physically? How bout mentally? All you do is demand money for bags ,shoes ,clothes, ?and outing,making him spend unnecessarily. Have you ever sit him down, and you help him plan about his future? Has he ever seen you as someone he can confide in? how many times has he come being in a state of dilemma seeking advice from you? Rather than jumping from one club to another. And for the virgins, they forget that virginity ends after the wedding but EXTRA OIL continues... Yes... Nobody is perfect... We all have our bad sides... BUT... Try to be a woman that a man will always regret losing for the rest of his life... Be that woman that ur man can never afford to lose to another man Build your man to your taste... And stop looking for a ready made husband Force yourself on that rich dude that you didn't work with to achieve what he has... And hear the story of your life from him one day. Did You Work With me to achieve all I've got? Ever since you've entered this house... What has added to what u met?? There's just nothing as best as building up your man yourself... You will forever earn his respect. I hope this piece of advice is useful to all souls?

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nice piece.bt d problem is they would always find a way to counter d thread and they might even use another bible illustration

Very interesting and Educating.

Not always true. Some girls did these from a place of love(no pretence) for their partners, they were called desperate.

It is not every woman that asks her man for bags and clothing. Some women prayed and tried to be there for their men, they still got dumped.

The keyword here should be -balance.

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Not always true. Some girls did these from a place of love(no pretence) for their partners, they were called desperate.

It is not every woman that asks her man for bags and clothing. Some women prayed and tried to be there for their men, they still got dumped.

The keyword here should be -balance.

True that.

Kinda true!! Majority of virgin girls have character issues, that's what's making these destiny destroying guys to be leveraging on it to trample down on the status of virginity. Pathetic!


Character now trumps whatever virtue out there, sotey if a slut has a good character, she'd get a good husband and nobody can stop it.


Besides, nobody should be desperate.... look at the long run and the gain.... will it make you or mar you?


As much as there are a thousand of guys that are virgins and want such for a relationship, there are also many girls out there too that wana close their legs till marriage beckons.



This has led to the devilish notion that if a guy comes closer, they want sex and so the defences go up. It takes patience, always from the guy's side to make intentions known.


It's happened to me, and when I wasn't initiating sex, she began to talk bout it that she's know me for a month plus, and I should do what I came for, and come and be going. I was so angry, I walked away from her, after I told her plainly that that's not why I was after her, interested in her. She's regretting now, cos the notion held onto have marred her life. What nonsense!!


Notions and Intentions.


Or the one that's good to her and so nice to her and he was cool for months only to "rape" her one night like that.... compared to the one that's saying that's what he wants early on...... Intentions..... And ladies are bad readers of intentions; good or bad!!!