Orubebe01:
Both of us are from the eastern part of the country. I want to visit her parents next week and that is going to be my first meeting with them, am confused on what to buy for them. Please kindly help your brother suggest the best thing to get for them. thanks.

if u are going to fix a date for the marrige then a bottle of wine is ok but if not don't buy anything just be urself. Good luck

please dont boda to buy anything, package 10k each in an envelope and give to dem as u ar about to liv. De will appreciate it beta. Pls do cos am married too.

Orubebe01:

hmmm, as an assurance abi, but its not the mother that I want to marry na.

Don't appear to be the cash bang.. 4 wines , 12 yards of material is very much okay with a humble gesture. What ever you start with remember, you can't reduce, you have to build on. Don't forget small change to give kids when leaving. Listen to your chioma, she knows her parents better and i know she wont want you to give what you don't have. Do as i say, thank me later

Thegeneralqueen:
Buy drinks for her dad and a piece of gold maybe like that of 250k for her mum hope it helps

Was this sarcasm? The 250k

mimimile93:




After reading about death in marriages everyday, you still want to trade this path? Are you prepared for the worst? The road is rough o.. Anyway I wish you best of luck and a safe journey. Have a smooth ride bruv.

Now for what to buy;
Get a quality wrapper for her mom or ask your fiancée what her mom likes.

Then for her dad, if he's a traditionist buy one bottle of hot drink and a good staff with a pair black shoe and a quality black trouser. But if the man is a churchy person buy a quality wine (non alcoholic) and a good quality suit for him..

Ps; make sure to put some money in an envelope for her mom o. Women like money and that old woman will never stop thanking you for that money..

Just for the first meeting that he is embarking on? That's putting the horse before the cart.

So what will he now take for the traditional introduction that will entail a meeting of both families. Please where ignorance is bliss, it is folly to be wise

Abjay97:
Buy quality wrapper cloth for the mother and carton of wine for the father

gbam!
you get sense...

Abjay97:
Buy quality wrapper cloth for the mother and carton of wine for the father

@orubebeo1 , I think this suggestion make sense .

BY THEM CONDOM!

Thegeneralqueen:
Buy drinks for her dad and a piece of gold maybe like that of 250k for her mum hope it helps

Don't go and buy what you cannot continue buying. Besides, this is just first visit and not introduction. I suggest you buy the mother a fine wrapper and the dad a good wrist watch or wine.

Nwafor igbo can't ask such question but since u have asked u deserve good answer .....spend like 5k for the the mum..buy her beverages and 2k for the dad buy him wine.....

buy a bowl of Garri #400 and akara #300, tell the whole family to soak it and finish it all before u leave

Malawian:
Buy the wine, but also buy some tubers of yam and keep in your car booth, if your discussions with them goes according to plan, on your way out, have them come offload their yams, otherwise, cut your losses and carry your yam go house. yam cost o.

That's if you have a car snd you decide to travel with it.

Orubebe01:
Both of us are from the eastern part of the country. I want to visit her parents next week and that is going to be my first meeting with them, am confused on what to buy for them. Please kindly help your brother suggest the best thing to get for them. thanks.

Buy the mother a wrapper and the father a good wine/Spirit to sip with his kindred after you must have left. It is a sign of respect and they will see you as having a matured mind.

Lol it's just so funny the kind of advice some people give here... Anyways I guess u want to go knock at the door as we call it.. So just get a good wine ( ask ur babe the type the father likes more either alcohol or the other). Don't go buying unnecessary things. Don't create the impression of having excess and don't also look like u have nothing, moreover time is coming when they will chop u in and out..lol..God bless ur marriage to come

you can buy the dad bottles of wine and the mum material to sew...

Buy yam and Garden egg

Na this small problem dey worry u bros?

Now listen, if the girl papa still be guy man, buy am Aba made Kelvin Klein Boxers, the one C Rinaldo dey always advertise. make sure u buy one dey sow with Isiagu, if the man na Igbo. Them on the girl mama side, if na old mama youngie, a G-string will do, but make sure u buy the one with seven colours.

Gosh! why dey born me for naija. I be genius, African Albert Einstein.

soberdrunk:


My brother don't listen to all these people that want to end your career before it starts, you are doing the man a very big favor by making a 'honest woman' out of his daughter in this times of 'economic turmoil' and 'drastic husband shortage', they are the ones supposed to buy you gifts.........

lol o boy take am easy

divineappo:
buy a bowl of Garri #400 and akara #300, tell the whole family to soak it and finish it all before u leave

Lmso, you're not serious o

Why are you in a hurry... Her parents go still give you list of wetin you go buy, you sef go tire askin ursef why buhari is d president at this time

u can snake, frog, fowl, n python ok. ur mumu neva do ok

bread and beans with cold pure water, shikeno.

Orubebe01:
Both of us are from the eastern part of the country. I want to visit her parents next week and that is going to be my first meeting with them, am confused on what to buy for them. Please kindly help your brother suggest the best thing to get for them. thanks.

Go there with a rare bottle and ask the gf to chose wrapper for the Mum, U r good to go. Also make sure you wadge the Kola

Wrapper for the mum.
Wine for the dad.
These should do.

Thegeneralqueen:
Buy drinks for her dad and a piece of gold maybe like that of 250k for her mum hope it helps

Two hundred and fifty gini? Is like malaria is doing u

Abjay97:
Buy quality wrapper cloth for the mother and carton of wine for the father

Is he going for introduction? Just a bottle of wine for the dad and some chocolate candy for the mom should do.

But shouldn’t you be asking your fiancée, since she knows her parents better than us?

Orubebe01:
Both of us are from the eastern part of the country. I want to visit her parents next week and that is going to be my first meeting with them, am confused on what to buy for them. Please kindly help your brother suggest the best thing to get for them. thanks.

This is part of the reasons why marrying from Nigeria is gonna b a problem cos i dont subscribe to all this buying parade

GuntersChain:
since you are going for the first time, go empty handed. next time you can buy them gift.

Makes sense.

Virgin Tobacco, Whisky and Condoms should be okay.


If you sure he has a gun, you can as well buy him a pack of bullets