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Re: How To Identify Lesbian Ladies In Nigeria! by Kimcutie: 8:42pm On Jun 02, 2018
RosaBerry:
@ OP you made your point.

Expose them!!!



Quote me and let thunder visit you.
Thank you for standing by the truth, they won't agree to it but they all know it. Prior to today I saw nothing wrong in that act but today, am a changed person.

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Re: How To Identify Lesbian Ladies In Nigeria! by smeag0l(m): 8:45pm On Jun 02, 2018
What have you been up to, lately?
midehi2:

great
Re: How To Identify Lesbian Ladies In Nigeria! by samyfreshsmooth(m): 8:46pm On Jun 02, 2018
midehi2:
Choi! see conclusion

cheesy cheesy cheesy so are you a lesbian..............yes or no?

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Re: How To Identify Lesbian Ladies In Nigeria! by mhisbliss(f): 8:50pm On Jun 02, 2018
smeag0l:
Lol....you're so comical
The guy is not even allowing me to rest, lots of incessant mentions like he's stalking me, he's mentioning me right now sef angry

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Re: How To Identify Lesbian Ladies In Nigeria! by midehi2(f): 8:52pm On Jun 02, 2018
smeag0l:
What have you been up to, lately?
nothing much ooo, just normal hangout cheesy
Re: How To Identify Lesbian Ladies In Nigeria! by smeag0l(m): 8:52pm On Jun 02, 2018
grin grin grin grin grin grin
mhisbliss:
The guy is not even allowing me to rest, lots of incessant mentions like he's stalking me, he's mentioning me right now sef angry

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Re: How To Identify Lesbian Ladies In Nigeria! by Nobody: 8:55pm On Jun 02, 2018
what we need to do in Nigeria is stop stigmatization, we like to judge others while we ourselves are bad people,wetin concern you with how anoda person satisfies him her self,if you are a lesbian be honourable enough to reject a marriage or even relationship request from a guy no matter the pressure, but if you go ahead to yield to the pressure,make sure you stay put ,I am masculine and heterosexual, but if I was actually gay,I wouldn't give the slightest f_uck to what u homophobic hypocrites think about me,if u like curse me all u like,I would live my life the way I choose as long as I'm not violating another person's right,if you are gay whether male or female feel great about yourself,you are special,but most importantly work hard to become someone so important and useful to the society so u can proof to everyone that sexuality is just a part of who we are,our sexuality does not define us,gay people are not sexually rebellious, they are only responding to their normal feelings the way heterosexual people do,so like I earlier said work hard to become someone that contributes to the society not necessarily in the way bobrisky does

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Re: How To Identify Lesbian Ladies In Nigeria! by smeag0l(m): 8:57pm On Jun 02, 2018
I won't mind that kind of hangout too o.
midehi2:

nothing much ooo, just normal hangout cheesy
Re: How To Identify Lesbian Ladies In Nigeria! by midehi2(f): 9:00pm On Jun 02, 2018
smeag0l:
I won't mind that kind of hangout too o.
lol

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Re: How To Identify Lesbian Ladies In Nigeria! by Lalas247(f): 9:51pm On Jun 02, 2018
smeag0l:
Lala247, you too like beards o. Dem use am do you? Btw, my post is just to prevent guys from dating the wrong girls cos I've witnessed about three catastrophic marriages that stemmed from the fact that the wives were lez
You r stressing me out .... grin you should know I really don’t care what your motive was...
Instead of you to teach guys how to grow a beard undecided you are busy worrying about lesbos.....

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Re: How To Identify Lesbian Ladies In Nigeria! by Saff(f): 10:04pm On Jun 02, 2018
Blackfyre:


Do you see yourself as someone influenced often by other peoples opinion or pov?
I find you strange and sometimes scary. You creep me out cry

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Re: How To Identify Lesbian Ladies In Nigeria! by smeag0l(m): 10:16pm On Jun 02, 2018
The statement "but if I was actually gay,I wouldn't give the slightest f_uck to what u homophobic hypocrites think about me,if u like curse me all u like,I would live my life the way I choose..." will earn you a 14 year jail term in Nigeria.
Besides, I find one loophole in your argument.Being gay is not a normal feeling and goes against all moral and religious dogma except in places like the US where morality has being long thrown to the dogs. No one is born gay and science has tried so hard to refute this fact without making any headway. All those who claim to be gay inherited that sexuality by nurture and not nature. Also, your statement about being a lez and rejecting marriage proposal is what I'm actually advocating for. It happens abroad but over here, Nigerian lesbian ladies want to eat their cake and still have it. If you claim to be a lesbian, why not stand by it and damn every societal stigma. But no, they won't do that probably because of greed and also to save face. If they want to thread the path of destruction, why drag an innocent man into it?
darkchild64:
what we need to do in Nigeria is stop stigmatization, we like to judge others while we ourselves are bad people,wetin concern you with how anoda person satisfies him her self,if you are a lesbian be honourable enough to reject a marriage or even relationship request from a guy no matter the pressure, but if you go ahead to yield to the pressure,make sure you stay put ,I am masculine and heterosexual, [b]but if I was actually gay,I wouldn't give the slightest f_uck to what u homophobic hypocrites think about me,if u like curse me all u like,I would live my life the way I choose [/b]as long as I'm not violating another person's right,if you are gay whether male or female feel great about yourself,you are special,but most importantly work hard to become someone so important and useful to the society so u can proof to everyone that sexuality is just a part of who we are,our sexuality does not define us,gay people are not sexually rebellious, they are only responding to their normal feelings the way heterosexual people do,so like I earlier said work hard to become someone that contributes to the society not necessarily in the way bobrisky does

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Re: How To Identify Lesbian Ladies In Nigeria! by smeag0l(m): 10:25pm On Jun 02, 2018
But of what use will the beards be if I teach them how to grow it and they still end up with a "log-of-wood" wife that's a lesbo? grin
Lalas247:

You r stressing me out .... grin you should know I really don’t care what your motive was...
Instead of you to teach guys how to grow a beard undecided you are busy worrying about lesbos.....

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Re: How To Identify Lesbian Ladies In Nigeria! by Saff(f): 10:34pm On Jun 02, 2018
OfficialDad:
Lesbianism is understandable, but gay undecided
I always question homophobic behaviour. Particularly from men. Specifically black African men. I shall say no more.

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Re: How To Identify Lesbian Ladies In Nigeria! by Fkforyou(m): 10:37pm On Jun 02, 2018
Holy shiit... angry

This stupid thread made front page After all ... undecided

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Re: How To Identify Lesbian Ladies In Nigeria! by blowjohn(m): 10:39pm On Jun 02, 2018
Kimcutie:
God knows I won't jam any lesbian, chai... That shït freaks me.

U mean like scares u or puts u off? �
Re: How To Identify Lesbian Ladies In Nigeria! by Buffalowings3(m): 10:39pm On Jun 02, 2018
Saff:
Maybe I’m a lesbian then . Proud lesbian!!

So you dont like dick
buy im sure you have a Love Machine somewhere

Why not have the real thing?

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Re: How To Identify Lesbian Ladies In Nigeria! by GuntersChain(m): 10:39pm On Jun 02, 2018
where is lesbianboy? what about earrings with a cross symbol.
Re: How To Identify Lesbian Ladies In Nigeria! by jeff92: 10:42pm On Jun 02, 2018
midehi2:
saying 'I love a girl on social media doesn't make one a Lez.. that of a ring on forefinger, yes most of them do that, wearing of anklet is also not a sign of Lez
so wat ar ur own signs laaa
Re: How To Identify Lesbian Ladies In Nigeria! by Nobody: 10:42pm On Jun 02, 2018
There's nothing wrong with being gay or lesbian.

The world has moved on... We have to move with it.

Countries like Norway and Sweden legalized it almost over 170 years ago. We are in no way better than them in all remification.

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Re: How To Identify Lesbian Ladies In Nigeria! by Nobody: 10:44pm On Jun 02, 2018
Saff:
I always question homophobic behaviour. Particularly from men. Specifically black African men. I shall say no more.

Please next time, quote me when i would love to be quoted, either you're against or in support of my points.
Not just everybody quoting me randomly undecided .

Goodbye peasants
Re: How To Identify Lesbian Ladies In Nigeria! by Nobody: 10:47pm On Jun 02, 2018
donstan18:
If this is true, it then means lots of Nland ladies are lesbians because most of them possesses those attributes.
Ode! grin

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Re: How To Identify Lesbian Ladies In Nigeria! by jeff92: 10:48pm On Jun 02, 2018
darkchild64:
what we need to do in Nigeria is stop stigmatization, we like to judge others while we ourselves are bad people,wetin concern you with how anoda person satisfies him her self,if you are a lesbian be honourable enough to reject a marriage or even relationship request from a guy no matter the pressure, but if you go ahead to yield to the pressure,make sure you stay put ,I am masculine and heterosexual, but if I was actually gay,I wouldn't give the slightest f_uck to what u homophobic hypocrites think about me,if u like curse me all u like,I would live my life the way I choose as long as I'm not violating another person's right,if you are gay whether male or female feel great about yourself,you are special,but most importantly work hard to become someone so important and useful to the society so u can proof to everyone that sexuality is just a part of who we are,our sexuality does not define us,gay people are not sexually rebellious, they are only responding to their normal feelings the way heterosexual people do,so like I earlier said work hard to become someone that contributes to the society not necessarily in the way bobrisky does
hey!!.....u must b 1 of dem..God help u undastnd dat ur priority on sexuality as a man is to mate a woman....nd a woman to man anytin contrary is abominable plsss

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Re: How To Identify Lesbian Ladies In Nigeria! by SexytorresE(f): 10:48pm On Jun 02, 2018
smeag0l:
Hi All,

It took me a lot of cogitation before I could make this post. I also had to post this because I have seen a lot of comments from people encouraging the abominable act of lesbianism on nairaland (especially guys) that I begin to wonder where this generation of youths are headed.

First and foremost, going by the bible and quran, lesbianism is an abomination. I will give references from the bible because I am a Christian.The following verses of the bible:Leviticus 18:22, 20:13, Romans 1:24-28, I Corinthians 6:9-11, Jude1:7, I Timothy 1:10, I Kings 14:24, 15:12 all attest to the fact that homosexuality ,of which lesbianism is a subset, is evil.

However, the queer ones on the forum will always have a counter argument of fornication being also a sin to back up their nefarious way of life but this is not the crux of why I opened this thread so I will not dwell on the religious angle any further-I have an expose on this which I'll reserve for another day.

Secondly and the most important reason why I decided to open this thread is to warn guys(including the ones that have continually advocated for queer girls here on nairaland) on the disastrous impact of marrying a lesbian and how to identify if your girl is one whilst you're courting

Let me start by saying this. Most Nigerian girls living in Nigeria that claim to be bisexuals are, in fact, lesbians. They only claim bisexuality so as to be able to get a ring on the third finger of their left hand and answer a Mrs whilst they covertly continue their abominable acts.

They know that the African culture expects that they should get married at some point in their lives and their parents and relatives will keep putting pressure on them to do so.

Therefore, they just hook up with a guy, get married and make babies and then eventually make the guy's life miserable by continually denying him of sex and gallivanting around the country with their lesbian friends before filing for divorce most times on two grounds- sexual satisfaction and irreconcilable differences. I have seen this happen to three different guys and in the end, the guys ended up being disillusioned and poorer than when they met those girls. The sad part is that the ladies don't even get to check on their children as they are seen more in the company of their female friends in public places.

Guys, beware! Lesbianism is demonic and no matter how long your manhood is or how good you are in bed, you can't satisfy a lesbian as the kind of orgasm they have while making out with their female counterpart is longer and more frequent and also doesn't occur due to penetration. I had to say this because I have , over time, seen some useless comments from guys here saying that the girl has not seen a great manhood or a guy with great sexual prowess that's why she is still a lesbian. This is entirely false as lesbians are so addicted to their same sex partners and to the act that mere penetration from a man cannot give them orgasm.

Therefore, will all that have been said, guys here are signs that the girl you are dating is a lesbian(These may not be correct sometimes but they are very key leads to attest to this fact).

1. She admires only ladies on social media and you would occasionally see some comments from her on social media telling another girl "I love you" even when the girl is just an acquaintance who is not close to her.

2. She wears an anklet on THE RIGHT LEG or a colourful ring on their RIGHT FOREFINGER. I had to make the right leg emboldened because this is their insignia. I've seen about ten lesbian ladies wearing this and even spoke to one who also affirmed it.

3. If she is the butch lesbian(the male partner) she will most likely have a short hair, wear very light make up most times or even no make up and have short fingers(Because they use their fingers to pleasure their femme counterpart). Some of the butch ones also look like tomboys

4. Whenever she is intimate with her guy, they enjoy cunnilingus and fingering far more than penetration as this is the only way she can achieve orgasm most times.

5. On special occasions like her birthday or her boyfriend's birthday, she will indulge him with wild sexual orgies like anal sex or party (with the involvement of their other lesbian partner). Some of them even prefer anal to vaginal penetration.

6. You will always find lesbian porn on her phone or cached webpage history.

7. If she's the butch lesbian, she will dislike things like cooking, going to the market and laundry.

8. She's always an advocate of female rights and will pick a quarrel with you whenever you antagonize a female.

9. She prefers evening hang outs with a large company of girlfriend more than she enjoys it with you as her boyfriend.

10. She starts denying you sex immediately after marriage. This usually starts subtly and unnoticed until your sex life with your wife eventually becomes once in a month.

11. She has a vibrator and she doesn't orgasm from sex with you until she uses the vibrator. I agree some women are like this but if after a long time, you can't make your girlfriend orgasm except with the aid of a vibrator(or through cunnilingus or fingering) please suspect her.

12. If she is the femme, she has a very close friend she stays with or hangs around with/cannot do without and who has the characteristics listed in Number 3 above.


You can add yours as I leave the list for now. Please guys, be wise in choosing a partner. Do not destroy your life on the altars of beauty and physical appearance a most of these evil ladies are usually beautiful!

I disagree on the chain part, I wore chain on my left or right leg is cos I liked it. but am not a Lez...

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Re: How To Identify Lesbian Ladies In Nigeria! by Nobody: 10:50pm On Jun 02, 2018
OfficialDad:
Lesbianism is understandable, but gay undecided .

Anyway, my baby mama is a lesbian.

If lesbianism is understandable then gay is also understandable..

Young man be wise.

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Re: How To Identify Lesbian Ladies In Nigeria! by Nobody: 10:51pm On Jun 02, 2018
Elder001:


If lesbianism is understandable then gay is also understandable..

Young man be wise.

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Re: How To Identify Lesbian Ladies In Nigeria! by Audray(f): 10:54pm On Jun 02, 2018
This one sounds like he's been ignored or snubbed by some girl he's into. His #RantMode is activated. Grow balls and do something to alleviate the shîtty situation your beloved "morality based country" is swaddled up in rather than create an utterly useless "how to ID lesbians" thread on NL. Now that you've put this "guide" up here , what next?...

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Re: How To Identify Lesbian Ladies In Nigeria! by Nobody: 10:54pm On Jun 02, 2018
hahaha grin the ? What it matter

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Re: How To Identify Lesbian Ladies In Nigeria! by anigold(m): 10:55pm On Jun 02, 2018
smeag0l:
Hi All,

It took me a lot of cogitation before I could make this post. I also had to post this because I have seen a lot of comments from people encouraging the abominable act of lesbianism on nairaland (especially guys) that I begin to wonder where this generation of youths are headed.

First and foremost, going by the bible and quran, lesbianism is an abomination. I will give references from the bible because I am a Christian.The following verses of the bible:Leviticus 18:22, 20:13, Romans 1:24-28, I Corinthians 6:9-11, Jude1:7, I Timothy 1:10, I Kings 14:24, 15:12 all attest to the fact that homosexuality ,of which lesbianism is a subset, is evil.

However, the queer ones on the forum will always have a counter argument of fornication being also a sin to back up their nefarious way of life but this is not the crux of why I opened this thread so I will not dwell on the religious angle any further-I have an expose on this which I'll reserve for another day.

Secondly and the most important reason why I decided to open this thread is to warn guys(including the ones that have continually advocated for queer girls here on nairaland) on the disastrous impact of marrying a lesbian and how to identify if your girl is one whilst you're courting

Let me start by saying this. Most Nigerian girls living in Nigeria that claim to be bisexuals are, in fact, lesbians. They only claim bisexuality so as to be able to get a ring on the third finger of their left hand and answer a Mrs whilst they covertly continue their abominable acts.

They know that the African culture expects that they should get married at some point in their lives and their parents and relatives will keep putting pressure on them to do so.

Therefore, they just hook up with a guy, get married and make babies and then eventually make the guy's life miserable by continually denying him of sex and gallivanting around the country with their lesbian friends before filing for divorce most times on two grounds- sexual satisfaction and irreconcilable differences. I have seen this happen to three different guys and in the end, the guys ended up being disillusioned and poorer than when they met those girls. The sad part is that the ladies don't even get to check on their children as they are seen more in the company of their female friends in public places.

Guys, beware! Lesbianism is demonic and no matter how long your manhood is or how good you are in bed, you can't satisfy a lesbian as the kind of orgasm they have while making out with their female counterpart is longer and more frequent and also doesn't occur due to penetration. I had to say this because I have , over time, seen some useless comments from guys here saying that the girl has not seen a great manhood or a guy with great sexual prowess that's why she is still a lesbian. This is entirely false as lesbians are so addicted to their same sex partners and to the act that mere penetration from a man cannot give them orgasm.

Therefore, will all that have been said, guys here are signs that the girl you are dating is a lesbian(These may not be correct sometimes but they are very key leads to attest to this fact).

1. She admires only ladies on social media and you would occasionally see some comments from her on social media telling another girl "I love you" even when the girl is just an acquaintance who is not close to her.

2. She wears an anklet on THE RIGHT LEG or a colourful ring on their RIGHT FOREFINGER. I had to make the right leg emboldened because this is their insignia. I've seen about ten lesbian ladies wearing this and even spoke to one who also affirmed it.

3. If she is the butch lesbian(the male partner) she will most likely have a short hair, wear very light make up most times or even no make up and have short fingers(Because they use their fingers to pleasure their femme counterpart). Some of the butch ones also look like tomboys

4. Whenever she is intimate with her guy, they enjoy cunnilingus and fingering far more than penetration as this is the only way she can achieve orgasm most times.

5. On special occasions like her birthday or her boyfriend's birthday, she will indulge him with wild sexual orgies like anal sex or party (with the involvement of their other lesbian partner). Some of them even prefer anal to vaginal penetration.

6. You will always find lesbian porn on her phone or cached webpage history.

7. If she's the butch lesbian, she will dislike things like cooking, going to the market and laundry.

8. She's always an advocate of female rights and will pick a quarrel with you whenever you antagonize a female.

9. She prefers evening hang outs with a large company of girlfriend more than she enjoys it with you as her boyfriend.

10. She starts denying you sex immediately after marriage. This usually starts subtly and unnoticed until your sex life with your wife eventually becomes once in a month.

11. She has a vibrator and she doesn't orgasm from sex with you until she uses the vibrator. I agree some women are like this but if after a long time, you can't make your girlfriend orgasm except with the aid of a vibrator(or through cunnilingus or fingering) please suspect her.

12. If she is the femme, she has a very close friend she stays with or hangs around with/cannot do without and who has the characteristics listed in Number 3 above.


You can add yours as I leave the list for now. Please guys, be wise in choosing a partner. Do not destroy your life on the altars of beauty and physical appearance a most of these evil ladies are usually beautiful!

chai my babe get vibrator bigger than my arm tongue
Re: How To Identify Lesbian Ladies In Nigeria! by godofuck231: 10:55pm On Jun 02, 2018
smeag0l:
How is it understandable?I pity you! Had it been you have a friend that has been devastated by a lesbian wife he married , you won't be saying this. What could be more heartless than a lady marrying a guy just to answer Mrs and then getting sexual satisfaction elsewhere(the type you may not be able to offer her)?and then when she thinks she has sucked you dry or can't keep up with moving from your house to see her lesbian partner most times, she files for divorce. Isn't that witchcraft?why can't they just stay on their own and bear the pressure society and family puts on them to marry instead of looking for men who's lives they'll eventually destroy?
He has said a lot, by nature and psychology women are attracted to each other, men? We fight our selves

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Re: How To Identify Lesbian Ladies In Nigeria! by Kimcutie: 10:56pm On Jun 02, 2018
blowjohn:


U mean like scares u or puts u off? �
Both.

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