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How Do One Stay In A Relationship For Long Without Losing Interest ? by josfre(m): 1:52am On Jun 06, 2018
I have always had issues maintaining long relationship. At first I found nothing wrong with it, just follow the relationship till my partner start losing interest to me or the desire to continue just wears off, then I silently moonwalk out of the relationship without tantrums or breakup drama (so cliche of naija girls sometimes).This also leaves room for rebounds should I start to catch feelings for the bebe again...

now the issue is, when I was serious to try out a long ride which lasted just one year by the way (and was riddle with countless break ups and make ups and enough Nollywood drama) I still couldn't keep up... just had to let go just to breath fresh air abeg.

so my question goes to does last in long relationship...abeg how do you guys handle the dramas and still stick together?
Re: How Do One Stay In A Relationship For Long Without Losing Interest ? by ubunja(m): 2:51am On Jun 06, 2018
just impregnate them. they'll stick around for longer.
Re: How Do One Stay In A Relationship For Long Without Losing Interest ? by QueenSuccubus(f): 2:55am On Jun 06, 2018
grin


I hate drama in a relationship.. If sh!t don't work, then there's no point to continue despite of all adjustments sha grin

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Re: How Do One Stay In A Relationship For Long Without Losing Interest ? by Nobody: 3:28am On Jun 06, 2018
Three simple but difficult steps
# let go of ur egos
# endure most of her shortcomings ( I say most because not everything can be tolerated)
# enjoyed ur relationship

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Re: How Do One Stay In A Relationship For Long Without Losing Interest ? by Martin0(m): 3:31am On Jun 06, 2018
QueenSuccubus:
grin


I hate drama in a relationship.. If sh!t don't work, then there's no point to continue despite of all adjustments sha grin

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oh really, hmmmm
Re: How Do One Stay In A Relationship For Long Without Losing Interest ? by Twoclans(f): 3:33am On Jun 06, 2018
Martin0:
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oh really, hmmmm

Go and sleep, you too like woman tongue
Re: How Do One Stay In A Relationship For Long Without Losing Interest ? by Martin0(m): 3:38am On Jun 06, 2018
Twoclans:


Go and sleep, you too like woman tongue
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well I never finish with my search ,am trying to finish up with something, will be done in the next few minutes, nne please give ur ur whatsapp info ,for the 3rd time asking
Re: How Do One Stay In A Relationship For Long Without Losing Interest ? by Twoclans(f): 3:41am On Jun 06, 2018
Martin0:
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well I never finish with my search ,am trying to finish up with something, will be done in the next few minutes, nne please give ur ur whatsapp info ,for the 3rd time asking

Marty baby you know how to get this from me why are you asking online tongue
Re: How Do One Stay In A Relationship For Long Without Losing Interest ? by Martin0(m): 3:44am On Jun 06, 2018
Twoclans:


Marty baby you know how to get this from me why are you asking online tongue
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.oh sorry, I did see it just the way you do, well I will go the way you demand
Re: How Do One Stay In A Relationship For Long Without Losing Interest ? by Martin0(m): 4:12am On Jun 06, 2018
Twoclans:

Go and sleep, you too like woman tongue
.sent you a mail
Re: How Do One Stay In A Relationship For Long Without Losing Interest ? by QueenSuccubus(f): 4:45am On Jun 06, 2018
Martin0:
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oh really, hmmmm

grin chaaaii .. U don't sleep abi?
Re: How Do One Stay In A Relationship For Long Without Losing Interest ? by hector1046(m): 4:51am On Jun 06, 2018
Longevity of relationship... my weakness.



The longest I have gone is 4years with breakups n makeups

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Re: How Do One Stay In A Relationship For Long Without Losing Interest ? by josfre(m): 7:36am On Jun 06, 2018
hector1046:
Longevity of relationship... my weakness.



The longest I have gone is 4years with breakups n makeups
hector1046:
Longevity of relationship... my weakness.

My bro four years.....? Your literally yous to it..... But are you enjoying or ur just used to her

The longest I have gone is 4years with breakups n makeups
hector1046:
Longevity of relationship... my weakness.



The longest I have gone is 4years with breakups n makeups
Re: How Do One Stay In A Relationship For Long Without Losing Interest ? by Martin0(m): 9:24am On Jun 06, 2018
QueenSuccubus:

grin chaaaii .. U don't sleep abi?
.u know everything nagrin
Re: How Do One Stay In A Relationship For Long Without Losing Interest ? by hector1046(m): 12:16pm On Jun 06, 2018
josfre:
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I can't really say how it's happening, we fought we depart for a while, the next time we saw eachother, we start all over again
Re: How Do One Stay In A Relationship For Long Without Losing Interest ? by Saff(f): 12:28pm On Jun 06, 2018
Read the 48 laws of power. You don’t have any power in your relationship, that’s why they keep on dumping you and moving on.
Re: How Do One Stay In A Relationship For Long Without Losing Interest ? by josfre(m): 12:29pm On Jun 06, 2018
Same circle that i experienced but i just had to accept the truth that the relationship wont be fruitful.
Re: How Do One Stay In A Relationship For Long Without Losing Interest ? by josfre(m): 12:35pm On Jun 06, 2018
Lol....nope thats a wrong way to veiw it.

in a bid to have sovreignity or POWER in your relationship you lose focus that its a game of partner and not servertude. We should mutually like each other and not one person dictating the tempo of the relationship.
Re: How Do One Stay In A Relationship For Long Without Losing Interest ? by Saff(f): 12:39pm On Jun 06, 2018
josfre:
Lol....nope thats a wrong way to veiw it.

in a bid to have sovreignity or POWER in your relationship you lose focus that its a game of partner and not servertude. We should mutually like each other and not one person dictating the tempo of the relationship.
Read the book and come back to tell me this. It’s not physical power, more mental. Each to their own.
Re: How Do One Stay In A Relationship For Long Without Losing Interest ? by Rayma(f): 12:51pm On Jun 06, 2018
Martin0:
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oh really, hmmmm
Where have you been shocked shocked
Re: How Do One Stay In A Relationship For Long Without Losing Interest ? by Martin0(m): 4:20pm On Jun 06, 2018
Rayma:
Where have you been shocked shocked

oh my darling, it been a long time, oh my God look at you, have been around sha, how u doing
Re: How Do One Stay In A Relationship For Long Without Losing Interest ? by josfre(m): 5:21pm On Jun 06, 2018
Saff:
Read the book and come back to tell me this. It’s not physical power, more mental. Each to their own.
so its mental power i have to use to succeed in a long term relationship ba? Nice...thanks
Re: How Do One Stay In A Relationship For Long Without Losing Interest ? by Nobody: 5:44pm On Jun 06, 2018
Communication is the key to a successful relationship.
Re: How Do One Stay In A Relationship For Long Without Losing Interest ? by josfre(m): 8:56pm On Jun 06, 2018
Colourich:
Communication is the key to a successful relationship.
thanks
Re: How Do One Stay In A Relationship For Long Without Losing Interest ? by Crownwahley(m): 11:55pm On Jun 06, 2018
Too much of sex makes one get tired of relationship.
Once you and your partner engaged in sexual activities most all the time, you lose feelings and you will get tired of the relationship.
Re: How Do One Stay In A Relationship For Long Without Losing Interest ? by Kobicove(m): 3:55am On Jun 07, 2018
Try to keep excitement in the relationship smiley
Re: How Do One Stay In A Relationship For Long Without Losing Interest ? by josfre(m): 7:32am On Jun 07, 2018
Crownwahley:
Too much of sex makes one get tired of relationship.
Once you and your partner engaged in sexual activities most all the time, you lose feelings and you will get tired of the relationship.
how do you revamp that sweet excitement you once felt at the beginning again?
Re: How Do One Stay In A Relationship For Long Without Losing Interest ? by josfre(m): 8:09am On Jun 07, 2018
Kobicove:
Try to keep excitement in the relationship smiley
like what and what can be done to keep the excitement...cos the only time we ever get excited and very loving is wen we recover from a quarrel, and thats a bad means of seeking for excitement.
Re: How Do One Stay In A Relationship For Long Without Losing Interest ? by Crownwahley(m): 8:29am On Jun 07, 2018
josfre:
how do you revamp that sweet excitement you once felt at the beginning again?

You create distance, a way to miss your partner.
If you do see her 3times a week before, reduce it to once a week.

From there the feelings will start coming back.
Distance is part of relationship and very very important especially when two partners can't stop having sex whenever they see each other, so creating a distance will make you miss her and once you started missing someone, the feeling starts growing back
Re: How Do One Stay In A Relationship For Long Without Losing Interest ? by GuntersChain(m): 11:30am On Jun 07, 2018
trust and communication are the foundation of a relationship. also if she loves you more the better for the relationship but if it is the other way round the story go get k-leg.
Re: How Do One Stay In A Relationship For Long Without Losing Interest ? by SouthAfricanMam: 9:01am On Jun 13, 2018
What if you stop having sex?

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