correctbae:
Social media evangelist and entrepreneur, Wale Aladejana decided to shake a relationship table. He took to his instagram page to point out how some men have missed their destiny helpers in Wife as they prefer to select their spouse base on the ability of being able to clean and cook very well, missing out on other virtues which in essence could have helped his destiny.

He said the virtues of cleaning and a good cook is no longer applicable in today's world. He used himself as an example, he said his wife is the General manager of his perfume company, she handles virtually most of the projects and in that way she is helping his destiny.

His full post:

#RelationshipSaturday
I am shaking a cultural table this morning and it has to do with certain criteria we have been taught to look out for in a woman.
For instance, one of the criteria of a good wife should be that she can cook and clean but looking at the world we live in today that's no longer applicable.
My wife is the General Manager for Sapphire Scents and she's brilliant at what she does. All I usually do is hand her the keys of a new project then I just check on what they do and things run better than I could have done it. She is helping my destiny in a way nobody can.
Imagine if all the attributes I saw in her was cooking and cleaning?! I have heard many men say " I can't eat unless it's my wife that cooks it" that is total, arrant nonsense!
If she can do it all good and well but its not a do or die affair, get a cook and a maid for your wife so she can eat when you eat. The truth is that not all women enjoying cooking but they just try their best because culture has said " a good woman must know how to cook"

Many men could have been wealthier today but they made their wife who would have been the chief strategist or accountant of their business a cook and a house help!
When God said He would give you a helper, He didn't mean a cook or a house help, He meant a destiny helper!
Please don't get me wrong if your wife loves to cook and clean that's great but don't make it the criteria for judging and deciding who she is, these are things that others can do better, find out the area of your life that woman has been assigned to help you and place her in that role!
I know many men are on this table but as I shake it may you vibrate with common sense in Jesus name.
You too can be a social media evangelist. Please share so that others can be blessed as you have been blessed.

#YearofTheNew #BillionNairaMark #JesusDidIt #ThankYouJesus

Source: https://correct.com.ng/dont-select-wife-base-on-she-cleans-and-cook-well-look-out-for-other-criteria-that-will-help-your-destiny-many-men-have-missed-their-destiny-helper-social-media-evangelist-walejana-says/

Xtianart:
Behind every successful man, there's a woman....bla bla bla (the woman making him good food?). Being a good cook determines a wife material? Virtually all successful chefs in the world are men. Women aren't born with the cooking gene.

If all Michelle Obama had to offer her husband is sex and good food, I don't think Obama would have made it. If you want to argue this, go and get your facts straight first.

As a wife, if all you can do is be the commander in chief at the kitchen and waiting on the bed to be screwed all night, it's a shame.

What the post is saying is getting a woman that will add value to your life. You might have lots of money and still be poor. A man's wealth isn't measured by what he has but who he is.

chairman00100:
and what will a woman look for?

Idrismusty97:
A destiny helper is a good cook.

MarieSucre:


Wonderful. So can you cook? I'm looking for a husband.

chairman00100:
and what will a woman look for?

Ishilove:
Preach...

oyb:


He said destiny helper not hair maintenance fraudster

Now go the kitchen and make me a sandwich.

correctbae:
Social media evangelist and entrepreneur, Wale Aladejana decided to shake a relationship table. He took to his instagram page to point out how some men have missed their destiny helpers in Wife as they prefer to select their spouse base on the ability of being able to clean and cook very well, missing out on other virtues which in essence could have helped his destiny.




You HAVE SAID IT ALL..... YOUR DESTINY HELPER! JUST LIKE THE WAY HE DID IT FOR ME BEFORE I SECURED A JOB LESS THAN 5MONTHS AGO.... I KNOW HE WILL EQUALLY DO IT FOR ME IN THE AREA OF MY BETTER-HALF~DESTINY HELPER-, IN JESUS NAME. AMEN


I am shaking a cultural table this morning and it has to do with certain criteria we have been taught to look out for in a woman.
For instance, one of the criteria of a good wife should be that she can cook and clean but looking at the world we live in today that's no longer applicable.
My wife is the General Manager for Sapphire Scents and she's brilliant at what she does. All I usually do is hand her the keys of a new project then I just check on what they do and things run better than I could have done it. She is helping my destiny in a way nobody can.
Imagine if all the attributes I saw in her was cooking and cleaning?! I have heard many men say " I can't eat unless it's my wife that cooks it" that is total, arrant nonsense!
If she can do it all good and well but its not a do or die affair, get a cook and a maid for your wife so she can eat when you eat. The truth is that not all women enjoying cooking but they just try their best because culture has said " a good woman must know how to cook"

Many men could have been wealthier today but they made their wife who would have been the chief strategist or accountant of their business a cook and a house help!
When God said He would give you a helper, He didn't mean a cook or a house help, He meant a destiny helper!
Please don't get me wrong if your wife loves to cook and clean that's great but don't make it the criteria for judging and deciding who she is, these are things that others can do better, find out the area of your life that woman has been assigned to help you and place her in that role!
I know many men are on this table but as I shake it may you vibrate with common sense in Jesus name.
You too can be a social media evangelist. Please share so that others can be blessed as you have been blessed.

#YearofTheNew #BillionNairaMark #JesusDidIt #ThankYouJesus

Source: https://correct.com.ng/dont-select-wife-base-on-she-cleans-and-cook-well-look-out-for-other-criteria-that-will-help-your-destiny-many-men-have-missed-their-destiny-helper-social-media-evangelist-walejana-says/

Idrismusty97:
It's you again being sarcastic and feminist as usual. If you wanna marry me i don't mind tho, But make sure you are a good cook and invariably a destiny helper .

rubyjan:
This man has just exposed his wife. She can neither cook a good meal nor keep a house all in the name of being a working class lady. Such a shame and he is even bragging about it.
There are women out there who cooks, clean and still help out financially as much as they can.
Hiring a maid and a cook shouldn't be every man priority.
Anyway common sense is not common.

MarieSucre:

Nope I need a husband who can cook and clean. O am not going to marry a grown-ass baby.

I intend to have a career and I also don't intend to grow old quick because of juggling house and work duties.

So how many yards is your husband material? How good of a cook are you? How can you help my destiny and career grow as a husband? Will you be a stress to my life?

Idrismusty97:
Lol we know your type. All these are just initial gra gra. The ones i am pitying are the women that will take your words serious. BTW Linda Ikeji your mentor is leaving to her Husband's/Lovers house after all the feminist/celibates talk.

MarieSucre:


And so? Is Linda Ikeji our God? What kind of silly logic is this? So if Joro Olumofin decides to pound yam for his wife for one month then all nairaland guys must do the same? If Jim Iyke decides to wash cloth for his baby-mama then all nairaland guys must do the same? What is my personal business with what Linda does?

I have said my own, this is what I want, if you're a lazy, smelling man that can't cook or clean but rather raise leg and be watching Super Sport from morning till night then stay out of my f**king life.
I will not get old because I'm taking care of small children and an adult child too.

Idrismusty97:
OK o. Like i said we know your type.

MarieSucre:
I know your type too. We all know the kind if girl you will marry. The kind that will pretend for you and show you correct pepper down the line. Waiting for you to post your lamentation story on nairaland.

chairman00100:
and what will a woman look for?

MarieSucre:


And so? Is Linda Ikeji our God? What kind of silly logic is this? So if Joro Olumofin decides to pound yam for his wife for one month then all nairaland guys must do the same? If Jim Iyke decides to wash cloth for his baby-mama then all nairaland guys must do the same? What is my personal business with what Linda does?

I have said my own, this is what I want, if you're a lazy, smelling man that can't cook or clean but rather raise leg and be watching Super Sport from morning till night then stay out of my f**king life.
I will not get old because I'm taking care of small children and an adult child too.

lefulefu:
na waoh..have u really seen a man watching super sports from morning till night? Na wetin he go dey watch inside? Na mostly in the evenings guys dey view super sports especially if an important match is going on. Like me i watch some of the european league matches but for someone to sit on his butt viweing super sports from morning till night..dat aint possible except d man is bedridden or butt ridden. Its only dis upcoming worldcup i am going to really watch cos i no dey joke with world cup.

Nike99:

A destiny helper too. Both men and women should look for partners that will add value to their lives and help in achieving their goals.

ogakizito:
I thought they said the right phrase is "destined helper" well, ok

lereinter:


i think u are too shallow to understand...

rosalieene:
awww
so inspiring

Uglymugg:
How is your teeth so white? how did you do that?

rosalieene:


its natural

mrex911:
Destiny helper ke? is ur wife a destiny helper. Ur wife is suppose to be ur help meet and nt a destimy helper.