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Re: Women Cannot Handle Rejection At All: My Experience by khalhokage(m): 4:31pm On Jun 13, 2018
Uglymugg:
Don't confuse strength for being a white knight. The power to quit relationships doesn't rest with women alone. It's funny how you're bitching, trying to side with the woman when the relationship was just 2 months. What about girls that cheat, Bleep and dumb their guys of 5,10,15 years up? It's okay when they do it, yeah?

It's not ok,quit it with the straw man.

Whether it's a man or woman that did it, it's very wrong, you don't toy with people's emotions like that.

Plus the only reason he created this thread is to low-key brag about changing girls every two months.

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Re: Women Cannot Handle Rejection At All: My Experience by passionate87(m): 4:32pm On Jun 13, 2018
Lol,if na gals reject guy now.they go say the guy na cry baby but guy don reject gal,na insults upon insults end am.
funny enough that girl in question might have rejected and dump others guy,she met her waterloo and she couldn't believe her eyes.
she wanna raise tantrum and play the victims card.

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Re: Women Cannot Handle Rejection At All: My Experience by bammo: 4:34pm On Jun 13, 2018
Biglittlelois:
The sweet thing that will happen to this ego filled proud guy is that he will meet a lady he will love soo much, but she will dump him after 2 weeks and then he will cry like a baby, unfortunately he wont post it here for us to know that fact.
guys always look forward to such incidents ... besides 2 week relationship isn't enough 2 make a guy cry

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Re: Women Cannot Handle Rejection At All: My Experience by MissJoy29(f): 4:40pm On Jun 13, 2018
SexyDenzel:

Women don't know how to handle rejection and that's a FACT.
That's why they can never ask you for something directly, for example if a girl wants you to take her to some place she will first ask ;
Are you going somewhere or will you be busy by so time/day? before the hit you with the real question they want.
which is, I want you to escort me or take or whatever to so so place. She wants to ensure you won't reject her offer that's why she asked the first question.

If women can handle rejection, they will be asking questions straight up instead follow up questions or request before their original question.

If they didn't ask what you will be doing by then, they stand the risk of getting a NO (rejection) and they can't handle it.
I don't know about other women but this is me. Reason why I find it extremely difficult to ask people(guys especially) for anything.

And I detest that part of me.

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Re: Women Cannot Handle Rejection At All: My Experience by born2loveee(f): 4:41pm On Jun 13, 2018
@op after spewing this trash I hope you get awarded and hopefully add to your list of collections. I know for a fact that this is your first time turning down a lady and hence you feel untop of the world.. I can only imagine the countless rejection you've encountered...better receive sense now before it's too late. you neva jam
Re: Women Cannot Handle Rejection At All: My Experience by drnoel: 4:43pm On Jun 13, 2018
daviesblaze:
I recently ended a thing with a lady and damn she didn’t take it well.

She was annoying, but I told her I was simply too busy with work and other things and she was pushing for something more serious.Truth was, i easily grow bored whenever a relationship stretches for more than a month

After I told her I had no intention of getting serious, out came the shaming tactics “You’re not a real man are you” “You’re just a fuckboy” “Don't let your look deceive you. you can't get anyone better than me” “Maybe I should send a guy friend to Bleep you up” “You wasted 2 months of my life” "you took advantage of me because i was vulnerable"

Now the whole time she’s saying all this, I kept thinking of the phrase women use to shame and shut down men who get aggressive over being rejected, “you’re not entitled to anybody’s love or affection”

So I decided to use it. I said “you’re not entitled to anyone’s love or affection” And she hit the roof telling me, “I can Bleep any guy I want, I can have a new guy every day if I wanted”

I gotta admit, it felt pretty damn good to use that on a chick.

Well sweetheart, why are you wasting time arguing with me? Go do that then!!

Typical woman. Feels entitled to my time but if I was being billy beta and getting Aggro about her not committing I’d get told I’m not entitled to her love and affection

Well u asked for it kid. So enjoy what u get outa it
Re: Women Cannot Handle Rejection At All: My Experience by akiOYIBO: 4:43pm On Jun 13, 2018
Preshy561:
You are sure under 20. what an immature post from an unserious fellow.undecided
your name is seriousness I see

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Re: Women Cannot Handle Rejection At All: My Experience by Uglymugg: 4:44pm On Jun 13, 2018
khalhokage:


It's not ok,quit it with the straw man.

Whether it's a man or woman that did it, it's very wrong, you don't toy with people's emotions like that.

Plus the only reason he created this thread is to low-key brag about changing girls every two months.
A straw man? Imagine throwing around words that you don't even understand grin grin grin grin I'm not even going to bother with you. YOur white-knighting game is on another level.

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Re: Women Cannot Handle Rejection At All: My Experience by enyi1: 4:46pm On Jun 13, 2018
MissJoy29:

I don't know about other women but this is me. Reason why I find it extremely difficult to ask people(guys especially) for anything.

And I detest that part of me.
you are not alone. all the females hurting and cursing are in similar boat.

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Re: Women Cannot Handle Rejection At All: My Experience by akiOYIBO: 4:47pm On Jun 13, 2018
Biglittlelois:
The sweet thing that will happen to this ego filled proud guy is that he will meet a lady he will love soo much, but she will dump him after 2 weeks and then he will cry like a baby, unfortunately he wont post it here for us to know that fact.
Fortunately, we enjoy seeing you sad at the moment.

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Re: Women Cannot Handle Rejection At All: My Experience by khalhokage(m): 4:49pm On Jun 13, 2018
Uglymugg:
A straw man? Imagine throwing around words that you don't even understand grin grin grin grin I'm not even going to bother with you. YOur white-knighting game is on another level.

"A straw man is a common form of argument and is an
informal fallacy based on giving the impression of refuting an opponent's argument, while actually refuting an argument that was not presented by that opponent."

At least now you know what a straw man is.

And "you're not going to bother with me" because you have no argument to and just want a reason to bash women, so slink away with your tail between your legs.
Re: Women Cannot Handle Rejection At All: My Experience by akiOYIBO: 4:50pm On Jun 13, 2018
AdaAde:
That is what happens when your relationship revolves round sex
When it does not revolve around sex u will be the first to label the man as uninteresting and "no more fun".

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Re: Women Cannot Handle Rejection At All: My Experience by akiOYIBO: 4:51pm On Jun 13, 2018
ElsonMorali:


Feeling cool with yourself, right?

Now imagine this happened to your sister or daughter, what would be your reaction?
The reverse will always be the case for u.

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Re: Women Cannot Handle Rejection At All: My Experience by MissJoy29(f): 4:52pm On Jun 13, 2018
enyi1:

you are not alone. all the females hurting and cursing are in similar boat.
Lol....ok o.
Re: Women Cannot Handle Rejection At All: My Experience by JhyMedex: 4:52pm On Jun 13, 2018
Respect55:
Do u mind if we talk privately
Nah..dnt mind..
Re: Women Cannot Handle Rejection At All: My Experience by ElsonMorali: 4:54pm On Jun 13, 2018
akiOYIBO:

The reverse will always be the case for u.

Meaning?
Re: Women Cannot Handle Rejection At All: My Experience by akiOYIBO: 4:54pm On Jun 13, 2018
khalhokage:
Stupidity.

There's a difference between rejecting someone wooing you and breaking up with someone you been in a relationship and having sex with for two months.

OP I pray you eventually get sense before you get old, because what you posted here is trash, we all know that women can't take rejection.

If you know you're not ready for a serious relationship then why don't you stick to one night stands and friends with benefits instead of toying with people's emotions.
This is d kinda thing you hear from unexperienced guys. Dont worry if u no know u go soon know

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Re: Women Cannot Handle Rejection At All: My Experience by akiOYIBO: 4:56pm On Jun 13, 2018
khalhokage:


It has already happened that's why he's acting like a child.
The funny thing is that it will happen again.
I dont know for him but for me, never. Whether love or no love one thing is sure-no commitment!

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Re: Women Cannot Handle Rejection At All: My Experience by Nobody: 4:56pm On Jun 13, 2018
daviesblaze:
I recently ended a thing with a lady and damn she didn’t take it well.

She was annoying, but I told her I was simply too busy with work and other things and she was pushing for something more serious.Truth was, i easily grow bored whenever a relationship stretches for more than a month

After I told her I had no intention of getting serious, out came the shaming tactics “You’re not a real man are you” “You’re just a fuckboy” “Don't let your look deceive you. you can't get anyone better than me” “Maybe I should send a guy friend to Bleep you up” “You wasted 2 months of my life” "you took advantage of me because i was vulnerable"

Now the whole time she’s saying all this, I kept thinking of the phrase women use to shame and shut down men who get aggressive over being rejected, “you’re not entitled to anybody’s love or affection”

So I decided to use it. I said “you’re not entitled to anyone’s love or affection” And she hit the roof telling me, “I can Bleep any guy I want, I can have a new guy every day if I wanted”

I gotta admit, it felt pretty damn good to use that on a chick.

Well sweetheart, why are you wasting time arguing with me? Go do that then!!

Typical woman. Feels entitled to my time but if I was being billy beta and getting Aggro about her not committing I’d get told I’m not entitled to her love and affection



Yen yen yen

Gibberish
Re: Women Cannot Handle Rejection At All: My Experience by khalhokage(m): 4:57pm On Jun 13, 2018
akiOYIBO:

This is d kinda thing you hear from unexperienced guys. Dont worry if u no know u go soon know

Inexperienced what oga? breakup?
Re: Women Cannot Handle Rejection At All: My Experience by Nobody: 4:57pm On Jun 13, 2018
akiOYIBO:

I dont know for him but for me, never. Whether love or no love one thing is sure-no commitment!



Wow.
Re: Women Cannot Handle Rejection At All: My Experience by drnoel: 4:59pm On Jun 13, 2018
Preshy561:
You are sure under 20.
what an immature post from an unserious fellow.undecided

Ya very immature but the statement that women don't handle rejection is true on all counts

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Re: Women Cannot Handle Rejection At All: My Experience by akiOYIBO: 4:59pm On Jun 13, 2018
ElsonMorali:


Meaning?
All those kind-hearted guys that u and ur colleagues ve emotionally destroyed for the bad-nigga ones. Imagine them to be ur brother.

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Re: Women Cannot Handle Rejection At All: My Experience by khalhokage(m): 4:59pm On Jun 13, 2018
akiOYIBO:

I dont know for him but for me, never. Whether love or no love one thing is sure-no commitment!

It's ok, live your life however you want, but hurting people is nothing to be proud of.
Re: Women Cannot Handle Rejection At All: My Experience by Espada10: 5:00pm On Jun 13, 2018
Lol at all the women here tackling the OP...crying more than the bereaved.

No wonder the OP generalised and said women can't handle rejection. .he was damn right and the proof is in the comments.

It is like a chain reaction .

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Re: Women Cannot Handle Rejection At All: My Experience by akiOYIBO: 5:00pm On Jun 13, 2018
khalhokage:


It's ok, live your life however you want, but hurting people is nothing to be proud of.
Noted but the reverse will always be d case for them
Re: Women Cannot Handle Rejection At All: My Experience by daviesblaze(m): 5:01pm On Jun 13, 2018
akiOYIBO:

I dont know for him but for me, never. Whether love or no love one thing is sure-no commitment!
Abeg epp me ask her,

who don break ma heart.

laughing in japan "aigoo" grin grin

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Re: Women Cannot Handle Rejection At All: My Experience by drnoel: 5:02pm On Jun 13, 2018
SexyDenzel:
The thing is that men should learn never to argue with women unless its for fun or to rile them up and make then entertain you with their drama because at the end of the day brothers once you got money you can make her to do what you want the only difference is how much are you putting on the table, how much is your worth once they realize this they shut up and act like a tamed .......... That's a fact, tested and comfirmed, money rules their world and with money you can control them.

This statement is false on all counts. U talk like that cos u still think immature and unprepared to settle down.
Believe me once u are very comfortable and ready to settle down. U will beat another drum and sing another tune
Poverty is the only thing that make men think and speak like u

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Re: Women Cannot Handle Rejection At All: My Experience by Lalas247(f): 5:03pm On Jun 13, 2018
Mariangeles:
Mama de mama... grin
You don veeeeeeeex
It’s the heat grin
Re: Women Cannot Handle Rejection At All: My Experience by daviesblaze(m): 5:04pm On Jun 13, 2018
drnoel:


Ya very immature but the statement that women don't handle rejection is true on all counts

immature in what sense, ogbeni undecided undecided

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Re: Women Cannot Handle Rejection At All: My Experience by Palaceboiz(m): 5:04pm On Jun 13, 2018
IamD18:
And now that's an achievement and a guarantee that your so-called work will make you a millionaire , isn't it?

You sure deserves a high-five with a plastic chair on your face for thinking it's an achievement to dump a lady after wasting her time for two months.


If your work and jobs were your priorities, why start a relationship with her in the first place?
i hv a gal dat i so must luv,but ma work i dnt hv tym 4her,she keep telin me she's missin me,but i dnt kwn wat to do.

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