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My Best Friend Wrongly Accused Me Of Sleeping With His Girlfriend by amstamon: 10:32pm On Jun 23, 2018
I've Been Wrongly Accused By My Very Best Friend And I Don't Know What To Do

I just don't know what to do at the moment, I'm so emotionally down and confused.

A friend who's birthday was today, decided to host us at a bar close by. On getting there, I greeted everyone but noticed he was quiet and moody.

30 mins later, he asked that we should meet outside. next thing I heard was that I was sleeping with her girlfriend. I tried to prove my innocence but it all fell in deaf ears. with anger,I left without telling anyone.

An hour later, he called and was like "someone saw both of us(I and the girlfriend) coming out of my apartment".
I don't know how to prove my innocence and please I really need you guys input on this matter.
I don't know how to make him believe me.
I know my writing is bad, but that's not what matters for now.

Please I seriously need your advice guys.
I swear with my life and father's grave I cannot do such

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Re: My Best Friend Wrongly Accused Me Of Sleeping With His Girlfriend by Nobody: 10:35pm On Jun 23, 2018
Guy , you sound innocent if so move on with your life . Don't let untrusting friend take a chunk out of your life span.

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Re: My Best Friend Wrongly Accused Me Of Sleeping With His Girlfriend by Ufranklin92(m): 10:39pm On Jun 23, 2018
People can goosip ehhh

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Re: My Best Friend Wrongly Accused Me Of Sleeping With His Girlfriend by Katier00(f): 10:42pm On Jun 23, 2018
amstamon:
I just don't know what to do at the moment, I'm so emotionally down and confused.
a friend who's birthday was today, decided to host us at a bar close by. On getting there, I greeted everyone but noticed my best friend was quiet and moody.
30 mins later, he asked that we should meet outside. next thing I heard was that I was sleeping with her girlfriend. I tried to prove my innocence but it all fell in deaf ears. with anger,I left without telling anyone.
An hour later, he called and was like "someone saw both of us(I and the girlfriend) coming out of my apartment".
I don't know how to prove my innocence and please I really need you guys input on this matter.
I don't know how to make him believe me.
I know my writing is bad, but that's not what matters for now.
Please I seriously need your advice guys.
I swear with my life and father's grave I cannot do such
did you sleep with his girlfriend? Did she come to your apartment

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Re: My Best Friend Wrongly Accused Me Of Sleeping With His Girlfriend by Nobody: 10:44pm On Jun 23, 2018
amstamon:
I just don't know what to do at the moment, I'm so emotionally down and confused.
a friend who's birthday was today, decided to host us at a bar close by. On getting there, I greeted everyone but noticed my best friend was quiet and moody.
30 mins later, he asked that we should meet outside. next thing I heard was that I was sleeping with her girlfriend. I tried to prove my innocence but it all fell in deaf ears. with anger,I left without telling anyone.
An hour later, he called and was like "someone saw both of us(I and the girlfriend) coming out of my apartment".
I don't know how to prove my innocence and please I really need you guys input on this matter.
I don't know how to make him believe me.
I know my writing is bad, but that's not what matters for now.
Please I seriously need your advice guys.
I swear with my life and father's grave I cannot do such
tell that to your friend. And friends ain't must in life you know.

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Re: My Best Friend Wrongly Accused Me Of Sleeping With His Girlfriend by Nobody: 10:45pm On Jun 23, 2018
Katier00:
did you sleep with his girlfriend? Did she come to your apartment
Agbejoro.. smh.

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Re: My Best Friend Wrongly Accused Me Of Sleeping With His Girlfriend by pocohantas(f): 10:46pm On Jun 23, 2018
Are you someone he listens to a lot?

I suspect someone is trying to free him from your influence.

If he said you are chyking his babe, she would have been the first suspect. Right now, I will suggest you check your circle of male friends. The Judas is in their midst.

I've not been in talking terms with some of our friends, and I think they're trying to split us cos we kinda close.

This is surprising, I thought guys don't beef and jealous each other shocked

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Re: My Best Friend Wrongly Accused Me Of Sleeping With His Girlfriend by Katier00(f): 10:47pm On Jun 23, 2018
amstamon:
I just don't know what to do at the moment, I'm so emotionally down and confused.
a friend who's birthday was today, decided to host us at a bar close by. On getting there, I greeted everyone but noticed my best friend was quiet and moody.
30 mins later, he asked that we should meet outside. next thing I heard was that I was sleeping with her girlfriend. I tried to prove my innocence but it all fell in deaf ears. with anger,I left without telling anyone.
An hour later, he called and was like "someone saw both of us(I and the girlfriend) coming out of my apartment".
I don't know how to prove my innocence and please I really need you guys input on this matter.
I don't know how to make him believe me.
I know my writing is bad, but that's not what matters for now.
Please I seriously need your advice guys.
I swear with my life and father's grave I cannot do such
trying to prove your innocence means something usual happened but that does not mean you slept with her. So the question is why is your friend accusing just you among all his friends

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Re: My Best Friend Wrongly Accused Me Of Sleeping With His Girlfriend by amstamon: 10:47pm On Jun 23, 2018
Katier00:
did you sleep with his girlfriend? Did she come to your apartment
How could I have done such and still swear with my life? Please I only need your advice and not some questioning

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Re: My Best Friend Wrongly Accused Me Of Sleeping With His Girlfriend by amstamon: 10:49pm On Jun 23, 2018
Katier00:
trying to prove your innocence means something usual happened but that does not mean you slept with her. So the question is why is your friend accusing just you among all his friends
I've e not been in talking terms with some of our friends, and I think they're trying to split us cos we kinda close.

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Re: My Best Friend Wrongly Accused Me Of Sleeping With His Girlfriend by Nobody: 10:59pm On Jun 23, 2018
Has he finished with the girlfriend?

I don't think you should try to convince him because you can't. If he can't take your word then leave him to it.

Do you have proof of where you were on the day in question?

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Re: My Best Friend Wrongly Accused Me Of Sleeping With His Girlfriend by Katier00(f): 11:00pm On Jun 23, 2018
amstamon:

How could I have done such and still swear with my life? Please I only need your advice and not some questioning
and that is what I want to give you but need to be sure first. Swearing with your life doesn't proof ones innocence. I have seen people that does that and they are still living, in fact prospering. My advice is that you should send your friend a text because he won't listen to you on phone. Tell him you didn't do it and please let your no be no and yes be yes. No need to swear for any reason, pour out an emotional plea and tell him not to allow the devil come between you two. If he refuse to listen then move on though this will be very painful and traumatizing for you but just believe that one day the truth shall prevail

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Re: My Best Friend Wrongly Accused Me Of Sleeping With His Girlfriend by Katier00(f): 11:05pm On Jun 23, 2018
amstamon:

I've e not been in talking terms with some of our friends, and I think they're trying to split us cos we kinda close.
that's very unfair. If I ask why you are not talking to them now, you would say I too they ask questions. Just do what makes you happy. Night

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Re: My Best Friend Wrongly Accused Me Of Sleeping With His Girlfriend by Jas1000(m): 11:06pm On Jun 23, 2018
if truly u are innocent & no dey chop 4 im body, face him lyk a man and tell point blank u ar innocent. do not expect a reply nor tender to any request 4 explanation. no tym 4 jonze jst move on with ur lyf

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Re: My Best Friend Wrongly Accused Me Of Sleeping With His Girlfriend by ReneeNuttall(f): 11:13pm On Jun 23, 2018
Op,u sound innocent but then u still have to answer some simple questions as this will clear our hearts of any traces of doubts.

Did she at anytime come to your apartment alone?Where the both of you seen together?perhaps someone might have seen u guys together and run into hasty conclusions.
Perhaps you are the type that relate with people open mindedly and someone is mistaking that for something else....There is nothing as painful as being wrongfully accused.God will help u.

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Re: My Best Friend Wrongly Accused Me Of Sleeping With His Girlfriend by amstamon: 11:24pm On Jun 23, 2018
ReneeNuttall:
Op,u sound innocent but then u still have to answer some simple questions as this will clear our hearts of any traces of doubts.

Did she at anytime come to your apartment alone?Where the both of you seen together?perhaps someone might have seen u guys together and run into hasty conclusions.
Perhaps you are the type that relate with people open mindedly and someone is mistaking that for something else....There is nothing as painful as being wrongfully accused.God will help u.


She has never at anytime come to my apartment alone, my friend had brought her to my apartment more than once, and sometimes I leave my keys for them to have their privacy. Although we all relate very well that sometimes I play with her in presence of my friend, but I still don't know where he's getting his own stories from. I'm just so confused and frustrated

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Re: My Best Friend Wrongly Accused Me Of Sleeping With His Girlfriend by ReneeNuttall(f): 11:33pm On Jun 23, 2018
amstamon:



She has never at anytime come to my apartment alone, my friend had brought her to my apartment more than once, and sometimes I leave my keys for them to have their privacy. Although we all relate very well that sometimes I play with her in presence of my friend, but I still don't know where he's getting his own stories from. I'm just so confused and frustrated

Then do not hesitate to have a one on one confrontation with him.Tell him ur mind,let him see reasons why u will never do such despicable thing.If he's still adamant,Then my dear take a bounce.After all a guilty conscience fears no accusations.I knw its not easy,but then leave it for God.

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Re: My Best Friend Wrongly Accused Me Of Sleeping With His Girlfriend by Nobody: 11:44pm On Jun 23, 2018
Barge into your friend's private time and kinda coerce him into giving you audience. Clear your mind to him and tell him you'll leave him to his decisions. I'm sure this will make him let go of all the current information he has and seek the answers he needs.

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Re: My Best Friend Wrongly Accused Me Of Sleeping With His Girlfriend by Nobody: 11:45pm On Jun 23, 2018
Katier00:
and that is what I want to give you but need to be sure first. Swearing with your life doesn't proof ones innocence. I have seen people that does that and they are still living, in fact prospering. My advice is that you should send your friend a text because he won't listen to you on phone. Tell him you didn't do it and please let your no be no and yes be yes. No need to swear for any reason, pour out an emotional plea and tell him not to allow the devil come between you two. If he refuse to listen then move on though this will be very painful and traumatizing for you but just believe that one day the truth shall prevail
nice advice
Re: My Best Friend Wrongly Accused Me Of Sleeping With His Girlfriend by BOLA9ER(m): 12:06am On Jun 24, 2018
X

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Re: My Best Friend Wrongly Accused Me Of Sleeping With His Girlfriend by vincentjk(m): 1:17am On Jun 24, 2018
BOLA9ER:
I am the friend in question....this is so uncalled for...guy lock up

Attention seeker

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Re: My Best Friend Wrongly Accused Me Of Sleeping With His Girlfriend by Originalsly: 1:45am On Jun 24, 2018
amstamon:



She has never at anytime come to my apartment alone, my friend had brought her to my apartment more than once, and sometimes I leave my keys for them to have their privacy. Although we all relate very well that sometimes I play with her in presence of my friend, but I still don't know where he's getting his own stories from. I'm just so confused and frustrated

From jump...you should've let us know she was never at your apartment alone. You didn't. ..someone asked ...you didn't answer...and was irritated enough to shade the guy. Now you're explaining she was but with him only. You come over as a shady person.... I now believe you did. If you were truly innocent...you wouldn't be up in here....you would've been in your friend's face denying it and demanding to confront his gf and the person who told him. But that's me...keep talking....the truth shall seep out.

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Re: My Best Friend Wrongly Accused Me Of Sleeping With His Girlfriend by dkronicle(m): 2:19am On Jun 24, 2018
Hian and so ?
Re: My Best Friend Wrongly Accused Me Of Sleeping With His Girlfriend by amstamon: 5:53am On Jun 24, 2018
vincentjk:


Attention seeker
That's him

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Re: My Best Friend Wrongly Accused Me Of Sleeping With His Girlfriend by amstamon: 6:03am On Jun 24, 2018
Originalsly:


From jump...you should've let us know she was never at your apartment alone. You didn't. ..someone asked ...you didn't answer...and was irritated enough to shade the guy. Now you're explaining she was but with him only. You come over as a shady person.... I now believe you did. If you were truly innocent...you wouldn't be up in here....you would've been in your friend's face denying it and demanding to confront his gf and the person who told him. But that's me...keep talking....the truth shall seep out.

Dude,I'm not an author to know when and how to place stories from jump , and besides I didn't shade anybody. This is a true happening and not some kinda fabricated stories/writeups to seek relevant attention.
Firstly, there is no way I could have been in his house proving some innocence because it all happened last night and secondly, I think it might be wrong and childish to be proving innocence in front of the girl in question(in my opinion tho).
Anyways thanks for your input. You can believe whatever you want to believe.

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Re: My Best Friend Wrongly Accused Me Of Sleeping With His Girlfriend by Hector09(m): 6:42am On Jun 24, 2018
U dont need to prove anything to any body ,3 yrs ago my mum accused me of stealing her 80k i weeped that day but i ve to move on with my life, thou she later see the money, but our relationship is stain,even the bible is agains false accusation,

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Re: My Best Friend Wrongly Accused Me Of Sleeping With His Girlfriend by vicben27(m): 7:29am On Jun 24, 2018
This are some of the reasons I don't get too close to my friends girl friends.things could be misinterpreted.lf he refuses To accept that you are innocent just move on no be by force to sustain friendship

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Re: My Best Friend Wrongly Accused Me Of Sleeping With His Girlfriend by Nobody: 7:38am On Jun 24, 2018
If he doesn't believe you, move on with your life.

He's planning something brutal than you expected.
Thank your stats your left early.
Re: My Best Friend Wrongly Accused Me Of Sleeping With His Girlfriend by OPTIMUSPRIME08: 7:40am On Jun 24, 2018
Truth can't be hidden for so long, make time to explain to him if he ain't in for your explanation just move on and remain malice free, never try to prove your innocence to anyone unless you need a judge.

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Re: My Best Friend Wrongly Accused Me Of Sleeping With His Girlfriend by vincentjk(m): 7:59am On Jun 24, 2018
Never beg your fellow guy for friendship, since you're innocent just let him be... One day he'll apologize to you bro

But are u afraid he might do something to you?

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Re: My Best Friend Wrongly Accused Me Of Sleeping With His Girlfriend by CAPSLOCKED: 8:16am On Jun 24, 2018
amstamon:
I just don't know what to do at the moment, I'm so emotionally down and confused.
a friend who's birthday was today, decided to host us at a bar close by. On getting there, I greeted everyone but noticed he was quiet and moody.
30 mins later, he asked that we should meet outside. next thing I heard was that I was sleeping with her girlfriend. I tried to prove my innocence but it all fell in deaf ears. with anger,I left without telling anyone.

An hour later, he called and was like "someone saw both of us(I and the girlfriend) coming out of my apartment".

I don't know how to prove my innocence and please I really need you guys input on this matter.
I don't know how to make him believe me.
I know my writing is bad, but that's not what matters for now.
Please I seriously need your advice guys.
I swear with my life and father's grave I cannot do such


WHAT WERE YOU DOING WITH YOUR FRIEND'S GIRLFRIEND IN YOUR APARTMENT... BIBLE STUDY? undecided

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Re: My Best Friend Wrongly Accused Me Of Sleeping With His Girlfriend by Gaspardd(m): 8:22am On Jun 24, 2018
Lol fĂșcking kids

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