Their is this girl around my area I love her so much but she don't usually come outside I used to see her once in a while one day I have the opportunity to see her I told her how much I love her, she smiled, she gave me attention and told me she love me too. But I noticed one thing about her, when ever she is with me she don't talk too much, She will be quiet I will be the one talking to make her feel comfortable.
one day I was working with her to buy something she was so quiet, she saw a guy
who she knows, surprisingly if you see the way she was talking with the guy laughing in fact she was the one bringing up conservation.

I don't know if the problem is from me so I can correct my mistakes.
I just want to know why she is doing like that because I don't understand.

no insult pls!

lucky999:
Their is this girl around my area I love her so much but she don't usually come outside I used to see her once in a while one day I have the opportunity to see her I told her how much I love her, she smiled, she gave me attention and told me she love me too. But I noticed one thing about her, when ever she is with me she don't talk too much, She will be quiet I will be the one talking to make her feel comfortable.
one day I was working with her to buy something she was so quiet, she saw a guy
who she knows, surprisingly if you see the way she was talking with the guy laughing in fact she was the one bringing up conservation.

I don't know if the problem is from me so I can correct my mistakes.
I just want to know why she is doing like that because I don't understand.

no insult pls!

Simple! She is not free with you. Make her feel free with you.

Respect yourself and dump that selfish girl.

1) LOVE without communication, IS not LOVE.
2) LOVE without CHARACTER is childsplay
3) LOVE without purpose is INFATUATION


BRO be wise as young as you are and MOVE on with your life. YOU ARE NOT IN LOVE, you are obsessed and infatuated by her beauty with HORNINESS too.

BE HONEST, you just want to taste and see how good she is, YOU HAVE NO PLANS TO MARRY HER, you barely KNOW HER, so why waste your time.

lucky999:
Their is this girl around my area I love her so much but she don't usually come outside I used to see her once in a while one day I have the opportunity to see her I told her how much I love her, she smiled, she gave me attention and told me she love me too. But I noticed one thing about her, when ever she is with me she don't talk too much, She will be quiet I will be the one talking to make her feel comfortable.
one day I was working with her to buy something she was so quiet, she saw a guy
who she knows, surprisingly if you see the way she was talking with the guy laughing in fact she was the one bringing up conservation.

I don't know if the problem is from me so I can correct my mistakes.
I just want to know why she is doing like that because I don't understand.

no insult pls!

She is still forming for you, and the truth is dat she is hiding something's from you, and avoid asking too much questions, let the talks be about why you are interested in her/ your vision for the relationship from their she must have a vision too, and definitely must have something to say if not, then sorry you might need to dumb her, she might just want to suck cash out of you ass.you are dealing with what you don't understand, if she keeps quiet you would have to dumb her please.

The way u relate to ppl u love is very different compared t d way u relate with other normal ppl

Tomorrow is Monday, so i gotta work hard to give my parents the best treat good night

Dump her and go for another fine babe
This life is too short to waste on thinking of how to impress someone.

Danny110:
The way u relate to ppl u love is very different compared t d way u relate with other normal ppl

can you explain what you mean so I can understand very well pls.

just fucccck the hell outta her body

fuccck her well she will talk!!

Some ladies are observant...she's quiet simply bcoz she's watching every move u make..

And yes it's boring if only one who keep talking. Let her go first so she can be free..if she come back, then that's how u hit the hammer

lucky999:
Their is this girl around my area I love her so much but she don't usually come outside I used to see her once in a while one day I have the opportunity to see her I told her how much I love her, she smiled, she gave me attention and told me she love me too. But I noticed one thing about her, when ever she is with me she don't talk too much, She will be quiet I will be the one talking to make her feel comfortable.
one day I was working with her to buy something she was so quiet, she saw a guy
who she knows, surprisingly if you see the way she was talking with the guy laughing in fact she was the one bringing up conservation.

I don't know if the problem is from me so I can correct my mistakes.
I just want to know why she is doing like that because I don't understand.

no insult pls!

Read this: https://www.nairaland.com/4575391/finally-proposed-love-crush-she#68706346

Thank me later.

She knew the other guy in a static environment that promotes conversation.
Professing love on the street doesn't encourage her to talk much further.
If you have started with plain friendship, you would have been in better stead.
Try to turn your 'I love you' to let's be good friends.

maybe the said dude belongs to the #friendzone or d dude had shagged d bea my 1cent though. p.s : u arent d problem,im just talking out of experience!!!

Bro, that girl loves you

....

It's simple. Bros are you grinding her steady? because that other guy flogging her kpomo regularly that's why she is very free with him. So you better up your game fast before it's too late. You can thank me later.

lucky999:
Their is this girl around my area I love her so much but she don't usually come outside I used to see her once in a while one day I have the opportunity to see her I told her how much I love her, she smiled, she gave me attention and told me she love me too. But I noticed one thing about her, when ever she is with me she don't talk too much, She will be quiet I will be the one talking to make her feel comfortable.
one day I was working with her to buy something she was so quiet, she saw a guy
who she knows, surprisingly if you see the way she was talking with the guy laughing in fact she was the one bringing up conservation.

I don't know if the problem is from me so I can correct my mistakes.
I just want to know why she is doing like that because I don't understand.

no insult pls!

So many relationships will be in trouble if one follows the advice pple give on nairaland.
When you are dating an introvert. You have to understand that attitude and try to make it work. She might have known those guys more than you. With time, she will be free with you. Talk more of things she like and do. Don't follow the advice of those saying you should leave her.

She's not free with you yet that's why she behaves that way, that's how some girls are bro. She's probably young and kinda inexperienced yet

Wait... you love her and she loves you too. Just like that?

Danny110:
The way u relate to ppl u love is very different compared t d way u relate with other normal ppl

I used to love a girl, I was always like an introvert to her, she used to do the talking and will sometimes tease that I did not use to talk to much. And sometimes, when I'll make a regular remark, she will say " Chai! Alex, So you can talk like this eh
But the same period, girls I did not use to love would always see me as an extrovert because I would be so open minded with them after all I had nothing to lose if they thought unacceptable my opinions...or so I thought. I cared less of how they see my personality.

With the girl I loved, i mind myself of what she would think of me and that made me appear an introvert to her.

You have a point.
Exposure has made me to readjust Sha.

OP, she may not yet be free with you, give her time and make her comfortable.
Don't be pushy and don't tell her you wish she had been a talker, it WILL cause her to retract.
You don't even know if she loves you because you talk too much.

I play the way I see the game, I don't try to change the game, otherwise I'll fail the game

All nah love bro, just in different

If you struggle with admission or know someone who is and is feeling down, please watch this and share

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o0GxWy3acNE&t=77s

Obodo999:
Respect yourself and dump that selfish girl.

hw is she selfish??

...how old are you,,and how old is she...maybe she she is respecting your age...she is seeing you as her father.. kids don't talk wen elders are talking....haha.lefulefu con imagine this scenario...

Hehehe... She likes you and when she later get used to you eh.. U will be the one to submit unto talk matta...

You trying to hard bro

It's cute that you're worried about this, lol. You might be a quiet person yourself. If you want her to be free and talkative with you, be free and talkative with her.

Wait a minute ...you just went straight to “I love you and she responded with the same?
Bulls balls
This is relationship of fiction

Kids of nowadays going into relationship, face your book boy.

She is shy in front of you....try to make her free with you


Any single girl/guy here and isnt shy to display....
Go join my whatsapp asap and dm the admin your details and chat as you want....be free be raw be plain

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I think the both of u barely speaks with each other b4 u approached her. Maybe she's an introverted lady, that she doesn't feel free around u does not mean she's got no feelings 4 u. D fact is, u don't know how long she and d other guy have known each other, unlike u who just crossed her heart. It actually doesn't mean that she's attracted to her, buh one thing is certain, i think she's kinda bored around u. Try to know what she likes and want from u. I will advice, u make that guy ur friend so u can see d qualities d guy possesses which she likes. Goodluck

Maybe you have mouth/body odour.... No offence

lucky999:
Their is this girl around my area I love her so much but she don't usually come outside I used to see her once in a while one day I have the opportunity to see her I told her how much I love her, she smiled, she gave me attention and told me she love me too. But I noticed one thing about her, when ever she is with me she don't talk too much, She will be quiet I will be the one talking to make her feel comfortable.
one day I was working with her to buy something she was so quiet, she saw a guy
who she knows, surprisingly if you see the way she was talking with the guy laughing in fact she was the one bringing up conservation.

I don't know if the problem is from me so I can correct my mistakes.
I just want to know why she is doing like that because I don't understand.

no insult pls!