guru03:


Thanks for the opinion, I feel bad when she complaine about that.

Been there thrice, it's never the same after childbirth. You just have to start being the love of her life. Leave for routine you guys keep now and get LIVELY . You can plan am indoor romantic dinner if you've got no family member to look after your kid. Try clubbing as you reflect on the good old curvy days. You're stuck in a routine and you just need to get out of it. It's not her fault but mostly in your head. Tell her to prepare something good for lunch today. You'll be amazed how much improvement with these few steps.

Take these below not one bottle more.

Oyindidi:
You better force yourself to do it before days turn to months and months to years. Not all women can stay without sex

You can't force what is psychological or health related.

If there is any habit you just started that is literally against your sexual activity with your wife, quit it as soon as possible.

If you are undergoing stress or trauma...you need to find a way to curtail it. Sexual urge works with the brain. You need a relaxed mind. Make madam sef dey nake"d for house most of the time na

xynerise:


You can't force what is psychological or health related.

If there is any habit you just started that is literally against your sexual activity with your wife, quit it as soon as possible.

If you are undergoing stress or trauma...you need to find a way to curtail it. Sexual urge works with the brain. You need a relaxed mind. Make madam sef dey nake"d for house most of the time na

I know why I said that my brother. Its his duty to do it.

Oyindidi:
I know why I said that my brother. Its his duty to do it.

I never knew it is a man's duty to initiate sex o

Oyindidi:
I know why I said that my brother. Its his duty to do it.

his duty to do what, force erection? Dont u know dat without a relaxed mind u can't achieve erection

dmg1:
his duty to do what, force erection? Dont u know dat without a relaxed mind u can't achieve erection

He didn't say he was not having erection. He said he lost interest

xynerise:


I never knew it is a man's duty to initiate sex o

He said he is no longer interested in it. Both party can initiate it but he is not interested

Oyindidi:
He said he is no longer interested in it. Both party can initiate it but he is not interested

So the woman should do it then

xynerise:


So the woman should do it then

How's that possible?

With all the aforementioned advises up there, I'd suggest you find a strip club for ladies and watch what happens... If you still lack interest then try male strip clubs. You never know, maybe you are coming out of the closet.

I didn't know men get tired of having sex. This is a new knowledge.

Oyindidi:
How's that possible?

Are you kidding me?

How do girls make men of God fall?

xynerise:


Are you kidding me?

How do girls make men of God fall?

I'm serious, how can a lady ride someone who's not in the mood?

Oyindidi:
I'm serious, how can a lady ride someone who's not in the mood?

Not to that point of riding... chill.

Get him ready for the ride first na

Gestures and other things... There are food that boost libido; Banana, Water melon and the likes. Get it for him

xynerise:


Not to that point of riding... chill.

Get him ready for the ride first na

Gestures and other things... There are food that boost libido; Banana, Water melon and the likes. Get it for him

Lol, this things dey work? Op take banana

Oyindidi:
Lol, this things dey work? Op take banana

It works on me

guru03:

I don't smoke and take hard drugs, watch your language

sorry if i went out of line ,from my experience that is what can make a man lose sexually drive instantly dont be offended .There are many things we consume that reduces sexual drive so try to do a check on things you take on a daily basis

xynerise:

It works on me

Hmmmm... You take them when you're not in the mood or when its not up?

Oyindidi:
Hmmmm... You take them when you're not in the mood or when its not up?

When I want to spend the whole day in it.

xynerise:


When I want to spend the whole day in it.

Oh, I get. So, you take them when you're okay.

Oyindidi:
Oh, I get. So, you take them when you're okay.

I am always OK na

It is just a bonus to my okness

I don't know what to advise you to do.....Maybe you're worried, stressed, or something. You may want to see a Doctor. I really don't know.

Avoid fried stuffs and zobo.
U have low libido

srclark:
STOP TAKING CODEINE

Seriously does he take codeine? Because I know when when one takes it all that person wants to do is to relax and be by himself, also will not be interested in sex because it kills the sexual apetite. I know this because I do take it sometimes but not anymore, its too expensive.

The first sign of crossing over to the “Gay Side”!
You become allergic to TUNA!

dingbang:
Ah ah.. a man to lose interest in having sex?,

When you grow up you will understand better,at times stress and other issues grips you hard and you forget sex.

guru03:
Am happily married with a kid, but of recent I have lost interest in having sex and I know its affecting my wife, and have not cheated on my wife, please I need advice from married couples, no insults please, sincere opinion.

It is normal....sex is overrated....women don't know that men do get tired of having sex with their wife once they get married.

But in most cases, it maybe as a result of financial stress...family/work/business pressure. Sometimes it might be as a result of over familiarity...you now see your wife as your sister; happens to lots of married men but in Nigeria, men pretend about it in order to keep the marriage going....but whitemen will divorce once they experience that.

My brother don't kill yourself about it....relax, with time, the urge may come again....all humans; man or woman must understand that sex can be tiring and boring, especially when u get married with too many responsibilities; mostly money matter.

Olosho don finish this one

post=69033318:
My sincere opinion....


Talk about it with your wife and don't pass blame around. While it is important to share your worries, do so within the context of the relationship rather than asserting how "you" are causing "me" to worry. That is where worry turns to blame.

If your partner is able to pinpoint a problem (such as stress at work or feeling tired all the time), work together to find a solution. You can also seek medical help if needed. Therapy is another good option also.

It is important to remember that solving any relationship problem—whether it be sexual, financial, or emotional—is a process and not an event. Take your time, be patient.
Wishing you all the best as you start taking Madam to cloud 9 once again, lol, don't mind me o!

I never knew you were capable of this level of intelligence

guru03:
Am happily married with a kid, but of recent I have lost interest in having sex and I know its affecting my wife, and have not cheated on my wife, please I need advice from married couples, no insults please, sincere opinion.

And what is the reason because I am sure you have one either financial problem or you are no more interested in the marriage or you are infected or you are in love with somebody else

Unto you I dedicate my cup