I am a Banker in my early 30s and going through a messy divorce. I married my husband as a virgin. I have never been with any man until I was raped.

I didn’t know anything about orgasm, climax or what have you because I have never experienced it before. 8 years of marriage with a miserable sex life. I have two children from my marriage.

It happened that We traveled to my husband’s village during the last Easter period. While in his country home by 1 am in the night our house was raided by a gang of 5 armed robbers. It was a terrifying experience, after collecting all the valuables at home, the leader turned to rape me.



The leader tied my husband to a chair, tore my clothes and went on to show me his manhood that he will use it on me. I was frightened. I begged him and cried but he wouldn’t listen.

It was a rape that cost me my marriage. As the guy was entering me, I was supposed to feel pains but that wasn’t so. I felt a kind of electrifying sensation that I have never felt in my whole life. I screamed oh my God, as he started pounding on me I didn’t know when I was holding him hard and begging him not to stop to the amazement of others, I was enjoying being raped by a criminal.

I was told that I was screaming very hard as he was making love to me. Yes, I had my first orgasm through rape and since then my life hasn’t been the same. The robbers turn on me in which I scream all through.


I don’t know what came over me, maybe it was my village people that manipulated me, but all I can say is that I haven’t had much experience with my husband.

My husband gave me the beatings of my life after they armed robbers left. He called me unprintable names like a prostitute, he said he didn’t know I am an ‘ashawo’ and he can’t have an ‘ashawo’ as a wife.

I was hospitalized for two weeks as a result of that incident and his beatings. My husband left me at the hospital and travelled back to Lagos. I was damaged. How could he do such a thing to me?

What was responsible for me to enjoy being raped?

How could I even enjoy such act of cruelty on my body?

These were questions I kept asking myself. When I got discharged from the hospital, I met a divorce papers waiting for me to sign. I tried begging my husband, involved my parents but he swore instead of staying with me he will rather die. That I am a disgrace to his life.

My husband is a rich guy, so when our divorce news broke out, while I was denying it, he kept telling everyone one that I am a LovePeddler. It took me months to accept my predicament and move on. I am still in the process of healing, still seeing my therapist.

But one thing I know is that I am not what my husband says I am. I am just a woman who was sexually starved. I did not pray to be raped, but it was the turning point of my life.

I just feel like sharing this with you my family because it will help me. Please, don’t judge me, because you don’t know my pains. By January I will be through with the divorce. I just want you all to wish me well in my new life. I pray to find Love in the nearest Future.


1. What could she have done differently?

2. Was it a crime for her to enjoy rape sex like that?

3. Was the husband being fair to her?

4. Was divorce the only way out?

Please, drop your comments below.

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Very creative work of Art.

Have you considered writing scripts for Nollywood ?

have you see one for me

A nice fiction

if that was remotely true....what exactly do you expect from us.... the marriage is over, and that lady should go look for on eof these "gifted" armed robbers to date na!

why didn't she grab a pillow and scream into it, instead of holding on to the rapist begging him not to stop

This is an evil lie and I don't in anyway condole rape.

LivingFree:
why didn't she grab a pillow and scream into it, instead of holding on to the rapist begging him not to stop

This is an evil lie and I don't in anyway condole rape.

Condone, you meant.

Why does dis story sound like a lie

I will love to watch this in Yoruba film, women that should play this character should be Juwon Adewumi,Mercy Aigbe or Ngozi Blessing Sunday

this is a copied fake story

this one you are enjoying everything in this movie don't get pregnant for your landlord or gateman o

I swear she bleeped up and the husband did the right thing and as for me, I Will Never Settle With Such Women.

I swear she bleeped up big time and the husband did the right thing and as for me, I Will Never Settle With Such Women.