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Re: Help. The Vitiligo Spreading On My Lips Is Making Me Suicidal (pics) by ireneidiva(f): 2:38pm On Jul 05, 2018
CriticMaestro:
Okay first u were very ignorant of not seeing a qualified doctor to treat....
Now my advice to you is to go to a hospital immediately to seek for treatment, because this disease has no cure, atleast scientifically I don't know about herbs though, but early diagnosis can be managed and skin loss restored but like I said it can't be totally cured..basically vitiligo is as a result of low melanin in the body, so taking drugs that enhances the reformation of melanin helps a lot....these are three ways of treating such a disease
1. Therapy
2. Surgery
3. Medication

No need to think of suicide, you are well above millions in this country if u come to think of it
Didn't you read where he said he saw dermatologists?

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Re: Help. The Vitiligo Spreading On My Lips Is Making Me Suicidal (pics) by Nobody: 2:38pm On Jul 05, 2018
Japhet04:
I tried using hair dye on it to avoid the questions I receive daily...pls it's really troubling my life.

Lalasticlala
Use makeup. Use foundation

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Re: Help. The Vitiligo Spreading On My Lips Is Making Me Suicidal (pics) by Nobody: 2:40pm On Jul 05, 2018
CChillz:


OP leave your lips and focus on your career. the appearance of your lips won't matter in the long run, don't kill yourself while you are blessed with the chance to live
thank you so much for this
Re: Help. The Vitiligo Spreading On My Lips Is Making Me Suicidal (pics) by Nobody: 2:41pm On Jul 05, 2018
hotspec:
I want to believe u've created a thread about this many times ago, but it hasn't spread like ds then.

Bros, brace up for the future, it has no cure and it keeps spreading. Learn how to live with it, and encourage urself to live with it. with time u will overcome d fear.

pls, don't kill urself bcoz of ds. it's not easy but God will see u tru
thank you.. I appreciate
Re: Help. The Vitiligo Spreading On My Lips Is Making Me Suicidal (pics) by CChillz: 2:41pm On Jul 05, 2018
Japhet04:
but the lips is having a negative psychological impact on my social life...from what I read online it would continue spreading...it is definitely going to affect my legal career. Imagine I am handling a case in court and the judge and jury are busy focusing on my Vitiligo lips... Who would want to employ me with my kind of lips embarassed

OP stress also triggers vitiligo and makes it spread faster and the major stress is mental stress. so you are helping the vitiligo spread fast by worrying about it. You saying the judge and the jury will focus on your lips is disappointing. In a Law court the judge and to jury are expected to listen attentively and make adequate judgement and decisions so you picturing them focusing on your lips is your mind playing you and the more you imagine things like that the more you help the vitiligo spread. so help yourself and do the needful by focusing on your law school

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Re: Help. The Vitiligo Spreading On My Lips Is Making Me Suicidal (pics) by lookingfly: 2:41pm On Jul 05, 2018
jidobaba:

Bros leprosy is a different thing entirely. Don't make the young man feel worse.
pls I don't have time for argument....why don't you search for the video's on YouTube. Vitiligo is said to be the leprosy of ancient period affecting the ancient people in those videos. No body is trying to make him feel he has no hope or give him a reason to commit suicide. In fact, no reason is what committing suicide for on this earth.
Re: Help. The Vitiligo Spreading On My Lips Is Making Me Suicidal (pics) by Nobody: 2:41pm On Jul 05, 2018
I pray God strengthens you.
Please see a psychologist and go through therapy, you might need to be in therapy for a long time because Vitiligo will keep spreading.
Brace yourself for your life's journey, be strong and focus on your life's ambitions because doing these will also give you strength to live with vitiligo.
God bless you.
Japhet04:
cry I noticed the symptoms of Vitiligo on my lips around August last year..At first it was just a small patch but subsequently it began to spread to other parts of my lip and also outside the lower lip.
Please nairalanders help me with any advice that might be helpful to save a brother.

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Re: Help. The Vitiligo Spreading On My Lips Is Making Me Suicidal (pics) by Nobody: 2:42pm On Jul 05, 2018
kingsfire:

You're a hope giver and it's a nice thing to be.
Thanks on his behalf
you are welcome sir. even in times of weakness I know how much words lift me up. it's the least anyone can offer him now

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Re: Help. The Vitiligo Spreading On My Lips Is Making Me Suicidal (pics) by Nobody: 2:43pm On Jul 05, 2018
CriticMaestro:
Okay first u were very ignorant of not seeing a qualified doctor to treat....
Now my advice to you is to go to a hospital immediately to seek for treatment, because this disease has no cure, atleast scientifically I don't know about herbs though, but early diagnosis can be managed and skin loss restored but like I said it can't be totally cured..basically vitiligo is as a result of low melanin in the body, so taking drugs that enhances the reformation of melanin helps a lot....these are three ways of treating such a disease
1. Therapy
2. Surgery
3. Medication

No need to think of suicide, you are well above millions in this country if u come to think of it
thank you I am very grateful for this
Re: Help. The Vitiligo Spreading On My Lips Is Making Me Suicidal (pics) by peacettw: 2:44pm On Jul 05, 2018
OkpaAkuEriEri:
U r not alone
I also want 2 commit suicide
cry
cry
cry

@japhet04.
My dears, only people in our condition will truly understand what it means to have this skin issue.

I went through the same emotional trauma,recognized that I was plunging into depression and tried combating it by joining so many online vitiligo support sites. My family also helped and encouraged me to stop worrying.

It was really tough. All I can say is that the feelings will get better. Give it time.

The following lessons I learnt were these
1. A lot of my confidence was tied to my looks which I tried to correct by building up my confidence level on different factors.

2. Never worry. Worrying worsens the spread. Don't believe me? You can Google it.

3. Do nothing. It might sound counter productive but doing nothing and not applying all manner of things helped in stopping its spread.

4. Learn about the skin condition in its entirety. Be a mini specialist. In a way, it gives you a bit of control.

5. Avoid dangerous steroids. My first reaction was to buy funbact A. I was warned not to apply such high degree of steroids on my skin

6. Learn about the stages of grief. I believe you are going through the different stages now. It will get better.

7. Let people talk. You can go ahead and tell them you have vitiligo. The more you accept this, the better your mental state will be

*Hugs

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Re: Help. The Vitiligo Spreading On My Lips Is Making Me Suicidal (pics) by anibi9674: 2:45pm On Jul 05, 2018
Millenniumlady:
I bet you're one of the individuals the op is talking about......Go get a life
go get a death.
Re: Help. The Vitiligo Spreading On My Lips Is Making Me Suicidal (pics) by Octaves(m): 2:45pm On Jul 05, 2018
for what will you kill yourself. do you owe anybody any explanation? just rock your look like that dey go. when the thing start spreading you may try wearing turtle neck and long sleeves to cover up. with regards to your face, you can research if there are creams to mask the discoloration. but my guy, just rock your look. u are a man, you will even be surprised how curiosity will be leading some girls into your arms on a regular basis �

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Re: Help. The Vitiligo Spreading On My Lips Is Making Me Suicidal (pics) by Benoxvals(m): 2:47pm On Jul 05, 2018
O.P just ignore it and move on with your life..
My mum tried to treat hers with different forms
and formula but to no avail..
I bought her ASCEND(Triamcinolone Acctonide Cream)USP.
It seems to be working...
She uses raw paw paw juice as well.

Re: Help. The Vitiligo Spreading On My Lips Is Making Me Suicidal (pics) by adegeye38(m): 2:50pm On Jul 05, 2018
Japhet04:
cry I noticed the symptoms of Vitiligo on my lips around August last year..At first it was just a small patch but subsequently it began to spread to other parts of my lip and also outside the lower lip.

I get questions everyday asking me why my lips is like that... Some assume I got burnt by acid or fire... I'm a very confident guy so I don't really allow the insults and tantrums get to me..at least I try to hide it as much as I can.. But of recent it is becoming too much and I've told myself that if the spreading continues I would have no other option than to end my life because I cannot imagine living a life of stigma, pity and neglect.. I really can't cry

I have met severally with dermatologists and have bought several creams and drugs but all to no avail.. The spreading did not still stop.. Not to talk of repigmenting.

This has affected my social life in many ways, I can't boldly walk up to strangers anymore because I always have this feeling that they are looking at my lips.. I no longer have female friends and I'm always withdrawn inside my shell because of it... My self esteem is down to zero. The mere thought that I will live with this forever and it will never stop spreading has made me suicidal.

I got a camouflage tattoo but it wasn't effective upon all the pain I passed through.. Now the substance I use to cope with it is hair dye which I apply before going for my law classes in the morning ... I still wonder how I will be able to practice law with this kind of lips. cry

Please nairalanders help me with any advice that might be helpful to save a brother.
Hair dye is poisonous, putting it on your lips is dangerous, pray about it and have faith in God, it will definitely stip

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Re: Help. The Vitiligo Spreading On My Lips Is Making Me Suicidal (pics) by cashlurd(m): 2:50pm On Jul 05, 2018
Japhet04:
cry I noticed the symptoms of Vitiligo on my lips around August last year..At first it was just a small patch but subsequently it began to spread to other parts of my lip and also outside the lower lip.

I get questions everyday asking me why my lips is like that... Some assume I got burnt by acid or fire... I'm a very confident guy so I don't really allow the insults and tantrums get to me..at least I try to hide it as much as I can.. But of recent it is becoming too much and I've told myself that if the spreading continues I would have no other option than to end my life because I cannot imagine living a life of stigma, pity and neglect.. I really can't cry

I have met severally with dermatologists and have bought several creams and drugs but all to no avail.. The spreading did not still stop.. Not to talk of repigmenting.

This has affected my social life in many ways, I can't boldly walk up to strangers anymore because I always have this feeling that they are looking at my lips.. I no longer have female friends and I'm always withdrawn inside my shell because of it... My self esteem is down to zero. The mere thought that I will live with this forever and it will never stop spreading has made me suicidal.

I got a camouflage tattoo but it wasn't effective upon all the pain I passed through.. Now the substance I use to cope with it is hair dye which I apply before going for my law classes in the morning ... I still wonder how I will be able to practice law with this kind of lips. cry

Please nairalanders help me with any advice that might be helpful to save a brother.

Contact me. I'm also a vitiligo patient since 2012. But I subdued the spread. It has stopped spreading. I can send you picture shots of the drugs I used in fighting mine. Though they were purchased from India. WhatsApp me on 08112075110

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Re: Help. The Vitiligo Spreading On My Lips Is Making Me Suicidal (pics) by Reference(m): 2:51pm On Jul 05, 2018
It is a problem to you because image is more important than anything else and you rather commit suicide because you lack a'social' life. Perhaps when you care to grow up you'd realise there are far more important things in life that people of value recognise. So find those circles, those lines, those people and operate there.

I have never related and appreciated anyone I can remember based on the person's looks. It is just so childish. Aspire to excellence in character and disposition and folks will never leave your side. As to the opposite sex, what better way to negiotate with those who value you for what lies deep beneath the skin, yes the heart.

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Re: Help. The Vitiligo Spreading On My Lips Is Making Me Suicidal (pics) by meobizy(f): 3:01pm On Jul 05, 2018
Why do the darkest of complexions always catch vitiligo?
You have the option of bleaching to make every tone even or you can manage it.

Let me tell you my own story hoping to inpsire you:

I suffer from sleep apnea. Many a time I've woken up at night gasping for air, always to the embarrassment of myself and the horror of whoever else sleeps in the same room. Knowing how Nigerians think I always ensure to sit down after my episodes and educate the person on sleep apnea. I do this to dispel their fears of it being a spiritual attack and the hope that one day they may educate the ignorant on the condition. One never knows how much good they perform by teaching others.

OP I think you should make it a point to enlighten others on your condition. They will also, like you, impart the knowledge unto others.

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Re: Help. The Vitiligo Spreading On My Lips Is Making Me Suicidal (pics) by lamex34(m): 3:01pm On Jul 05, 2018
Guy neva think abt it it happen 2 me also it is called (obatala) try and meet ur family and do d sacrifice it wil surly go
Re: Help. The Vitiligo Spreading On My Lips Is Making Me Suicidal (pics) by Dammylois(f): 3:04pm On Jul 05, 2018
Learn to love yourself brother... As far I know there is no cure
Re: Help. The Vitiligo Spreading On My Lips Is Making Me Suicidal (pics) by engrjacuzzi: 3:07pm On Jul 05, 2018
people that play brass instruments are mostly seen with such on their lips. too much high notes "octave"

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Re: Help. The Vitiligo Spreading On My Lips Is Making Me Suicidal (pics) by CriticMaestro: 3:07pm On Jul 05, 2018
ireneidiva:

Didn't you read where he said he saw dermatologists?
It's not really a skin disease
Re: Help. The Vitiligo Spreading On My Lips Is Making Me Suicidal (pics) by mascot19(m): 3:10pm On Jul 05, 2018
Bro use neem oil (dongoyaro)
Re: Help. The Vitiligo Spreading On My Lips Is Making Me Suicidal (pics) by jclassiq(m): 3:10pm On Jul 05, 2018
Japhet04:
but the lips is having a negative psychological impact on my social life...from what I read online it would continue spreading...it is definitely going to affect my legal career. Imagine I am handling a case in court and the judge and jury are busy focusing on my Vitiligo lips... Who would want to employ me with my kind of lips embarassed

Bro chill... it might not be as bad as you imagine it to be. but apparently that might be a little too hard for you to believe seeing as you are so preoccupied with the thought of it and thereby blowing it out of proportion.

forget..

truly, ppl are going to wonder what happened to you. but it doesnt affect the overall perception of you.

focus on being the best you can be. and the sooner you stopped worrying about the vitiligo, the better. and that is after you must have done the best you can to stop the spread.
all the best young lawyer!!

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Re: Help. The Vitiligo Spreading On My Lips Is Making Me Suicidal (pics) by CriticMaestro: 3:10pm On Jul 05, 2018
CChillz:


OP leave your lips and focus on your career. the appearance of your lips won't matter in the long run, don't kill yourself while you are blessed with the chance to live

That's very wrong, this disease actually spreads through out the body and it's life threatening, it kills the immune system gradually
Re: Help. The Vitiligo Spreading On My Lips Is Making Me Suicidal (pics) by jclassiq(m): 3:11pm On Jul 05, 2018
mascot19:
Bro use neem oil (dongoyaro)

for real? ��
Re: Help. The Vitiligo Spreading On My Lips Is Making Me Suicidal (pics) by jclassiq(m): 3:12pm On Jul 05, 2018
mascot19:
Bro use neem oil (dongoyaro)

for real? ��
Re: Help. The Vitiligo Spreading On My Lips Is Making Me Suicidal (pics) by Cyoung4real(m): 3:13pm On Jul 05, 2018
op, look for pink lips balm and bleach the right part of your lip and thank me later...... it will look good if it won't spread further.

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Re: Help. The Vitiligo Spreading On My Lips Is Making Me Suicidal (pics) by mbagideon(m): 3:14pm On Jul 05, 2018
oboi see natural pink lips sha

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Re: Help. The Vitiligo Spreading On My Lips Is Making Me Suicidal (pics) by Diso60090(m): 3:14pm On Jul 05, 2018
he don kill himself?
Re: Help. The Vitiligo Spreading On My Lips Is Making Me Suicidal (pics) by AerialMapper: 3:16pm On Jul 05, 2018
The only problem I see is that the discoloration draws attention to your scanty beards and moustache which you should be more worried about.

Vitiligo is not the end of the world and if it's making you suicidal now, wait till it covers your face and arms.

Embrace it and accept it... and shave that lip and chin furniture

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Re: Help. The Vitiligo Spreading On My Lips Is Making Me Suicidal (pics) by itsmolep(m): 3:16pm On Jul 05, 2018
CriticMaestro:
Okay first u were very ignorant of not seeing a qualified doctor to treat....
Now my advice to you is to go to a hospital immediately to seek for treatment, because this disease has no cure , atleast scientifically I don't know about herbs though, but early diagnosis can be managed and skin loss restored but like I said it can't be totally cured..basically vitiligo is as a result of low melanin in the body, so taking drugs that enhances the reformation of melanin helps a lot....these are three ways of treating such a disease
1. Therapy
2. Surgery
3. Medication

No need to think of suicide, you are well above millions in this country if u come to think of it




Point of correction, VITILIGO is not a disease and it is not contactable, like you said it's as a result of low melanin. stop scaring people

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Re: Help. The Vitiligo Spreading On My Lips Is Making Me Suicidal (pics) by Shakde: 3:16pm On Jul 05, 2018
Please don't kill yourself, you can ause raw tomato to be washing it day and night. It will later disappear.

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