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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by ebuka10box(m): 10:55pm On Jul 08, 2018
bro this is real life.....gamble is very bad bro
u haven't played gamble like me oooo ,I played it ehhhh till I was thinking otherwise and acting crazy. u gotta stop man, u no go fit make am with gambling bro. u would send a Dm let's chat privately... I pray the Senate bans this game cause it's killing youths in the country

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by SammyJakes1: 11:55pm On Jul 08, 2018
Koralords:


Bro you not alone .....2012 before starting bet9ja I bought 3 cars same time from the USA ..had $28k in my Dom account ....have 3.8m in my accounts ...everything went bet9ja ..the day I sold of my car I staked 750k onces on a match and lost ....now have less then 200k in my act and squart with ppl
You're the real man of the match
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Hardlife: 5:01am On Jul 09, 2018
ebuka10box:
bro this is real life.....gamble is very bad bro
u haven't played gamble like me oooo ,I played it ehhhh till I was thinking otherwise and acting crazy. u gotta stop man, u no go fit make am with gambling bro. u would send a Dm let's chat privately... I pray the Senate bans this game cause it's killing youths in the country
thanks sir. sent you a mail.
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Mrkarlz(m): 6:56am On Jul 09, 2018
Xtine22:

bro, don't give up! continue playing as you may chop 50m one day to recover ur losses.... always play sure game


lol.. is that the kind advice you can give hardlife
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Greatimarh: 7:17am On Jul 09, 2018
my friend..listen to me..virtual can't ruin your life, only you can..i was addicted to bet9ja..i lost millions..i lost myself..i lost everything..but one day..i decided not to win my money back..dat is the beginning of your freedom. .believe that God will restore all you have lost..pick your life from where you are..try and get a job..something to keep your mind busy..i returned to God..surrendered to him because he is the one that gives power to Get wealth...i asked for his help..i told my friends and pastors..i admitted i was an addict..they prayed with me..i haven't gone back to gambling since then..that is not the way..at least not my way if not i would have hit big for close to 4 years..i lost multiple school fees, convocation money..i lost on behalf of my siblings sef..borrowed to play..i lost more and more...u will keep loosing brother unless you make that decision..that path eventually leads to depression and suicidal thoughts..i know because i have been there.. make that decision today...God will help you..my life is back now..i am happy..gradually, my dreams will come true ..urs too will bro..u can send me a mail...we will chat privately...

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Nobody: 8:13am On Jul 09, 2018
b0rn2fuck:
most men played virtual but learn to control yourself, I played with money I don't need and will never risk anything less than 2k on virtual again, I have never lost 10k a day, since the day I lost 7k a day, my eyes has open, I limited it anyway to 2k lost once a while then I start going with just 1k because they also show free matches there, ever since I chose to go with 1k, it's either I come with 100 naira daily or come with 4k or less

Bro, there is nothing like "money you don't need".

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by stagger: 8:30am On Jul 09, 2018
writerights:


Bro, there is nothing like "money you don't need".


That phrase refers to money that won't make you lose sleep if you lose it. See?
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by b0rn2fuck(m): 11:48am On Jul 09, 2018
stagger:


That phrase refers to money that won't make you lose sleep if you lose it. See?
when I say money I don't need, the one like taking out 4k out of 104,000. after the lost of that 4k, nothing like gambling will make me take out of the 100,000 , it's something I have practice and used to but gambling generally is bad, my girlfriends even kill me more than virtual, I have not played virtual this month. discipline is the key but gamble is bad
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by FRANKOSKI(m): 1:51pm On Jul 09, 2018
ask God and your parents for forgiveness and MOVE ON!
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by segsman(m): 2:15pm On Jul 09, 2018
1. Give your life to Jesus and pray to him to deliver you through fasting and prayer
3. Don't try to win the money you have lost back because the more you do the more money you will keep losing
4. Avoid easy access to cash.
5. Get busy with something. An idle mind is the devil workshop
6. If you can relocate to a place where no bet shop please do
7. Be discipline
Trust me I understand how you feel.
I did terrible things too because of betting which made me lost my job, friends and helpers.
But am back to christ.
It is a gradual process but if you are determined you will surely overcome.
Trust me God can restore all your lost.. Hope this help

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by francescainnoce(f): 2:37pm On Jul 09, 2018
Hardlife:
okay ma. I dont know if you will get it when i mail it to you. Please if you get it please let me know. I will be very happy to get help from concerned individuals. Thanks. In the mail, i will attach my facebook just in case. I have my siblings around now. I cant discuss something like this around them at this time. Probably tomorrow i can get your call. Thanks once again.
I’m yet to get anything..
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Nobody: 3:10pm On Jul 09, 2018
coolie1:

your stupidity is on a very high note.
this is someone's life slipping away and see what you are saying, what if you it was your brother, be wise sometimes



I don't have your time son.
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by insignegianniga: 4:56pm On Jul 09, 2018
Hardlife:
i cant even tell anybody my situation. I cant stand The look of disappointment on their faces but i want to quit.




Betting is from the water ,highly spiritual...

You have a great destiny and a mandate to fulfil in life that's why the enemy is after you to thwart it
To the devil ,he may have won.. But if you come to Jesus,, he will restore everything the locust has taken away from you


No amount of rehab can save you. Advice, whatsoever
Only the cleansing blood of the lamb

Come to Jesus, he will restore you,, and help you fulfil your mandate
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Hardlife: 5:10pm On Jul 09, 2018
francescainnoce:

I’m yet to get anything..
081
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Hardlife: 5:13pm On Jul 09, 2018
insignegianniga:





Betting is from the water ,highly spiritual...

You have a great destiny and a mandate to fulfil in life that's why the enemy is after you to thwart it
To the devil ,he may have won.. But if you come to Jesus,, he will restore everything the locust has taken away from you


No amount of rehab can save you. Advice, whatsoever
Only the cleansing blood of the lamb

Come to Jesus, he will restore you,, and help you fulfil your mandate
yeah i need the grace of God too if i am to fully overcome everything. thank you sir. God bless you.
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Image123(m): 5:28pm On Jul 09, 2018
Hardlife:
i cant even tell anybody my situation. I cant stand The look of disappointment on their faces but i want to quit.

You must be genuinely born again, that's all.
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Tolax17: 8:10pm On Jul 09, 2018
[quote author=Nedic post=69182860]
nawao..... have sympathy kwanu
everybody has a skeleton in their cupboards oh.[/quote

Bet had become a cankerworm in the life's of people today. Many don't have goals, no sense of direction no achievement,and in short, no plans, but placed their almighty hope in gambling. I can't seems to fathom any meaningful sense in it. They had in fact become tearaway themselves.
The government have failed the society yet, the utmost solution by, especially the young men is is gambling.
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Tolax17: 8:32pm On Jul 09, 2018
GodsOwnFav:


You are so dumb. someone in his teens got into gambling and gradually became addicted and now crying out for help and all your dumb ass has is to judge him. If you don't have anything positive to say then shut the fvck up!

I see you're guilty too. I can see you're pained too.
Unfortunately can't feel pity for those that deliberately chose bad choice to make money they can't earn. I have friends into bet, some have sold their properties because they wanna become rich over night. Two went into armed robbery bcause they chose the shot route. Have they madE the millions ?
I tell you bro, for where. They're singing and dancing something
Iike azonto in prison. cheesy

When I warned them, I was the bad friend. I was insulted, mocked, taunted but I remained courageous, strong, never afraid to tell the truth.

The op was not born to be a gambler, he chose it and he will enjoy the pain alone.
No amount of advice here can't restored his financial, quality time wasted.
Nothing can be said here, will make me remorseful.

Hardwork pays not gambling
Contentment is a source of happiness not gambling

The love of money is the root of evil by reaching for it, many have pierced themselves all over with many pains or sorrow - 1Timothy 6:10

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by goldenval(m): 8:35pm On Jul 09, 2018
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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Guliver(m): 8:53pm On Jul 09, 2018
who nor go,nor know.Ogbumguanguan s wicked.T all witchcraft manipulation.
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Tolax17: 9:56pm On Jul 09, 2018
Hardlife:
i deserve all the insults on earth i know sad but i want to quit. I need help. I need recovery processes. I am tired and frustrated. The deed has already been done. I want to get my life back.

I am encourage by your response. You're sincere, you recognised you short comings yet you accepted responsibility for your bad choice. Hope isnt lost, you can improve and be better. You remind mE of two stories in the holy scripture. The example of Peter who denied jesus 3 times and the prodigal son. Both stories are typical examples of human beings, however the similarity btw both was that they were remorseful n made effort to repent/change

Tips;

1. You need to speak to a mature older person or a counselor about your pains and troubles.

2. You need a great deal of self Discipline. You condition yourself to say No to things you don't want to do. You stand by that No. Remember if you give in into gambling, you will become a slave to it. It will be controlling you instead of you taking charge and controlling it. Let your know be No. Learn to be in charge. It may not be easy but, keep pushing and don't give up.
To be a master over fear, you must face the fear courageously, conquer it and gain freedom.

3. If you're xtian/Muslim, you preoccupied yourself with religious activities.

4. You need to change or limit the cycle of friends you keep. Friends who will tempt you into joining them to gambling, change or reduce your friendship with them.

5. If you're jobless or unemployed, you need to stay busy and occupied. Find something to do, if you don't mind, learn a trade or a skill depending on your area of interest. Learn a skill that will add value to your life.
6. If you have money give someone you trust and reliable to keep or save in his account mayb your siblings till you're able to gain control over you life.

7. You need to pray, persevere in prayer. I am not saying you must turn into a prayer warrior. Just pray to God to help you define and get control over your life.

8. Read motivatonal books like those for entrepreneurs- such as the richest man in babylon, rich dad, poor daddy, your holy book or bible etc.
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by francescainnoce(f): 9:15am On Jul 10, 2018
Hardlife:
08108604610. That is it ma.
Can’t reach you
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by olivino(m): 11:41am On Jul 10, 2018
PamaB:
O don't believe this story.
Trust me, there are more cases like him. I know someone who used his sch fees and house rent to play nairabet. During exam period he will tell us that he is going for exam,but he will go to a playstation shop to play FIFA. It was later we discovered that he was no longer a student. Eventually landlord drove him away from the hostel after so much hiding because he could nt pay up his rent.
Don't mind my long epistle sha. But I think this story could be very true because I have seen his kind.

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Hardlife: 12:44pm On Jul 10, 2018
francescainnoce:

Can’t reach you
sorry ma'am. my phone was switched off. It is on now. Thanks for your concern ma.
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Martzki: 7:02pm On Jul 12, 2018
Your fb id
Hardlife:
yes sir. Please if you know how i can get over everything i have been through. I will be forever grateful for your help. Thanks and God bless.
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by EVarn(m): 8:18pm On Jul 12, 2018
Hardlife:
Well, i took last jamb, i passed very
well to the joy of everybody. They thought i was back to being
normal but secretly i was still playing
virtual. Virtual has eaten deep in my blood. All the money i managed to save
before the jamb period while at home
still ended up in virtual. I want to stop but i cant. Fast forward everything to today the
7th of july. I took the money for my
post utme form to play virtual. My heartbeat was felt by the person
close to me when i lost the last kobo i
came with. Till now i have not
stopped thinking, nobody knows. now
i am thinking how to get the money
back. I am a dead man alive. Gambling has eaten deep into my
soul. i am finished. I AM TIRED AND FRUSTRATED,
SOMEBODY PLEASE HELP ME. I
WANT TO STOP. I WANT TO HAVE MY LIFE BACK
TOGETHER. PLEASE HELP ME IF
YOU HAVE HAD SIMILAR
EXPERIENCE. I AM DYING SLOWLY. I NEED
HELP. TODAY I HAVE PUT A
STOP TO IT. GOD HELP ME.
PLEASE
HOW CAN I QUIT FOREVER
Get a hobby, look for something that you are passionate about(other than gambling) and pour all your energy into it, it may be reading,writing,creative art,dancing,playing football or acting, it may be anything, even politics. Just find another passion.
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by radiolover(m): 8:15pm On May 09, 2019
Foxykevo:


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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Nostradamus: 1:25pm On Jun 21, 2019
Eehyah!!!sorry o. P. Alabi Don enter you seriously.so all the money I have been earning since from my betting accounts,your hard-earned money is there?! Sorry hen. Don't worry,just follow the topic in my signature,when the new basketball season start,you'd be cashing out with my pump-action basketball tips. Cheer up man, you've got no problem.
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Image123(m): 4:07pm On Jun 27, 2019
Nostradamus:
Eehyah!!!sorry o. P. Alabi Don enter you seriously.so all the money I have been earning since from my betting accounts,your hard-earned money is there?! Sorry hen. Don't worry,just follow the topic in my signature,when the new basketball season start,you'd be cashing out with my pump-action basketball tips. Cheer up man, you've got no problem.

Why are you so heartless?
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Nobody: 3:37pm On Oct 18, 2019
Ok
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by dannyspeejay(m): 6:01pm On Jul 10, 2020
Karry only 2 sure Odd

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