Ebonyeyes:

My crystal ball says it could be a ritualistic thing. I would throw the bag of money into his compound unspent.

infobut:

Payoff indeed. well the lady in question should not use the money oooooooo.Hmm Obatala has spoken.

Gaggi:

My female friend said her BF of 3 yrs gave her 200k cash gift for her b.day and has stopped calling neither does he pick her calls. When she goes to his hse they say he isn't in even when his car is there.
Prior to this, the highest amount he has given her is 15k.Is this a pay off or farewell gift or what? The babe is so heartbroken.

Ebonyeyes:

My crystal ball says it could be a ritualistic thing. I would throw the bag of money into his compound unspent.

googles:

she should free him and be merry jor some boys pay off their girlfriends with STDs or HIV/AIDS sef

and some dont even pay you off they just do the-[color=#990000]wham-baam-thank-u-ma'am thingy and run off

if shez so scared of ritualism she should deposit the money in the bank for three months or so  [/color]

190:

SAME Thing that is making u run away from me!!

190:

then stick 2 the original plan as agreed during your holidays!
[size=3pt]u gimme sleepless nites and i know a guy is behind this[/size]

spicyhoney:

The guy might not be a ritualist, some guys pay their girlfriends when they break up with them especially igbo guys. My close girlfriend's ex paid 400k into her account after breaking up a 4 years relationship with her saying that his parents has refused to allow him marry her because she is not igbo and he really wanted to settle down. I also ve an igbo neighbour who told me he paid his ex off when he broke up with her.

So, at poster if u dnt want to touch the money, send sm1 to pay it into a fixed deposit acct and leave it there for yrs if possible, let it yield interest for u and later on when u really need it, spend it.

I am however, not in support of a boyfriend paying an ex off, it doesnt really make sense to me.

ojesymsym:

I have a conviction that the girl in question must have nagged him so much for money that he got frustrated and decided to give her what she valued most and then leave her alone to find someone better.

. . .Maybe true.

Ben-10:

. . .Maybe true.

infobut:

Payoff indeed. well the lady in question should not use the money oooooooo.Hmm Obatala has spoken.

Ebonyeyes:

My crystal ball says it could be a ritualistic thing. I would throw the bag of money into his compound unspent.