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Re: 7 Things To Do When You Are Tempted To Cheat In A Relationship by MinorityTribe: 10:35pm On Jul 13, 2018
Just Masturbàte and released all those bottled up sexual frustration. As soon as you are cûmming you are instantly losing interest in girls and sex. Still better than cheating.

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Re: 7 Things To Do When You Are Tempted To Cheat In A Relationship by IbnAbdullah1(m): 10:54pm On Jul 13, 2018
akeentech:
This is enough reason for me to cheat

It's just plain stupid to focus on the beauty of her physique insteadd of the beauty of her character.
It takes understanding, prayer and sincerity to keep a marriage going otherwise I don't see why people should bother themselves about what they can't keep.
Re: 7 Things To Do When You Are Tempted To Cheat In A Relationship by chris31(m): 11:14pm On Jul 13, 2018
lamidebaby:
As if they will hear...
Like the saying goes: the dog destined to get lost in the woods will never hear the hunter's call however loud it is. undecided
Swear u never shop married man money before make thunder fall on u
Re: 7 Things To Do When You Are Tempted To Cheat In A Relationship by PotatoSalad(m): 11:16pm On Jul 13, 2018
As a guy,
Concert one of your rooms to a gaming room, buy a 75" 4K OLED Tv, a ps4 pro, a gaming PC, vr headsets, furnish it well... Then start gaming.
Gamers are less likely to cheat in a relationship. Date a gamer today

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Re: 7 Things To Do When You Are Tempted To Cheat In A Relationship by Nobody: 11:36pm On Jul 13, 2018
Toks2008:

All these can never stop a man who wants to cheat but only the man who truly fears GOD and strongly principled WILL not.
Words on marble. Couldn't be better put.

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Re: 7 Things To Do When You Are Tempted To Cheat In A Relationship by chrizzyace: 11:37pm On Jul 13, 2018
Greatzeus:
Personally,i think cheating is a concept accurately applicable to the Married Couples and those Engaged only.why? because you are bound to him or her by a legal or religious oath.Unlike Bf/Gf relationships,So why keep a promise you never made by being faithful?
Now i am not here to encourage cheating please but to discourage it cool

Now to the Married and Engaged,have you ever being tempted to cheat on your partner? Probably yes, it goes beyond the actual act of sex most times, to include mesmerizing about a "hot" colleague or neighbor,sending obscene pictures of yourself to another person,to sex chatting,viewing pornography content without your spouse etc.

My question to the Married and Engaged is, is it worth it cheating on your spouse? to those who have one time or another cheated before,is it worth it,really? be sincere with yourself,would you go back to correct your mistake if you can? It takes the grace of God yes,but we should also have checks and balances in our lives that makes it easier for us to overcome certain things.
Whenever you are tempted to cheat on your spouse,in your matrimonial home, at your work place, while on a journey far from the comfort and caress of your wife or while on a business trip outside the country,just try as much to think about the following:

1. Think about the day you proposed to her,the desperation you had and all you went through to make her say yes. Its a golden memory, dont throw it down the mud by cheating.

2. Think about the Oath you took in the presence of God on your wedding day,either in church/Mosque or Court to stay faithful to her alone

3. Think about disappointing those who spent their time and money( transport and gifts) just to attend your wedding,when they hear your marriage has crashed because you cheated.

4. Think about your kids,who will grow up with the sad knowledge that their parents divorced because their dad or mum cheated.

5. Think about the guilt that will permeate your whole being after cheating on your spouse( for those who still have conscience grin

6. Think about the fact that your attraction to your wife decreased,not because she is no longer beautiful,but because of familiarity. And your attraction to the new lady is due to initial infatuation.

7. Think about the minutes you will spend having sex,like is it really worth throwing everything you have(Happy home) away for?

God bless you for this post, if only men that are married or the ones that are preparing to go into marriage would realize all what you’ve stated here, the world would be a better place. And the dignity of the good men out there will outshine that of those wayward cheating abusive monsters out there in the eyes of our women.

In addition to all all you’ve said, a man must learn to be best friend with his wife, where you both can share good and bed memories, laugh over mistakes and not criticizing each other. Each other must learn to LOVE and FORGIVE at all times, one thing that tears a home a part is not knowing how to tell your spouse sorry when you’re at fault, being bossy or a control freak in a home doesn’t make you that real man that you’re posing to be...

I’m happily married to my beautiful wife, that I respect and love so much, with that, I don’t see why cheating should be considered.

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Re: 7 Things To Do When You Are Tempted To Cheat In A Relationship by justseyi(m): 12:27am On Jul 14, 2018
Everything think. What if I have bad memory



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Re: 7 Things To Do When You Are Tempted To Cheat In A Relationship by Platony(m): 12:38am On Jul 14, 2018
MinorityTribe:
Just Masturbàte and released all those bottled up sexual frustration. As soon as you are cûmming you are instantly losing interest in girls and sex. Still better than cheating.

Dat means u'll have lyk 2 big GP tanks to fill ur semen with.

How long u wan masturbate??
Re: 7 Things To Do When You Are Tempted To Cheat In A Relationship by faithchubby93(f): 12:48am On Jul 14, 2018
cheating is a choice, not a mistake anyone can do. No reasons can validate cheating. If you are not happy anymore, then end it. Remember that no one can love two people at the same time.

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Re: 7 Things To Do When You Are Tempted To Cheat In A Relationship by openmine(m): 12:56am On Jul 14, 2018
akeentech:
This is enough reason for me to cheat
grin
Re: 7 Things To Do When You Are Tempted To Cheat In A Relationship by mimimile93: 1:00am On Jul 14, 2018
Greatzeus:
Personally,i think cheating is a concept accurately applicable to the Married Couples and those Engaged only.why? because you are bound to him or her by a legal or religious oath.Unlike Bf/Gf relationships,So why keep a promise you never made by being faithful?
Now i am not here to encourage cheating please but to discourage it cool

Now to the Married and Engaged,have you ever being tempted to cheat on your partner? Probably yes, it goes beyond the actual act of sex most times, to include mesmerizing about a "hot" colleague or neighbor,sending obscene pictures of yourself to another person,to sex chatting,viewing pornography content without your spouse etc.

My question to the Married and Engaged is, is it worth it cheating on your spouse? to those who have one time or another cheated before,is it worth it,really? be sincere with yourself,would you go back to correct your mistake if you can? It takes the grace of God yes,but we should also have checks and balances in our lives that makes it easier for us to overcome certain things.
Whenever you are tempted to cheat on your spouse,in your matrimonial home, at your work place, while on a journey far from the comfort and caress of your wife or while on a business trip outside the country,just try as much to think about the following:

1. Think about the day you proposed to her,the desperation you had and all you went through to make her say yes. Its a golden memory, dont throw it down the mud by cheating.

2. Think about the Oath you took in the presence of God on your wedding day,either in church/Mosque or Court to stay faithful to her alone

3. Think about disappointing those who spent their time and money( transport and gifts) just to attend your wedding,when they hear your marriage has crashed because you cheated.

4. Think about your kids,who will grow up with the sad knowledge that their parents divorced because their dad or mum cheated.

5. Think about the guilt that will permeate your whole being after cheating on your spouse( for those who still have conscience grin

6. Think about the fact that your attraction to your wife decreased,not because she is no longer beautiful,but because of familiarity. And your attraction to the new lady is due to initial infatuation.

7. Think about the minutes you will spend having sex,like is it really worth throwing everything you have(Happy home) away for?


These things won't work for a young Nigerian lady in marriage..

Our ladies are so materialistic therefore their hearts can be easily purchased with money and gifts.
Re: 7 Things To Do When You Are Tempted To Cheat In A Relationship by sainthumble: 1:48am On Jul 14, 2018
abiodunalasa:
Think about this...
Think about that... angry

The point is when you are at the peak of it... you can't "think" until its done.
.... THEN DAT DEMON WILL DISAPPEAR AND U START FEELING GUILTY

Re: 7 Things To Do When You Are Tempted To Cheat In A Relationship by seyiojomu(m): 1:56am On Jul 14, 2018
Just don't give yourselves the chance to cheat
Re: 7 Things To Do When You Are Tempted To Cheat In A Relationship by Mikeross62: 2:50am On Jul 14, 2018
ok
Re: 7 Things To Do When You Are Tempted To Cheat In A Relationship by fedora04: 5:02am On Jul 14, 2018
Even the Holy book did not recommend prayer or counselling.. it only says.. RUN/FLEE..whatever you do, keep running....
Re: 7 Things To Do When You Are Tempted To Cheat In A Relationship by endwelllopez9: 6:10am On Jul 14, 2018
cheaters is sometimes a nature to some people
Re: 7 Things To Do When You Are Tempted To Cheat In A Relationship by DavidEsq(m): 6:48am On Jul 14, 2018
Izabel:
Don't put your eggs in one basket.
I made that mistake and he paid me back by running away with my 50k
Na wa o! So dis kain tins dey happen? Why some no jus geh shame at all? Ah ah. Pele o!

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Re: 7 Things To Do When You Are Tempted To Cheat In A Relationship by ZeeBaba17(m): 8:17am On Jul 14, 2018
OP your number 3 got me laffing. the people that came to your marriage ceremony will still come again and again if u invited them for another one. On a serious note cheating most times doesn't bring about the collapse of a marriage because most people that indulge in it try much as possible to conceal it from their spouse and moreover its just human nature to be insatiable with whatever we have or find ourselves with, most people just believe the grass is greener on the other side.
Re: 7 Things To Do When You Are Tempted To Cheat In A Relationship by BIXYBABE: 9:39am On Jul 14, 2018
akeentech:
This is enough reason for me to cheat
Not all ladies does dat.....
in fact is when I'm married dat I do dress sexy.
Re: 7 Things To Do When You Are Tempted To Cheat In A Relationship by akeentech(m): 10:25am On Jul 14, 2018
BIXYBABE:
Not all ladies does dat..... in fact is when I'm married dat I do dress sexy.
I can see it in you, ur husby is a lucky guy
Re: 7 Things To Do When You Are Tempted To Cheat In A Relationship by Nobody: 11:33am On Jul 14, 2018
I get tempted, with ready to eat pvssys around my work place. my wife denies me intimacy at every opportunity, at every wrong i do, I get punished with "no touch" for a whole month and beyond.
Yet I just can't fvck another woman! I can't bring myself to do it even when am "Konjy" infested.
WHAT IS WRONG IS WRONG! There is no external reason for cheating, you because that's who you are.

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Re: 7 Things To Do When You Are Tempted To Cheat In A Relationship by Laurence1: 9:58pm On Jul 14, 2018
I feel its more of an " is this worth the hurt if she finds out"...
Re: 7 Things To Do When You Are Tempted To Cheat In A Relationship by nwosumichael: 10:01am On Jul 17, 2018
hmm
Re: 7 Things To Do When You Are Tempted To Cheat In A Relationship by cherriton12: 5:38am On Jul 19, 2018
brownhawk:
Cheating is very unnecessary if ur partner is capable and willing to give u ur potential concubine offer http://www.generalnews.com.ng


Now to the Married and Engaged,have you ever being tempted to cheat on your partner? Probably yes, it goes beyond the actual act of sex most times, to include mesmerizing about a "hot" colleague or neighbor,sending obscene pictures of yourself to another person,to sex chatting,viewing pornography content without your spouse etc.

My question to the Married and Engaged is, is it worth it cheating on your spouse? to those who have one time or another cheated before,is it worth it,really? be sincere with yourself,would you go back to correct your mistake if you can? I
Re: 7 Things To Do When You Are Tempted To Cheat In A Relationship by brownhawk: 6:15am On Jul 19, 2018
cherriton12:



Now to the Married and Engaged,have you ever being tempted to cheat on your partner? Probably yes, it goes beyond the actual act of sex most times, to include mesmerizing about a "hot" colleague or neighbor,sending obscene pictures of yourself to another person,to sex chatting,viewing pornography content without your spouse etc.

My question to the Married and Engaged is, is it worth it cheating on your spouse? to those who have one time or another cheated before,is it worth it,really? be sincere with yourself,would you go back to correct your mistake if you can? I
cheating can never be worth it or justifiable because there's nothing you can not work out with your partner(if u understand and value each other)

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