An Anonymous user had shared this story about his personal experience on Masturbation online.There's been no scientific backing on how healthy it is to masturbate.But religiously and morally ,a lot of people have condemned it tagging it an act of immorality.

He wrote:

This happened to me 4 years back when I had a fling with a girl. I was attracted to her but that attraction didn’t help me one bit while having sex with her.

A little background- I was 25 at that time and I had been watching porn and masturbating for more than 10 years. It started with double x porn then tripple x then followed by hardcore, BDSM and when nothing could get me an erection then I started watching gay porn. I am straight by the way but I wanted to exploit my expectation to enjoy masturbating.

Back to the story, while making out with that girl I couldn’t get my penis erected. She was very pretty but I was converted to a zombie who had over used his ability to enjoy the pleasure from sex.

For past few months I have been researching on this topic and I found the reason why it happens. It happens because whenever we feel happy there is a chemical released in our brain which is called dopamine. This is the same chemical which gives you pleasure after you have ejaculated, snort drugs, drink alchohol and much more unnatural things. Ejaculation after masturbation is an unnatural reward for our natural body. Real reward is ejaculation after having sex with a female. Since we are addicted to feel this chemical in our brain we over do it. Take the example of drugs. Every time you need more of it. Porn as well. You exploit your expectations over a period of time just to be able to get your dick hardened.

Once you have a habit of watching porn and masturbation you fail at enjoying real sex. Real sex is not what it’s shown in porn movies. Your partner might not have the perfect curves but smile. When you were a kid, watching a kiss on cheeks gave you goosebumps but now not even fifty shades of grey can give you that. I had violated my expectations hence I failed at enjoying sex with her. I could not ejaculate either. We tried everything but nothing cured my ED. Once I was back at home to my type of porn I was able to masturbate and ejaculate.

Now it’s been few months since I have realized this and have quit watching porn, masturbation, orgasm, alchohol and many more things. It took a very strong will power and lot of control but I am on it.

Recently I was watching an old movie in which the hero kissed his girl on cheeks and it gave me goosebumps. My brain receptors are fine now. It takes time but it will become natural and worth it.

Masturbation is not natural and is very addictive. Anyone who says that you will get prostate cancer by not masturbating is lying to you because of lack of knowledge. There is no research that proves it while it is proven that no flapping gives you a lot of benefits.



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Same thing i'm experiencing. I dont enjoy sex

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I disagree..

I watch porn and masturbate when my wife is pregnant .. after childbirth I still enjoy sex..

The only thing I think it does is making you come quickly and there is a way I work around it .

After each child birth and my wife is ready to start making love again I use the withdrawal method ( withdraw your penis from the vagina when u are about to cum)

If I do this repeatedly for two weeks trust me everything returns back to normal .