This is a lesson to all women, if you want to claim ownership of building, then invest in your own personal property and rent it out. Nigerian men will never live in a house they don't own. Why argue over who owns the building they live in, when you are a woman and our culture gives men a sense of entitlement when it comes to properties. If the posters wife jejely used her money to build her own house, and rented it out, nobody will be fighting over it now.

When they are both ready, they can decide to build their home together. That's what makes sense the most!

this issue am very sure did not start from this story.... this story is an aftermath of a bred grudge. first sort out the issues that gave rise to this issue because if you dont, you would creating more problems that would might never be solve. at the rate you guys are going, its gonna be hard but try.

Thank you jare!

Ziggylady:



Dude you are a talkative and a nag who specialises in blind and silly arguements.Perhaps to ease off some plethora of frustrations consumming you...Go buy yourself some brains and do better things with your self instead of withering away on this thread.. It is only acute imbecility and mega joblessness that will make a grown-ass male adult like you spend hours and days replying and quoting every single stranger on something he is too stuppid to realise is a futile effort...

1)because his points are baseless and lacks the minimal intelligence,just pure incoherent rants like a lunatic because of gender bias

2)Clearly a minority opinion.

I have no problem with jobless trolls on a faceless forum constituting nuisance in the name of 'educating' their ancestors when they are clearly in need of education themselves..it is the sane minds here replying jobless and idle trolls like you i blame.

You can continue with your shameless dance of the absurd here,but i have made my point...Adios!

boyjo:


God bless you a hundred fold for speaking the truth.
The fact that he is not sorry as well as manipulative just dey vex me!

cc: ExtraExtra, HEseesall

Pride, greed and selfishness would not allow him to surrender. This kind of man is a very burdensome cross for a kind hearted woman to bear. He's also a bully!

God bless you. If the man could be so rude to people on this faceless forum for hitting the nail on the head, how much more would the wife be enduring from the bully and cheat! See the way he's bullying people here. The man is uncultured, greedy and arrogant! Women dey suffer in the hands of these monsters, and their family members, especially their mothers will be supporting the evil in them.

Almighty God would treat his f**k up.

sassysure:

Miserable human.
U come to a public forum to call your wife a cow.

Because u have prick?

I wish u were in my hood.
Men like you should be used as example.

Women most times keep quite and opt for peace don't mean they don't know what to do and believe u me women 're more calcultive than men. They mostly massage ur ego and u feel u have them at the palm of ur hand.
See small thing ur wife did and u have been jumping up and down like a rabid dog.
A clown.

skentelelady:


E don tay wey bros the cheat

Extra extra, u see your life. So your wife is right u are a serial cheater

Correct C.I.D! Well done.

LaudableXX:

What on earth are you saying? The woman has offered to put their joint names on the property, but the man refused saying ONLY his own name must be on the property. That is so unfair, considering the value of her own contribution.

Well he has left the house. If he makes the mistake of divorcing her over this issue, he will marry a she-devil who would not only be a leech on him, but would make his life miserable. Karma is real.

Yes o! I read it somewhere on the previous page, where he was advitising his immorality, "friend with benefit, in Abuja" he doesn't want to marry another woman but he can be messing around with them. The man is a great cheat. LOL! Some men are like that sha.

GoodFaith:


She is just 11 year old smart little girl
That try to make it clear to her mom that money is not everything

Pls, stop supporting her for evil. She shouldn't disrespect her mother for any reason. You need to caution the girl against destruction, if you really love her.

UjuJoan2:


Not if I can proove that I contributed to the building.

Truth is, even if I didn't contribute sqaut, my husband will have a very difficult time ejecting me from our home. I won't go quietly.

Incomparable:


Pls, stop supporting her for evil. She shouldn't disrespect her mother for any reason. You need to caution the girl against destruction, if you really love her.

Go market and sell yams
close ur

Truth is always bitter. See a father to a well mannered daughter. Like father like daughter. No courtesy, your lives are full of pride and insults, i pity you.

GoodFaith:

Go market and sell yams
close ur

Rocktation:
This your true story reinstates your wife's version. You really do have pride for Africa. 10 bucks says you really would've kicked her to the curb, if the property wasn't in her name. Your vexation is too much. You want to Transfer and Separate at the same time...only you.. and for what? Because her retort hurt your pride, when you think your asking her to leave her marital home, is like bird humming in summer, abi? Calm down, Sir, collect yourself. Forget all those quotations from God knows who, insinuating that women maketh a home, solely. Both partners are accountable for whatever goes on. Be a good husband now and be really open for peace. Persuade your wife to include your name in the documents, which is more than fair, as your money was not used and NEVER make such disparaging requests again like asking your wife to leave your house, ever again...no matter how ticklish your funny bone gets.

Thank you, sis. Hope he listens.

Incomparable:
Truth is always bitter. See a father to a well mannered daughter. Like father like daughter. No courtesy, your lives are full of pride and insults, i pity you.

Ok busy body
Go play

Incomparable:



Pride, greed and selfishness would not allow him to surrender. This kind of man is a very burdensome cross for a kind hearted woman to bear. He's also a bully!

Real bully o.
The guy dey vex my spirit!

Why is everyone overlooking the fact that this man no longer wants the house, the same house una dey shout for him don talk say no lele make the woman keep am plus him no dey chase him wife comot say him wife can join him in his new house

Hmmm

Abdullahi4u7:
Neither divorce nor total shun is the best option. Sit down and resolve this issue with your wife.

If you won't mind, kindly tell me the business that you guys did at the start of your marriage that fetched you so much money.

Mehn, thought I was the only one who thought about this. Built a house, flew abroad, paid for treatment abroad amongst others just from a venture in a short period of time.

I need this secret, I tell you.

cachiskky:


Mehn, thought I was the only one who thought about this. Built a house, flew abroad, paid for treatment abroad amongst others just from a venture in a short period of time.

I need this secret, I tell you.

Unfortunately, he has refused to let the cat out of the bag.

how this matter take end abeg, divorce or no divorce?