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Why Married Men Prefer Us To Their Wives - Commercial Sex Workers by GistMeMore: 7:09pm On Jul 23, 2018
WHY MARRIED MEN PREFERRED US TO THEIR WIVES – SEX WORKERS

Visits to some of brothels and hotels within the Lagos metropolis had revealed that sex workers engage both single and married men in romps with the greater number of their patrons were married men who they also preferred dealing with.

P.M.EXPRESS correspondent who had observed for weeks decided to find out why married men patronize sex workers despite that they had in most cases beautiful wives in their various homes.

It turned out to be shocking revelations from both patrons and workers.

Some of the brothels and hotels our reporter visited were located at Agege, Idimu, Shasha, Mushin, Ikotun, Igando, Yaba, Ejigbo and other areas in the state.

One of the commercial sex workers, simply known as Jenifer and who operates in Shasha area of Lagos said that most of her clients were married men.

According to her, though she used to collect good money from them, she still pitied them as she learnt their wives were not really taking care of their emotional needs at home.

Jennifer narrated that one of her clients opened up and complained that he got married some years ago and they had three children. But after the birth of their third child, the wife had practically abandoned him and faced the children without knowing that he needed care as well as the children.

She said that as a graduate, she knew what those men needed and they were not getting them in their different homes and then decided to work on them.

She revealed that these men mostly stuck to her and had been paying reasonable money unlike the single men who came with many fake stories.

The lady further narrated that she had three regular married clients and whenever they came, she made sure that she treated them well.

She said that she usually spent good time with them, chatted them up generally, and then attended to their sexual needs which they lacked in their homes and at the end they paid her reasonable money.

Another lady, Grace, revealed that married men were preferable because they considered and appreciated the workers more than the single men who may not want to pay at all or pay more.

She however noted that dealing with married clients was a huge task, as such workers must have patience in order to treat such clients well and at the end the patience will be worth the pay as they will pay good money for the service and become regularly clients eventually.

Grace observed that married men preferred them because of the attention and time they usually gave to them which they were not getting from their wives in their various homes and once they got them from the workers, they get stuck to them.

She said that some even got carried away and proposed to marry her but she usually declined because marriage was not part of why they became workers but money to cater for other things.

Another worker, Miss Chizoba, equally agreed with her colleagues’ assertion on married men but added not all were good clients as some may come and start telling woes of their wives at home; even making terrible demands and may not have the money to match what they want from them.

Some other workers who spoke to our correspondent had almost the same opinion and noted that the married clients preferred to stay longer with them because they find solace and enjoy themselves more any time they come around unlike in their homes.

However, a sex worker by name Anita noted in a chat with our correspondent that not all married men was worth the time because some may come and after wasting a lot of time may end up not paying the appropriate amount worth the time wasted.

Some of the patrons our reporter met at some of the joints declined to comment on the matter as they considered their coming there to patronize the workers top secrets and these aspect of their private lives should be far away from their wives which should not be made public.

However, a patron at a popular hotel along Ejigbo/Ikotun Road, simply known as Emman, said that there were many reasons married men patronised those sex workers and most times they were full of excitement and fun.

He noted that the workers had a lot to offer when men have issues with their wives.

He said that the workers exploit the situation to the fullest as they reckon that they had become immediate alternatives.

Emman explained that he was not getting the needed attention from his wife at home and when he mentioned it to one of his friends, he introduced him into that kind of lifestyle.

He said that he embraced it and since then had been enjoying it.

He noted that it was not that he did not love his wife but there were things he was getting from the workers which he realised that he was not getting from her.

Emman cited that sometimes he may prefer to forget all the financial and family pressures which he will not get when he was with his wife as she will only help compound them.

Hence, he will find his way to the hotel and will temporarily forget them.

Another patron, Peter said that no man will ordinarily like to go to the hotels to fraternize with sex workers if his wife was rightly taking care of his emotional need at home.

He noted that hotel life was expensive but it was also fun and difficult to give up.

http://pmexpressng.com/why-married-men-preferred-us-wives-sex-workers/

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Re: Why Married Men Prefer Us To Their Wives - Commercial Sex Workers by GistMeMore: 7:10pm On Jul 23, 2018
Re: Why Married Men Prefer Us To Their Wives - Commercial Sex Workers by sapeleboi(m): 7:11pm On Jul 23, 2018
you see this what am saying, even the young blood don't even have swag again cry

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Re: Why Married Men Prefer Us To Their Wives - Commercial Sex Workers by Nobody: 7:20pm On Jul 23, 2018
Pm express and weird news all the time

DM for cheap data. Best offer in town

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Re: Why Married Men Prefer Us To Their Wives - Commercial Sex Workers by okachie1(m): 8:12pm On Jul 23, 2018
Ptwaaaaa! Spits out!!! Yama Yama talk! Owing to d recent trend in the world I strongly think marriage is over rated!

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Re: Why Married Men Prefer Us To Their Wives - Commercial Sex Workers by baddosky1: 8:26pm On Jul 23, 2018
okachie1:
Ptwaaaaa! Spits out!!! Yama Yama talk! Owing to d recent trend in the world I strongly think marriage is over rated!

It is really overrated!

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Re: Why Married Men Prefer Us To Their Wives - Commercial Sex Workers by eezeribe(m): 8:43pm On Jul 23, 2018
OK
Re: Why Married Men Prefer Us To Their Wives - Commercial Sex Workers by sabbiboi: 8:48pm On Jul 23, 2018
Igbo Amaka.

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Re: Why Married Men Prefer Us To Their Wives - Commercial Sex Workers by Olalan(m): 9:31pm On Jul 23, 2018
They are living in deceit..... those men only use them to satisfy their sexual urges and fantasies

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Re: Why Married Men Prefer Us To Their Wives - Commercial Sex Workers by Biglittlelois(f): 10:04pm On Jul 23, 2018
Nawa oo, the married ones are really trying

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Re: Why Married Men Prefer Us To Their Wives - Commercial Sex Workers by Hisduchess(f): 10:39pm On Jul 23, 2018
this is more like leaving ur private toilet to go use a public toilet at ajengunle.tufiakwa ife anaghi aso ufodu Ndi mmadu oyi.Chi m ekwe especially for those married men who are given flimsy excuse for their ungodly behavior.

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Re: Why Married Men Prefer Us To Their Wives - Commercial Sex Workers by bamasite(m): 10:42pm On Jul 23, 2018
Such men are not truly married! #fact!

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Re: Why Married Men Prefer Us To Their Wives - Commercial Sex Workers by skallion7(m): 10:45pm On Jul 23, 2018
Edo amaka

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Re: Why Married Men Prefer Us To Their Wives - Commercial Sex Workers by gabazin080(m): 10:45pm On Jul 23, 2018
fake face
fake hair
fake lips
fake teeth
fake breasts
fake finger nails
fake hips
fake buttocks
sometimes even fake eyelashes.
still more a woman will say,"I WANT A REAL MAN!"

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Re: Why Married Men Prefer Us To Their Wives - Commercial Sex Workers by gabazin080(m): 10:46pm On Jul 23, 2018
which men?
Wind Blew A Girls' Skirt Today And The Same Wind Blew Sand In My Eyes.. Isnt That Witchcraft??

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Re: Why Married Men Prefer Us To Their Wives - Commercial Sex Workers by Chapelbeatz(m): 10:46pm On Jul 23, 2018
Very soon we would have olosho activists in this country.

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Re: Why Married Men Prefer Us To Their Wives - Commercial Sex Workers by SoftP(m): 10:46pm On Jul 23, 2018
Olodo

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Re: Why Married Men Prefer Us To Their Wives - Commercial Sex Workers by Kendumazy(m): 10:46pm On Jul 23, 2018
It's a lie. The hoes were just using married men to justify their rubbish trade. Anybody wey wan do adultery go do am. It's in the blood! The churches too have alot to do in teaching women on how to be a slutty wife in bed for their husbands and their husbands alone.

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Re: Why Married Men Prefer Us To Their Wives - Commercial Sex Workers by laurel03(m): 10:47pm On Jul 23, 2018
Pm news with lies....

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Re: Why Married Men Prefer Us To Their Wives - Commercial Sex Workers by Nobody: 10:47pm On Jul 23, 2018
I prefer my wife

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Re: Why Married Men Prefer Us To Their Wives - Commercial Sex Workers by laurel03(m): 10:48pm On Jul 23, 2018
Hisduchess:
this is more like leaving ur private toilet to go use a public toilet at ajengunle.tufiakwa ife anaghi aso ufodu Ndi mmadu oyi.Chi m ekwe especially for those married men who are given flimsy excuse for their ungodly behavior.
na human being dey Aj city too now

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Re: Why Married Men Prefer Us To Their Wives - Commercial Sex Workers by Nobody: 10:50pm On Jul 23, 2018
Getting to know a guy has patronized ashis is even a huge turn off.

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Re: Why Married Men Prefer Us To Their Wives - Commercial Sex Workers by VictorRomanov: 10:51pm On Jul 23, 2018
Olalan:
They are living in deceit..... those men only use them to satisfy their sexual urges and fantasies


And exactly what did you think the sex workers are saying?

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Re: Why Married Men Prefer Us To Their Wives - Commercial Sex Workers by anibi9674: 10:51pm On Jul 23, 2018
ok.
Re: Why Married Men Prefer Us To Their Wives - Commercial Sex Workers by amazon14: 10:52pm On Jul 23, 2018
I am in search of NwaAmaikpe!!!

NwaAmaikpe where at thou??

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Re: Why Married Men Prefer Us To Their Wives - Commercial Sex Workers by BOOMnaija(m): 10:52pm On Jul 23, 2018
Ashawo no be work.

But there is hardly any ashawo that will not justify her reason for venturing into d trade.

While most of them claim they are majorly into it for d money, i av enough evidence to show that they actually enjoy d sex itself.

Argue with ur keypads.
Re: Why Married Men Prefer Us To Their Wives - Commercial Sex Workers by Kulas: 10:53pm On Jul 23, 2018
Hisduchess:
this is more like leaving ur private toilet to go use a public toilet at ajengunle.tufiakwa ife anaghi aso ufodu Ndi mmadu oyi.Chi m ekwe especially for those married men who are given flimsy excuse for their ungodly behavior.
On point!. O bu Nna gi muru gi.
Atimes I begin to think what can ever make a man to dream of leaving the wife (private pus.. sy) and chose public pus.. sy that everybody makes use of.Tufiakwa!

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Re: Why Married Men Prefer Us To Their Wives - Commercial Sex Workers by Almaiga: 10:53pm On Jul 23, 2018
sabbiboi:
Igbo Amaka.
Na so grin

Ibo's Amaka!!!

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Re: Why Married Men Prefer Us To Their Wives - Commercial Sex Workers by PointZerom: 10:54pm On Jul 23, 2018
Fyi0:
Pm express and weird news all the time

You go fear CYRIACUS IZUEKWE.

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