Babyforever:
I don't support a cheating girlfriend she's meant to be faithful to you I think it's her friends that are causing all this havoc.......Just find time invite her over make her see reasons why she need to make the relationship work between you guys speak some words into her head I bet you she'll comply

girls on this level of influence sir its hard to talk sense into dem till dem don go e nor favour dem ehen, their head go come reset forgetting it rains everywere.

Babyforever:
You're a professional BROSTITUTE

E be like you dey vex ontop your profession...but as you get mind tell a guy to beg her prostituting girlfriend, babe i fear you sha

eddyghali:

E be like you dey vex ontop your profession...but as you get mind tell a guy to beg her prostituting girlfriend, babe i fear you sha
E be like you dey vex ontop your profession...but as you get mind tell a guy to beg her prostituting girlfriend, babe i fear you sha

Go be basic

Babyforever:
Go be basic

Which club are in tonight?

eddyghali:
Which club are in tonight?

Go play with your mates

I'm i the only one having feelings this op ll go and beg this girl back

Babyforever:
Go play with your mates

Small girl with big god. Go and enjoy yourself tonight as usual at wherever

Obviously not worth your trouble

idu1:
I'm i the only one having feelings this op ll go and beg this girl back

With the way he is sounding, I won't be shocked.

Apparently, he loves her more than she loves him

sirr:


U can imagine my brother.... when life already has so many issues,,, then she comes to add her own,,,,,

Dont mind those girls they are under cover serial cheater

seyezy:

You are right my brother. Most of the ladies advising him are biased. They can see the obvious truth that this lady in question is not but Olosho. For the Op, you better run as fast as your leg can carry u because the lady is not but club girl and I know you don't want to have that as a wife.

Exactly my brother

emerged01:
Yea! You did the right! You may not know the good thing you have done to yourself. You have no reason to have mixed feelings. You have just shown the sign of a strong man. Had it been you allowed her to take the decision,the pain will be almost unbearable.

tnx brother

Edmen:
op your story reminded me of my first girlfriend, she was immature, just wanted to have fun and all..your ex is at that stage currently and from what you wrote I can tell you need something serious, which you won't get from her ( at least not now) you have done the right thing by breaking up with her and surely you will get your heart desire someday..Please don't be tempted to call her, even if she comes back begging and promises to change, trust me she won't.....except of course you want to Continue wailing

I am never going back she should slay all she wants it clear we both on different path. Tnx

idu1:
I'm i the only one having feelings this op ll go and beg this girl back

never trust me av made up my mind

Sorry OP, but you were just loving a covet escort. She will be so relieved that you called it off, and you will not even be able to sleep this night cos of the addictive programming of love.

Forget about that nonsense about not getting girls. Go out there and scout for your specs and let her treat you nice tonight, to help you forget the trap you were in.

Enjoy yourself tonight, cos she is doing it tonight too.

Flickzvill:
thanks for this it really helped the thing is each time I kept pondering on this issue she takes it I am being controlling and not focusing on the point damn

He who created us, created us along with our life partner which came from our ribs bone. and He alone knows what He have in store for you, so clear worries and trouble from mind and heart bcuz it'll only ruin your days and your health as well. Be nice to her and everyone else cuz we don't know who might end up our life partner.

May God bless us and our mother 9ja. Ameen

Flickzvill:
never trust me av made up my mind

Please don't say that give her second chance biko think of all the wonderful moments you guys had together don't leave her in the mist of nowhere

eddyghali:

Small girl with big god. Go and enjoy yourself tonight as usual at wherever

Small boy with big goddess

Babyforever:
Better go back and beg her from the look of things you look like the controlling one and it seems you have ego problem.......Don't listen to what all this guys are saying most of them don't have a girlfriend and they want to ruin your relationship......Meet her apologize to her let her know how you feel and you both should work on yourself.... you'll be fine

Anoda olosho just passed an advice...

Babyforever:
Better go back and beg her from the look of things you look like the controlling one and it seems you have ego problem.......Don't listen to what all this guys are saying most of them don't have a girlfriend and they want to ruin your relationship......Meet her apologize to her let her know how you feel and you both should work on yourself.... you'll be fine

u sound like a pro.stitute

Babyforever:
Amani I just gave him an advice on how to handle his relationship issues nothing more

look at the kind of advice u gave to someone... will u allow ur brother to marry that kind of a girl... my sister u are nothing but an undercover olosho

Flickzvill:
thanks but I want u to understand me I am not the controlling type believe me no man will stand his woman going to sleep in another mans house bcz she thinks she not married yet i don't stop her from going to parties I do go myself so it's no big deal I dont stop her from hanging out with her friends but the disturbing part is going to sleep in another mans house all the name of fun and shes in a relationship I can't accept that bcz it will continue even after marriage.

Flickzvill let me be frank with you. If you ever make the mistake of begging that lady, you are a goner trust me. Do you need to be told that the girl doesn't have any atom of love for you?

You are the one doing the loving while she frolick around, cuz she feels she ain't tied to you in any way. It's normal for you having mixed feelings, but bro brace up and be a man. Forget about that girl; she doesn't love you. That's the bitter truth you need to know right now.

Focus your mind on other things and hope for the best, you will surely meet someone better who will worship and listen to you like you are her mini god. Then you will look back and smile.

If you call that girl and beg her see what will happen:

> She will continue to disregard you.
> She will never value you.
> She will see you as weak man who doesn't stand by his word.

A word is enough for the wise.

Mcslize:



Flickzvill let me be frank with you. If you ever make the mistake of begging that lady, you are a goner trust me. Do you need to be told that the girl doesn't have any atom of love for you?

You are the one doing the loving while she frolick around, cuz she feels she ain't tied to you in any way. It's normal for you having mixed feelings, but bro brace up and be a man. Forget about that girl; she doesn't love you. That's the bitter truth you need to know right now.

Focus your mind on other things and hope for the best, you will surely meet someone better who will worship and listen to you like you are her mini god. Then you will look back and smile.

If you call that girl and beg her see what will happen:

> She will continue to disregard you.
> She will never value you.
> She will see you as weak man who doesn't stand by his word.

A word is enough for the wise.

tnx God bless

99foxxy:
Can you swear you're not missing her already? Bury your pride and set her down and speak to her on camera! cus you've never caught her with any guy aside her catching fun with her friends. I do same, but my guy is wise and he knows my movements. She's not cheating on you but having fun like I do. As it is now, you're not thinking straight bcus when you love it's never easy to let go.

People mistake obsession for love. Does love really exist? It's just a mere emotion of bring addicted to someone.

True love is not just one sided only. It comes from both parties. But once the supposed love keeps coming from one person rather than both, it should never be regarded as love but emotional obsession.

Flickzvill:
Happy Sunday peeps well let me not bore you with the details, I broke up with my ex today because I am tired we started dating few years back while I was still in sch I was in 300lv nd she was in 100lv. At that time we started she stated shes got more of male friends than female I accepted bcz dia was nothing I could do.

Months after she lost her hostel space nd wanted somewhere to stay for the night before going home the next day nd I myself traveled i wasn't in sch nd I can't allow her sleep in my apartment my 2 roommates are guys I told her to go to her friends in the hostel but she declined that she can't stay with her I now asked her where does she have in mind she mentioned a guys name I was a bit angry at first but I asked her why him she said bcz he is like a brother to her I just laughed nd allowed her so she doesn't say I am controlling.

Anytime I asked about this guy she keeps saying his not like dat bla bla black sheep like I am a kid I confronted her that this her friendship with this guy can't continue believe me before they cut ties this said guy had to graduate before i rest you see why it's bad to date small girls? Fast forward this year she's now a big girl we are still dating but I noticed something she started hanging out with some girls they party together flex which is very normal but what pains me the most is going to sleep in a random guys house nd anytime I asked her if she's back she would say I nd my friends couldn't make it home so my friends bf offered to house us, believe me this is not the first time it always happens and anytime I confront her she uses this words "I am not married stop acting like we are and stop controlling me" this gets me worked up bcz I don't understand ladies like this why be in a relationship when you want to live a single ladies life? Few days back she called that she would be attending a wedding with this so called "friends" I just said ok but call me when you get back home she agreed hours later no calls i had to call her around 11.pm she didn't pick till this morning she flashed me nd den I called her she said she slept early that's why she didn't pick my calls i just said ok and asked her if she's home yet she said no I asked her where was she, she said shes in her friends close friends house I was like again? She started ranting what was wrong with that? Really?.

I am very much faithfull bcz I choose to I can as well carry any lady I see and bleep but that not my thing I can as well bring ladies over and party everyday but that not my thing I want to build something strong so my kids will emulate, my parents where very responsible even my dad confirmed it that my mom was very responsible before they got married that why I am very responsible today. I called her not too long ago and told her I am no longer interested in the relationship she bluntly said if that what I want fine and I ended the call.
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the thing is i love this girl to my bone but that kinda attitude is uncalled for. Nairalanders did I do the right thing? Bcz right now I am having mixed feelings. Happy sunday

Why do you love her, if she does not have the quality you want? Oh I forgot! It must be her body, then! Wasted generation! Young fools of nowadays make me laugh!

Hey, I wanted to share my breakup story online because I feel it’s a pretty rough one, almost surreal to me. I was with this guy for three years, he was my first ever love. We had a super healthy relationship, we were quite different, but the same humour, weirdness and we were pretty complicit. I liked him because we both loved tv, we loved outdoors, we loved to eat, he made me feel good, he was always there to listen and to support me through the hardships, he could always make me laugh and could really surprise me. When I tought he wasn’t listening most of the time he actually was, so then he’d remembered some small details of the conversation or about me and some time later, come up with that information in a very sweet way. He was very attentionate, very gentle and respectful.
Anyways, the hole time we were together, he always had that best friend (female). The first 2 years, I really liked her and so never was I jealous or anything, therefore they were seeing each other some times and I did not have any problem. She was also in a relationship. Then, she broke up and everything changed. She was always setting me aside in the conversations, she was quite mean and never including me in the conversation and always looking at my ex-boyfriend with a sad look. That’s when I realized she had feelings for him. I told my ex but he did not believe me. Months later, we broke up because we didnt have time for each other anymore, with school, friends, extracurriculars, we just couldn’t make it work, plus he had an internship coming during the summer and then he was leaving on an exchange in fall semester while I was leaving for my exchange in the winter semester. We would of been more than a year appart from each other and none of us (specially him) were ready to commit to that. So we broke up, not because of a lack of love, but because of the timing.
Then a week after we broke up, I saw thanks to snapchat, that he had left on a quick trip with that same female bestfriend. He told me that he simply needed to free his mind, she gave him the opportunity, I believed him. We kept talking some times because I wanted news from him and I was leaving on a trip. We broke up in january, it was then, in june that, after noticing that his bestfriend always had snapchats with a men’s hand but never showing him, so I had my suspicions, he finally told me they had been dating and seeing each other for a couple of months now and that it just happened out of the blue and that he never meant to hurt me or anything of the sort!
You can believe I was shocked, I had my doubts about this hole thing but I was shocked. Not even two days after telling me this big news and beeing liberated of this secret, she posted a picture of them together praising how he finally got out of the friendzone after years of friendship.
I am sad, shocked, like it’s just a big joke, like I’ve been played, like he wasn’t entirely honest with me about the reason of our breakup...
What to do....

Guy you did a good thing, but the mistake u make is that, she told u that she have male friends morethan her fellow female yet u go ahead dating her, Please be wise, after u heart rest, she will come back and beg u, you better watch out

Babyforever:
Small boy with big goddess

I dont do what you do. how was last night runs sef

the thing is i love this girl to my bone but that kinda attitude is uncalled for. Nairalanders did I do the right thing? Bcz right now I am having mixed feelings. Happy sunday

There's nothing to have double feelings about. You even stayed too long in that SITUATIONSHIP. You would have quit the very first day she told she wanted to sleep in a guy's house. But then, it's better late than never. Congrats bro, you should be celebrating, not having mixed feelings.

Flickzvill:
Happy Sunday peeps well let me not bore you with the details, I broke up with my ex today because I am tired we started dating few years back while I was still in sch I was in 300lv nd she was in 100lv. At that time we started she stated shes got more of male friends than female I accepted bcz dia was nothing I could do.

Months after she lost her hostel space nd wanted somewhere to stay for the night before going home the next day nd I myself traveled i wasn't in sch nd I can't allow her sleep in my apartment my 2 roommates are guys I told her to go to her friends in the hostel but she declined that she can't stay with her I now asked her where does she have in mind she mentioned a guys name I was a bit angry at first but I asked her why him she said bcz he is like a brother to her I just laughed nd allowed her so she doesn't say I am controlling.

Anytime I asked about this guy she keeps saying his not like dat bla bla black sheep like I am a kid I confronted her that this her friendship with this guy can't continue believe me before they cut ties this said guy had to graduate before i rest you see why it's bad to date small girls? Fast forward this year she's now a big girl we are still dating but I noticed something she started hanging out with some girls they party together flex which is very normal but what pains me the most is going to sleep in a random guys house nd anytime I asked her if she's back she would say I nd my friends couldn't make it home so my friends bf offered to house us, believe me this is not the first time it always happens and anytime I confront her she uses this words "I am not married stop acting like we are and stop controlling me" this gets me worked up bcz I don't understand ladies like this why be in a relationship when you want to live a single ladies life? Few days back she called that she would be attending a wedding with this so called "friends" I just said ok but call me when you get back home she agreed hours later no calls i had to call her around 11.pm she didn't pick till this morning she flashed me nd den I called her she said she slept early that's why she didn't pick my calls i just said ok and asked her if she's home yet she said no I asked her where was she, she said shes in her friends close friends house I was like again? She started ranting what was wrong with that? Really?.

I am very much faithfull bcz I choose to I can as well carry any lady I see and bleep but that not my thing I can as well bring ladies over and party everyday but that not my thing I want to build something strong so my kids will emulate, my parents where very responsible even my dad confirmed it that my mom was very responsible before they got married that why I am very responsible today. I called her not too long ago and told her I am no longer interested in the relationship she bluntly said if that what I want fine and I ended the call.
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the thing is i love this girl to my bone but that kinda attitude is uncalled for. Nairalanders did I do the right thing? Bcz right now I am having mixed feelings. Happy sunday

yes,even heven reward

Weldone... we know ur type, imagine what this lady is saying.

Babyforever:
Better go back and beg her from the look of things you look like the controlling one and it seems you have ego problem.......Don't listen to what all this guys are saying most of them don't have a girlfriend and they want to ruin your relationship......Meet her apologize to her let her know how you feel and you both should work on yourself.... you'll be fine

Babyforever:
Better go back and beg her from the look of things you look like the controlling one and it seems you have ego problem.......Don't listen to what all this guys are saying most of them don't have a girlfriend and they want to ruin your relationship......Meet her apologize to her let her know how you feel and you both should work on yourself.... you'll be fine

where do these kind of people come from??