OboOlora:
U r dead if I catch u! Better change ur name to GraveBound

This one pain am....

Earthbound:
Some of them will come and lie on this thread but don't believe all of them.



Guys, if you are earning five figures, don't marry. I repeat, don't marry unless you have savings northwards of a million after the wedding and new house rent. God has blessed us, as a guy, you can marry even in your 40s. Don't rush into commitments that will make you cash strapped for a long time.


You want the best for your kids, don't settle for less. 60k is perfect for a bachelor. Unless your woman is boxed up, don't try it!

BEST ADVISE !!!

Yes. what matters is planning well.

Earthbound:
Some of them will come and lie on this thread but don't believe all of them.



Guys, if you are earning five figures, don't marry. I repeat, don't marry unless you have savings northwards of a million after the wedding and new house rent. God has blessed us, as a guy, you can marry even in your 40s. Don't rush into commitments that will make you cash strapped for a long time.


You want the best for your kids, don't settle for less. 60k is perfect for a bachelor. Unless your woman is boxed up, don't try it!

Exactly. When the question came up, it was the kids I was thinking about.

chinchonglee:
I as a man cant get married wit a 60k income...

I ll jst be managing my singleness...even if it means nt getting married 4 d rest of my life...

If you remain single for the rest of your life, you're blocking your opportunities to succeed. Marriage opens opportunities!

Mcy56:
Depending on the type of man he is. If he's the honest, straight-forward and frugal one, why not?
With good planning, understanding and focus, higher level is achievable..... not to forget that the woman too should not be idle.

u av sense.....

EliteMike:

And when he marries in his 40s and friends don dey give children in marriage in their fifties and you still dey take kids to creche....
Na humble beginning sure pass

you're right bro
i know of a man that virtue have nothing when he married his beautiful young wife but today the man have everything and him and his wife are living comfortably in US.
i know this because his wife is my facebook friend

if you see their wedding far back and see how the man looked hungry and tattered you'll pity him
but they recently did an anniversary omo see anniversary wey pass wedding of some rich.

the main koko here is to find a wife material and a woman that loves you unconditionally and you as a man strive to upgrade your life.

Assalamualaikum bro

this is a sign of your stupidity, have you forget that your brother he's still earn below the minimum wage with 5children and his wife

Anfieldboss:


How old are you?

Hello Bro,

Please, I sent you a PM and a mail.

Regards

chronique:


most nigerians are burning money on petrol to provide electricity. i'm sure if they ask people to start posting their average fueling expenses on generators here,you'd be shocked at the figures you'd get. the dude who asked me if i was staying on banana island and earning 120k per month,got me laughing. at 120k per month,i certainly wont have any business with banana island. in short if anyone catches me there with such salary,they should flog foolishness out of my life and destiny.

nwannem I feel you jare. Men dey reason and men get target. Living the good life, personally I'd do it for my kids, not to impress all these fake gals.
How that your Olivia something something girl that year wey dey ask for wetin her papa never get sef?

I will not marry a man who earns 60k... I will not find myself in that sorry situation. Amen...

lovethchioma:
I will not marry a man who earns 60k...
I will not find myself in that sorry situation. Amen...

Hello dear, how much are u earning currently?

pocohantas:


Yea, in a country where minimum wage is N18,000 and over half of the population live in poverty...OP decided to ask this question.

I think people are now blinded by instagram pictures or those colourful movies they watch on ROK TV. They think that's the life of the average Nigerian man/youth/family.

Th gap between the rich and the poor is much!

oya come and chop kiss

Don't mind the op. He is not ready to marry, when he is ready to marry he won't need to ask people how much he should be earning before he can get married.

Phyno said: the no de telly person, them no de telly person when the time is ripe

Dvin:
Wow! so a lady can say this. Good news for men like me.

Bros! Don't get carried away Jare. Na so all of them dey talk ma when you enter you do understand say na money be fine bobo

chinchonglee:
I as a man cant get married wit a 60k income...

I ll jst be managing my singleness...even if it means nt getting married 4 d rest of my life...

this one yawere gan ooo....holy father

lovethchioma:
I will not marry a man who earns 60k...
I will not find myself in that sorry situation. Amen...

How much do you earn monthly or daily?

Mcy56:
Depending on the type of man he is. If he's the honest, straight-forward and frugal one, why not?
With good planning, understanding and focus, higher level is achievable..... not to forget that the woman too should not be idle.

For saying this abeg i wan propose.

SteveUg:

you are just looking gorgeous

Na just picture selected from a thousand snaps, focus on the topic

Well , to me it depends on both individuals and the rate of understanding

ModelX:
nwannem I feel you jare. Men dey reason and men get target. Living the good life, personally I'd do it for my kids, not to impress all these fake gals.
How that your Olivia something something girl that year wey dey ask for wetin her papa never get sef?

una nor dey forget something for here? abeg nor vex but make we die that matter bro. everybody done move on with life and it's a completely forgotten issue. thanks man.

Mafulul:

If you remain single for the rest of your life, you're blocking your opportunities to succeed. Marriage opens opportunities!

How? Abeg explain in details

jasp12:


Na just picture selected from a thousand snaps, focus on the topic

Well , to me it depends on both individuals and the rate of understanding

See me trouble o... Is it your focus ... Bros just let me focus in peace

SureBozz:
Dear ladies, if you meet a young promising guy who is earning a monthly salary of N60,000 and wants to marry you, would you accept to marry him if he really loves you?

THE QUESTION IS THIS,WHAT ARE YOU BRINGING TO TABLE AS A WIFE? SO YOU WANT THE MAN TO DO EVERYTHING? MY ADVISE FOR YOU IS TO THINK LIKE MAN AND ACT LIKE A LADY.

dollytino4real:
my submission is enough.

that will do

chinchonglee:
I as a man cant get married wit a 60k income...

I ll jst be managing my singleness...even if it means nt getting married 4 d rest of my life...

lies.

If only what u guys type online happens in reality

dollytino4real:
Not the salary dat matas, does he give happily? He can earn one billion and can not give

Give to who? Are you making a case for 'beggars'?

Of course they will marry him in the absence of the guy who earns 61k, ladies don't love, they are most concerned about comfort. Men think looks and intelligence mean much to women but alas, money and good quality (luxurious life) mean the most to women. Women can support a man but that will only last for a while (depending on the woman involved). A woman will go for a guy who earns more if she finds one.

Mcy56:
Depending on the type of man he is. If he's the honest, straight-forward and frugal one, why not?
With good planning, understanding and focus, higher level is achievable..... not to forget that the woman too should not be idle.

You have wisdom. I wish most marriageable women can reason like this. But that's not possible; because wisdom isn't for everybody.

chinchonglee:
I as a man cant get married wit a 60k income...

I ll jst be managing my singleness...even if it means nt getting married 4 d rest of my life...

Ahswearugad bro!

Earthbound:
Some of them will come and lie on this thread but don't believe all of them.



Guys, if you are earning five figures, don't marry. I repeat, don't marry unless you have savings northwards of a million after the wedding and new house rent. God has blessed us, as a guy, you can marry even in your 40s. Don't rush into commitments that will make you cash strapped for a long time.


You want the best for your kids, don't settle for less. 60k is perfect for a bachelor. Unless your woman is boxed up, don't try it!

Be realistic, my brother. Life is not always perfect. We all have to play with the cards we have even though we can't always choose the kind of cards we get. With 60k and a good woman, life can start and, with God, life and good health, the 'big' things are sure to come.

msylva2147:
my brother if you want to know the reality of things just go councils, schools and some shop attendants and ask them how much they pay them then you will know that someone earning 60k is in luxury. my salary is less than 60k but I'm married with a kid and my daughter is attending a better school I have three cars and I have built my own house for the past three years. Life is all about planning, I pity those who are saying if you are earning 60k you shouldn't marry until you become a millionaire. Earning above that 60k you only be disturbing yourself to please people otherwise 60k is good pay, and besides those graduates moving up and down with files they should ask them how much is their starting target of salary?

I am really interested in how you manage to achieve all these with that salary, please I need to gain from your knowledge.

Be detailed please.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Never. That's a suicide attempt. Even if I earn all the money in the world, I will never settle for less. I used to believe in starting small, but as it is now, I've re-strategized. Some men are just too complacent to step out of their comfort zone. We have to be very comfortable to get married. Marriage isn't a child's play.

Are you married? Are you very young? As in, below 25?