A friend, serving in the North is in love and wants to get married as soon as possible. The issue is - he is as broke as a corper could be.[list]
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who knows, the girl might be loaded or the dad padded. abi them no go born pikin? alternatively, he s plannin on livin at ABE BRIDGE. no be person dey there.

i wouldnt advise him to get married, i mean if i was the gurl, i wouldnt marry him even if my parents are loaded or if i'm workin and earnin enuff to support both of us, i mean i dont intend to get married to a guy so i can be his substitute mother, pls advice him to chill out and get a job that can support them both, thats if the gurl isnt an independent ass like me ,

He should. Marriage brings favour. _{Abeg make una no kill me.}

favour? in what sense?

Well, the bible says "he that finds a wife, finds a good thing and obtains favour from the Lord."

So I guess marriage brings favour.

okay then, but i wouldnt know wat the bible says cuz i'm a muslim but all the same, i guess wat the bible''s tryin to say is, find a wife, and dont mess around and u'll definitely find favour! or wat do u fink?

Yeah, it's better to get married than mess around (fornicate).

I would get married but wait with having children

I would get married but wait with having children

sometimes, u dont plan to have kids, they just come as a gift from God, so wat u gonna do? kill a child, b4 you have the pleasure of seein ur child smile at you?
better not to take chances!

sometimes, u don't plan to have kids

www.google.com/search?q=safe+sex

lol, r u tryin to tell me sumfin?
unfortunately, i cant thru, theres sumfin wrong wit the connection but i fink u r tryin to tell me "practise safe sex? bcuz if God wants you to have the kid, no matter the amount of condoms, pills or coils u use, u will.

I would advice every guy to marry when he is financially buoyant, itz bad to be at the mercy of others