babtaima:

lol redpilled man..

pocohantas:


Who ask you?

Colourich:
There is a probability that the man will use you for sugar mummy things, then in turn spend the money on the woman he love.

cruchenutii:


technically you are.

Lalas247:

Ride on
I dey your back

Ebuka2016:

but you are married aunty, so why would any guy want to impress you with his beard?...via siggy

CHoccolaTE:
Rich Ladies marry poor men if you want to ooo, just make sure you don't relegate yourself to position of housemaid that will be cooking and cleaning and doing housework and STILL providing money at once.
Don't turn yourself to anybody Maga because men will use your head if you leave them.

ONCE YOU MARRY AND START CARING FOR A POOR MAN MAKE SURE HE DOES HOUSE WORK, all that rubbish authority and bossing you around will have to stop until he becomes breadwinner again.

Seal33:
Can u marry a poor man if you're rich?

How can u handle this?

Can u spend ur money for the man?

Can u do this to make the man love u?

Those that have done it, how did it end and what was their experiences or your own experiences if you have done so?

Pls house let's discuss this and help those in this situation.

And pls Moderators, move to the front page asap!

MissRaine69:

1) If you are spending money with the delusional belief that he will love you then this is a whole different topic for discussion not what you asked.
2) What’s there to handle? It’s about the type of woman you are and his confidence if he has potential and is willing to explore it why not? But Nigerian women have a flawed way of thinking most don’t recognise potential they aim for the already made man.
3) What do you expect to happen? Are there no women who have sponsored their man’s visa, schooling and are now husband and wife?
What happens is based on mindset and emotional intelligence. ( many lack this)

abike12:


ok. i'm sure my life is your master's thesis so you know me better than I do. best of luck

Pataricatering:
Lol ! You should be humble - because you want to ! Stop dishing out stupid advise to other women !

Pataricatering:
so by your logic - if the wife Pays the bills then the husband must submit , abi ?

Pataricatering:
so by your logic - if the wife Pays the bills then the husband must submit , abi ?

FRANNN:
If there's 'chemistry', Sure

INDUSTRIALFAN:
what if it's physics or only biology we have?

Seal33:


Lol

Chemistry, Physics, Biology, hmmm, lol!

BIXYBABE:
if I love him and he also love me too. why not?

pcguru1:


Lol I only read it oh I don't practice it , I read a lot so I've come across it

Ace16:


Usually I don't do this but your replies are off d hook... u r smart nd intelligent nd I admire u if u r truly a lady

Seal33:
Can u marry a poor man if you're rich?

How can u handle this?

Can u spend ur money for the man?

Can u do this to make the man love u?

Those that have done it, how did it end and what was their experiences or your own experiences if you have done so?

Pls house let's discuss this and help those in this situation.

And pls Moderators, move to the front page asap!

CuTTiieAngeL:
Growing up, mum always told money comes and go...everybody is rich and everybody is poor....i can't eat my money alone, even if he is rich, i won't let him spend a dime in my kitchen..am currently in love with a broke guy, he can go an extra mile for my sake.

Coolcris:
Please I need a woman for a serious relationship ohhhh... I'm a graduate from a reputable uni but currently without a job, I'm not lazy cos I cater for myself, a hustler to the core. Inspired by this thread (Lol.) I need a working class lady for serious relationship that can possibly lead to marriage. Am 32 yrs. and currently residing in Lagos.

Seal33:


Did u just call the advice stupid? It really shows the type of person u are. It shows u are one of those numerous Nigerian women who spoil the name of other good & humble women in Nigeria with your bad attitude, materialisic nature & money monger mentality and narrow mindset and mentality. You are arrogant and u encourage other women like u to be arrogant to men and they end up either not getting married or end up as single mothers and bitter women. Continue to be arrogant to men, ok?, & even to your elders, ok?, don't be humble, ok? Let's see where ur pride and arrogance will lead u to.

Jay5mie:

I just viewed your profile, abeg do you sell Soft box? How much and back drops

Lalas247:

Maybe it you who married me ... since this news is new to me

Nofav0rs:
But when a rich dude marries a poor girl, such probability doesn't exist huh? Smh

Mypeople2:
Haba! People like you dey, and I dey date sucking blood since, turning my little title "thousandnaire " to " kobonaire".At a point self, I nor even get money to go home after travelling and spending money on her .Yet, they will still be the ones saying " I can not marry a poor man " .
Let us be sincere with ourselves ,how many of these "I can not marry a poor man" ladies are actually rich ? Let us even start from, how many of you ladies can date a guy for 2years without collecting a dime from him, and instead you are the one giving him money ? How many ?
Babe, just go out and see the way ladies jump into men's cars these days as if their lives depend on it .But many guys jump into ladies cars ? Guys when you blow or if you don already blow , nor look down (poor ladies) .Rather look up(rich ones )....you are only permitted to look down if she was the one that suffered with you