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Re: 10 Reasons Why Having A Backup Boyfriend Is Dangerous For Women - By Tayo Demola by BRMN: 4:28pm On Aug 09, 2018
Amberon11:
Sorry I don't converse with mad people.
Go meet your fellow mad people at yabaleft. I will no longer read nor reply you back.

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Re: 10 Reasons Why Having A Backup Boyfriend Is Dangerous For Women - By Tayo Demola by BRMN: 4:31pm On Aug 09, 2018
akbahbah:


This one na confirm ashawo! waste of sperm.

Haba! Why na??

Mind u, spm is not a waste, can't be
Re: 10 Reasons Why Having A Backup Boyfriend Is Dangerous For Women - By Tayo Demola by kpolli(m): 11:03pm On Aug 09, 2018
BRMN:


No agreement on this. Some doesn't mean majority, neither does it mean half. Some means few of something. It means far less than half of something. So u get it??

Some by definition means an unspecified amount of things, at least a small amount which might just be greater than small... So by definition it can mean anything from 2 to all minus 1... So my dear, we are both correct.... Why can't you just share victory with me
Re: 10 Reasons Why Having A Backup Boyfriend Is Dangerous For Women - By Tayo Demola by BRMN: 12:51am On Aug 10, 2018
kpolli:


Some by definition means an unspecified amount of things, at least a small amount which might just be greater than small... So by definition it can mean anything from 2 to all minus 1... So my dear, we are both correct.... Why can't you just share victory with me

Some can mean anything from all minus one? No, wrong. All minus one will mean 100-1, will be 99. And that's 99%. Can 99% be minority? No 99% is absolutely a majority. Absolute majority. And this can't be some, but definitely a majority. So u see that ur argument is wrong? Doesn't hold & can't hold water. QED
Re: 10 Reasons Why Having A Backup Boyfriend Is Dangerous For Women - By Tayo Demola by BRMN: 1:09am On Aug 10, 2018
It goes without argument that it's dangerous for women just as the op put it
Re: 10 Reasons Why Having A Backup Boyfriend Is Dangerous For Women - By Tayo Demola by BRMN: 1:06pm On Aug 10, 2018
And if u have back-up boyfriend, will u have a backup husband too?
Re: 10 Reasons Why Having A Backup Boyfriend Is Dangerous For Women - By Tayo Demola by BRMN: 1:11pm On Aug 10, 2018
kunlesmiles:
Double dating is just too stressful and time consuming

It will even stress ur brain. But I know some people do it perfectly well. But I wonder how they do it...
Re: 10 Reasons Why Having A Backup Boyfriend Is Dangerous For Women - By Tayo Demola by kpolli(m): 4:05pm On Aug 10, 2018
BRMN:


Some can mean anything from all minus one? No, wrong. All minus one will mean 100-1, will be 99. And that's 99%. Can 99% be minority? No 99% is absolutely a majority. Absolute majority. And this can't be some, but definitely a majority. So u see that ur argument is wrong? Doesn't hold & can't hold water. QED

A little google (or any other search app) search will show that some means 1-99.... Only thing that is not in some is all, none and one.... So I know you think you're right but sorry you're not.... Some has nothing to do with majority vs minority
Re: 10 Reasons Why Having A Backup Boyfriend Is Dangerous For Women - By Tayo Demola by BRMN: 4:53pm On Aug 10, 2018
kpolli:


A little google (or any other search app) search will show that some means 1-99.... Only thing that is not in some is all, none and one.... So I know you think you're right but sorry you're not.... Some has nothing to do with majority vs minority

Hmm, I'm coming back soon
Re: 10 Reasons Why Having A Backup Boyfriend Is Dangerous For Women - By Tayo Demola by MissRaine69(f): 4:54pm On Aug 10, 2018
milemimi93:
Should men have backup gf?
Most do ....side chick
Re: 10 Reasons Why Having A Backup Boyfriend Is Dangerous For Women - By Tayo Demola by MissRaine69(f): 4:55pm On Aug 10, 2018
BRMN:
And if u have back-up boyfriend, will u have a backup husband too?
Main man and side n1gga that’s how some women roll
Re: 10 Reasons Why Having A Backup Boyfriend Is Dangerous For Women - By Tayo Demola by BRMN: 5:17pm On Aug 10, 2018
MissRaine69:

Main man and side n1gga that’s how some women roll

With this, they are already prepared that their relationship or marriage may not last
Re: 10 Reasons Why Having A Backup Boyfriend Is Dangerous For Women - By Tayo Demola by BRMN: 10:45pm On Aug 10, 2018
kpolli:


A little google (or any other search app) search will show that some means 1-99.... Only thing that is not in some is all, none and one.... So I know you think you're right but sorry you're not.... Some has nothing to do with majority vs minority


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"Some", from Google search:

Determiner:
1. an unspecified amount or number of.
2. used to refer to someone or something that is unknown or unspecified.
3. (used with a number) approximately.
4. (pronounced stressing ‘some’) a considerable amount or number of.
5. (pronounced stressing ‘some’) at least a small amount or number of.
6. (pronounced stressing ‘some’) expressing admiration of something notable.

pronoun
1. an unspecified number or amount of people or things.
2. (pronounced stressing ‘some’) at least a small amount or number of people or things.

[quote]

Take note of number 5 above under Determiner. Also take note of number 2 above under pronoun.

That's the actual meaning referred to. At least a small amount of something. A small number of people. It can never be a great part of them, but a small part of them. That's a minority, not majority. So it's a minority or small group of women who do this. Are u still willing to argue this? Bring it on here, I will challenge u to it. I will show u why u're wrong on this! Waiting for u if u're still willing to discuss this!
Re: 10 Reasons Why Having A Backup Boyfriend Is Dangerous For Women - By Tayo Demola by BRMN: 10:59pm On Aug 10, 2018
milemimi93:
Should men have backup gf?

They believe they are free to have back-up girlfriends because it's a man's world, but they think women should not try it & remain faithful to them! Hmm e get as e be oh.....
Re: 10 Reasons Why Having A Backup Boyfriend Is Dangerous For Women - By Tayo Demola by kpolli(m): 2:57am On Aug 11, 2018
BRMN:





"Some", from Google search:

Determiner:
1. an unspecified amount or number of.
2. used to refer to someone or something that is unknown or unspecified.
3. (used with a number) approximately.
4. (pronounced stressing ‘some’) a considerable amount or number of.
5. (pronounced stressing ‘some’) at least a small amount or number of.
6. (pronounced stressing ‘some’) expressing admiration of something notable.

pronoun
1. an unspecified number or amount of people or things.
2. (pronounced stressing ‘some’) at least a small amount or number of people or things.



Take note of number 5 above under Determiner. Also take note of number 2 above under pronoun.

That's the actual meaning referred to. At least a small amount of something. A small number of people. It can never be a great part of them, but a small part of them. That's a minority, not majority. So it's a minority or small group of women who do this. Are u still willing to argue this? Bring it on here, I will challenge u to it. I will show u why u're wrong on this! Waiting for u if u're still willing to discuss this!

Take a closer look at number 5 as you said; at the very least it's a small amount. Meaning it could be a large amount but the least it will be is a small amount... That means it can possibly be a large amount.... So you see, I win cool
Re: 10 Reasons Why Having A Backup Boyfriend Is Dangerous For Women - By Tayo Demola by BRMN: 2:11pm On Aug 11, 2018
Will be back
Re: 10 Reasons Why Having A Backup Boyfriend Is Dangerous For Women - By Tayo Demola by Nobody: 2:47pm On Aug 11, 2018
You could end up losing the both of them.
Re: 10 Reasons Why Having A Backup Boyfriend Is Dangerous For Women - By Tayo Demola by BRMN: 2:56pm On Aug 11, 2018
It's just like u're selling yourself
Re: 10 Reasons Why Having A Backup Boyfriend Is Dangerous For Women - By Tayo Demola by BRMN: 2:58pm On Aug 11, 2018
And from what Tayo Demola said in this article, u may lose both of your boyfriends & it may even be hard to get another one
Re: 10 Reasons Why Having A Backup Boyfriend Is Dangerous For Women - By Tayo Demola by BRMN: 2:59pm On Aug 11, 2018
So why double dating in the first place?
Re: 10 Reasons Why Having A Backup Boyfriend Is Dangerous For Women - By Tayo Demola by BRMN: 3:01pm On Aug 11, 2018
Colourich:
You could end up losing the both of them.

You're right, it's just like a greedy person who is never satisfied with anything she has, she will end up losing what she has
Re: 10 Reasons Why Having A Backup Boyfriend Is Dangerous For Women - By Tayo Demola by BRMN: 7:57pm On Aug 11, 2018
kpolli:


Take a closer look at number 5 as you said; at the very least it's a small amount. Meaning it could be a large amount but the least it will be is a small amount... That means it can possibly be a large amount.... So you see, I win cool

No u misunderstood the context, it could never have been a large amount, it's a small amount, a small number, a small group.
Re: 10 Reasons Why Having A Backup Boyfriend Is Dangerous For Women - By Tayo Demola by kpolli(m): 8:06pm On Aug 11, 2018
BRMN:


No u misunderstood the context, it could never have been a large amount, it's a small amount, a small number, a small group.

Ok let's break down the statement.

"At least, it's a small amount." what does that mean? At least means minimum; it's a small amount is already clear. Putting both together, minimum it can be is a small amount.... Do you now agree?
Re: 10 Reasons Why Having A Backup Boyfriend Is Dangerous For Women - By Tayo Demola by BRMN: 1:46am On Aug 12, 2018
kpolli:


Ok let's break down the statement.

"At least, it's a small amount." what does that mean? At least means minimum; it's a small amount is already clear. Putting both together, minimum it can be is a small amount.... Do you now agree?

Hmm
Hmm
Re: 10 Reasons Why Having A Backup Boyfriend Is Dangerous For Women - By Tayo Demola by BRMN: 1:11am On Dec 18, 2018
Ok
Re: 10 Reasons Why Having A Backup Boyfriend Is Dangerous For Women - By Tayo Demola by News101: 1:28am On Dec 23, 2018
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