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A Lady's Comment On Women's Financial Status Before Marriage by nlanded: 6:05pm On Aug 08
Sense would not kill this babe! grin

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Re: A Lady's Comment On Women's Financial Status Before Marriage by StrongandMighty: 6:26pm On Aug 08
Truth of the century



This girl will surely make heaven.

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Re: A Lady's Comment On Women's Financial Status Before Marriage by ItxAyce(m): 6:41pm On Aug 08
This lady needs to be given special treament for this truth.
All I can say is

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Re: A Lady's Comment On Women's Financial Status Before Marriage by Igbokiller(m): 7:01pm On Aug 08
Where are the Nairaland hypocrites forming Mrs independent to defend this thread

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Re: A Lady's Comment On Women's Financial Status Before Marriage by Homeboiy: 7:04pm On Aug 08
I give her Eziokwu bu ndu and daughters nig Ltd

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Re: A Lady's Comment On Women's Financial Status Before Marriage by iykekelvins(m): 7:05pm On Aug 08
This table she's shaking has so many financially unstable girls on it.

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Re: A Lady's Comment On Women's Financial Status Before Marriage by nlanded: 7:13pm On Aug 08
StrongandMighty:
Truth of the century



This girl will surely make heaven.

Lol, you can say that again. She deserves a special seat at the bosom of Abraham in heaven

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Re: A Lady's Comment On Women's Financial Status Before Marriage by NwanyiAwkaetiti(f): 7:13pm On Aug 08
What if he's the one disturbing for marriage?

Na Hard economy cause all this useless talk. Giving the rise to gold digging in men to escalate.

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Re: A Lady's Comment On Women's Financial Status Before Marriage by Deadlywoman: 7:14pm On Aug 08
New Dawn is upon us grin

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Re: A Lady's Comment On Women's Financial Status Before Marriage by nlanded: 7:33pm On Aug 08
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
What if he's the one disturbing for marriage?

Na Hard economy cause all this useless talk. Giving the rise to gold digging in men to escalate.

Madam this has nothing to do with men being gold diggers, 98% of the time in Nigeria, is the man not more financial buoyant that the lady when they get married?

Even if a woman is richer than a man and they marry(which RARELY happens), you claim its gold digging right? And how about 98% of the time that the man is richer than the lady? Is that not gold digging as well? That is even gold mining! grin

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Re: A Lady's Comment On Women's Financial Status Before Marriage by nlanded: 7:35pm On Aug 08
Can't you ladies work for your own money as well? Its only in Nigeria that Nigerian ladies feel money is gender bias, money is free to all gender please, what a pity for how some of our Nigerian ladies reason.

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Re: A Lady's Comment On Women's Financial Status Before Marriage by NwanyiAwkaetiti(f): 7:42pm On Aug 08
nlanded:


Madam this has nothing to do with men being gold diggers, 98% of the time in Nigeria, is the man not more financial buoyant that the lady when they get married?

Even if a woman is richer than a man and they marry(which RARELY happens), you claim its gold digging right? And how about 98% of the time that the man is richer than the lady? Is that not gold digging as well? That is even gold mining! grin
Are you saying we don't have male gold diggers? Too bad people are now focusing on material stuffs in relationships, what they stand to benefit and what not.

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Re: A Lady's Comment On Women's Financial Status Before Marriage by NwanyiAwkaetiti(f): 7:44pm On Aug 08
nlanded:
Can't you ladies work for your own money as well? Its only in Nigeria that Nigerian ladies feel money is gender bias, money is free to all gender please, what a pity for how some of our Nigerian ladies reason.
Is it that women don't work where you come from? Perhaps next time you go out with a lady, tell her to pay for her bills.

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Re: A Lady's Comment On Women's Financial Status Before Marriage by Elder001(m): 7:45pm On Aug 08
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
What if he's the one disturbing for marriage?

Na Hard economy cause all this useless talk. Giving the rise to gold digging in men to escalate.

Because ladies are being advised to contribute financially to relationships and marriages, men have suddenly turned into Gold diggers?

Who were you expecting to provide all the finances needed to move the marriage or relationship forward?


The difference between stupidity and genius is that genius has its limits -Albert Einstein

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Re: A Lady's Comment On Women's Financial Status Before Marriage by yeyerolling: 7:54pm On Aug 08
Some men actually want dependent women so dem go fit tolerate all ddm bushit and never leave

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Re: A Lady's Comment On Women's Financial Status Before Marriage by nlanded: 7:59pm On Aug 08
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Are you saying we don't have male gold diggers? Too bad people are now focusing on material stuffs in relationships, what they stand to benefit and what not.

From inception, women have been the ones focusing on material stuff in relationships, yet it was normal then to you, now men ask that women be financially stable as well and these double standard gender called women are crying wolf, how sad!

If you are saying there are gold digging men, in everyone 100 gold digging men you see, they are a billion gold digging women to outnumber them.

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Re: A Lady's Comment On Women's Financial Status Before Marriage by xoxo001(m): 8:00pm On Aug 08
Your mama born you well dear... preach on!

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Re: A Lady's Comment On Women's Financial Status Before Marriage by nlanded: 8:04pm On Aug 08
Lalasticlala, farano , Rocktation come and take this to the promise land so we hear what more Nigerians have to say.

Nigerian women are funny set of people!

They shout for equality when it comes to benefits but runaway when it comes to equality for responsibilities as well. Double standards at its peak!

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Re: A Lady's Comment On Women's Financial Status Before Marriage by NwanyiAwkaetiti(f): 8:04pm On Aug 08
Elder001:


Because ladies are being advised to contribute financially to relationships and marriages, men have suddenly turned into Gold diggers?

Who were you expecting to provide all the finances needed to move the marriage or relationship forward?


The difference between stupidity and genius is that genius has its limits -Albert Einstein
Im definitely not against supporting financially to a relationship as a lady but what I don't like is when "men" come out to stress about it like their eyes are in a woman's money. It's quite disturbing.

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Re: A Lady's Comment On Women's Financial Status Before Marriage by pocohantas(f): 8:07pm On Aug 08
Why should any sane woman be angry with this advice? It is for her own good.

That said, men should stop marrying these dependent women.
It is that easy. But will they?

Creating a thousand threads won't change the reality that lots of men love dependent women. Check around you, you will notice your jobless course mate is married. The ones with good jobs are still single. Don't start that story of how independent ladies are proud o. The only thing that's proud, is your EGO grin

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Re: A Lady's Comment On Women's Financial Status Before Marriage by Elder001(m): 8:13pm On Aug 08
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Im definitely not against supporting financially to a relationship as a lady but what I don't like is when "men" come out to stress about it like their eyes are in a woman's money. It's quite disturbing.


Just like women have been setting their eyes on men's money?

What is good for the goose is good for the gander.

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Re: A Lady's Comment On Women's Financial Status Before Marriage by Elder001(m): 8:16pm On Aug 08
pocohantas:
Why should any sane woman be angry with this advice? It is for her own good.

That said, men should stop marrying these dependent women na.
It is that easy. But will they?

Creating a thousand threads won't change the reality that lots of men love dependent women. Check around you, you will notice your jobless course mate is married. The ones with good jobs are still single. Don't start that story of how independent ladies are proud o. The only thing that's proud, is your EGO grin

Some men love dependent women because they know that only those dependent women can submit, tolerate abuse, cheating and all sorts of bullshît because they'll be afraid to leave the marriage.

and they need those things to feed their ego

-Cheating unchecked
-Abusing unchecked

-all bullshîts tolerated.


An independent woman won't tolerate bullshît from any man because of marriage.

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Re: A Lady's Comment On Women's Financial Status Before Marriage by NwanyiAwkaetiti(f): 8:18pm On Aug 08
Elder001:



Just like women have been setting their eyes on men's money?

I've always said it that any woman who doesn't want to part with her money shouldn't think about getting married or starting a relationship.
No woman thinks twice in parting with her money for the man she truly love. Just know that. If you are dating a woman who doesn't, just know you on your own. Simple.

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Re: A Lady's Comment On Women's Financial Status Before Marriage by nlanded: 8:18pm On Aug 08
pocohantas:
Why should any sane woman be angry with this advice? It is for her own good.

That said, men should stop marrying these dependent women na.
It is that easy. But will they?

Creating a thousand threads won't change the reality that lots of men love dependent women. Check around you, you will notice your jobless course mate is married. The ones with good jobs are still single. Don't start that story of how independent ladies are proud o. The only thing that's proud, is your EGO grin

The usual ramblings of gibberish! First they start with damage control then excuses and then cap it up with reverse psychology gimmicks.

The day women folk like you in Nigeria get it into your skulls that the 21st working class man desires an equally successful woman earning her own money would be the day you guys would be taken more serious, and more from being underachievers to achievers, can't you see women presidents in foreign countries?

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Re: A Lady's Comment On Women's Financial Status Before Marriage by Elder001(m): 8:20pm On Aug 08
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
No woman thinks twice in parting with her money for the man she truly love. Just know that. If you are dating a woman who doesn't, just know you on your own. Simple.

I'm done with you madam.

I don't know why any woman will criticize the lady's tweet.

If you're not financially stable stop disturbing people for marriage -that's her advice.

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Re: A Lady's Comment On Women's Financial Status Before Marriage by pocohantas(f): 8:22pm On Aug 08
nlanded:


The usual ramblings of gibberish! First they start with damage control then excuses and then cap it up with reverse psychology gimmicks.

The day women folk like you in Nigeria get it into your skulls that the 21st working class man desires an equally successful woman earning her own money would be the day you guys would be taken more serious, and more from being underachievers to achievers, can't you see women presidents in foreign countries?

Guy I am not the cause of your problem o.

This your diatribe won't change reality. Your 21st century men are dating and marrying dependent ladies everyday. Any day they want otherwise, the ball is in their court grin grin.

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Re: A Lady's Comment On Women's Financial Status Before Marriage by NwanyiAwkaetiti(f): 8:23pm On Aug 08
Elder001:


I'm done with you madam.

I don't know why any woman will criticize the lady's tweet.

If you're not financially stable stop disturbing people for marriage -that's her advice.

Whatever. It's not like the argument or her tweet would change anything. Namaste.

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Re: A Lady's Comment On Women's Financial Status Before Marriage by nlanded: 8:24pm On Aug 08
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
No woman thinks twice in parting with her money for the man she truly love. Just know that. If you are dating a woman who doesn't, just know you on your own. Simple.

Here comes another dumb gimmick at giving the impression that people should be giving because they love, let's even agree both men and women give when they are in love, the question now is how many ladies even have financial stability to contribute in this love giving? You stingy set of leeches don't have such! Thats the point here, you all should go out and get some financial stability!

I would say it again: Money is not gender bias!

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Re: A Lady's Comment On Women's Financial Status Before Marriage by Thegamingorca(m): 8:26pm On Aug 08
pocohantas:


Guy I am not the cause of your problem o.

This your diatribe won't change reality. Your 21st century men are dating and marrying dependent ladies everyday. Any day they want otherwise, the ball is in their court grin grin.
grin grin

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Re: A Lady's Comment On Women's Financial Status Before Marriage by pocohantas(f): 8:26pm On Aug 08
Elder001:


Some men love dependent women because they know that only those dependent women can submit, tolerate abuse, cheating and all sorts of bullshît because they'll be afraid to leave the marriage.

and they need those things to feed their ego

-Cheating unchecked
-Abusing unchecked

-all bullshîts tolerated.


An independent woman won't tolerate bullshît from any man because of marriage.

I'm glad a man accepted this bitter truth. I also do not like the idea of a grown woman depending on a man for life, but then...that arrangement satisfies a large percentage of Nigerian men.

Ramblings on social media won't change it. That's why I don't talk too much again on these issues.

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Re: A Lady's Comment On Women's Financial Status Before Marriage by nlanded: 8:27pm On Aug 08
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Whatever. It's not like the argument or her tweet would change anything. Namaste.

And would your own counter claims change anything too? NO!

Go to Twitter and Instagram and find out the reach of this tweet of hers, then you would know her tweet is already changing alot of things.

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Re: A Lady's Comment On Women's Financial Status Before Marriage by NwanyiAwkaetiti(f): 8:29pm On Aug 08
nlanded:


Here comes another dumb gimmick at giving the impression that people should be giving because they love, let's even agree both men and women give when they are in love, the question now is how many ladies even have financial stability to contribute in this love giving? You stingy set of leeches don't have such! Thats the point here, you all should go out and get some financial stability!

I would say it again: Money is not gender bias!
Hey, let's not argue OK. Life is easy. Date a wealthy lady OK. Life is easy.

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