why is it that alot of Nigerians don't like S&M just missionary boring sex, and most of our men prefer being the dominant one in sex rather than their women.
I'm telling you, S&M with the woman being the dominant one can really be fun, it gets your adrenaline going, its like being on one of those scary rides in an amusement park and getting a hard on at the same time.
That is why I love S&M with the woman being the dominant one and me being the submissive one, it drives me wild and gets me excited too.

mhd5757:
why is it that alot of Nigerians don't like S&M just missionary boring sex, and most of our men prefer being the dominant one in sex rather than their women.
I'm telling you, S&M with the woman being the dominant one can really be fun, it gets your adrenaline going, its like being on one of those scary rides in an amusement park and getting a hard on at the same time.
That is why I love S&M with the woman being the dominant one and me being the submissive one, it drives me wild and gets me excited too.

u mumu o.

And you think you're a man?
Who do you this thing?

Pics or I don't believe it

NnamdiN:
And you think you're a man?
Who do you this thing?

Trust me I am a man. This is just a role that I like to play with a woman behind closed doors and is not like I want the woman to control me my whole life. I just want her to play the role of a dominaterix during sex.

Lol, weird societies with weird sexual explorations ... Most Nigerians ain't that weird to this stage yet .... we gon be there someday

I think you are wrong here. There a quite a number of Nigerians into S&M but its kept top secret. Its a culture thing, most Nigerians don't discuss their sexuality openly, they only do that within a tight circle of friends. And I bet you a lot of Nigerians have a colorful and vibrant sex life and escapades.

Abeg, I don't know what S & M means o.

I only know sadomasochism, and if that is what the op is implying, I think he doesn't know the meaning of it.

mhd5757:

Trust me I am a man. This is just a role that I like to play with a woman behind closed doors and is not like I want the woman to control me my whole life. I just want her to play the role of a dominaterix during sex.

You like to play with a woman behind closed doors. Yet you're wondering why you're not seeing most nigerians openly practising it. Or how many Nigerians' private lives have you accessed for you to have arrived at your conclusion?

In BDSM circles, guys, like your type, who do it only when they're on heat are termed as sexual slaves, in contrast with lifestyle slaves

pafo:
Abeg, I don't know what S & M means o.

I only know sadomasochism, and if that is what the op is implying, I think he doesn't know the meaning of it.

The OP is referring to slave & Mistress by s & M.

blujoi:
I think you are wrong here. There a quite a number of Nigerians into S&M but its kept top secret. Its a culture thing, most Nigerians don't discuss their sexuality openly, they only do that within a tight circle of friends. And I bet you a lot of Nigerians have a colorful and vibrant sex life and escapades.

True!
I think the Op is presently struggling to come into terms with his inner urge.

pafo:
Abeg, I don't know what S & M means o.

I only know sadomasochism, and if that is what the op is implying, I think he doesn't know the meaning of it.

Of course I know the meaning its receiving a little bit of pain from the dominant woman.
I know about it more than you do but I am not going to say more. So you will have to Google it if you want to know more about it.

donjobill:


You like to play with a woman behind closed doors. Yet you're wondering why you're not seeing most nigerians openly practising it. Or how many Nigerians' private lives have you accessed for you to have arrived at your conclusion?

In BDSM circles, guys, like your type, who do it only when they're on heat are termed as sexual slaves, in contrast with lifestyle slaves

You are absolutely right in the last paragraph.

Op many Nigerians are not into it becos they dont even know wat it means. Those that are a little enlightened about it dont practise it becos they are vanilla. Those who practise it privately deny it openly becos of discrimination. S & M is gradually gaining ground in Nigeria since the release of that movie...

bdsm:
Op many Nigerians are not into it becos they dont even know wat it means. Those that are a little enlightened about it dont practise it becos they are vanilla. Those who practise it privately deny it openly becos of discrimination. S & M is gradually gaining ground in Nigeria since the release of that movie...

Are you talking about "50 shades of grey"? The movie is not really that good, it would have been better if they made the man to be the submissive one and the woman to be the dominant one but instead they made the woman to be the submissive while the man to be the dominant. That is a huge turnoff.

mhd5757:

Are you talking about "50 shades of grey"? The movie is not really that good, it would have been better if they made the man to be the submissive one and the woman to be the dominant one but instead they made the woman to be the submissive while the man to be the dominant. That is a huge turnoff.

Thats true i prefer a woman in charge.

So this is Onila’s new account.

BDSM = Bondage Dominance Sadomasochism. It is practised much in the USA. Personally, I have an interest in D/s. Dominance and submission. I prefer to be submissive since the majority of men in the USA are no longer alpha. Many women have to be both a man and a women in our society. It would be nice just to be the women.

I'm also curious about being a dominant to a black man. It's mostly white men in America that have a fetish of being dominated by black women. I have very little attraction to white men. I do have a fantasy of dominating a young Alpha male.

donjobill:


The OP is referring to slave & Mistress by s & M.

MarjieJ98354:
BDSM = Bondage Dominance Sadomasochism. It is practised much in the USA. Personally, I have an interest in D/s. Dominance and submission. I prefer to be submissive since the majority of men in the USA are no longer alpha. Many women have to be both a man and a women in our society. It would be nice just to be the women.

I'm also curious about being a dominant to a black man. It's mostly white men in America that have a fetish of being dominated by black women. I have very little attraction to white men. I do have a fantasy of dominating a young Alpha male.

You prefer to settle down as a submissive wife. You also have an urge to explore your dominant side with a willing black play-partner.

For me the most I will ever do will be to fućk a married woman.

All this talk about BDSM is sexual perversion as far as I'm concerned

SOUNDS LIKE YOU CALL HER "MUMMY" DURING SEX TOO SMH

If you want s and m go and carry a prostitute


Tell her to tie you with cow ropes from head to toe

And you will enjoy your s and m