Two days ago, I had a lengthy discussion with few friends. we talked about everything, ranging from family, relationships to trivial matters. In the course of the discussion, one of them chipped in a question which struck my senses. Thus, this pushed me into bringing it here. I hope I find intelligible answers to this mystery. He said;

I've been at loggerheads with my girl. Since we started our relationship, my life has been stagnant, and not even in parts but wholly.

Since we began, my religious life has been in a sorry state, my business has failed to flourish. In totality, I'll say she has been nothing but 'Bad-luck'. That statement was bewildering. I found, and still find it hard to believe that he could be so myopic.

Now, the hazy question which hasn't ceased to recur is; The notion that people (In relationships) bring Bad-luck/Good-luck, is it true/false?

Cc: Lalasticlala

I don’t believe in that, but if you want to have girlfriend, is not okay for the girl to be staying overnight in your house everyday even u wont know where to target your prayers if she’s sleeping in your house overnight everyday.

Its true!

It's only ignorant Nigerians and Africans who have such beliefs, always trying to blame their misfortunes on another instead of accepting responsibility for their own actions.

adetoroamos:
I don’t believe in that, but if you want to have girlfriend, is not okay for the girl to be staying overnight in your house everyday even u wont know where to target your prayers if she’s sleeping in your house overnight everyday.

Lol. So, what're you saying in essence?
That every girl is a stumbling block?

hisgrace090:
Its true!

Just this? No backings?

Quiescere:
It's only ignorant Nigerians and Africans who have such beliefs, always trying to blame their misfortunes on another instead of accepting responsibility for their own actions.

Lol. It hasn't ceased to amaze me as how myopic he could be. He's an enlightened person, so I was disappointed.

No one brings anyone Ill-luck/Goodluck. I refuse to conform to that belief.

Most of we women carry the Badluck in our body and dump it on a innocent man. And it is not as if we are working or providing anything for the house hold. Our own is to cook food, clean the house, wash his clothes, watch telemundo, chat with endless men on WhatsApp, Facebook, Instamessage, and open our pinky hole for anyone who flashes 2000naira or drives a Benz

Seriously We women are write- offs in Nigeria

Wilfredpat22:
Most of we women carry the Badluck in our body and dump it on a innocent man. And it is not as if we are working or providing anything for the house hold. Our own is to cook food, clean the house, wash his clothes, watch telemundo, chat with endless men on WhatsApp, Facebook, Instamessage, and open our pinky hole for anyone who flashes 2000naira or drives a Benz

Seriously We women are write- offs in Nigeria

Lol. Are you sure you're a woman?
You spew negative energy.

Speak only for yourself, and not women in general. Even what you said doesn't correlate with the topic. Be positive.

UyaiIncomparabl:


Lol. Are you sure you're a woman?
You spew negative energy.

Speak only for yourself, and not women in general. Even what you said doesn't correlate with the topic. Be positive.

What were you doing on my thread again?

What have I done to you that you can't just stop insulting me?


Did I promise you marriage?

Elder001:


What were you doing on my thread again?

What have I done to you that you can't just stop insulting me?


Did I promise you marriage?

Is this your point?

Oh. I forgot. You're always clueless.

UyaiIncomparabl:

Is this your point?
Oh. I forgot. You're always clueless.

Are you sure you know the meaning of the word "clueless"?
You won't like me if you try that childish stuff with me again.

Just fvcking grow up.

Elder001:


Are you sure you know the meaning of the word "clueless"?

You won't like me if you try that childish stuff with me again.


Just fvcking grow up.

Don't deviate this thread. Carry your negative energy go. The only thing you can do is report me to get banned, just like you did for Mimi.

Dey go sha. We will see later.

UyaiIncomparabl:


Don't deviate this thread. Carry your negative energy go. The only thing you can do is report me to get banned, just like you did for Mimi.

Dey go sha. We will see later.

Mehn.. something is wrong with you.


I hope you're not like this in real life sha.. you need serious stuff because you're missing it.

yes. ur friend can make u or break u, my bishop oyedepo said'friendship is by choice not by force'

Yes. It's a universal known fact, mainly by innate metaphysicians and spiritual but not religious people, who're in tune with their subconscious. Some people usually emanates negative energy - corrupt energy - with or without knowing, and once they come around you or into your life (either temporary or permanent) your life starts a downward trend - not necessarily financial-wise. The belief has nothing to do with neither one being myopic nor African. The good thing is that the condition is redeemable.

Wilfredpat22:
Most of we women carry the Badluck in our body and dump it on a innocent man. And it is not as if we are working or providing anything for the house hold. Our own is to cook food, clean the house, wash his clothes, watch telemundo, chat with endless men on WhatsApp, Facebook, Instamessage, and open our pinky hole for anyone who flashes 2000naira or drives a Benz

Seriously We women are write- offs in Nigeria

I never new it was pinky...

dollytino4real:
yes. ur friend can make u or break u, my bishop oyedepo said'friendship is by choice not by force'

Lol. You're deviating from the topic.

LordKO:
Yes. It's a universal known fact, mainly by innate metaphysicians and spiritual but not religious people, who're in tune with their subconscious. Some people usually emanates negative energy - corrupt energy - with or without knowing, and once they come around you or into your life (either temporary or permanent) your life starts a downward trend - not necessarily financial-wise. The belief has nothing to do with neither one being myopic nor African. The good thing is that the condition is redeemable.

Thanks for the detailed comment.

Did you say redeemable? How can the condition be warded off?

UyaiIncomparabl:


Lol. You're deviating from the topic.

yes bad luck is breaking u, while make u is good luck

All i can say is one needs to becareful when choosing a life partner.

I DON'T KNOW WHY PEOPLE DON'T UNDERSTAND EVERYTHING IS IN THE BIBLE.

OP, OF COURSE IT'S TRUE

Joseph came to work in potiphas house and potipha experienced increase.
Same happened to lot, just by association with Abraham.
Other instances in the Bible also.

Of course the reverse is also possible.

HOWEVER, THERE IS NO LUCK. U ARE EITHER BLESSED OR CURSED.

UyaiIncomparabl:


Thanks for the detailed comment.

Did you say redeemable? How can the condition be warded off?

Step of warding off the condition requires self-reverse to default - this can be achieved through periodic solitary (not alienation from others) and embrace of diplomatic ethical leanings - constant and altruistic acts of philanthropy, channelled towards the needy, being part of the embrace.

dollytino4real:
yes bad luck is breaking u, while make u is good luck

Lol. Thanks for your input.

yvelchstores:
I DON'T KNOW WHY PEOPLE DON'T UNDERSTAND EVERYTHING IS IN THE BIBLE.

OP, OF COURSE IT'S TRUE

Joseph came to work in potiphas house and potipha experienced increase.
Same happened to lot, just by association with Abraham.
Other instances in the Bible also.

Of course the reverse is also possible.

HOWEVER, THERE IS NO LUCK. U ARE EITHER BLESSED OR CURSED.

I'm talking about real life, BAE and not some Biblical character.
I could rather say the cause for such dwindle could be that their energies do not match.

LordKO:


Step of warding off the condition requires self-reverse to default - this can be achieved through periodic solitary (not alienation from others) and embrace of diplomatic ethical leanings - constant and altruistic acts of philanthropy, channelled towards the needy, being part of the embrace.

Oh, I see. In comprehension, Philanthropy is the key to breaking off this energy?

Have you ever thought, in the course of this 'Dwindle' happening, could it just be that their energies do not tally?

ennon92:
All i can say is one needs to becareful when choosing a life partner.

Oh. I see. Have you ever been in such situation?

UyaiIncomparabl:


I'm talking about real life, BAE and not some Biblical character.
I could rather say the cause for such dwindle could be that their energies do not match.

the Bible is more real than u and I. Pls don't repeat such statement again. U were made from the word of God. The writings in the Bible are not stories but reality. The word of God is living and active so it has no expiration. Nothing in this world is more real than God's word. Pls note.

@OP, I am a philosopher and rationalist but I must tell you that we are in a world where everything is independent and interconnected to everything else.

A good friend of mine had a remarkable experience which I confirmed to serve as an answer to you. There was a particular runs babe he usually had sex with for prosperity. Any day he had sex with this babe, he would received favours and had a massive sales of his products.

As he intimated us of this development, other guys also had a taste of the girl and experienced the reward and I happened to be one of those guys. I won 250,000 on bet9ja the week I had a taste and I was amazed that weeks later I decided to woo and make the girl a permanent serious gf. Unfortunately, one of my friends who also got his rewards had proposed to the girl and printed wedding invitations.

I was very angry with the guy likewise other of my friends. We tried to see that the marriage didn't hold so that we continued to be having a taste perhaps sharing her among ourselves but it didn't work out.

After the marriage, the husband started prospering massively in business. He is now a major importer of products in his line of business.

We are more than biological beings. Some of us have untarnishable star of wealth in our aura that whosoever comes within our energy field through s3x pertakes in it.

While some girls are abundance of goodluck and blessing irrespective of their moral inclinations and decency, some other girls are abundance of badluck irrespective of their decency and religious inclinations. Life is deeper than we envisage. I could say more but let me stop here

yvelchstores:
the Bible is more real than u and I. Pls don't repeat such statement again. U were made from the word of God. The writings in the Bible are not stories but reality. The word of God is living and active so it has no expiration. Nothing in this world is more real than God's word. Pls note.

Roger that, ma'am. I'll be careful from now on. Thanks for your input.

yvelchstores:
the Bible is more real than u and I. Pls don't repeat such statement again. U were made from the word of God. The writings in the Bible are not stories but reality. The word of God is living and active so it has no expiration. Nothing in this world is more real than God's word. Pls note.

The bible is an ancient Hebrew myth turned into a base for religion by catholics.

The bible is self contradictory in many areas.

Well it is not at all true and it has nothing to do with religion/ spirituality at all. Let me give an instance.

A very smart, matured and intelligent lady came into my life, she's very much a realist and prefers to face things heads on, makes decisions with her head and not with her heart. She is successful and fully independent and very ambitious.

Spending every morning and every night with her, she influenced my thought process, I observed how my decision became more objective and affected my priorities and loads of positive result.

On the other hand, I've also spent sometime with a lady with an entirely different energy and priorities which sort of conflicted with my own personality and then I quit because I knew I was going to make decisions I would regret.

In the end, the people you spend time with have the power to influence your thought process, making you a miserable person or a better person.