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Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by hergists(f): 1:10pm On Aug 22, 2018
This is one experience that I can never forget. And I want you to learn from it as I did. Love and sex is sweet. But there’s nothing wrong with having it at the right time and with the right person.

Well, I am not a sex freak. But if there’s anything I cherish so much in a relationship, then it has to be love.

So, is love really blind?

Will Moss believes that love is not blind. It sees more and not less. But because it sees more, it is willing to see less. James Graham argues that love is blind and marriage is the institution for the blind.

While some people will disagree with this, other people will also have differing opinions.

In an article on Psychology Today, the reason we idealize our beloved is because we tend to evaluate positively what we desire.

That aside. To what length have you gone for love?

Sometimes ago, I could go any length just for love without fear.

But then, I noticed that most men take advantage of this. When you are used to checking on some partners, they begin to exhibit strange acts. But sometimes, we need to learn from our own mistakes to be wiser.

I traveled sometimes ago, to go see my parents after my exams. So I decided to surprise my (so-called) boyfriend by checking on him at his place.

When I got in, he asked me what I wanted to eat. And I said he should offer me anything he had at home because I was really starving.

After then, I just wanted to just lie my back somewhere before going to my parent’s place.

We both agreed on a no sex relationship at least until I’m ready. But, he insisted on having sex with me then and now. And I was like what! Are you kidding me? And he said no. He wants it right now and here.

I was scared because such a thing has never happened to me before. I began to weep. I began to beg him. Just for him not to hurt me. But he insisted.

He began to make me feel bad for checking on him before going to see my parents. He began to make me feel stupid because of the love I had for him then.

While I was still begging him to stop, he carried me and laid me on his bed. I couldn’t scream because people were around. I was just grinning and bitter.

He forced himself into me without even considering the fact that I was a virgin. He used his male strength on me and pressed my back to his bed stick. It was painful.

Stop! Stop! But he wouldn’t listen. Until he accomplished his mission.

So he stood up. I couldn’t walk, I couldn’t even sit. I managed to stand up from his bed. The deed has been done. So he went to freshen up and began to apologize to me that it wasn’t his fault and all. That I was too attractive. That he didn’t know what came over him.

And all those while he was talking, I was just starring at him. I couldn’t utter any statement than to say I’ve forgiven you. But from the depth of my heart. I hadn’t forgiven him.

Things like this are bound to happen. But it all depends on how one decides to handle such situation. So, I promised myself that I wasn’t going to be too nice to any man again.

Never!

I think that day was the last time I set my eyes on him. I didn’t want to see him again. Though I’m okay now. I’m stronger and wiser.

This experience humbled me. It changed my perception of love. I started seeing men as sexual beasts.

If my then boyfriend can hurt me this much. If he can take away what I so much cherish from me forcefully, then no man is to be trusted again.

I could go any length for love in the past but not anymore.

https://hergists.com/the-crazy-thing-i-did-for-love/

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Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by Oma307(m): 1:11pm On Aug 22, 2018
can someone help me by summarizing it

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Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by dingbang(m): 1:14pm On Aug 22, 2018
Eya.. Guys please learn to control your libido.

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Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by Siki355(m): 1:18pm On Aug 22, 2018
hergists:
This is one experience that I can never forget. And I want you to learn from it as I did. Love and sex is sweet. But there’s nothing wrong with having it at the right time and with the right person.

Well, I am not a sex freak. But if there’s anything I cherish so much in a relationship, then it has to be love.

So, is love really blind?

Will Moss believes that love is not blind. It sees more and not less. But because it sees more, it is willing to see less. James Graham argues that love is blind and marriage is the institution for the blind.

While some people will disagree with this, other people will also have differing opinions.

In an article on Psychology Today, the reason we idealize our beloved is because we tend to evaluate positively what we desire.

That aside. To what length have you gone for love?

Sometimes ago, I could go any length just for love without fear.

But then, I noticed that most men take advantage of this. When you are used to checking on some partners, they begin to exhibit strange acts. But sometimes, we need to learn from our own mistakes to be wiser.

I traveled sometimes ago, to go see my parents after my exams. So I decided to surprise my (so-called) boyfriend by checking on him at his place.

When I got in, he asked me what I wanted to eat. And I said he should offer me anything he had at home because I was really starving.

After then, I just wanted to just lie my back somewhere before going to my parent’s place.

We both agreed on a no sex relationship at least until I’m ready. But, he insisted on having sex with me then and now. And I was like what! Are you kidding me? And he said no. He wants it right now and here.

I was scared because such a thing has never happened to me before. I began to weep. I began to beg him. Just for him not to hurt me. But he insisted.

He began to make me feel bad for checking on him before going to see my parents. He began to make me feel stupid because of the love I had for him then.

While I was still begging him to stop, he carried me and laid me on his bed. I couldn’t scream because people were around. I was just grinning and bitter.

He forced himself into me without even considering the fact that I was a virgin. He used his male strength on me and pressed my back to his bed stick. It was painful.

Stop! Stop! But he wouldn’t listen. Until he accomplished his mission.

So he stood up. I couldn’t walk, I couldn’t even sit. I managed to stand up from his bed. The deed has been done. So he went to freshen up and began to apologize to me that it wasn’t his fault and all. That I was too attractive. That he didn’t know what came over him.

And all those while he was talking, I was just starring at him. I couldn’t utter any statement than to say I’ve forgiven you. But from the depth of my heart. I hadn’t forgiven him.

Things like this are bound to happen. But it all depends on how one decides to handle such situation. So, I promised myself that I wasn’t going to be too nice to any man again.

Never!

I think that day was the last time I set my eyes on him. I didn’t want to see him again. Though I’m okay now. I’m stronger and wiser.

This experience humbled me. It changed my perception of love. I started seeing men as sexual beasts.

If my then boyfriend can hurt me this much. If he can take away what I so much cherish from me forcefully, then no man is to be trusted again.

I could go any length for love in the past but not anymore.

too bad of him

note most guys are into relationship because of sex

some guys are sex starved

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Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by Nobody: 1:35pm On Aug 22, 2018
Abeeeeeeeeegi !

This one just finished secondary school.


You don’t have to be told to have sex at the back of your mind when you visit a guy at home.

Always expect the unexpected.

I’m not justifying a guy pouncing on you for sex when you visit him but just to avoid stories that touch, suggest to meet somewhere neutral rather than go to his house.

The one that amazes me is the girl that will use her two left legs to go and sleep over at her a guy’s place and come on social media to be shouting that he was making sexual advances.

Rubbish.

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Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by etrange: 1:43pm On Aug 22, 2018
hergists:


While I was still begging him to stop, he carried me and laid me on his bed. I couldn’t scream because people were around. I was just grinning and bitter.

You couldn't scream cause people were around? Did you even read the mess you just typed? When do you want to scream? When no one is around to help?

One would think that people being around is enough weapon for you.

Next time you want to cook up stories for your blog, be a little smart with it and stop making women look stupid.

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Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by Nobody: 2:01pm On Aug 22, 2018
etrange:

You couldn't scream cause people were around? Did you even read the mess you just typed? When do you want to scream? When no one is around to help?

One would think that people being around is enough weapon for you.

Next time you want to cook up stories for your blog, be a little smart with it and stop making women look stupid.

Pikin!

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Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by uniqUN(m): 2:12pm On Aug 22, 2018
When you begin to place boundaries in a relationship, know that, more or less, it's just relationshit

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Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by elyna: 2:19pm On Aug 22, 2018
you didn't scream? because people were around? is that supposed to be an excuse?



the excuse is lame, deaf dumb blind and stupid, all at the same time

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Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by Unluckrees(m): 2:31pm On Aug 22, 2018
Why do some girls make a big deal out of sex? Even with their so-called boyfriend.

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Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by Nobody: 2:45pm On Aug 22, 2018
sad

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Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by Primusinterpares(m): 2:45pm On Aug 22, 2018
You actually visited a boy...

Men don't peddal over pu**y...
Yes, we like and know how to f**k well...
But we ain't controlled by pu**y.

there's a difference between a boy & a man

So my dear... knowing this will help you discern how to deal and relate with them.
#not all older males are MEN
#not all younger males are BOYS

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Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by hisexcellency34: 2:45pm On Aug 22, 2018
I smell lies

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Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by JasonScoolari: 2:45pm On Aug 22, 2018
Lol, you use your two long legs which are supposed to be used for track and field events to visit your boyfriend who did not invite you and then, just like a stupid hypocrite who always shift the goalpost, you couldn't scream when he was forcefully slotting the dick inside you. Just like a hungry she goat, you sold your dignity for a plate of hot rice and now you pick up your phone to disturb the peace of this forum and also stylishly registering yourself as a potential dumb Nairaland feminist.



My dear, "Pikin wen dey find party rice nor suppose fear dance"


And my friend Dominique will call me a misogynist for saying things as it is. grin

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Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by NLReposter: 2:46pm On Aug 22, 2018
Good for you
Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by Kira290(m): 2:46pm On Aug 22, 2018
you're now a woman girl... cool
Enjoy it..


Add me on Skype guys..kira 290
Thanks
Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by salbis(m): 2:46pm On Aug 22, 2018
Wetin I go talk now?

Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by thorpido(m): 2:46pm On Aug 22, 2018
If you are a virgin and wish to remain so,don't go visiting men in their houses.

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Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by IamAirforce1: 2:46pm On Aug 22, 2018
I didn't read all that ..
Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by PUSSYHOE(m): 2:46pm On Aug 22, 2018
It means you want to stop yourself from prostituting

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Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by addikt(m): 2:46pm On Aug 22, 2018
No need to read your long letter but I know ....



SEX SEX SEX!!!!!!

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Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by zinnyzee(f): 2:47pm On Aug 22, 2018
Ewww... Been long i read something this stupid

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Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by sapeleboi(m): 2:48pm On Aug 22, 2018
pls see me in

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Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by fatymore(f): 2:48pm On Aug 22, 2018
It depends on you and the guy you are visiting... Not all men are scums...
Next time if you ain't sure..arrange to meet in an open place better still take a pen knife along

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Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by Amberon1: 2:49pm On Aug 22, 2018
grin

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Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by gibbycruze: 2:49pm On Aug 22, 2018
kia.. kia.. upon all the story o sha doh e

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