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Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by destined4favour: 4:18pm On Aug 22, 2018
you got what you deserve, stop the lamentation after all you enjoyed it.
Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by peacengine(m): 4:21pm On Aug 22, 2018
Girls will never learn. How can a guy & girl be friends? As u enter his room and lay on his bed what next. Sorry hope u get sense next time
Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by LimAnc(m): 4:21pm On Aug 22, 2018
tiredoflife:


Ah so u are one out of the one thousands that hasn't being raped
So u did urs freely
Maybe over two indomie and two eggs
Or shawama
Or blackberry that year or maybe true love
I love ur honesty

So the others u agreed were raped by us all
So u mean known of them gave us Toto with a willing heart
Even those we promised marriage and later left said its rape
What really is rape
Cos what I know is that niaja ladies like soft rape
Where dey will be dragging pants with the guy for almost 30mins before dey say don cum inside oh grin

Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by abimic(m): 4:24pm On Aug 22, 2018
A lady doesn't want sex,yet she's in a relationship and went to see her guy In his apartment, and you expect your bf to be preaching sermon. If you want a no sex relationship and you want to be in love, Guide your steps with your bf and watch out who you date to ensure you're on same page. When you chat up your bf without self control even on whatsapp, he would always reveal his identity as he is sex starved and couldn't hide how he would ruin all the openings. A no sex relationship is good when God blesses you with a good partner not one who undervalues her bf and makes him feel like a fool. In every ten relationships, hardly would u find one that's no sex and oluwamae appreciates bae for that. Thank God u didn't say u were raped even though it could Mean that because that's what most Girls would have said freely.
Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by jessedaflow: 4:29pm On Aug 22, 2018
Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by Klington: 4:38pm On Aug 22, 2018
Once you have made up your mind not to have sex yet pls stay far away from MEN....how can you be tempting him with all that features and expect his local government not to react

Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by Nobody: 4:40pm On Aug 22, 2018
fatymore:
It depends on you and the guy you are visiting... Not all men are scums...
Next time if you ain't sure..arrange to meet in an open place better still take a pen knife along
she should take a pen knife, so when she uses it to kill the guy, she will say it is devils work.
that advice is bad
Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by chigoizie7(m): 4:42pm On Aug 22, 2018
hergists:


https://hergists.com/the-crazy-thing-i-did-for-love/



Wetin concern me?

If u like, see men as devils, ee no concern me.


Na ur life.
Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by akiOYIBO: 4:50pm On Aug 22, 2018
hergists:


https://hergists.com/the-crazy-thing-i-did-for-love/
I believe in sex and relationship but this is total insanity, unacceptable. I am disappointed but I feel sorry for u. I hope with time u regain your normal lovely nature.
Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by mrkel(m): 4:51pm On Aug 22, 2018
pocohantas:


To kill the rapist smiley
The only problem is, knives are messy!!!


The resort to moving with knife to a guy's house as a pre-emptive measure against any seeming attempt of rape is totally inappropriate.

i'll rather support the use of pepper spray.

The implication of deploring pen knife as a defence mechanism is the fact that it could, when not properly handled, use to sniff life on the opposite sex. And in such a case, the lady would be held culpable and charged to court for manslaughter.
Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by INDUSTRIALFAN(m): 4:53pm On Aug 22, 2018
What the fvck is wrong with some guys? I've been in no sex relationships even though I had been sexually active before then but the moment I committed to the relationships and agreed to no sex, I stopped my horse and 3 years without sex didn't kill me. To be honest, I think celibacy actually made me love even better than I would have if sex was involved. I don't just understand when guys like me say they couldn't hold themselves.

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Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by Nobody: 4:55pm On Aug 22, 2018
micflo28:
I have been stabbed in the hand trying to save a girl about to be raped by two boys way back 2009 in owerri. Broke ones head with a stick and the other stabbed me. The scar still lingers. Girls need to be careful of their disposition towards men. Carelessness begets prowling by opportunitists. The screaming was very distressing that I moved into action, damning the consequences.

That's why it is good to mind your business. The best you could've done is to call the cops on them.

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Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by Emycord: 5:01pm On Aug 22, 2018
mrAMG:
Abeeeeeeeeegi !

This one just finished secondary school.


You don’t have to be told to have sex at the back of your mind when you visit a guy at home.

Always expect the unexpected.

I’m not justifying a guy pouncing on you for sex when you visit him but just to avoid stories that touch, suggest to meet somewhere neutral rather than go to his house.

The one that amazes me is the girl that will use her two left legs to go and sleep over at her a guy’s place and come on social media to be shouting that he was making sexual advances.

Rubbish.
and to think that if he had played gentleman same girl will come here and tell us another story. she should even thank God its sex advance he made what if he made ritual advance at her? or human parts advance?
Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by tlops(m): 5:03pm On Aug 22, 2018
That was rape. No doubt!

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Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by pocohantas(f): 5:03pm On Aug 22, 2018
mrkel:



The resort to moving with knife to a guy's house as a pre-emptive measure against any seeming attempt of rape is totally inappropriate.

i'll rather support the use of pepper spray.

The implication of deploring pen knife as a defence mechanism is the fact that it could, when not properly handled, use to sniff life on the opposite sex. And in such a case, the lady would be held culpable and charged to court for manslaughter.

I see nothing inappropriate in killing a rapist. Pepper stray won't stop him from raping another girl, death will.

The earlier he is stopped, the better.

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Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by Nobody: 5:04pm On Aug 22, 2018
mrkel:



The resort to moving with knife to a guy's house as a pre-emptive measure against any seeming attempt of rape is totally inappropriate.

i'll rather support the use of pepper spray.

The implication of deploring pen knife as a defence mechanism is the fact that it could, when not properly handled, use to sniff life on the opposite sex. And in such a case, the lady would be held culpable and charged to court for manslaughter.


Sorry, carrying peper spray around is illegal in Nigeria .
Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by igwefivestar(m): 5:06pm On Aug 22, 2018
[quote author=hergists post=70505694]

https://hergists.com/the-crazy-thing-i-did-for-love/[/quote every man is not like ur beast ex boyfriend. Keep that in ur mind and also remember that there is always a second chance, the experience u had now will make u a better person and more stronger.
Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by Ekez(m): 5:09pm On Aug 22, 2018
Tell us the truth u branched to his house because hunger wan kill u not because u wanted to go b4
Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by sharpwriter(m): 5:16pm On Aug 22, 2018
micflo28:
I have been stabbed in the hand trying to save a girl about to be raped by two boys way back 2009 in owerri. Broke ones head with a stick and the other stabbed me. The scar still lingers. Girls need to be careful of their disposition towards men. Carelessness begets prowling by opportunitists. The screaming was very distressing that I moved into action, damning the consequences.
Guy, you tried o.... God bless you. Meanwhile, how did you get away from them? Did the guy attack you further, or you succeded in dealing with him too?
Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by Willexmania(m): 5:22pm On Aug 22, 2018
etrange:

You couldn't scream cause people were around? Did you even read the mess you just typed? When do you want to scream? When no one is around to help?

One would think that people being around is enough weapon for you.

Next time you want to cook up stories for your blog, be a little smart with it and stop making women look stupid.
I LOVE YOU FOR THIS.

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Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by AdaAde(f): 5:36pm On Aug 22, 2018
I don't know why I'm finding this story hilarious.
You couldn't scream kee. The tin don dey ya body tete.
Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by Nobody: 5:39pm On Aug 22, 2018
pocohantas:


I see nothing inappropriate in killing a rapist. Pepper stray won't stop him from raping another girl, death will.

The earlier he is stopped, the better.

So poco is an I spit on your grave chick.
Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by ibkayee(f): 5:43pm On Aug 22, 2018
mrkel:



The resort to moving with knife to a guy's house as a pre-emptive measure against any seeming attempt of rape is totally inappropriate.

i'll rather support the use of pepper spray.

The implication of deploring pen knife as a defence mechanism is the fact that it could, when not properly handled, use to sniff life on the opposite sex. And in such a case, the lady would be held culpable and charged to court for manslaughter.
That’s the general idea
Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by biggy26: 5:49pm On Aug 22, 2018
dingbang:
Eya.. Guys please learn to control your libido.

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Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by mrkel(m): 5:53pm On Aug 22, 2018
ibkayee:

That’s the general idea


issorite. At least the by tacit endorsement you and pocohantas has thrown to the use of pen knife it will serve as a warning to guys to act responsibly.

May i also add that women should try and embark on due diligence before sparking any chemistry with guys. That way the incidences of rape will be averted. There are many decent guys out there who abhors forcibly taken advantage of ladies. But most Nigeria ladies tend to have preferences for the sharp bad guys owing to their sugarcoated attribute.
Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by patrickcollins: 5:59pm On Aug 22, 2018
You didn't want to shout because people were around, nawa for this girl oooo.
Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by ACE1010: 6:06pm On Aug 22, 2018
Oma307:
can someone help me by summarizing it

She lost her virginity to her then boyfriend who is now a beast!! And that she will NEVER trust any man again including YOU!! grin grin grin
Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by ACE1010: 6:08pm On Aug 22, 2018
chigoizie7:




Wetin concern me?

If u like, see men as devils, ee no concern me.


Na ur life.

Haba this is too hash na!! What if she's your sister!!!
Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by chigoizie7(m): 6:14pm On Aug 22, 2018
ACE1010:


Haba this is too hash na!! What if she's your sister!!!

They are being banged by their husbands.
Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by potonicomf: 6:20pm On Aug 22, 2018
What i knw for sure in this thread is that u r no longer a virgin

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