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Re: Marry Before Its Too Late - A Piece Of Advise by Nobody: 1:00pm On Aug 23, 2018
Men have no business with women or marriage until they're 30... Let your female counterparts marry older men who are secure and established and young men in their 20s should be busy establishing themselves. Isn't that the natural order of things?

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Re: Marry Before Its Too Late - A Piece Of Advise by chiommy123(f): 1:14pm On Aug 23, 2018
BluntBoy:


What, Chioma
it's true na.
Re: Marry Before Its Too Late - A Piece Of Advise by Blonchilli(m): 2:23pm On Aug 23, 2018
Amberon1:
No sir it does not. It can only tie you down if you choose to use it as an excuse.

A woman that loves you will settle down with you even with though you're struggling. But unfortunately many guys played on the good innocent girls they once had at some point in their lives.
paint this scenario, two young men, both 25 ,one has a child the other does not. In Nigeria were job is hard to come by and money difficult to get. They both work in a place were they're paid little above 10k . The one without a child after some time quits because he sees no future in the job and moreover there are other things he hopes to work for, albeit a gamble. The other one can't because he's not sure if he does something else will come by, moreover he has a child to feed no matter how little he gets paid.
You see I've seen this play out several times my friend, and don't tell me a woman will stand by you through your struggle jargon. Nobody uses that as an excuse, they're there because of fear of the unknown. So young men today before you get married or use your penis to impregnate someone, think as many times as you can about it. You not only tie that child's future but yours as well

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Re: Marry Before Its Too Late - A Piece Of Advise by BluntBoy(m): 2:51pm On Aug 23, 2018
chiommy123:
it's true na.
Oh, I didn't see your post. It was included in my post that you quoted.
Re: Marry Before Its Too Late - A Piece Of Advise by chiommy123(f): 3:00pm On Aug 23, 2018
BluntBoy:


Oh, I didn't see your post. It was included in my post that you quoted.
I said that its God that gives children. There are many ladies in their twenties that can not bear children.
Re: Marry Before Its Too Late - A Piece Of Advise by Painkila: 3:58pm On Aug 23, 2018
Kudducini:
DEAR YOUNG GUYS AT AGE 22 TO 28 YEARS
Don't make our mistakes. Marry now with the little you have. Don't wait to be a millionaire. Have kids early so you can grow with them. At my age I don't have kids yet and it's my greatest regret.
Grow with your kids and succeed with your wife. You might still not succeed at your target years, so start your life early and with consistency you will grow.
When I was 22 years, I was thinking about making billions before I marry. Many years later Billions didn't come and No kids, No wife.
I had an opportunity to marry the love of my life when I was 23 years in my Graduation year in school but all I was thinking was "What am I going to feed her with?"
Right now she's married to another guy, she has given birth to two kids and all grown. The guy that married her was still schooling by then but they worked on their success together.
I failed, so please If you can feed yourself 3 or 4 times a day, it means you can feed your wife and you have to believe it. Marry early and don't wait. Don't make our mistakes because I see my childhood friends play with their kids. Most of them are not doing as well as me but they're happy in their marriage.
Trust me, it isn't about money, though it count but rather your happiness depends entirely on your wisdom.
You can be poor and comfortable. With a well planned life they're happy. Trust me it isn't about money. What was my problem? Build mansion, buy Rolls Royce, marry a Sharon Stone type of lady? Never because I still don't have those things I dreamed of and of course the years I wasted, I can never have them and I mean never.
I can't be 60yrs old and my kids will still be in their 20's. What am I supposed to be? Their grand father or father?
Please young men, take my advice seriously. Let the little you have speak for you. Settle down early because God can change your life in a blink. With a good wife by your side you will succeed.
No matter how hard life is, no matter the situation, no matter what the devil or demons will do, start your life early and stay blessed.
Á ŴoŔĎ Ťo ŤĤĔ ŴĨŚĔ ĨŚ ĔŃoÚĞĤ
its not always about money, sometimes other circumstances beyond ones control prevent people from marrying early.
Re: Marry Before Its Too Late - A Piece Of Advise by BluntBoy(m): 3:59pm On Aug 23, 2018
chiommy123:
I said that its God that gives children. There are many ladies in their twenties that can not bear children.

Of course, you are right. But then, we aren't talking God here, but Biology wink tongue

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Re: Marry Before Its Too Late - A Piece Of Advise by Nobody: 4:12pm On Aug 23, 2018
chiommy123:
op you are very correct and I stand with you on this one. you know that's the major problem with our young men these days waiting for billions and trillions, own houses, etc before they think of settling down and before this things come they are in their mind 40s or early 50s for some deceiving themselves that its only women that have biological clocks forgetting it affects them too. so make una follow op advice. it is well
Women are the cause of the problem. No woman want to marry a poor guy. She may marry you o but the nagging and headache will be too much and you will realize it is better to be alone and lonely

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Re: Marry Before Its Too Late - A Piece Of Advise by chiommy123(f): 4:14pm On Aug 23, 2018
BluntBoy:


Of course, you are right. But then, we aren't talking God here, but Biology wink tongue
I think God has the final say and not biology
Re: Marry Before Its Too Late - A Piece Of Advise by Fourwinds: 4:35pm On Aug 23, 2018
phantonce:
Wetin concern me with marriage when am already enjoying the goodies attached to it grin grin

Re: Marry Before Its Too Late - A Piece Of Advise by Fourwinds: 4:39pm On Aug 23, 2018
Wilfredpat22:
Please sir don’t rush into what you will still rush out I beg you . Because if you don’t have money, we will cheat on you because marriage does not mean a thing to we NIgerian ladies. Won’t we eat and still dress attractively?

Won’t we send money to people in the village? Please sir until the economy improves or you get a well paying job and a ‘Independent’ lady don’t marry


REMEMBER YOU RUSH IN... YOU RUSH OUT
I need to follow you...

you dey get sensible comments well well...

that part you said women will cheat caught my attention.... only a very sincere woman will speak what she can do...so many pretend...

God bless you
Re: Marry Before Its Too Late - A Piece Of Advise by chiommy123(f): 5:22pm On Aug 23, 2018
Mklancee:

Women are the cause of the problem. No woman want to marry a poor guy. She may marry you o but the nagging and headache will be too much and you will realize it is better to be alone and lonely
if she nag give you. Nag give her back. Most women nag are you going to remain unmarried cos of nagging
Re: Marry Before Its Too Late - A Piece Of Advise by BluntBoy(m): 5:34pm On Aug 23, 2018
chiommy123:
I think God has the final say and not biology

Yes, that is true.
Re: Marry Before Its Too Late - A Piece Of Advise by Nobody: 6:32pm On Aug 23, 2018
chiommy123:
if she nag give you. Nag give her back. Most women nag are you going to remain unmarried cos of nagging
I will rather leave the house for her than exchange words with a woman. if not that loneliness will come later in life ,I would have remain single for life
Re: Marry Before Its Too Late - A Piece Of Advise by HouseOfWine: 6:44pm On Aug 23, 2018
Shut the Bleep up there with your no travelling arse mentality
Re: Marry Before Its Too Late - A Piece Of Advise by chiommy123(f): 8:18pm On Aug 23, 2018
Mklancee:

I will rather leave the house for her than exchange words with a woman. if not that loneliness will come later in life ,I would have remain single for life
shou na so the thing ves you reach. Abeg nwayo nwayo oh
Re: Marry Before Its Too Late - A Piece Of Advise by Nobody: 10:09pm On Aug 23, 2018
chiommy123:
shou na so the thing ves you reach. Abeg nwayo nwayo oh
i hate nagging especially when I am already giving my best
Re: Marry Before Its Too Late - A Piece Of Advise by Nobody: 10:26pm On Aug 23, 2018
LivingFree:
Men have no business with women or marriage until they're 30... Let your female counterparts marry older men who are secure and established and young men in their 20s should be busy establishing themselves. Isn't that the natural order of things?


Is this a joke or what?? This is how to know someone who's living in an uncivilized and primitive continent.

As long as you have what it takes to get married you're free to get married even if you're 25. Ladies should marry their older counterparts, so ladies don't have dreams to pursue in life? Their priority in life is to get married?


I refuse to believe that this comment was made by a lady.
Re: Marry Before Its Too Late - A Piece Of Advise by Idrismusty97(m): 11:42pm On Aug 23, 2018
Early marriage without proper financial and psychological backing is the major cause of spontaneous deaths among men. Be warned.
Re: Marry Before Its Too Late - A Piece Of Advise by Kudducini(m): 12:34am On Aug 25, 2018
Wilfredpat22:
Please sir don’t rush into what you will still rush out I beg you . Because if you don’t have money, we will cheat on you because marriage does not mean a thing to we NIgerian ladies. Won’t we eat and still dress attractively?

Won’t we send money to people in the village? Please sir until the economy improves @or you get a well paying job and a ‘Independent’ lady don’t marry


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REMEMBER YOU RUSH IN... YOU RUSH OUT
Don't you eat before you get married? don't. your village people survive before your marriage?
Re: Marry Before Its Too Late - A Piece Of Advise by Kudducini(m): 12:36am On Aug 25, 2018
LivingFree:
Men have no business with women or marriage until they're 30... Let your female counterparts marry older men who are secure and established and young men in their 20s should be busy establishing themselves. Isn't that the natural order of things?

What is a man's gain if he was waiting patiently for 30 before getting married and dies at 25?

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