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Should I Get Closer To Her Family? by Nobody: 2:58pm On Aug 23, 2018
so me and my new girl has been dating for a year and some months now. Im planning on settling down with her though.

I have got to meet her mum and she happens to be cool with me. she should be in her late 30s.

But the way she is excited and always wants me to be keeping in touch is what i do not really like since i have read alot about how getting close to ur woman's family can turn ugly in the future if you finally settle down with the daughter as such im trying to be careful not to have such issues.

I buy small small things for my girls mum and 2 younger siblings like bbq fish, shawarma and stuffs like that anytime i feel like.

My girl has complained that im always distancing myself from the mum but i always dont respond to her complains.

So do you guys think im on track or im over running too much lol
Re: Should I Get Closer To Her Family? by soberdrunk(m): 3:08pm On Aug 23, 2018
How can your gfs mum be in her late 30s? How old is your gf? angry

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Re: Should I Get Closer To Her Family? by 360great(m): 3:10pm On Aug 23, 2018
Lemme pack & wait for my oga's to do justice to the topic grin

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Re: Should I Get Closer To Her Family? by Nobody: 4:08pm On Aug 23, 2018
soberdrunk:
How can your gfs mum be in her late 30s? How old is your gf? angry

my girl turned 23 yesterday or maybe im wrong about the mothers age
Re: Should I Get Closer To Her Family? by Nobody: 8:32am On Aug 24, 2018
Better issues like this una no go help out if naa porn pics una go rush come watch
Re: Should I Get Closer To Her Family? by chiommy123(f): 8:39am On Aug 24, 2018
Too much of everything is bad. Just strick a balance. BTW you guys stay in the same town
Re: Should I Get Closer To Her Family? by Pubichairs(m): 8:43am On Aug 24, 2018
cheesy nack her and also her mum join, no be u lose

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Re: Should I Get Closer To Her Family? by Nobody: 8:45am On Aug 24, 2018
chiommy123:
Too much of everything is bad. Just strick a balance. BTW you guys stay in the same town

Yeah but not steady in same town I go and come back
Re: Should I Get Closer To Her Family? by Nobody: 8:46am On Aug 24, 2018
Pubichairs:
cheesy nack her and also her mum join, no be u lose

One of my guys don reason me say if the mum gets opportunity say she go straff me lol

Na owerri woman shaaa it’s possible
Lol
Re: Should I Get Closer To Her Family? by OneCorner: 11:45pm On Aug 25, 2018
360great:
Lemme pack & wait for my oga's to do justice to the topic grin
I know I be ur oga but no dey cast me cool

Anyways mr op, trying cutting eye for her mom.
Visit her just 3x a day. Make e no exceed dat.
And start buying mor sharwarma and ice cream for her siblings. Buy pizza too.
Sleep dia house and try sneaking on her mom wen she’s bathing or sleeping too cool
Re: Should I Get Closer To Her Family? by Bluezy13(m): 3:10am On Aug 26, 2018
knc:
Better issues like this una no go help out if naa porn pics una go rush come watch


cheesy
Re: Should I Get Closer To Her Family? by Bluezy13(m): 3:14am On Aug 26, 2018
Hmmm...


It is easier to be a man to a child than it is to be a man to a man.
My advice: "Be a man while they are still children"
Re: Should I Get Closer To Her Family? by Nobody: 5:56am On Aug 26, 2018
Bluezy13:
Hmmm...



It is easier to be a man to a child than it is to be a man to a man.

My advice: "Be a man while they are still children"

Thanks boss I guess I’m still on track. I no want any rubbish from inlaw side.
Re: Should I Get Closer To Her Family? by Nobody: 5:57am On Aug 26, 2018
And please I no Dey cut the mum eye o.
Re: Should I Get Closer To Her Family? by Bluezy13(m): 6:37am On Aug 26, 2018
knc:


Thanks boss I guess I’m still on track. I no want any rubbish from inlaw side.


Now that's better.
Re: Should I Get Closer To Her Family? by Olalan(m): 7:05am On Aug 26, 2018
If you want respect for yourself it's better you keep a distance from her family.......
Re: Should I Get Closer To Her Family? by Hector09(m): 7:12am On Aug 26, 2018
U are not legally married to the girl and u are already playing the role of a son in-law, hope she wont demand much once u settle down with her daughter, cus just ordinary bf/gf u are buying mini things

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