babatee1985:
God bless you my brother for this amazing statement... Meanwhile, useless slay queens on reading your comment...

pansophist:


You broke?

If you are, then it's harder to find them lol

NO! It's being rich that makes it hard for one to find the right one. You think e-money could have gotten a good wife if he met her when he's rich? You find the right woman when you're broke.

1miccza:


Mehhn na chairman you be be dat naa

JamaicanLove:



..thank you


I won't and I don't intend on bleaching.

good!

INDUSTRIALFAN:
jump am pass... I can't enter debt because of wedding o. Lai Lai... When wahala start will they help me sort things out?

NO! They'd call you a lazy man who knows how to use his deek more than his hands.

PrimadonnaO:


You're kidding yourself, I tell you.

You would leave a woman you've decided is good for you just because she doesn't want a wedding of 5-6 persons. Hahahaha. Gist of life!

reverse the question: would she watch me go to cos she wants an elaborate wedding? We both must strive to make it work.

Caseless:
NO! It's being rich that makes it hard for one to find the right one. You think e-money could have gotten a good wife if he met her when he's rich? You find the right woman when you're broke.

True. All the best mate.

Caseless:
reverse the question: would she watch me go to cos she wants an elaborate wedding? We both must strive to make it work.

If you can afford it, it would be really selfish of you to expect her to have a wedding of 5-6 persons. That's extreme. Women take these things seriously.

Personally, I'm not all for the extravagance that accompanies wedding ceremonies these days. It's either I don't have a reception at all or have it low-key, but tasteful...maybe a hundred guests.

PrimadonnaO:


If you can afford it, it would be really selfish of you to expect her to have a wedding of 5-6 persons. That's extreme. Women take these things seriously.

Personally, I'm not all for the extravagance that accompanies wedding ceremonies these days. It's either I don't have a reception at all or have it low-key, but tasteful...maybe a hundred guests.

I didn't say " I can't", I said " I won't". She should come up with a business idea, and I'd fund it with even more. I won't waste money on wedding, but something more productive with a rewarding ROI. I hate the attention and gathering too.

Caseless:


I didn't say " I can't", I said " I won't". She should come up with a business idea, and I'd fund it with even more. I won't waste money on wedding, but something more productive with a rewarding ROI. I hate the attention and gathering too.

It's between you and your intended, anyway. But trust me, you'll end up compromising.

zuto4u:
Hmmmm!! Speechless. Bro thank you so much for your heartfelt advice. Honestly, u have just poured cold water on me and have given me a reason to think twice. Your advice is much appreciated bro. And as for putting her to test, I will do just that. The truth is that I don't really know much about women and their way.

I love your honesty. Remember to also put everything in prayer. Wish you the best!

PrimadonnaO:


It's between you and your intended, anyway. But trust me, you'll end up compromising.

Sure? I pray I don't compromise.

zuto4u:
Chai!!! God bless you my dear brother for this wonderful piece, I so much appreciate it. She won't be contributing a dime, the whole thing is on me. As for investment, what lucrative investment do u suggest I venture into with at least 2 million naira? I don't really know of any lucrative investment in Nigeria. I have only been buying lands here and there by God's grace.

To be sincere wt u, l can't mention any investment am sure of for now. But if u can fix any fund u not spending in fixed deposit and close Ur eyes and mind to going to withdraw it except for another fix project like building Ur house or an 100% sure biz. Thank God u have lands, why not plan erecting a structure as time wait for no man and u don't know wat tomorrow brings. It's kinda difficult to grow achievement after marriage unless u av increment in Ur income because marriage brings responsibilities. Bro, on a lighter note, am shocked a woman wl not offer to assist her man in wedding finances. Except she doesn't av any source of income.

Caseless:
NO! They'd call you a lazy man who knows how to use his deek more than his hands.

Na for their head o...

INDUSTRIALFAN:
Na for their head o...

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Caseless:
This is what I fear most ; having your own people telling you to cave in. I wish you luck, bro.

At last i ended up spending over 900K and my bro spent 600K. My in-laws slaughtered 2 cows and my family slaughtered 1. Yet it was traditional wedding ONLY. It was a success, however well beyond my budget. All glory to God, no debt was inured.

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iyke649:
wat if she no accept?

dat is why God bless you with two things like two eyes,legs ,if she dnt want to accept u walk away

ojasweb:


At last i ended up spending over 900K and my bro spent 600K. My in-laws slaughtered 2 cows and my family slaughtered 1. Yet it was traditional wedding ONLY. It was a success, however well beyond my budget. All glory to God, no debt was inured.

Bros you for just do the two wedding same day and save your self the stress. anyway sha nothing spoil. Congratulation!!!!!

Lol