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Be Honest. How Long Can An Adult Stay Celibate. by Amakababe(f): 9:31pm On Aug 27, 2018
Pls help me, i recently tried no sex no masturbtion for 36 days and relapsed on the 37th and since then ive been gettin fûcked en masse, like constant K. 24/7

I dont need this sexual feelings. I need to suppress them. Help me. I feel guilt after each sexual round.
Re: Be Honest. How Long Can An Adult Stay Celibate. by dingbang(m): 9:33pm On Aug 27, 2018
Just continue. Na when you don carry std, that your legs go close by force

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Re: Be Honest. How Long Can An Adult Stay Celibate. by Nobody: 9:33pm On Aug 27, 2018
Amakababe:
Pls help me, i recently tried no sex no masturbtion for 36 days and relapsed on the 37th and since then ive been gettin fûcked en masse, like constant K. 24/7

I dont need this sexual feelings. I need to suppress them. Help me. I feel guilt after each sexual round.
are you even a lady? undecided

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Re: Be Honest. How Long Can An Adult Stay Celibate. by Amakababe(f): 9:38pm On Aug 27, 2018
ThatIjawBoy:
are you even a lady? undecided
what is wrong with y'all in naira land. I asked a question, just tell me the duration one can stay celibate. Kid everywhere.

Even the first commentor smh

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Re: Be Honest. How Long Can An Adult Stay Celibate. by PrimadonnaO(f): 9:41pm On Aug 27, 2018
En massè. Ahh, kilode? undecided undecided

What's the big deal in staying celibate? Sexual urges are fleeting. So, you give in only when you want to.

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Re: Be Honest. How Long Can An Adult Stay Celibate. by Nobody: 9:47pm On Aug 27, 2018
Amakababe:
what is wrong with y'all in naira land. I asked a question, just tell me the duration one can stay celibate. Kid everywhere.

Even the first commentor smh
ok undecided
Re: Be Honest. How Long Can An Adult Stay Celibate. by ednut1(m): 9:51pm On Aug 27, 2018
So op is a guy. Smh
Re: Be Honest. How Long Can An Adult Stay Celibate. by Amakababe(f): 9:56pm On Aug 27, 2018
PrimadonnaO:
En massè. Ahh, kilode? undecided undecided

What's the big deal in staying celibate? Sexual urges are fleeting. So, you give in only when you want to.
pls be specific. Can I go a lifetime without sex.I really want to be pure
Re: Be Honest. How Long Can An Adult Stay Celibate. by Nobody: 10:09pm On Aug 27, 2018
Amakababe:
pls be specific. Can I go a lifetime without sex.I really want to be pure


Just went through your profile..


IT SAYS A LOT

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Re: Be Honest. How Long Can An Adult Stay Celibate. by dingbang(m): 10:11pm On Aug 27, 2018
Amakababe:
what is wrong with y'all in naira land. I asked a question, just tell me the duration one can stay celibate. Kid everywhere.

Even the first commentor smh
sharap
Re: Be Honest. How Long Can An Adult Stay Celibate. by hazandino(m): 10:15pm On Aug 27, 2018
To celibate actually have to do wit ur mindset, just be positive minded and watch yasef 2 years witout sex and just avoid being alone ....
Re: Be Honest. How Long Can An Adult Stay Celibate. by crownson(m): 10:16pm On Aug 27, 2018
If You Died Today Where Would You Spend Eternity !!!

Did you know that church membership, being a good person, water baptism, giving money to those less fortunate than you, working for charities or having all the money and things in the world will NOT get you into HEAVEN.
The bible says in Titus 3:5
“Not by works of righteousness which we have, but according to his mercy he saved us...”
Ephesians 2:8-9 says
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.”
The gift the bible speaks of is found in St. John 3:16
“For GOD so loved the world that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
To Be Saved You Must Do Four Things:
1. CONFESS THAT YOU ARE A SINNER. Romans 3:23 says “For ALL have sinned and come short of the glory of GOD”
2. KNOW THE RESULT OF SIN. Romans 6:23 says “For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of GOD is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.”
3. BELIEVE THAT JESUS DIED AND PAID THE WAGES OF SIN IN YOUR PLACE. Romans 5:8 say “But GOD commended His love toward us in that, while we were yet sinners Christ died for us.”
4. BELIVE GOD’S WORD FOR HE CANNOT LIE. Romans 10:9-13 says “That if thou shall confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that GOD raised Him from the dead, thou shall be saved. For with the heart man believed unto righteousness, and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation… For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord SHALL BE SAVED”
Don’t Wait Any Longer!
Right Now, Right Where You Are
Say This Prayer And Be Saved!
“Oh, GOD, I know that I am a sinner.
I believe Jesus was my substitute
when He died on the Cross.
I believe His shed blood, death, burial
and resurrection were for me.
I now receive Him as my Lord and Savior.
I thank you for the forgiveness of my sins,
the gift of salvation and everlasting life.
Amen”
If you meant this prayer in your heart by faith and by Gods’ word you are SAVED!!
But you say, How Do You Know For Sure? 1st John 5:11-12 says “And this is the record (proof), that God hath given to us eternal life, and this life is in his Son. He that hath the Son hath life; and he that hath not the Son of GOD hath not life. These things have I written unto you that believe on the name of the Son of God; that ye may know that ye have eternal life, and that ye may believe on the name of the Son of God.”
YOU ARE BLESSED!!! ATTEND a Bible believing church.

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Re: Be Honest. How Long Can An Adult Stay Celibate. by Mikolion87(m): 10:23pm On Aug 27, 2018
Amakababe:
pls be specific. Can I go a lifetime without sex.I really want to be pure

You can be celibate for as long as you want. It's a choice. I was celibate till I turned 29. And, I have been celibate for the past 1 year. I intend remaining so until I get married. It's a thing of the mind. Just preoccupy your mind with good thoughts. These other tips may be of help:
. Avoid watching pornographic movies
. Do not always stay indoors alone
. Read the bible when such thoughts come
. Get busy with useful work
. Pray constantly
. Listen to messages
. Don't always discuss sex with friends

Good luck

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Re: Be Honest. How Long Can An Adult Stay Celibate. by Shugavee(f): 10:29pm On Aug 27, 2018
Amakababe:
Pls help me, i recently tried no sex no masturbtion for 36 days and relapsed on the 37th and since then ive been gettin fûcked en masse, like constant K. 24/7

I dont need this sexual feelings. I need to suppress them. Help me. I feel guilt after each sexual round.
it depends.. but well I can stay without sex as long as I want,, but would use my toy ones a month or two months,, body no be firewood
Re: Be Honest. How Long Can An Adult Stay Celibate. by saxj(m): 11:17pm On Aug 27, 2018
Amakababe:
pls be specific. Can I go a lifetime without sex.I really want to be pure
Define ur pure... Wen guys de straf u lyk say u b okporo.. no let make God giv u tym oo
God de cinema,, e de watch u
Re: Be Honest. How Long Can An Adult Stay Celibate. by Biglittlelois(f): 12:07am On Aug 28, 2018
Amakababe:
Pls help me, i recently tried no sex no masturbtion for 36 days and relapsed on the 37th and since then ive been gettin fûcked en masse, like constant K. 24/7

I dont need this sexual feelings. I need to suppress them. Help me. I feel guilt after each sexual round.

undecided You are obviously not a lady
Re: Be Honest. How Long Can An Adult Stay Celibate. by milemimi93(m): 12:48am On Aug 28, 2018
After my beef with the op, I did some underground homework and discovad dat he isn't she. He is he.


Op evrytin boils down to determination.

I have determined not to be in a relationship and this is straight 4yrs I haven't been into one.

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Re: Be Honest. How Long Can An Adult Stay Celibate. by chiommy123(f): 4:01am On Aug 28, 2018
I think I agree with miko. If you're really determined and occupy your mind with money making ideas and those things he mentioned iam sure you will forget about sex for a very long time.
Re: Be Honest. How Long Can An Adult Stay Celibate. by DonroxyII: 5:09am On Aug 28, 2018
chiommy123:
I think I agree with miko. If you're really determined and occupy your mind with money making ideas and those things he mentioned iam sure you will forget about sex for a very long time.
Really, I think sex get more triggered when one is accomplished or comfortable .... Can one really forget about sex or manage the urge ..... Sexual urge also pop up same way as hunger or thirst ..... and the urge can be very disturbing and distracting

Anyway, celibacy n how long is a matter of the Mind .... you can keep away as long as your mind can withstand nonetheless, you may be killing some sexual nerves as they may become non responsive when the need be !!!

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Re: Be Honest. How Long Can An Adult Stay Celibate. by chiommy123(f): 5:33am On Aug 28, 2018
DonroxyII:
Really, I think sex get more triggered when one is accomplished or comfortable .... Can one really forget about sex or manage the urge ..... Sexual urge also pop up same way as hunger or thirst ..... and the urge can be very disturbing and distracting

Anyway, celibacy n how long is a matter of the Mind .... you can keep away as long as your mind can withstand nonetheless, you may be killing some sexual nerves as they may become non responsive when the need be !!!
if he is accomplished or comfortable it will be advisable he get married. Yes it maybe distracting and disturbing but the thing is don't fuel it by watching all this movies that may encourage it the more but discipline your body and engage your mind in some other important things. When the need arises your wife will certainly make sure it responds and iam sure you will help as well.
Re: Be Honest. How Long Can An Adult Stay Celibate. by Sammye(m): 1:31pm On Aug 28, 2018
As long as you want. It's your body, your mind controls it. It is what you feed your mind that your body will desire. Imagine when doctor says you will die if you eat a particular favorite food of yours.
Re: Be Honest. How Long Can An Adult Stay Celibate. by Offpoint: 3:38pm On Aug 28, 2018
As long as the engine is deprive of........
Re: Be Honest. How Long Can An Adult Stay Celibate. by dalongjnr: 3:49pm On Aug 28, 2018
For a married man, until his wife delivered before one can tell and for the ladies, until they got married!
For the single, it's an individual thing. some masturbate without heterosexual encounter but rarely stay's long without sex or other related encounters.
mostly 6months to 1yr but averagely 3months for those who already have multiple sexual experience.
Re: Be Honest. How Long Can An Adult Stay Celibate. by MiddleDimension: 9:24pm On Sep 14, 2018
Amakababe:
Pls help me, i recently tried no sex no masturbtion for 36 days and relapsed on the 37th and since then ive been gettin fûcked en masse, like constant K. 24/7

I dont need this sexual feelings. I need to suppress them. Help me. I feel guilt after each sexual round.
ladies too masturbate?
Re: Be Honest. How Long Can An Adult Stay Celibate. by Nobody: 10:22pm On Sep 14, 2018
It's a mental thing. I have been celibate for almost two years now and I don't see that changing anytime soon.
Im loving my relationship with God right now and I don't want to mess with it. I go to church and raise my hands in worship without feeling like an hypocrite. I want things to stay that way.
Re: Be Honest. How Long Can An Adult Stay Celibate. by Nobody: 10:23pm On Sep 14, 2018
grin

Re: Be Honest. How Long Can An Adult Stay Celibate. by AryEmber(f): 10:24pm On Sep 14, 2018
Hmm, What a weird and unusual question from a lady.
Re: Be Honest. How Long Can An Adult Stay Celibate. by frozen70(f): 9:20pm On Sep 15, 2018
Amakababe:
pls be specific. Can I go a lifetime without sex.I really want to be pure

There are so many reasons one have, to stay celibate

You can't stay celibate for the fun of it.

The reason for staying celibate is what will determine the duration

So tell us your reasons

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