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Guys Asking For Nudes, What Are You Gaining From It? by Uniquetani1(f): 1:18pm On Aug 29, 2018
Ladies share your experience you had with nude asking boyfriend. How did you overcome him?

It is now very common guys in relationship always ask their girlfriend for nudes to prove whatever love undecided. They even went to threaten their girlfriend emotionally to end the relationship if they don't send them nudes. If you are a guy here, asking your girlfriend for nudes and hurting her emotionally if she refused. You are an ingrate with no maturity.





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Re: Guys Asking For Nudes, What Are You Gaining From It? by Nobody: 1:24pm On Aug 29, 2018
Women ask for “nudes” too. undecided
But that is none of my business.
Re: Guys Asking For Nudes, What Are You Gaining From It? by Tallesty1(m): 1:28pm On Aug 29, 2018
Same thing you want to gain from this thread/question
Re: Guys Asking For Nudes, What Are You Gaining From It? by MrBrownJay1(m): 1:32pm On Aug 29, 2018
- men ask to have sex with women, what do they gain from it (if not sex)?
- men ask for nudes, what would they gain from it (if not to have a pic to self-service and show their boys)?
- women gladly send nudes to men for WHAT reason exactly (if not becaus they are stoopid enough to accept these rubbish request)?!

the rules for sending nudes will always remain the same..... NEVER SEND PICS WITH YOUR FACE!

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Re: Guys Asking For Nudes, What Are You Gaining From It? by LuvU2: 1:36pm On Aug 29, 2018
I don't believe people ask for nudes to blackmail their partners. This may happen bt it is usually a future thought.
The only reason i can come up with is that they think by having ur nudes they hv ultimately gained the largest share of ur "generosity"
Re: Guys Asking For Nudes, What Are You Gaining From It? by adewumiopeyemi(m): 1:36pm On Aug 29, 2018
If you send him nude pics he will set you up when he broke up with you in future.. Girls be wise. undecided
Re: Guys Asking For Nudes, What Are You Gaining From It? by adewumiopeyemi(m): 1:37pm On Aug 29, 2018
I gues he need to need to masturbate. Which is very bad.. he Don turn to the Indian and pakistian brothers.. cheesy cheesy
Re: Guys Asking For Nudes, What Are You Gaining From It? by pocohantas(f): 1:48pm On Aug 29, 2018
LuvU2:
I don't believe people ask for nudes to blackmail their partners. This may happen bt it is usually a future thought.
The only reason i can come up with is that they think by having ur nudes they hv ultimately gained the largest share of ur "generosity"

That's because you assume everyone is normal, sadly some people go into relationships with serious defence mechanisms. Some are so insecure and low-self esteemed they need something to use put you in place when the need arises. Something a nude can easily do.

Break-up brings out the real character of lovers. You just didn't anger them early enough to see that side of them, but it has always been there. I don't trivialise things people tell me when angry wink.

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Re: Guys Asking For Nudes, What Are You Gaining From It? by Nobody: 1:51pm On Aug 29, 2018
Uniquetani1:
Ladies share your experience you had with nude asking boyfriend. How did you overcome him?

It is now very common guys in relationship always ask their girlfriend for nudes to prove whatever love undecided. They even went to threaten their girlfriend emotionally to end the relationship if they don't send them nudes. If you are a guy here, asking your girlfriend for nudes and hurting her emotionally if she refused. You are an ingrate with no maturity.





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so babie you won't send me nudes

Re: Guys Asking For Nudes, What Are You Gaining From It? by LuvU2: 2:00pm On Aug 29, 2018
pocohantas:


That's because you assume everyone is normal, sadly some people go into relationships with serious defence mechanisms. Some are so insecure and low-self esteemed they need something to use put you in place when the need arises. Something a nude can easily do.

Break-up brings out the real character of lovers. You just didn't anger them early enough to see that side of them, but it has always been there. I don't trivialise things people tell me when angry wink.
Abi that's why no sane lady should take chances at all! Some people dont understand 'no, i'm done' its sounds like 'let the war begin' grin

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Re: Guys Asking For Nudes, What Are You Gaining From It? by MrBrownJay1(m): 2:02pm On Aug 29, 2018
pocohantas:
That's because you assume everyone is normal, sadly some people go into relationships with serious defence mechanisms. Some are so insecure and low-self esteemed they need something to use put you in place when the need arises. Something a nude can easily do.

Break-up brings out the real character of lovers. You just didn't anger them early enough to see that side of them, but it has always been there. I don't trivialise things people tell me when angry wink.

but if women know the above, it is more a reason to never send nudes with their faces on... or anything personal on the photo (such a tattoos etc)
Re: Guys Asking For Nudes, What Are You Gaining From It? by Uniquetani1(f): 2:55pm On Aug 29, 2018
doctorkush:
so babie you won't send me nudes



How important is it?
Re: Guys Asking For Nudes, What Are You Gaining From It? by Nobody: 5:08pm On Aug 29, 2018
Uniquetani1:



How important is it?
very important cheesy
Re: Guys Asking For Nudes, What Are You Gaining From It? by Uniquetani1(f): 5:17pm On Aug 29, 2018
doctorkush:
very important cheesy


Ok
Re: Guys Asking For Nudes, What Are You Gaining From It? by Nobody: 6:07pm On Aug 29, 2018
Uniquetani1:



Ok
yea

Re: Guys Asking For Nudes, What Are You Gaining From It? by Nobody: 6:21pm On Aug 29, 2018
A sensible and responsible guy will never ask for your nudes. smiley

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Re: Guys Asking For Nudes, What Are You Gaining From It? by Jaqenhghar: 6:23pm On Aug 29, 2018
Xaos:
Women ask for “nudes” too. undecided
But that is none of my business.
Thats how one babe asked me for dick pics l. I jist googled a few dick pics and sent to her. No time ma guy
Re: Guys Asking For Nudes, What Are You Gaining From It? by QueenSekxy(f): 6:28pm On Aug 29, 2018
the question i keep asking myself. most guys that do this are stupid. asking girls for their nudes,really?? sex starved fuckwits.Smh!!undecided
Re: Guys Asking For Nudes, What Are You Gaining From It? by iamdebby2222(f): 7:09pm On Aug 29, 2018
I think it's basically to masturbate with it.
Re: Guys Asking For Nudes, What Are You Gaining From It? by Uniquetani1(f): 9:38am On Aug 30, 2018
LuvU2:
I don't believe people ask for nudes to blackmail their partners. This may happen bt it is usually a future thought.
The only reason i can come up with is that they think by having ur nudes they hv ultimately gained the largest share of ur "generosity"



Many use it to blackmail their partner when the relationship end
Re: Guys Asking For Nudes, What Are You Gaining From It? by Next2Bezee(m): 10:23am On Aug 30, 2018
Uniquetani1:




Many use it to blackmail their partner when the relationship end

That may not be why they ask for it, but it is still a common occurrence. The question is subjective, so the answers you get will be different.

Some ladies do like sending nudes; it makes them feel desired by their partners, turning the ladies on.

Some guys demand nudes as proof of trust or for masturbation. Sometimes it can make the guy feel special, too.

Trying to hurt an ex after a break up is not a just a Nigerian thing. The USA has laws prohibiting 'revenge porn'.
Re: Guys Asking For Nudes, What Are You Gaining From It? by Nobody: 10:27am On Aug 30, 2018
Probably they want to use it to blackmail d girl in future.
Re: Guys Asking For Nudes, What Are You Gaining From It? by Nobody: 10:38am On Aug 30, 2018
Jaqenhghar:

Thats how one babe asked me for dick pics l. I jist googled a few dick pics and sent to her. No time ma guy
she must be indian or middle eastern girlcheesy.
Re: Guys Asking For Nudes, What Are You Gaining From It? by Jaqenhghar: 11:24am On Aug 30, 2018
lefulefu:
she must be indian or middle eastern girlcheesy.
LOL east African actually
Re: Guys Asking For Nudes, What Are You Gaining From It? by Nobody: 11:30am On Aug 30, 2018
Jaqenhghar:

LOL east African actually
ahaa! East african girlcheesy..dem act the same way as indian girls. I know for sure it was not a naija girl askin u for nudecheesy.
Re: Guys Asking For Nudes, What Are You Gaining From It? by Uniquetani1(f): 11:47am On Aug 30, 2018
Next2Bezee:


That may not be why they ask for it, but it is still a common occurrence. The question is subjective, so the answers you get will be different.

Some ladies do like sending nudes; it makes them feel desired by their partners, turning the ladies on.

Some guys demand nudes as proof of trust or for masturbation. Sometimes it can make the guy feel special, too.

Trying to hurt an ex after a break up is not a just a Nigerian thing. The USA has laws prohibiting 'revenge porn'.



Nigeria should have such law
Re: Guys Asking For Nudes, What Are You Gaining From It? by Next2Bezee(m): 2:54pm On Aug 30, 2018
Uniquetani1:




Nigeria should have such law

If that ever happens, I'll be surprised. After all, this is a country whose lifeless president doesn't see it fit to sign a bill prohibiting underage marriage.
Re: Guys Asking For Nudes, What Are You Gaining From It? by Uniquetani1(f): 9:13pm On Aug 30, 2018
Next2Bezee:


If that ever happens, I'll be surprised. After all, this is a country whose lifeless president doesn't see it fit to sign a bill prohibiting underage marriage.


Wow
Re: Guys Asking For Nudes, What Are You Gaining From It? by LordAzubuike(f): 9:07pm On Dec 16, 2019
adewumiopeyemi:
I gues he need to need to masturbate. Which is very bad.. he Don turn to the Indian and pakistian brothers.. cheesy cheesy
Yahoo boy spotted. Those indians and pakis fit die ontop nudes.

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