My gf would do this

sorry bro

If anybody supports this woman then the person is bad as she is

Let's hear the other side of the story.
Men can play victim a lot, whereas they can use their bad mouth to push a kind woman to lunacy.

You need wisdom and lots of patience to live with men... God help us.

Maybe he wasn't wearing red singlets and red boxers or Prolly not praying enough for the wife.



*Y'all shouldn't quote me, I have headache*

kimbraa:
He should kindly tell us what he did to her aside from seeking for divorce. She's not mad.

If he did something to her she should be the one seeking divorce which obviously is not the case....

bamirotola:
I just wonder if there would be enough responsible women to marry our younger ones in the next generation... Heart of women are wicked. ..look at what they are saying for crying out loud....I don't blame those with baby mamas though... Its safer...marriage us like a tickling poison for men...nd wife's are the poison


Argue with your phones

Honestly.
Those comments break my heart .
Some females are bastards

Hotfreeze:




Of course, girls would be asking what he did wrong that a lunatic lady like them burnt his car.

You see, most ladies are genetically unintelligent. Those among them who are intelligent don't move with the remaining dumb girls. They rather move with guys.

Girls have been dumb right from time. Their dumbness was what made them collect forbidden fruit from Satan. If not for their foolishness, we would all be in Garden of Eden eating watermelon and pear.

all this grammar is not necessary. The woman no do well. If the man sues her he can win and turn tables against her

The better way to revenge is to go with his car keys, drivers license, certificates ,leave his money and wrist watch alone. If he has a house take the papers to his house.,take some office
documents that he cannot do without, carry his laptop and some other documents important to him. Just take everything that will kill him on the inside and go. Let him sweat and cry blood before you release it

The man is not smart. You simply move out and sell out or hide you assets. When she is tired, she will ask for divorce or move on her self.

SAMBARRY:
all this grammar is not necessary. The woman no do well. If the man sues her he can win and turn tables against her

The better way to revenge is to go with his car keys, drivers license, certificates ,leave his money and wrist watch alone. If he has a house take the papers to his house.,take some office
documents that he cannot do without, carry his laptop and some other documents important to him. Just take everything that will kill him on the inside and go. Let him sweat and cry blood before you release it

Lol.
Here in Nigeria or where?

You'll be charged for theft and robbery. By the time the police are through with you and you're awaiting trial after plenty adjournments, you'll be the one begging him that you want to return the documents.

All this evil comments made by ladies in this forum is part of the reasons why men don't have a change of heart when they are dealing with them

No need to fuss over it if you have comprehensive insurance. The insurance company will pay. Just get her arrested and charged to court, and the insurance company’s recovery team will also take up the case against her. She will rot in prison!

The same woman can as well kill.

Mille:


I am disappointed in this statement.

Maybe you can tell me just one thing that warrant burning another person's car.

It's you Nairaland men that taught me to always seek the other side of the story when a domestic violence case comes up especially if the victim is female. If you can seek for possible justification on why a man will batter his wife (to the point of death sometimes), why should I not seek for a possible reason why a woman set her husband's car ablaze? Which sane human being wakes up one morning to torch her partner's car? We need to hear the full story.

the ex hubby should arrange kidnappers to kidnap her and made her parent to pay the equivalent of the burnt car before her release or death

dominique:
As much as I don't support destruction of property, I need to hear the other side of the story before I can pass a fair judgement.

Are you saying there’s something your husband can do to you to make you burn his car ?
Nonsense !

dominique:


It's you Nairaland men that thought me to always seek the other side of the story when a domestic violence case comes up especially if the victim is female. If you can seek for possible justification on why a man will batter his wife (to the point of death sometimes), why should I not seek for a possible reason why a woman set her husband's car ablaze? Which sane human being wakes up one morning to torch her partner's car? We need to hear the full story.

It was not stated in the post that the woman is sane .
I bet the guy wanted a divorce in the first place because he couldn’t keep up with his insane wife .

holluwai:
If anybody supports this woman then the person is bad as she is

Nobody supports the woman but you don't conclude by just listening to one side of the story

Awon enia zinnyzee, awon Iran kiran

pocohantas:
Let's hear the other side of the story.
Men can play victim a lot, whereas they can use their bad mouth to push a kind woman to lunacy.

You need wisdom and lots of patience to live with men... God help us.

For bad mouth as acclaimed, women are guilty of this

Hotfreeze:


Lol.
Here in Nigeria or where?

You'll be charged for theft and robbery. By the time the police are through with you and you're awaiting trial after plenty adjournments, you'll be the one begging him that you want to return the documents.

That girl you quoted is probably a teenager that don’t know shit .
See everything she is even mentioning. Lmao

IYANGBALI:
Awon enia zinnyzee, awon Iran kiran

You dey mad.

dominique:


Danke! May your days be long. The bolded is what the men would have said it was a bloody battered woman's photo that got posted- She must have done something to deserve it. Let's hear the full story so we can know if we should truly sympathize with this Mr Shomiyiwa or not. Divorce your wife because she doesn't want to work? Pfffftttttt!!!!

Well .... irrespective of what he might have done’ no matter how bad it is . Burning the car is 100% bad , it’s plain bad we don’t even need to know what he did. Waiting on hearing what the man did that was so bad the wife had to burn his car is like making an excuse for the lady .
Am sure there are better ways of resolving conflicts’
Let’s assume a man finds out his 3kids are not his biological children and then he decides to burn the wife’s car and beat her to a pulp “ even thou the man must have spent money training the children , time effort resources plus years - I doubt beating the wife or burning her belongings is acceptable in a decent society or any society at all .

What is bad is bad no sane woman should do this!!! Some of our girls engage in this act ,they smash phones tv etc .. I think it is our responsibilities as men to wait till they are calm, apologize even when they are wrong and explain why violence is never the answer to resolving issues no matter how bad it is .
If a woman can set a car in between cars on fire not caring if other neighbors car gets blown up she can as well stab the Man same goes for the man too

Dalby:
If he did something to her she should be the one seeking divorce which obviously is not the case....

Don't assume something were there is nothing. We need to hear from both sides to judge. Gone are those days were many of us rely on one side of the story to judge

okwabayi:
God provided me two hands and Vaseline for a reason. If person wan suffer himself by choosing a wife when there is a 1,000,000:1 chance of her turning bad in future than na him sabi.

hmmm word!!......like u mean when a man is seeing bad signs in d woman but still went ahead to Wed her?

zinnyzee:
You dey mad.

your body go soon hear am,photo e go do the work, just watch

Who cares about what some ladies say?
This is clearly a police case(arson) but the attention-seeking husband prefer reaching out to
bloggers than arresting the criminal.

IYANGBALI:
your body go soon hear am,photo e go do the work, just watch

Don't try any nonsense with me o

NobodyKnows:

That girl you quoted is probably a teenager that don’t know shit .
See everything she is even mentioning. Lmao

No teenager would type that nonsense. She's probably a toddler.

see comments from bunch of entitled gashes...

One even said after sagging her boobs for the one year.
For this generation, how many females dey come husband house with standing boobs?

You can now imagine what most gashes do bring to a marriage.. "Coochie and drama".

I like the warmness of a woman but marriage is a fvckin' no no for me.. You can rent(girlfriend,olosho,fwb, escort ) every once a while but don't buy(marriage)...

If you love your space and peace of mind, then you probably would think twice before allowing any woman to live in your house..


Men, learn self-control and be happy...

The heartof a woman can be dark and wicked.
I would just advice the chap to document and report to police.
Just to leave a paper trail in case of problems later.
But just cut your costs and leave her.
That girl can kill you.

I have a friend who is going through something similar abroad.
The girl is always assaulting him verbally and physically. He cant touch her because police will arrest him 1st in any family altercation.
So he just walks out of the house when her madness starts.
The girl no know say her cup don full.
He plans to fly with her back to Nigeria soon.
Visit the girl's family. Leave her there.
Burn her visa and passport, file a divorce and return abroad.
He's had enough!!