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Re: Update: I Finally Went To Check On My Girl Friend In Town, This Happened... by ImaIma1(f): 3:13pm On Sep 10, 2018
tstx:
Break her heart too. tell her bf she has aborted for you not once, not twice, but three times. Atleast na wetim me go do


Like he would care. He is married
Re: Update: I Finally Went To Check On My Girl Friend In Town, This Happened... by ImaIma1(f): 3:18pm On Sep 10, 2018
tayooluwole:
i raised a thread here days ago about how my girl friend of almost two years started avoiding me (https://www.nairaland.com/4714794/regret-loyalty-girl-friend-crying ). She has changed her phone number. To cut it short, she has finally reunited with her immediate ex before me. But at first, she was claiming that her parents suddenly don't suppprt our relationship due to my home. We are from the same Osun State but different towns. I found this excuse so flimsy, so I decided to carry out research on what actually happened by secretly perusing her phone. This is when I discovered that she and her ex are now back together... Even she was busy fucking her ex while I was still sending her money...Sometimes she will demand money from me to go visit her ex. I confronted her with the fact I got, she could not deny further but only to beg me that I should just take her as my younger sister and we should forget about the past. I so much love this girl that i find other ladies disgusting as far as relationship is concerned. As i am, i am depresesd, I am rushing back to Lag tommorow to nurse the wound, cos as long as I remain in town, there is no way I will be coordinated... Woman finally got me and break my heart for the first time... I don't think I can ever love again in my life... I learnt my lesson in a bitter way. I learnt this her ex is married already oooo....but her motive behind re-uniting with him is what i don't know. THIS is a girl that we have been together for almost 2 years. Cos of little distance everything started changing. She even aborted for me 3 times on her own demand that she is still in school. Based on my experience with her, I never still beleive what is happening... All in all, lesson learnt, I don't think any lady deserve geniue love except the one you legally marry..


So how do you plan to do it? You date someone without loving them till the day you guys wed...then the love starts.

If you close your eyes to avoid seeing bad things when they pass, you will also miss the good ones.

Don't let one person break you. Life is so much more. Enjoy it.
Re: Update: I Finally Went To Check On My Girl Friend In Town, This Happened... by FOWOSHERE01(m): 3:19pm On Sep 10, 2018
bujebudanu1:
Her ex is married .
Definitely na use And dump the ex wanna do again


The best thing in this life is making money and living in peace.
Love is scam.
Im one leg in one leg out in all the relationship I have.

When u re ready .I play along.
When u start attitude too.i start mine.
Who haff time for rubbish love
The gods have blessed you with wisdom

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Re: Update: I Finally Went To Check On My Girl Friend In Town, This Happened... by Squirrel01: 4:07pm On Sep 10, 2018
devlishGINGER:
She probably did those abortions becuz the pregnancy doesn't belong to OP but my guy innocently thinks it's his.

you need to understand the meaning of failed in the context of OP's narrative. There is no big deal if she is bold enough to tell the boy say she no dey do again. Instead she was avoiding the guy and went back to Ex-boyfriend who is now married.

There is a reason why body language exist .
Re: Update: I Finally Went To Check On My Girl Friend In Town, This Happened... by ednut1(m): 4:36pm On Sep 10, 2018
tayooluwole:


Yes bro I have a proof...I was the one that drove her to the hospital where we had the first pregnancy test...it was positive...the result is with me till today... but we did test for the 2nd and the 3rd pregnancy using stripe...we did this our selves...
bros u are a very useless person. How u go give gal belle 3 times. U no fit use condom,pull out or buy postinor. Both u and the gal are mad.

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Re: Update: I Finally Went To Check On My Girl Friend In Town, This Happened... by tayooluwole: 4:38pm On Sep 10, 2018
ednut1:
bros u are a very useless person. How u go give gal belle 3 times. U no fit use condom,pull out or buy postinor. Both u and the gal are mad.

I was a novice then...
Re: Update: I Finally Went To Check On My Girl Friend In Town, This Happened... by ednut1(m): 4:43pm On Sep 10, 2018
tayooluwole:


I was a novice then...
naso. U dey pour akamu dey expect jeep abi
Re: Update: I Finally Went To Check On My Girl Friend In Town, This Happened... by cvibe2: 4:48pm On Sep 10, 2018
Okay

I was gonna say something until I came across where you said she's aborted 3 times for you.

I bet you if she had lost her womb during her abortion process, you'll definitely not want her again and you won't be here lamenting.

I suggest you let the girl go.

You have done your part in her life.
Re: Update: I Finally Went To Check On My Girl Friend In Town, This Happened... by jesmond3945: 4:53pm On Sep 10, 2018
op your relationship is a dead one infact I stopped reading when I saw the abortion mess, infact both of you are wicked. Thats all I can say.

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Re: Update: I Finally Went To Check On My Girl Friend In Town, This Happened... by uthlaw: 4:53pm On Sep 10, 2018
bujebudanu1:
Her ex is married .
Definitely na use And dump the ex wanna do again


The best thing in this life is making money and living in peace.
Love is scam.
Im one leg in one leg out in all the relationship I have.

When u re ready .I play along.
When u start attitude too.i start mine.
Who haff time for rubbish love
I give u big accolades.. this way na my way badoosha....

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Re: Update: I Finally Went To Check On My Girl Friend In Town, This Happened... by excanny: 4:57pm On Sep 10, 2018
Bro, do yourself a favour. Step outside tomorrow and get yourself a new girlfriend.

This palasa u call a girlfriend no be am at all.

Just a fu-ck-buddy

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Re: Update: I Finally Went To Check On My Girl Friend In Town, This Happened... by YorubaAssasin: 5:28pm On Sep 10, 2018
bujebudanu1:
Her ex is married .
Definitely na use And dump the ex wanna do again


The best thing in this life is making money and living in peace.
Love is scam.
Im one leg in one leg out in all the relationship I have.

When u re ready .I play along.
When u start attitude too.i start mine.
Who haff time for rubbish love

You too much, my guy! cool

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Re: Update: I Finally Went To Check On My Girl Friend In Town, This Happened... by mrkings84(m): 5:42pm On Sep 10, 2018
bujebudanu1:
Her ex is married .
Definitely na use And dump the ex wanna do again


The best thing in this life is making money and living in peace.
Love is scam.
Im one leg in one leg out in all the relationship I have.

When u re ready .I play along.
When u start attitude too.i start mine.
Who haff time for rubbish love

You just saved a soul., Thanks very much

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Re: Update: I Finally Went To Check On My Girl Friend In Town, This Happened... by Igboawkakings: 6:02pm On Sep 10, 2018
3 times u said brother,thank God u are receiving the law of Karma with immediate effect

Re: Update: I Finally Went To Check On My Girl Friend In Town, This Happened... by obaataaokpaewu: 6:07pm On Sep 10, 2018
The ex is married, that's bad
She aborted for you thrice, that's worse.
If I were you, I will gladly take the heartbreak because in as much you claim you love her, you wouldn't marry her. For the fact she's the one breaking up with you, she can't blackmail you with the abortion(weeping and crying that after 3 abortions, you dumped her).
I know when the ex clears from her head, she will come back to you and will definitely try blackmailing you with the abortions

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Re: Update: I Finally Went To Check On My Girl Friend In Town, This Happened... by damtan(m): 6:47pm On Sep 10, 2018
Hehehe...oga o. Three times abortion?? you be boss o. Abeg, go look for another gitl to start yanshing. she will come bck for more rounds from you
Re: Update: I Finally Went To Check On My Girl Friend In Town, This Happened... by bigl: 6:54pm On Sep 10, 2018
tayooluwole:
i raised a thread here days ago about how my girl friend of almost two years started avoiding me (https://www.nairaland.com/4714794/regret-loyalty-girl-friend-crying ). She has changed her phone number. To cut it short, she has finally reunited with her immediate ex before me. But at first, she was claiming that her parents suddenly don't suppprt our relationship due to my home. We are from the same Osun State but different towns. I found this excuse so flimsy, so I decided to carry out research on what actually happened by secretly perusing her phone. This is when I discovered that she and her ex are now back together... Even she was busy fucking her ex while I was still sending her money...Sometimes she will demand money from me to go visit her ex. I confronted her with the fact I got, she could not deny further but only to beg me that I should just take her as my younger sister and we should forget about the past. I so much love this girl that i find other ladies disgusting as far as relationship is concerned. As i am, i am depresesd, I am rushing back to Lag tommorow to nurse the wound, cos as long as I remain in town, there is no way I will be coordinated... Woman finally got me and break my heart for the first time... I don't think I can ever love again in my life... I learnt my lesson in a bitter way. I learnt this her ex is married already oooo....but her motive behind re-uniting with him is what i don't know. THIS is a girl that we have been together for almost 2 years. Cos of little distance everything started changing. She even aborted for me 3 times on her own demand that she is still in school. Based on my experience with her, I never still beleive what is happening... All in all, lesson learnt, I don't think any lady deserve geniue love except the one you legally marry..

U will still love again bro, ok?

Everyone has had their own share of heart breaks and yours is not gonna end the world.

You just gonna change your shock absorbers from chinese to German or American so nothing anyone does will surprise you.

Go grab a bottle of cold malt and well peppered grilled chicken and enjoy your day jare!

By the way, karma is a superwoman and always gets her job done perfectly!
Re: Update: I Finally Went To Check On My Girl Friend In Town, This Happened... by chris2face(m): 7:00pm On Sep 10, 2018
tstx:
Break her heart too. tell her bf she has aborted for you not once, not twice, but three times. Atleast na wetim me go do
Dont pay evil with evil op show her ur a real man by moving on is not just meant to be U will locate ur true love soon all the best my friend
Re: Update: I Finally Went To Check On My Girl Friend In Town, This Happened... by DeSepiero(m): 7:48pm On Sep 10, 2018
MetroBaba1:
Op, She's Gone. Go Hustle For More Funds.

But Promise Me, If She Comes Back 2 Beg (yes, she will Beg for forgiveness), Accept Her. Fake Some Love, Invite Her For 3 Days Matching Fixing, Book With Odd Of O/3.5, Bleep Like Madt (I mean real Bleeping with viagra) and When You're Done, Tell Her These Words; SORRY BABY, I DON'T LOVE YOU. WE'RE DONE!

Thank Me Later.

Lol...Don't let someone poison you or bathe you with acid o.
Re: Update: I Finally Went To Check On My Girl Friend In Town, This Happened... by Tonymegabush1(m): 11:03pm On Sep 10, 2018
I was going to sympathize with you not until I read the part of three abortion (3 innocent souls wasted) guy you fall hand and she was even the person suggesting abortion should have made you understand that she was never going settle with me, sorry though you were just an option nothing more.

Finally never used because you have a boyfriend or girlfriend to shut other doors of making Frnds of the opposite sex reason bin that Wen hurting you can heal with their companion
Re: Update: I Finally Went To Check On My Girl Friend In Town, This Happened... by lilyheaven: 12:35am On Sep 11, 2018
tstx:
Break her heart too. tell her bf she has aborted for you not once, not twice, but three times. Atleast na wetim me go do
Lol! He should tell a bf that is already married.
She is a loser, her village people are really playing with her destiny
Re: Update: I Finally Went To Check On My Girl Friend In Town, This Happened... by rex444(m): 5:50am On Sep 11, 2018
How old r u? Why dont u channel ur energy on more fruitful things rather than complaining
Re: Update: I Finally Went To Check On My Girl Friend In Town, This Happened... by don4real18(m): 7:37am On Sep 11, 2018
dhebo:
Abortion 3 times, then for d ex(present boyfriend) she must have done like 5times..making something around 8..na the future husband I pity grin cheesy
She will now sit down in her future hubby's house asking for patience if she doesn't conceive grin
Re: Update: I Finally Went To Check On My Girl Friend In Town, This Happened... by Fhowe: 7:43am On Sep 11, 2018
tayooluwole:
i raised a thread here days ago about how my girl friend of almost two years started avoiding me (https://www.nairaland.com/4714794/regret-loyalty-girl-friend-crying ). She has changed her phone number. To cut it short, she has finally reunited with her immediate ex before me. But at first, she was claiming that her parents suddenly don't suppprt our relationship due to my home. We are from the same Osun State but different towns. I found this excuse so flimsy, so I decided to carry out research on what actually happened by secretly perusing her phone. This is when I discovered that she and her ex are now back together... Even she was busy fucking her ex while I was still sending her money...Sometimes she will demand money from me to go visit her ex. I confronted her with the fact I got, she could not deny further but only to beg me that I should just take her as my younger sister and we should forget about the past. I so much love this girl that i find other ladies disgusting as far as relationship is concerned. As i am, i am depresesd, I am rushing back to Lag tommorow to nurse the wound, cos as long as I remain in town, there is no way I will be coordinated... Woman finally got me and break my heart for the first time... I don't think I can ever love again in my life... I learnt my lesson in a bitter way. I learnt this her ex is married already oooo....but her motive behind re-uniting with him is what i don't know. THIS is a girl that we have been together for almost 2 years. Cos of little distance everything started changing. She even aborted for me 3 times on her own demand that she is still in school. Based on my experience with her, I never still beleive what is happening... All in all, lesson learnt, I don't think any lady deserve geniue love except the one you legally marry..
next time try to do a little bit of digging before you decide to take a lady serious and always try to stay on the same page with your partner , you might be seeing her as your wife to be but she might be seeing you as just a mere boyfriend .It is obvious she is still in love with her ex and only dating you to console herself sometimes it is good to find out how long a woman has been single , is she leaving another Mr to date you, try to make sure she is in right state of mind when you start a new relationship don’t put yourself in harms way
Re: Update: I Finally Went To Check On My Girl Friend In Town, This Happened... by Nobody: 7:54am On Sep 11, 2018
grin
Re: Update: I Finally Went To Check On My Girl Friend In Town, This Happened... by Nobody: 7:56am On Sep 11, 2018
Right now reporting for Nltv.

There's currently an ongoing meeting of The Association of Heartbroken Nairaland Guys. A member (Tayooluwole) has been reported heart broken by a lady (name withheld). The meeting is still on, solely based on sympathizing with the dumped now. No one is asking questions: how would a lady who wants something serious with you suggest abortions not once but thrice?Dating for so long yet the hearkbroken couldn't find clues to the conditional love?.
What he did wrong? and other logical.questions.

As it is , Members are yet to start bashing women. Pls stay tune as the meeting goes on.

I'm your presenter: M Lavina

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Re: Update: I Finally Went To Check On My Girl Friend In Town, This Happened... by fageya: 8:45am On Sep 11, 2018
Girlfrien Checkup
Re: Update: I Finally Went To Check On My Girl Friend In Town, This Happened... by deafeyez: 12:28am On Sep 12, 2018
bujebudanu1:
Her ex is married . Definitely na use And dump the ex wanna do again

The best thing in this life is making money and living in peace. Love is scam. Im one leg in one leg out in all the relationship I have.
When u re ready .I play along. When u start attitude too.i start mine. Who haff time for rubbish love
Harrysong and Tbliz or whatever have money but are not happy. Money not always the answer.
Re: Update: I Finally Went To Check On My Girl Friend In Town, This Happened... by bujebudanu1(m): 6:51am On Sep 12, 2018
deafeyez:


Harrysong and Tbliz or whatever have money but are not happy.
Money not always the answer.


Make your money and make yourself happy.
Poverty is enough to make someone commit suicide sef

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