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| My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by aragon4realz(m): 4:10pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
I met this girl 4years back and one thing led to another and we started a relationship, things have been pretty well and we love each other very much, we have our ups and down but we makeup for it. I love her so much I could do anything for her and she loves me too in her own special kind of way. The problem now is that am planning on proposing to her in a couple of weeks, I even stylishly measured her ring size and I have been visiting some jewelry stores to pick the perfect ring for her and also planning some surprise engagement party/get together for her but the thing is that she hates my church (catholic). She is Anglican by birth but she attends one of the pentecostal churches which I don't want to mention, we have been talking about this church of a thing for the past 3 months now and she has sworn never to get married in the Catholic Church and I can't leave my church because of this. I even stopped talking or texting her for some couple of days now but today she texted me saying that "I should do this one thing for her by leaving my church" and even said it to my face that I should not propose to her when the time comes cos she will say no because of this. Am just confused, what shall I do? I need help 19 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by zinnydan(f): 4:12pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
She doesn't love you,unless she attends jw 165 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by 2buffagain(m): 4:13pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
aragon4realz: The pope will soon be revealed as the false prophet of revelations... 24 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by aragon4realz(m): 4:15pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
2buffagain:what has the pope got to do with my relationship problems 179 Likes 8 Shares
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| Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by HRHQueenPhil(f): 4:17pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
i have d same stance for catholic church, dat lady is a real christian..if u dont stand for something, u fall for anything.do u know i went to mulumba and david cath. church on invite and the moderator was reminding dem of a youth thing dey are having saying comedians and whiz kid is coming..dey shld buy tickets.. whiz kid in church..and chanting THRU mary our mother, we succeed..i agree with ur future wife, i hope u will wake up 79 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Airforce1(m): 4:19pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
She no love you bros 98 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Homeboiy: 4:19pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
Op do you need my advice ? 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by aragon4realz(m): 4:21pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
Homeboiy:if I don't I wouldn't have been here 6 Likes |
| Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Homeboiy: 4:25pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
aragon4realz: If u want to be a man and leave long in life, Don't do what she's asking you to do 246 Likes 15 Shares |
| Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Homeboiy: 4:27pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
aragon4realz: Don't do what she asking you to do We Christians too dey carry matter for head Forget love Be a man 175 Likes 9 Shares |
| Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by 2buffagain(m): 4:30pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
Why do you people get into marriage-focused relationships that you have no intentions of finalizing properly? Catholicism is a religion. Pentecostalism is too, but it is less a typical religion like Catholicism, which relies on too many peganistic traditions that put Christ on the sideline. Catholicism is a dangerous thing to be into in these last days. Come out of it. HRHQueenPhil: @bolded. Can you imagine? Case in point... 27 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by madone: 4:35pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
Leave her and find another Them plenty 120 Likes 7 Shares |
| Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Nobody: 4:50pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
I thought weddings usually takes place in the lady's church  ?39 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Peteragan(m): 4:54pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
Mr Man what i will advise you first is to educate her on the Catholic Faith coz most of the comment here obviously show a shallow knowledge about what the Catholic faith entails and if she will not listen to you then i will advise that you look elsewhere.Also she has little knowledge about the faith from your post and you should not jeopardize your happiness for that flimsy reason.You can also still marry her and allow her to practice her faith if you want to navigate through.Honestly my advise is for you to let her go if she insist on not accepting your proposal because you are a Catholic.My humble opinion. 208 Likes 13 Shares |
| Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Auladimeji(m): 4:57pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
I love that lady,if you can't leave your church because of her,she should not leave her church because of you.You don't have two heads likewise your church 50 Likes 6 Shares
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| Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Auladimeji(m): 5:03pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
aragon4realz:I will advise her not to accept your proposal.She shouldn't be equally yoke with unbelievers(Catholic; You guys worship images) 22 Likes 1 Share
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| Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Auladimeji(m): 5:07pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
zinnydan: 8 Likes 1 Share
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| Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Nobody: 5:07pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
aragon4realz: It was sarcasm. But how could you guys allow an ordinary building with name tags and silly regalia impact so much on the future of you two. Your love for each other and belief in God is enough.. Why are you two acting as if it's a merseyside derby. 80 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by stiffmeister(m): 5:44pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
I understand her reasons... she must have tasted what it is to be religious and be kingdom minded. she don't want a cold kinda faith in her approach to supremacy. Catholicism is not what she wants... coz she has attain a level of spirituality that she has known the attributes and fundamentals of serving God. Catholic is an orthodox church which still believe in dieties and mediatorships... in marriage spirituality matters most. 48 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by chiommy123(f): 6:05pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
I think that lady really loves you and not just that she also cares for your soul. You will be making a dangerous mistake by leaving her 24 Likes 6 Shares |
| Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Rosay15(f): 6:22pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
We Christian ve problem I swear, so wat if u are a Muslim. I believe our happiness is wat matters alot and we can marry whosoever we like cus I believe dis religion of a tin doesn't worth it, only God knws who is serving him. U guys can still wed and go to different church cus I dnt see big deal in it. 38 Likes |
| Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by THUNDER4real(m): 6:29pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
Spirituality is very important in marriage, two cannot work together unless they agree. It's better to have a failed relationship/courtship than a failed marriage. If the lady cannot concur with you spiritually, let her go, and it's same the other way. 34 Likes |
| Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Nobody: 7:04pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
Some Christians are silly. A friend of mine faced this. 2 years relationship cos of catholic and pentecoaster shit. Well i be athiest 13 Likes |
| Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by klenton(m): 7:51pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
Am baffled by most comments here, u chastises the catholic church and the pope, yet u kneel down for ur pastor and call him daddy and the wife mummy meanwhile u dnt respect ur biological parents, u say catholics worship regalias and statue yet u tie ur pastors bandana and use his stickers everywhere, what hypocrite? To the advice, my brother do not leave ur faith for anything or anybody, religion is about believe and what works for u, if ur fiancee cant respect ur faith or atleast allow u to practice what u believe then whats the point, today it is ur religion, tomorrow it could be ur father, mother or siblings thats the problem and u need to stop seeing them moreover who is she to even think her Church is better than urs, that believe alone shows she is myopic and ignorant. all these pple kicking catholic church yet catholic is still the single largest Christian denomination in the world, no wonder it was written that no forces of evil shall ever prevail against it. 264 Likes 34 Shares |
| Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Nobody: 8:03pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
My first question, why did it take you guys so long to visit the topic Yoruba people will say "if you won't eat something, don't even raise it to your nose to smell it". I can't marry a Muslim so I won't date a Muslim. I can't marry a JW so I won't date one. It is as simple as that. 126 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by obainojazz(m): 8:08pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
One girl once told me catholic till she dies, I can't marry a Catholic too.. 16 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Nobody: 8:11pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
SBL28:bt these pple r xtains 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Nobody: 8:17pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
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| Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Nobody: 8:17pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
yeyerolling: Yes I know, all I'm saying is, don't date someone you can't marry. 35 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by aragon4realz(m): 8:38pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
SBL28:when you go into a relationship you do it for the fun of it but when you're about to get into marriage many thing is involve, you can date a girl but she is not a marriage material so you move on 2 Likes |
| Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by spiceadole: 4:09am On Sep 14, 2018 |
Let her go. 4 years of chopping free kpekus.. Take that as your consolation and move on You are a man. Men do not hang on too long and too much to one lady. They always have choices/options. Are they no single Catholic sisters in your church or neighbourhood? 32 Likes |
| Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by aragon4realz(m): 4:15am On Sep 14, 2018 |
spiceadole:it's not always about the s3x...it's all about compatibility and commitment...but the truth is I can't give up my church for her, she should be the one doing that for me 22 Likes 4 Shares |
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