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Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by NwaliE01: 6:46am On Sep 15, 2018 |
Airforce1:Simple and short.. 1 Like |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by jesmond3945: 6:46am On Sep 15, 2018 |
aragon4realz:I think you will go ahead and marry her which I am not stopping you because she would agree to wed in Catholic but let me give you a bombshell after marriage she would stop going to Catholic, after sometime she would start taking your children out of Catholic. If you are comfortable with these then go ahead and marry. For me I am the man infact my wife is Catholic but I married her in my church anglican. Even with my absence she still takes my kid to anglican. So your choice. 1 Like |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Shugavee(f): 6:47am On Sep 15, 2018 |
Galaticos444:if anyone chooses to follow their wife to their church isn’t a weak man!!! If it’s conv for the person. 1 Like |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Shugavee(f): 6:49am On Sep 15, 2018 |
jesmond3945:she converted. Anglican ,,Catholics n Baptist marry themselves..... Pentecostal n Catholics is the question here |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by zolajpower: 6:50am On Sep 15, 2018 |
Amberon:Lemme put dis question to u, if the Muslims are killing them selves do u advice that Catholics and Protestant should do same ? Besides ,why are Christians called the light of d world? You talk about killing have not u heard about the killings in northern Ireland some years ago between the Catholics and Protestant ? A bloody crises. In as much as i know religion as caused more harm than repair throughout the whole world. ........guy i beg i am entitled to my own opinion so why petching on my mention like a toilet fly |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by EagleNest(m): 6:50am On Sep 15, 2018 |
I simply don't understand. Is Christ divided? I grew up to see this horrible rivalry in church between Catholic, Anglican and Pentecostal and I thought by now we have been wiser than to allow denomination to decide whether there would be marriage. What happened to love? What happened to sacrifice? Where is Christ in the whole thing? 1 Like |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by vivypretty(f): 6:51am On Sep 15, 2018 |
aragon4realz:Now this is where you guyz are getting it wrong, "I can't do this for her, she should be the one doing it for me" if neither of you could convert each other to the other's church for the past 4years . You both may as well quit the relationship. This is just a relationship and you are finding it hard to make a sacrifice for each other what more can you willingly sacrifice after marriage without counting how many times you have sacrificed. 2 Likes |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by apollo13(m): 6:54am On Sep 15, 2018 |
2buffagain: How old are you? |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Sheggy13(m): 6:54am On Sep 15, 2018 |
aragon4realz:Why are you insisting on the wedding take place in your church? You can't accord her even that privilege of having the wedding in her church when that's the traditional thing to do, that weddings usually take place in the woman's church. Or am I missing something here? Hope you're not the authoritarian type? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Shugavee(f): 6:56am On Sep 15, 2018 |
franciskaine:is The dates of Christmas that’s pagan but Christmas now represents the birth of Christ n it’s one week before new year . So we all go with it n use it as a medium to celebrate our faith... Catholics r idol worshipers I know it hurts but it’s true. The Bible was not written by Catholics, Catholics is just the first church in existence but not the foundation of the Bible. |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by samcus(m): 6:57am On Sep 15, 2018 |
my brother sometimes the best thing you can do is not think,not wonder,not imagine,not obsess.just breathe and have faith that everything will work for the best! 2 Likes |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Naijabams(m): 7:02am On Sep 15, 2018 |
aragon4realz: She should rather leave her church and join you , to me is not reasonable she ttying to detect how you will leave ur lfe .. See its not everyone u date u marry , cant u see u guys are only good in datung but there is fractions in marrriage? Use wat has happen to know that if by paraventure u get married to her u can only stick to her decision not urs cos she will still be using that line YOU KNOW I LOVE YOU SO MUCH , JUST DO IT FOR ME ... be wise brother many good ones are oit there sir this is 21st century .. Take ur time u will see them 1 Like |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Shugavee(f): 7:02am On Sep 15, 2018 |
2buffagain:this is how it is to me o. Though I still attend my family church, mostly cause of the friends n relationship I hv built there,but I read my Bible n hv developed my own faith n ideology towards life. |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by jesmond3945: 7:04am On Sep 15, 2018 |
Shugavee:she is an Anglican by birth but I know in most pentecostal churches they deride and spread misinformation about orthodox churches a lot that's the genesis of her problem. |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by apollo13(m): 7:04am On Sep 15, 2018 |
Dear Op, iam a catholic and a married a muslim, but nom, we both attend my church and she's more religious than me, it is all about understanding each other. But let me be frank with you, you guys should have talked about it from the very beginning of the relationship. If she is not ready to attend your church, then where is the love? 4 Likes |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Janthony: 7:05am On Sep 15, 2018 |
Why comment on what you don't know much about Auladimeji: 2 Likes
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Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Shugavee(f): 7:07am On Sep 15, 2018 |
jesmond3945:that’s ur problem my dear not hers. Cause God is in no church .. n u right there might not still go to heaven . So shiiiii |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by iambabaG: 7:07am On Sep 15, 2018 |
2buffagain: Was Jesus not on earth? Was Mary not in earth? Did they live in isolation? Are you telling me they had no friends and acquaintances that could give a vivid discription of what they look like? This is the ignorance we are talking about! Didn’t the same God instrust Moses to fashion a bronze serpent for the Isrealites to gaze upon after the snake attack.. Has God changed? You claim to be Christocentric yet you worship in a church other than the institution he himself handed over to Peter who coincidentally was the 1st Pope. 2000+ years Vs 50+ years.. Seriously?? |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by aragon4realz(m): 7:09am On Sep 15, 2018 |
jesmond3945:you're absolutely right...good thinking |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Nobody: 7:10am On Sep 15, 2018 |
apollo13:Ehn!! oga how you take do am? |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by IRIEBOY(m): 7:14am On Sep 15, 2018 |
Bidobado1:Nice one bro.. |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by IRIEBOY(m): 7:16am On Sep 15, 2018 |
Rosay15:Gbam.. I just tire for em.. I can marry any religion as long as the person has good morals.. religion my ass. with all their so called spirituality the country is still in dip mess.. 1 Like |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by yvelchstores(f): 7:17am On Sep 15, 2018 |
spiceadole:see the rubbish u just wrote and u are a woman. |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Shugavee(f): 7:17am On Sep 15, 2018 |
Janthony:everybody knows this! Duh �
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Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by donnie(m): 7:22am On Sep 15, 2018 |
@aragon4realz As a born again Christian, what business has she entering into a relationship with you in the first place and now causing unnecessary strain? Please leave her alone and look for a Catholic girl. Good thing you didn't decide to pretend to have converted and later change after marriage. That's what many of these foolish Christian girls get at the end. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Nobody: 7:23am On Sep 15, 2018 |
IRIEBOY: Thanks bro. 2 Likes |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Shugavee(f): 7:23am On Sep 15, 2018 |
iambabaG:if u don’t understand his point, then u r dumb dumb.. salvation is personal, it’s simple. Pope pope I guess u heard the rape scandal... peter isn’t God so can mistake. |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by budusky05(m): 7:23am On Sep 15, 2018 |
OP check very well it might be her parents that are behind it, |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by joel7(m): 7:23am On Sep 15, 2018 |
To my own myopic point of view I think the girl need more enlightenment and orientation on Catholicism. That means the girl view on Catholicism is tantamount to paganism or should we call catholic non Christians. |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Nnemuka(f): 7:25am On Sep 15, 2018 |
Shugavee: Yes you worship man and your pastors. Some of your pastors worship mammon and not God. Explain why every of your preaching is about prosperity, seed sowing and tithes? Catholic church existed before the so-called new generation churches. The early missionaries were Catholics who brought everything free of charge to us in Africa but what do we have today? You can never find a Protestant church in a poor settlement. They do not go where they can't make money and brain was her indigenes... My dear we do not worship mammon like you people do, we worship God. 1 Like |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by olowo1930: 7:27am On Sep 15, 2018 |
if she loves you, she can't have any rift, but compromising is burnt to happen, wasting time , life, money and intimacy, the longer the courtship the lower the interest, both should be part for future problems |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Amberon: 7:27am On Sep 15, 2018 |
NL is not your forum, even the owner of this form gets mentioned. Get your facts and stop spreading thrash as news. The conflict in Ireland is not religious but political. zolajpower: |
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