Pubichairs:
she's a bloody feminist, such relationship that a girl can't admit her own mistake is quite toxic and kills slowly

michlins:
I don't know about you but I love my life and can't accommodate such toxins in it

I don talk my own

DrRasheed:
She's right, though the words are not abusive but highly offensive for elders.
dont tell us you are thinking of leaving her cus of this minor aug.

Olalan:
Oga better park well, for her mum to say 200k is small in present day Nigeria shows how greedy she might be, coupled with her daughter's behaviour I don't think it's wise to continue

SBL28:
It was wrong for you to say God forbid and back to the sender. And even you, why your body dey bite you? Saying your salary is too small, is that a curse I personally find people who rebuke everything very ANNOYING.

On another hand, the girl too no try o. Even if her mum said your salary is small, what was she trying to gain by coming to tell you.

joceey:
Mr man a lady that cant say she is sorry when she is in a relationship if you marry her na oyo be your name oò.You too let me be honest that back to sender you said is indirectly back to her mum ........and pls you mfm member no be every thing be cast and bind you people should try and know this

tommyken:
Don't be deceive young man, her mum never said anything about your salary. she is only telling you her selfish mind and pretending it was her mum opinion.
see I will advice you to begin to find another lady to marry because that girl will cause depression in your life which you know the consequences it will have for your career and health. a word is enough for the wise

tosyne2much:
This is a sign of a looming danger.. Take your time to observe when in order not to put yourself in problem for the sake of your future

Feranchek:
God forbid, to me, is no insult. But the 'back to sender' MIGHT seem offensive. But I think she brought it up to you cos you both are close and you're sure she's told her mom bought it and she knows you also wanna know what her mom said abi it. So it's not abnormal that she told you. But her reaction to your rebuke was TOTALLY out of place. Good thing you apologized instantly, and I think she took advantage of that. Bro, you seem the humble type and no lady has any right to use that against you. And looking at her recent attitude of copying Instagram mumu shidrens, bros, spare yourself some future headaches and jejely and nwayoly waka away biko. She'll realize her mistakes and come back apologising. When she does, let her know her sins and if you plan marrying her anytime soon, add one ye to it to be sure your message has truly sank in and she's now the gurl you used to know

babyfaceafrica:
what is the meaning of back to sender?...it is offensive abeg....you talk too much abeg..even if her mother made mentioning that the money is too much....just be cool and say you will manage the 200k till things are better..you guys just react and overact ....cho cho cho

Quam7even:
Hey I need advice.

I've been dating a girl (not my tribe) I'm from the South south and she's Yoruba. Although we've been dating for close to 6 years (since after secondary school through Uni till now), I'm still trying to come to terms with her culture and all.

So by God's grace a couple months back I was able to get a Job (lik 200k basic plus benefits and all) with a multinational company. I just completed my NYSC in July FYI. I told my babe and all we were happy. fast forward to last week wen she was gisting me about how she was talking to her mum about me and her mum said that the money im getting is small, as she finished telling me what her mother said I said God Forbid and back to sender, as an MFM boi na. to my surprise my own babe then called me an idiot and that my statement was foolish.

I'm not gonna form hard guy, cz honestly I apologized to her if she took my God forbid prayer as an insult to her mumsi, but I cleared her that she as my babe had no right to call me names, as I've never called her names before.

Naso she begin para nd told me she will use any words she deems fit if i insult her parents. Tried to get her to see that God Forbid and back to sender ain't an insult and both she and her mother were wrong for wah they said. But she didn't wanna agree.

so now we haven't talked for the past week nd if i see her message I delete em, cz she doesn't wanna apologize.

So that's why I need advice. is what I said really wrong? And should I really continue with this relationship cz her "Nigerian Feminist" tendencies for the past couple of months have been a bit much, I.e. she can never be wrong in her own mind (of recent she's started befriending all these instagram savage girls and girls who can't keep a stable relationship of their own, and it's been affecting the way she thinks).

Quam7even:
Hey I need advice.

I've been dating a girl (not my tribe) I'm from the South south and she's Yoruba. Although we've been dating for close to 6 years (since after secondary school through Uni till now), I'm still trying to come to terms with her culture and all.

So by God's grace a couple months back I was able to get a Job (lik 200k basic plus benefits and all) with a multinational company. I just completed my NYSC in July FYI. I told my babe and all we were happy. fast forward to last week wen she was gisting me about how she was talking to her mum about me and her mum said that the money im getting is small, as she finished telling me what her mother said I said God Forbid and back to sender, as an MFM boi na. to my surprise my own babe then called me an idiot and that my statement was foolish.

I'm not gonna form hard guy, cz honestly I apologized to her if she took my God forbid prayer as an insult to her mumsi, but I cleared her that she as my babe had no right to call me names, as I've never called her names before.

Naso she begin para nd told me she will use any words she deems fit if i insult her parents. Tried to get her to see that God Forbid and back to sender ain't an insult and both she and her mother were wrong for wah they said. But she didn't wanna agree.

so now we haven't talked for the past week nd if i see her message I delete em, cz she doesn't wanna apologize.

So that's why I need advice. is what I said really wrong? And should I really continue with this relationship cz her "Nigerian Feminist" tendencies for the past couple of months have been a bit much, I.e. she can never be wrong in her own mind (of recent she's started befriending all these instagram savage girls and girls who can't keep a stable relationship of their own, and it's been affecting the way she thinks).