onyedika946:
rid of it, we re talking about a life here.

sassysure:
The most practical thing to do if u are not capable is to carry the baby and give birth then give it up for adoption.

Not through motherless babies home.
If u are the smart one, u will discover lots of childless couples around you.
Look for the food and well to do one and approach one of them.
U might demand some conditions to be fulfilled, agreed upon,written down and signed by the two parties.

And some monetary rewards too at the end of the day.
That way, u helped a childless couple and yourself.
Get rid of that so called boyfriend asap and next time, don't let dicck confuse you. A good man is more than satisfying you in bed only. There will ba a time you will get tired of the banging also and just want to be.

zeezzy:
Eeyah!May God bless all childless couple the fruit of the womb such that instead of enriching a girl who enjoyed sleeping with her boyfriend, got pregnant and collect money from childless couples for her carelessness, God will direct them to go for Assisted Reproductive Techniques and have their own children too.

yettymuse:
You and your boyfriend are unserious o, una never know wetin dey happen, you see you gangan, you go dey alright laslas. Una still dey play love with screenshot. Issokay!. Them nack you belle you dey find massage join. Preek girl!

SMA gold and molfix coy are currently on promo.
Antenatal is free in all government hospitals.

Errrmm... All babies dey carry wetin them go chop come from heaven.
Wishing you a stress-free H&H 9months ride.

bamidelee:

tell us the no of abortions you've heard hoe

yettymuse:
the number of times you have failed your parents. Nincompoop!

Faithlovve:


Typical Nigerian judgemental, holier than thou, hypocritical way of reasoning. "childless" ? It would have been better you kept mute.

SilentBang:
Faithlove, Firstly am glad your BF is in the know now, and that you had/having strong feelings to keep the pregnancy is enough reason to, You are 24 when you will be 45/50, just imagine how your baby would look like... Joys of motherhood.

Tough times await you no doubt, the journey is not an easy one at all so brace up sweetheart, but If you decide on abortion expecially the D and C. its very risky you should know... your statement "i will rather be a single mum than force him to marry me cos am pregnant for him"... therein lies your happiness.

From your write up, you seemed kinda strong willed, determined, and confident. don't lose those, and whatever decision you decide on, i feel you will be just fine... Wishing you the very best.

P.S. wish i could follow your story/ be updated, if you decide to open a diary, please do well to mention me.

Faithlovve:


This was helpful, thanks.

If I'm keeping the baby I will open a diary and tell as each stage go. For now I'm yet to decide fully.

I was meant to do a scan today to tell how far but was busy. Will do that tomorrow then know what next.

bamidelee:

I won't stoop low like you by mentioning your parents.

Grupo:

But you called her a hoe first. Are you sure you are okay?

SilentBang:


Ok dear, its fine... hopefully tomorrow. All the best ok.

Faithlovve:


Thank you so much.

I had the scan today.

I'm 5weeks and 2days gone. Told to do another one in 3weeks time and register for antenatal at 3month.

Faithlovve:


Thank you so much.

I had the scan today.

I'm 5weeks and 2days gone. Told to do another one in 3weeks time and register for antenatal at 3month.

sacramento1212:


Please inform your parents. You cannot handle this matter alone if you haven't done so. You need their support as you commence this journey. God will see you through.

SilentBang:


Very well, 5 weeks gone... Easy way out ABORTION (very risky, can jeopardize chances of future preg. sometimes death).

You and your BF need to make an informed decision as soon as possible, as time is of the essence, If the pregnancy is for keeps, it will be wise to find a way to feel your family in... after the initial hullabaloo it will only get better, you will need your mums support especially.

Be Strong ok dear, don't lose your happiness, it will all be alright.

Faithlovve:


Can does charity organisations help me with jobs to do when I'm done with school to sustain myself and the baby? I'm in my final year already and will be done in 5months. Please I will like to know.

Minjim:
Keep the baby


Years from now, it'll be the best decision you'd made

Wise words.

Faithlovve:


Thank you so much.

I had the scan today.

I'm 5weeks and 2days gone. Told to do another one in 3weeks time and register for antenatal at 3month.

Faithlovve:


Thank you so much.

I had the scan today.

I'm 5weeks and 2days gone. Told to do another one in 3weeks time and register for antenatal at 3month.