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Re: The End Of Marriage As We Know It by shobam1410(m): 8:31am On Oct 05, 2018
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Re: The End Of Marriage As We Know It by DonroxyII: 5:38am On Oct 06, 2018
Pipedreams:


Ishilove? A submissive wife? That deranged feminist. Abi na pity u suppose they pity the husband.
People like Ishilove go use argument kill ihm husband .... unless that husband is a zombie but if he is a guy with reason and intellectualism , Wahala go dey dey ooo .... Ishilove dey reason along religion and her own fact !

Nonetheless, We humans do not have what it take to rule our world by our own deemed standards, as far as we dropped the concept of God and Godliness, we will keep roving in cycles .... I always know a time is coming marriage will exist no more and more peeps will see reasons not to make babies .....

Just come this world,
flex yourself with your hustles without causing hassles to nobody
and when your time is up, get the fvck off grin .....

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Re: The End Of Marriage As We Know It by bukatyne(f): 1:56pm On Oct 06, 2018
Seahawk:


I wonder too.

Maybe no rigorous divorce process when the couple wants to dissolve the partnership? No vows or rings or claims to monogamy (at least official monogamy). Wish I knew. Each to their own

It is well.
Re: The End Of Marriage As We Know It by bukatyne(f): 1:57pm On Oct 06, 2018
crackhaus:

You're asking a question you already know the answer to.

Practically, there's obviously no difference.

Legally and religiously (for people like Ishilove), there's a big difference.

I wonder why any man should even get married when he has the option of a civil partnership.

Oh well.

Anyways, there is no difference between an adulterous/lying/stealing married partner and a co-habiting man/woman.
Re: The End Of Marriage As We Know It by bukatyne(f): 2:06pm On Oct 06, 2018
merahki:


I am a woman, and I also prefer civil partnerships.
It is therefore not a man thing but a person thing I believe.
Some people are commitment-phobic, and in this case, when they are in love they can be in a union with all the benefits without feeling trapped
It is a thing of joy (for the said phobes cheesy)

Help me understand:

Does a marriage ceremony make you trapped?

What's stopping you from quitting a marriage if you so desire?

I understand a man/woman sleeping around because they do not want to be 'tied down' to anyone.

I do not get the rationale behind deliberately
moving in with a man, having kids with him, running the home etc. without marriage ceremony when we can do a civil rights with a token after doing the traditional rites.

I agree that the martial vows does not automatically make a good spouse or lover.

Now that civil partnership is recognized legally, aren't we deceiving ourselves?
Re: The End Of Marriage As We Know It by bukatyne(f): 2:10pm On Oct 06, 2018
pcguru1:


Government involvement and Legality the rest is just good ol shackling together

Except they are divorcing or doing anything with the government, they don't need the legality and involvement so it's all same.

Why would I move in with a guy without marriage?
Re: The End Of Marriage As We Know It by bukatyne(f): 2:11pm On Oct 06, 2018
Eketem:


Co habbiting and civil partnership the difference is with civil partnership one can list the partner as next of kin in case of emergency and they can benefit from each other's health insurance, and have other legal rights a couple has without being married

What a joke.

Thanks.
Re: The End Of Marriage As We Know It by Nobody: 3:22pm On Oct 06, 2018
bukatyne:


Help me understand:

Does a marriage ceremony make you trapped?

What's stopping you from quitting a marriage if you so desire?

I understand a man/woman sleeping around because they do not want to be 'tied down' to anyone.

I do not get the rationale behind deliberately
moving in with a man, having kids with him, running the home etc. without marriage ceremony when we can do a civil rights with a token after doing the traditional rites.

I agree that the martial vows does not automatically make a good spouse or lover.

Now that civil partnership is recognized legally, aren't we deceiving ourselves?

Hello, maybe you help me understand
Why the inquisitioner's stance? I feel like I am in a court cheesy
I don't know how to answer you,, and don't know that I want to too, but to each their own, right?
Cheers
Re: The End Of Marriage As We Know It by crackhaus: 11:24pm On Oct 06, 2018
bukatyne:


Oh well.

Anyways, there is no difference between an adulterous/lying/stealing married partner and a co-habiting man/woman.
Funny

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