milemimi93:
send me pm @ mimimile93

Alexaonfleek:
no be by force oooo

Queenara:



Same here and I get too. Guys believe one shud nd must have sex with them in relationships as they think its d only thing we can offer. .

icogb:
You both should not dare get into rltshp nw o no matter how trustworthy he looks. There is this thing guys do now; he would accept no sex, treat you like a gentleman you blive he is, dump you like a bad habit (like taking you to a mountain nd throwing you down d cliff while making it seem he wants to shw you d world more clearly) ofcourse without any clue, den wait for you to come looking for him because you cann't bliv he did dat with his mind intact, chase you away as if you re a fly while accusing you of d most ludicrous things nd because you re vulnerable nd confused at dis tym, he wld send a guy dat understands guys code to you who you wld hv to doubt dey knw each other nd dat d guy knws you b4 nw nd if care is not taken, you'ld slp wif dis one nd of course he wld com wif his own emotional blackmail like you love him; he can see it in your eyes, etc. Dis is someone ordinarily you'ld not even talk to. He myt als bully you bc he already knw you ain't strong anymore unlike hw you use to be b4 smone came into your life nd you myt hv als tld him abt yr experience den d guilt of your telling him 'what you shldnt have' , thought of hw insecure you hv bcom nd d fact smone you dnt hv d strength to put whr he belongs wld als hld you den you see yourself being stupid if care is not taken nd nd mind you d first guy is likely to dump you when you re broke or at d most tensed time of your life nd dat other guy may not be d only one dat wld com till you succumb or not.

Queenara:



Ohh thanks a lot for this.
Sorry, are u a male or female?

Queenara:


Ohh thanks a lot for this. Sorry, are u a male or female?

Hipprocrates:
Are u an ex student of GHCC?.

icogb:
Smiles. Wld tell you later.

Queenara:



Yeah.

Do you by any chance know me?

Hipprocrates:
yeah
I know you very well for sure. It's jst I've not seen you in person.

Queenara:



Really?
Did you attend GHCC too?

Hipprocrates:
Not exactly.
I have two younger siblings there, one is a final year student.

Queenara:




Ohh. That's good

Hipprocrates:
Thanks, I only heard of your good works from the final year student.
Don't you mind us getting to know each other better.

Hipprocrates:
Thanks, I only heard of your good works from the final year student.
Don't you mind us getting to know each other better.

Queenara:

Hipprocrates:
I'm only baffled you requoted me.
It's okay, I understand your fear. I don't need to flatter myself.
It's just to know you better and say hi to you.

Queenara:



Oh no. I requoted you by mistake. T wasn't intentional

Hipprocrates:
okay
If you aren't willing to get going with me now, something is sure... if we are destined to know more about each other, it's certainly going to be.
Shalom.

Queenara:




I've sent a pm.

MissRaine69:
If someone gives me a solid unbiased argument as to why this is emphasised more on women than men my faith in humanity will be restored( somewhat)

Queenara:




I've sent a pm.

Ategberoson:
don't let anyone discourage u here or outside here it's very possible

two set of people that would rubbish and devalue that dignity are guys which I belong and ladies that had been disflowered



I met my fiancé at the age of 22yrs, we did it when she was 26 even though I had some side chic during those ignorant days but the bottom point is, I made her to do it, till today it still pain her as she want us to do it on honeymoon day


we have reached 8yrs and I wouldn't have done it if I know she was different from other ladies, the joy part of this is we acted like brother & sister despite coming from different background and tribe


so is very possible, is your pride, is your dignity and stop telling your female or male friends about it again. keep it to yourself

Hybridz:

8years and she's still at the fiancee level. Baba,aint you gonna upgrade her or do u want her to regret her action?

Ategberoson:





regret her action on What? as wealthy as dimeji bankole was as even speaker he married at the age of 39


I don't include societal pressure with my future plan.

Hybridz:

So, you think dimeji has the righteousness to be followed. Could it be coz of his wealth..I'm curious!

Alexaonfleek:
So I was talking about this with a friend of mine(a guy by the way) and he was like it isn't possible at this age. I told him that I wanted to keep mine till I got married and he said there's no way I won't be tempted to do it before then.

Well, we argued about it and I was trying to tell him that it's very possible. He told me that I'll just end up being addicted to masturbation if I didn't 'release' my sexual tension.

We eventually stopped arguing and closed the topic but when I thought about it, I was actually wondering if it's possible or I'm just being naive.

I really want to keep my virginity till my wedding night but I myself don't even know if this is possible. Please ladies and gentlemen, I need your thoughts about this.

Ategberoson:




That should tell you every man is responsible for his opinion. so who are you to overrule mine and why should you be curious about another man's future?


you need to get a work and get busy

Hybridz:

@yiur first sentence,i get it,but there is nothing wrong if someone actually advices you about a perceived wrong opinion. Those who commit suicide had this kinda mindset, they would have been alive by now if they had listened to better opinions too.

Meanwhile, I'm already busy,although I could spare some time for an extra job if u got any,provided d pay is right.