Olorididan:

NNA HOTANGEL...... LET US BE VERY CLEAR..... I AM NOT YA UNCLE!!! UNDER NO STROKE ANY CIRCUMSTANCE!!! As Lagbaja said "..... your uncle dey for your village.."

layi:

@snazzy
What else do u expect from a thread without a definite topic for discussion?
Nna chat on guyz

Is watching Porn Cheating? Going to a Go-Go Bar with the boys?What of joining a singles Website? All this,while in a long distance relationship? What does this show the babe in the relationship? Please guys tell us babes what we do not seem to get. This same guy just proposed. What does one do now? Haba, It is scary

Is watching Porn Cheating? Going to a Go-Go Bar with the boys?What of joining a singles Website? All this,while in a long distance relationship? What does this show the babe in the relationship? Please guys tell us babes what we do not seem to get. This same guy just proposed. What does one do now? Haba, It is scary

whitelexi:

The face of cheating starts when there's a confusion about someone's usual behaviour. When attitudes change there is something fishy, when people can not explain recent changes, or when u notice someone came into the picture just before some erratic changes in your partner's behaviour.
Good people try not to hurt their loved ones, but all routes will eventually lead to the same destination. . .

I like this response *thumbs up*.

At the poster, I'm not a guy, but I think all the things you listed are sending out the wrong signals. Signals that the guy is not committed to you, some more than others. The singles site, is a terrible sign. The site is for dating, and at worst, most of the relationships are long distance/over the internet, so if anything occurs, the girl will be competing with the new interest on the same level .

The go-go bar, could be influence from the guy's friends, if it's a once only thing, then maybe it'll be easier to let it slide, especially if you feel your guy has remained the same as he was before afterwards. If it's a new hobby, I'd be worried. He hasn't cheated on me, but he's getting fed up. That's what I'd be thinking and the alarm bells would ring.

Porn on the other hand has to be seen within the context. If it's because the guy is losing interest in you, then it's understandable to worry, if it's because the guy feels ashamed to explain his darker desires, then of course communication could solve this issue, but if it's because he's got a libido that's faster than yours then, yet again, if you are able to talk to each other and come to an agreement that would be solved.

It's all about intentions and sometimes our actions don't show our intentions. Sometimes it's not always as simple as our actions but we also need to understand the emotion driving the action - however in the song by Madonna and Justin Timberlake "The road to hell is paved with good intentions." comes handy here, we can't rely on our intentions all the time. Sometimes you just have to let go these 'extra-curricular' activities to show the one you 'love' that you are all for her.